| Re: I Disowned My Mother by 4reala(m): 3:45pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Francis609:
My wife gave birth in November but we lost the baby 2 days after. What shocked me was when my younger brother sent me a voice message of what they had discussed about my wife and my mum was not remorseful, she said she is not happy that the baby has died she wish it was my wife that died in the process and the innocent baby lives , he recorded her without her knowledge because he didn't like what she was saying.
I immediately called her and play the voice, I taught she will be sorry for what she said, she didn't give a damn. She said she is not an hypocrite, she never like my wife and she can't pretend. I cut the phone with a broken heart even taught she never like my wife she could have at least show forget about the hatred and show her some love in this difficult situation.
My step mother has been taken care of my wife I am grateful , my mum has never bothered to call to know about her health and I haven't call her either. I disowned her. I don't hate her but I don't want nothing to do with her anymore because she is a disgrace to womanhood.
Please advice me if am I in the wrong
Op, so sorry for your loss, but please don't say this to the hearing of your mum. It will create a negative effect. Though you didn't tell us the Genesis of this problem, in which I know you must have seen it coming. Just pray for God to touch her heart. And try to reconcile both of them. God will surely bless you with more beautiful and great children and your home and life will experience peace. God bless you. You can also comit your issue to God in prayer tonight by tuning in on DStv or Gotv on Dove tv channel and connect with RCCG Holy Ghost Service and you shall testify in Jesus Name. |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by BabaAroba: 3:45pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Let her understand the reason why you love are, and let her know that tribe and beauty have nothing to do in a relationship, this is devil handwork pray over the issue, I know very soon your mother will accept the fact, but don't angry with her just take it easy with her, God will help you |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by Chriskito09: 3:45pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Yemisi87:
You are a fool.
I can see that you are from polygamus family.
You need to pray for your mother. Her behavior may not be ordinary. One of rivalry weapons use in polygamus home is for the mother to do what will cause enemity between herself and the children just for her not to eat the food of her labor.
Pray for your mum and apply wisdom and patience. U wey dey call person fool,you neva see anytin |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by ceeceeuwa: 3:45pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
AfonjaConehead:
be very careful with your words and what you do...when you talk like this about your momma,other people don't like it....what your mom says is harsh but your conclusion on her being a disgrace to womanhood is unacceptable.
And goddamit, you should never have played that tape to her,are you an accused or what! You should have just deleted it and warn your brother never to do such recordings again.
Sorry about what happened but you gotta take things easy.
Just give your momma a long berth for the time being and everything will be ok..she will later get at you.
But before that,she remains the woman that gave birth to you, apologize to her and go your way with your wife..
God will restore double Forget that "she is the woman that gave birth to you" thing! All these people doing baby factory and selling their kids, are they not mothers too? How can a woman who calls herself a mother wish another person's child death? |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by auwal83(m): 3:46pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
For saying what you said about your mother, you are a disgrace to humanity. |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 3:46pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
JONSYN7154:
Your mother is your mother. If its your father that you are disowning its understandable.
Something is wrong somewhere, find it and you'll know why your mum made that comments. Why would he disown his father but can't do same to his mother? Is it that she has the right to wish someone dead but ordinary disowning her will be a big problem? Would you have said the same if the wide was the one who wished the mother dead? Witchcraft is not only when someone starts flying in the night. Do you think his wife will ever be able to seat and talk with her if this gets to her ears? 4 Likes |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by naijadrivablog: 3:46pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
These kinds of matter shouldn't be on social media. Trust me, I understand you but the world are too sentimental about some issues.
Better keep it to yourself. |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by kense88: 3:47pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Francis609:
My wife gave birth in November but we lost the baby 2 days after. What shocked me was when my younger brother sent me a voice message of what they had discussed about my wife and my mum was not remorseful, she said she is not happy that the baby has died she wish it was my wife that died in the process and the innocent baby lives , he recorded her without her knowledge because he didn't like what she was saying.
I immediately called her and play the voice, I taught she will be sorry for what she said, she didn't give a damn. She said she is not an hypocrite, she never like my wife and she can't pretend. I cut the phone with a broken heart even taught she never like my wife she could have at least show forget about the hatred and show her some love in this difficult situation.
My step mother has been taken care of my wife I am grateful , my mum has never bothered to call to know about her health and I haven't call her either. I disowned her. I don't hate her but I don't want nothing to do with her anymore because she is a disgrace to womanhood.
Please advice me if am I in the wrong
Evil woman. I will keep my family away from her at all cost, if i were you And please, your brother did no wrong. That piece of information can be crucial in your future decision. You should know every member of your extended family well and know who your family can be safe with 2 Likes |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by Heavensent01(m): 3:47pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
have you talk to any of her siblings about this? sorry about your loss baby
your mom is just a typical African woman, always thinking the world revolve around them. they've enjoy their own motherhood but they will never allow another ladies to enjoy theirs
I like my mom for this, she and my dad never interfere in marital life, they only give advise and pray
talk to her relative before taking this emotional decision |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by Chriskito09: 3:48pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Akamariner:
lol, i was once like you.
Well life is a stage, and nothing is wrong with you and your believe as long as you are comfortable with it, if you need to know more, you will simply know by craving. You know wat u know and I know wat I kno |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by luminouz(m): 3:50pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Another attention seeking rubbish
As usual, Some people won't see through this but starting reacting like chemicals in motion!!! |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by Nobody: 3:50pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Hope someone didn't bewitch her so she will not be in good terms with you.Thread with that your step mom with caution.
She is still your mum,nothing like disowning hers cos the feeling of missing her will surely come one day. 1 Like |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by AfonjaConehead: 3:50pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
ceeceeuwa:
Forget that "she is the woman that gave birth to you" thing! All these people doing baby factory and selling their kids, are they not mothers too? How can a woman who calls herself a mother wish another person's child death?
Abeg chill..there are things we say carelessly over things,spur of the moment stuff,I'm trying to say. It takes grace to overcome such. |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by igbowoman: 3:51pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
See his old threads No be today mama become witch I pity your wife.if I were her i would not have married into this family. The best thing is to cut yoir mother off. She is a bitter and evil woman
will be brief with the narrative . Am 33 years old engaged to be married. I live with my fiancé in a single room ( she started living with me since February due to some issues she had with her senior sister she stayed with). We both are working , we are not financially ok just managing. My mum doesn’t like my fiancé for no reason , her reasons are , 1. my fiancé is dark skinned and ugly , she said I am a man but i looks more beautiful than my fiancé , she is worrying about her giving birth to ugly kids lol , mum preferred me marrying a fair woman like her , 2. She is not from the same tribes as her , she wants me to marry a girl from her village because she doesn’t want me to end up a divorcee like her ( my mum and dad are not from the same village , they had so many issues in the marriage that led to their separations). My mum thinks marrying her will not be a very good ideas. As for me I told my mum , I love my fiancé , she is the most beautiful woman in my eyes , she is the one I want to spend the rest of my life with . My mum not happy and still disapprove of our relationships. She was not aware that my fiancé is staying with me , it was when my younger sister cane collecting money for her school fees , she met with my fiancé and has seen some of her stuffs in the room , she went back to telling my mum. She called me shouting at me , I’m stubborn like my dad , I don’t want to listen to what she is telling me about not marrying her, she will kill me , she has said a lot , no need for me to write everything on her . Then like a week later she has came to my place with my nephew only 1 year 6 months that she want to spend time with me because she misses me , according to her she was supposed to stay for a week but with this lockdown , things did not go according to plans , it will be 3 weeks on Wednesday , the space is not even big , I have been spending the day with them and when is evening I’m squatting with friends , while I leave my mum and fiancé in the house and she had been giving my fiancé lots of problems that today she has told me , she cannot stand my mum anymore and she want to leave and go and squat with her friends , I have been begging her to stay but she refused. I really feel sorry for my fiancé , I know how manipulative and controlling my mum can be , she is the type of person that can frustrate you till you commit suicide , I don’t even want to talk about what I went through living with her , I pity my fiancé , I don’t want her to go and stay with friends , she has nobody else apart from me. My mum has 5 children and a house , I just want her to go back to her house but I don’t know how to tell her without hurting her feelings. I need help, I can’t take it anymore
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| Re: I Disowned My Mother by advanceDNA: 3:51pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Francis609:
My wife gave birth in November but we lost the baby 2 days after. What shocked me was when my younger brother sent me a voice message of what they had discussed about my wife and my mum was not remorseful, she said she is not happy that the baby has died she wish it was my wife that died in the process and the innocent baby lives , he recorded her without her knowledge because he didn't like what she was saying.
I immediately called her and play the voice, I taught she will be sorry for what she said, she didn't give a damn. She said she is not an hypocrite, she never like my wife and she can't pretend. I cut the phone with a broken heart even taught she never like my wife she could have at least show forget about the hatred and show her some love in this difficult situation.
My step mother has been taken care of my wife I am grateful , my mum has never bothered to call to know about her health and I haven't call her either. I disowned her. I don't hate her but I don't want nothing to do with her anymore because she is a disgrace to womanhood.
Please advice me if am I in the wrong
Careful young man...na because of woman you meet for street dey make u insult ur mama wey raise and care for you??
....no be today mothers dey dislike daughter-in-law oooo...na patience them dey use resolve this kind matter....
.. she might might be stubborn, and have difficulty in hiding her feelings...no be ur mouth them suppose hear say ur mama na disgrace..
U seff na disgrace to sonhood, and manhood.. 1 Like |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by luminouz(m): 3:51pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
JONSYN7154:
Your mother is your mother. If its your father that you are disowning its understandable.
Something is wrong somewhere, find it and you'll know why your mum made that comments. Lmaooooo Jesus....what won't I see on this forum!!!! 1 Like |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by naijadrivablog: 3:51pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Francis609:
She hates my wife because she is from the same tribe as my dad. She wanted me to marry a lady from her tribe.
she also thinks she is ugly and will give birth to ugly kids.
Francis, I will tell you as an experienced man, stay away from your mother. Reduce to the nearest minimum, physical contact between your wife and her. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by HelpYourself(m): 3:52pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Francis609:
My wife gave birth in November but we lost the baby 2 days after. What shocked me was when my younger brother sent me a voice message of what they had discussed about my wife and my mum was not remorseful, she said she is not happy that the baby has died she wish it was my wife that died in the process and the innocent baby lives , he recorded her without her knowledge because he didn't like what she was saying.
I immediately called her and play the voice, I taught she will be sorry for what she said, she didn't give a damn. She said she is not an hypocrite, she never like my wife and she can't pretend. I cut the phone with a broken heart even taught she never like my wife she could have at least show forget about the hatred and show her some love in this difficult situation.
My step mother has been taken care of my wife I am grateful , my mum has never bothered to call to know about her health and I haven't call her either. I disowned her. I don't hate her but I don't want nothing to do with her anymore because she is a disgrace to womanhood.
Please advice me if am I in the wrong
She carried your for 9 months breastfed you nursed you through all your tenders years in sickness and health and now you fell in love and because she and the wife in question are bound by karmaic threads suddenly you hate your mother ? You are suddenly judge and jury over your mother who raised you and your younger ones ? You haven't even raised one child but suddenly you are worthy enough to judge her?  Hahahaha The threads of fate you are weaving you will reap bountifully Cheers 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by Saao(m): 3:53pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Francis609:
My wife gave birth in November but we lost the baby 2 days after. What shocked me was when my younger brother sent me a voice message of what they had discussed about my wife and my mum was not remorseful, she said she is not happy that the baby has died she wish it was my wife that died in the process and the innocent baby lives , he recorded her without her knowledge because he didn't like what she was saying.
I immediately called her and play the voice, I taught she will be sorry for what she said, she didn't give a damn. She said she is not an hypocrite, she never like my wife and she can't pretend. I cut the phone with a broken heart even taught she never like my wife she could have at least show forget about the hatred and show her some love in this difficult situation.
My step mother has been taken care of my wife I am grateful , my mum has never bothered to call to know about her health and I haven't call her either. I disowned her. I don't hate her but I don't want nothing to do with her anymore because she is a disgrace to womanhood.
Please advice me if am I in the wrong
Hmm, your mother saw something that u didn't see. You can't disown your mother but she can disown you. Sorry for the death of your child. You and your wife needs to beg your mother for forgiveness maybe along the line u both offended her. Don't be decieved with love she is your mother. |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by Chriskito09: 3:54pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
BabaAroba:
Let her understand the reason why you love are, and let her know that tribe and beauty have nothing to do in a relationship, this is devil handwork pray over the issue, I know very soon your mother will accept the fact, but don't angry with her just take it easy with her, God will help you Rubbish kukuma allow the mother give him a wife she loves 1 Like |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by luminouz(m): 3:54pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
GofuckYourself:
She carried your for 9 months breastfed you nursed you through all your tenders years in sickness and health and now you fell in love and because she and the wife in question are bound by karmaic threads suddenly you hate your mother ? You are suddenly judge and jury over your mother who raised you and your younger ones ?
You haven't even raised one child but suddenly you are worthy enough to judge her?
Hahahaha
The threads of fate you are weaving you will reap bountifully
Cheers
Kindly GofuckYourself!!!! 3 Likes |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by rabiudon: 3:54pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Francis609:
My wife gave birth in November but we lost the baby 2 days after. What shocked me was when my younger brother sent me a voice message of what they had discussed about my wife and my mum was not remorseful, she said she is not happy that the baby has died she wish it was my wife that died in the process and the innocent baby lives , he recorded her without her knowledge because he didn't like what she was saying.
I immediately called her and play the voice, I taught she will be sorry for what she said, she didn't give a damn. She said she is not an hypocrite, she never like my wife and she can't pretend. I cut the phone with a broken heart even taught she never like my wife she could have at least show forget about the hatred and show her some love in this difficult situation.
My step mother has been taken care of my wife I am grateful , my mum has never bothered to call to know about her health and I haven't call her either. I disowned her. I don't hate her but I don't want nothing to do with her anymore because she is a disgrace to womanhood.
Please advice me if am I in the wrong
You disowned your mother because of your wife... I’m speechless. Try and reconcile with her ASAP. You can ever have only one mother, but you can always have ....zdfujjgjk ........ Think about it bro |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by Chriskito09: 3:55pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Saao:
Hmm, your mother saw something that u didn't see. You can't disown your mother but she can disown you. Sorry for the death of your child. You and your wife needs to beg your mother for forgiveness maybe along the line u both offended her. Don't be decieved with love she is your mother. Nothing she see,its just wickedness 1 Like |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by HelpYourself(m): 3:56pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
luminouz:
Kindly GofuckYourself!!!! Rule 2 Seun dominique OAM4J mukina2 mynd44 1 Like |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by Buffalo2(m): 3:56pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
id4sho:
I was invited to a baby dedication, when I got there the baby was sleeping, I have to leave since the celebrant is not serious....very disrespectful. Abi |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by Lovelyn451(f): 3:56pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Francis609:
She hates my wife because she is from the same tribe as my dad. She wanted me to marry a lady from her tribe.
she also thinks she is ugly and will give birth to ugly kids.
imagine!! mum said this was exactly what my dads mum and sisters said abt her when dad was abt to marry her, they said she was too short and will bear short kids, but now we're taller and beautiful than their daughters, anytime they look at us and look at their children jealousy will want to consume them, they be like, where una dey tall go, u no go do modelling, which cream u dey use, they think I've not heard their story... avoid her!!! 2 Likes |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by ceeceeuwa: 3:56pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Mathiasa:
Most mothers finds if difficult to take when their son gets married, they believe that bond btw them and their son may eventually fade away, not all of them know how to handle situations like that.
I know she did wrong by saying such a thing. Am also happy u said u forgave her pls don't disown her.
98% of women think alike no limit with age. Didn't they also marry someone's son? 3 Likes |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by Buffalo2(m): 3:59pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Ur mum and ur wife are in the same "club". If you know you know 1 Like |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by luminouz(m): 3:59pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
GofuckYourself:
Rule 2
Seun dominique OAM4J mukina2 mynd44 I quoted your moniker dūmbbbass!!! 2 Likes |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by ceeceeuwa: 3:59pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
AfonjaConehead:
Abeg chill..there are things we say carelessly over things,spur of the moment stuff,I'm trying to say.
It takes grace to overcome such.
Really! Even wishing her daughter inlaw death with no remorse afterwards! This is not spur of the moment thing because she out rightly felt no remorse! 4 Likes |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by luminouz(m): 4:00pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
Lovelyn451:
imagine!! mum said this was exactly what my dads mum and sisters said abt her when dad was abt to marry her, they said she was too short and she'll bear short kids, but now we're taller and beautiful than their daughters, anytime they look at us and look at their children jealousy will want to consume them, avoid her!!! Yinmu... |
| Re: I Disowned My Mother by SporaD8: 4:01pm On Mar 05, 2021 |
dollytino4real:
anger can make u say tins u will regret later Where is her regret? Abeg stop justifying evil. A witch cried at night(she didn't support their union), the baby died the next morning. Who will still doubt the witch culpability? Her fetish actually got the wrong target - the innocent baby in this case. 3 Likes |
