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Romance / Re: To Our Dear "Alfa Meils" by Safiaa(f): 12:12pm On Jul 31, 2019 |
Exactly ebonyggurl: 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: To Our Dear "Alfa Meils" by Safiaa(f): 12:02pm On Jul 31, 2019 |
And you think women are rushing 80 year old men or you think women would be willing to sleep with an 80 year old man without issue? lool you are delusional Martinez39: 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: It Is Difficult For Me To Get A Wife, Advice Please. by Safiaa(f): 8:12am On Jun 09, 2019 |
Darling no. Let’s be real here, sometimes we need to look in the mirror and tell ourselves this truth. No it’s not always about money, but look at your character. Some men have really serious issues and baggage, laziness, addiction, lack of motivation etc are huge character flaws. I don’t believe a man has to have it all to get married, but please sometimes the reason you are not meeting the right woman is because you are full of problems. Rita30: 15 Likes |
Family / Re: Couple That Have Been Together For 71 Years, Since 1948 by Safiaa(f): 8:53pm On Jun 08, 2019 |
Back then they used to get married as young as 15 or 14. My grandma got married at 18, So it’s very believable. oluwaseyi000: |
Family / Re: Couple That Have Been Together For 71 Years, Since 1948 by Safiaa(f): 8:43pm On Jun 08, 2019 |
The woman looks like she’s in her 80s but a good looking well kept 80 something year old woman. My grandma looks like this too. oluwaseyi000: |
Romance / Re: #WorldVirginityDay: What Is The Significance Of The World Virginity Day? by Safiaa(f): 6:37pm On Jun 08, 2019 |
That’s disgusting. There’s nothing wrong with being a virgin, it shows that you have self control and respect for your body. It’s an achievement, please don’t ever feel inferior or bad about it. You are blessed. Cadec007: 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: #WorldVirginityDay: What Is The Significance Of The World Virginity Day? by Safiaa(f): 4:43pm On Jun 08, 2019 |
Respect to all the virgins it’s a beautiful thing and you should be very proud and let the world know without shame. 1 Like 1 Share |
Family / Re: Some Nigerian Men Have Low Self Esteem, Need Reorientation - Opinion by Safiaa(f): 11:42am On Jun 08, 2019 |
It’s actually disgusting. PhenomenalMorgan: |
Romance / Re: . by Safiaa(f): 11:40am On Jun 08, 2019 |
I omokoginimi: |
Romance / Re: When a lady is too difficult. by Safiaa(f): 11:03pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Toks2008 my brother, how are you sir? truthsayer009: |
Romance / Re: . by Safiaa(f): 8:46pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Ok RandyX: |
Romance / Re: . by Safiaa(f): 8:30pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Why didn’t you upload his picture? Why can’t the friend make an account for himself? RandyX: |
Romance / Re: . by Safiaa(f): 8:22pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Sound so so dodgy. |
Romance / Re: Avoid Advice From Nigerian Feminist If You Don't Want A Broken Home by Safiaa(f): 8:08pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Well depends on the kind of advice. |
Family / Re: My Husband Is Cheating On Me With Our Neighbor! Hurting Real Bad by Safiaa(f): 10:06am On Jun 05, 2019 |
How can you body shame a woman who has given life to your offspring? Absolutely disgusting behaviour, men like this deserve to die. Honestly. Their heart is too black to be alive. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: 42yr Old Getting Married To A 24yr old Girl, Is It Alright? by Safiaa(f): 6:31pm On Jun 04, 2019 |
Nigerian men and their love for younger women sha. That’s how my uncle who is in his 50s is chasing after a 23 year old. Some of you are just perverted let’s just face the truth. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by Safiaa(f): 3:15pm On Jun 02, 2019 |
Correction A penniless man has standards and they normally request for a woman who can fill in the void of their broke state. This may not be monetary, but in other aspects. Penniless men depend on women in other ways that are not financial, they request for standards that they do not possess or even strive to possess, which further proves my point that there’s too much hypocrisy in Nigeria. A man can have any standard deemed fit whether he is broke or not, good cook or not, virgin or not, humble or not and NOBODY CARES. A woman sets one criteria and people question her like she’s not worthy. philip0906: 1 Like |
Romance / Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by Safiaa(f): 1:42pm On Jun 02, 2019 |
Going by what you’ve said the only people required to have standards are men who have a substantial amount of money. What do we say to all the penniless men that have a list from A to Z? Guy wake up and be realistic ,if we go by your logic then 80% of Nigerian men will be condemned for having standards because they Do not have money that enables them to sit in the ‘drivers’ seat without question. The real problem is the hypocrisy against women setting a standard for themselves that men do not approve of. Periodddd. philip0906: 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by Safiaa(f): 1:04pm On Jun 02, 2019 |
But a community prick with no moral values, a man with no domestic or homely skills, a proud man with an inflated ego is more than qualified to set the standard for a homely virgin with great domestic/homely skills who is also humble? Can you see your hypocrisy? The word ‘standard’ only becomes an issue when it’s set by a woman. Men desire traits in women that they do not have themselves allllll the fricking time and guess what? Nobody cares. This is not even about a gender war, I really just want women to wake up and smell the coffee. You are being conditioned to accept the worst for yourself because society tells you, you can’t ask for more. It’s disgusting. philip0906: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by Safiaa(f): 11:13am On Jun 02, 2019 |
Facts upon facts. !!!! Mizwisdom: 1 Like |
Romance / Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by Safiaa(f): 10:28am On Jun 02, 2019 |
That’s also true. I think women are always trying to prove they can do it all, always trying to prove to their husbands that they are worthy. Always trying to do everything to keep their husbands from looking outside, you are deceiving yourself. Stop suffering yourself in the name of love and have common sense for once. You are looking haggard yet you still want to prove you are superwoman. To who exactly? It couldn’t be me sha and I thank God my partner has the same mindset as me. Mizwisdom: 1 Like |
Romance / Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by Safiaa(f): 10:18am On Jun 02, 2019 |
Fine, get a maid. What about those who don’t believe in maids or allowing a third party to live in their marital homes? What about people reading this who do not live in Nigeria? Why do you have to result to an untrusted maid when the husband can simply help out in the house? Each to their own, but I really need some women to wake up. tunjilana: 1 Like |
Romance / Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by Safiaa(f): 9:43am On Jun 02, 2019 |
Lol I don’t understand ohhh When it comes to splitting financial bills their mouths will open like parrots. They are so quick to ask what you contribute financially to a marriage. But when it comes to domestic contributions and other aspects, they are mute. You want to be addressed as the head of the home, yet your wife is doing practically everything in the house. She’s the one running the home. The only job that you’re really assigned to do is provide, yet you still want to split that role into half with your wife? You wonder why women don’t respect men of this generation. They are absolutely pathetic. UyaiIncomparabl: |
Romance / Re: How Much Should A Man Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage? by Safiaa(f): 9:26am On Jun 02, 2019 |
And that’s sad because then in reality it’s the woman that carries most of not all the responsibilities on her head. After 10 years most wives always look haggard and worn out, yet the husband still looks active. If a woman must contribute, it should honestly be the bare minimum. If you are a career woman, let all the responsibilities be split equally. Your husband must equally wash plates, sweep the house, cook for the children and yourself and take care of the kids, because you are equally the provider in the home. But the reality is that the woman will always carry the burden. Oga will still expect you to bounce on top of his dick after all that stress. It’s a shame women are being manipulated and they cant even see it. Mizwisdom: 3 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Nigerians Condemn Jamaicans Dancing And Rocking On A Bike by Safiaa(f): 11:03pm On Jun 01, 2019 |
Jamos always taking their dancing to the extreme |
Romance / Re: ManMen by Safiaa(f): 10:59pm On Jun 01, 2019 |
Ok XML33: 6 Likes |
Romance / Re: ManMen by Safiaa(f): 10:05pm On Jun 01, 2019 |
Ok XML33: 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: ManMen by Safiaa(f): 8:23pm On Jun 01, 2019 |
Yup Admin401: |
Romance / Re: ManMen by Safiaa(f): 3:55pm On Jun 01, 2019 |
It’s been seen by many on nl. IamPlato: |
Romance / Re: ManMen by Safiaa(f): 3:45pm On Jun 01, 2019 |
Yes I know I’m fine. Thanks IamPlato: |
Romance / Re: ManMen by Safiaa(f): 12:16pm On Jun 01, 2019 |
Cococandy and dechandel. Ireneony or whatever her name is beautiful too lol. Ibkayee is also beautiful. 6 Likes |
Family / Re: My Wife Starves Me Of Sex by Safiaa(f): 9:30am On Jun 01, 2019 |
Darling sex is very important to men. We do not understand it because typically woman do not have the same sex drive as men esp after kids. But it’s important and you cannot deprive your husband from it. The same way you wouldn’t want your husband to deprive you of the things you deserve as a wife, or you will look elsewhere after frustration. We are human beings with emotions, we have to learn to compromise when marriage is involved even if it doesn’t suit your prerogative. That’s how the union will last. Sex is like food to men, they value it more than anything else in this world. Most of them even value it more than money unfortunately, and funny enough it’s not an addiction it’s just their nature. So instead of using it against him and starving him from it, a smart woman should use sex to get what she wants from her husband. Use their love for sex to your advantage instead of suffering yourself and your husband, it doesn’t make sense. UjuJoan2: 18 Likes |
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