Majatechworks:


That's why i said help, i know help will surely come.
Once again 3m at 1.2m per year for 3yrs = 3.6

Ok, I see.

But just know that people generally do businesses. And business is business!

I pray you find the help you seek.

Majatechworks:
A good nairalander called me but gave me a condition that's i know I can't do.
I want help.
I told him 3m for 3yrs at 1.2m per year.
Pls help a brother.

2.7m investment to amount 3m in three years which means a gain of 300,000 in three years?

No body will do that for you cos you are not being realistic at all.

treesun:


https://ait.live/just-in-nlc-threatens-full-blown-war-after-march-13/

NLC is now trolling!

I guess it should be banned now.

I know this is not your story but if it is, just know that you are the one pushing a well behaved and faithful girl to start a wayward life.

In case she eventually starts the slay quern life, just make sure you get married to her so that you will not end up creating a problem for someone else.

Imagine what a commissioner said!

So, "it is from God"

And you guys where relocated to that place to assist god kill more people with the disease?

Ud70:
I want to start a family next year, how will i go about it? Please i need your opinion.

These are the steps:

1. Get the minimum financial requirements ready. Let's say about 20mil..

2. Scout for and get a slay queen that is addicted to cheating becos it heips spice up the relationship.

3. Introduce her to your family.

4. Get introduced to her family.

5. Do the marriage

6. Live happily ever after!!

If their salary can't take them home, let it take them to the farm or better still to the sambisa forest. ....SOBs!

Gr8mind07:
This was almost my experience but i dodged it the moment i saw the glaring signs. In my own case , i did not entice with money, but somebody told the family i was rich. I began to see maximum sense of entitlement with no atom of love or sacrifice to the relationship

Haaaa! Just imagine ooo

carojody:

I can earn her full month salary in a deal. I am not thinking about the money, I'm only concerned about loyalty

With this statement, it shows you enticed her with your money and with the impression that you are available to meet all her needs and that of her family. So, she sees you as her meal ticket/atm not a life partner hence the lack of loyalty/respect.

The reason she is not warm towards you is probably because you are not spending for her family.

carojody:
My fellow Nlanders, Good evening to all. I will not bore you with long stories so I will get to it right away.

I got married to my wife about 6 months ago. We had a 3yrs dating though it was a long distance relationship. During the courting period I asked her all the pertinent questions and she answered maybe to suit me. We eventually got married.

A little of my own life story: I am an orphan, the last child in the family with 3 older siblings. Growing up was tough without the love of parents so it was hell of a tussle in the streets. Recorded lots of loses financially. Also lost the first love I ever had but life has to go on.

On her part, she is the first child in a family of 5 children. Both parents alive and young. Healthy and strong. She currently works with a bank.

We go married 6months ago, I told her things I desired most during our days of dating which was a caring person capable of love. And she told me she has that quality being the first child. We went ahead and got married.

After marriage I discovered a strange thing. She really do care, she shows love too but to her family. She acts like I don't even exist. She does not see me. Sometimes I get jealous the kind of love she bequeaths on her brothers. I provide every thing in the house even to her transportation to work, but I hardly knw when her salary drops. In fact she shares her salary to her family before it drops. She would go through my wardrobe and select my clothes she deems too tight for me and send to her brothers.

I can sspend 5 hours with her in the house and she will be on the phone giggling and gisting with her family. She cannot cook well no clean the house. Totally lacks "Respect". Instead of eating poison every time she cooks, I do most of the cooking myself.

She does not need my approval for anything she simply sends money to her siblings as she pleases and even quarrels with me for not giving her to send. Recently I discovered she paid her brothers school fee. And as I write she is asking me for her transportation to work this week and I noticed she just received her salary yesterday cos I overheard her on the phone.

Please this is not the life I prayed for. I'd have remained single that be in a marriage like this. Who has a good advice please. I beg of u fam, how do I navigate these waters.

Mirror her treatment to you back to her! Most especially in the areas of attention, financial aid (transport fare to work), cooking (tell her to start cooking good food that you can eat or she must have to find a way to go learn how to cook otherwise you will start cooking for only yourself.

This will help reset her brain if she is still interested in the marriage.

sirpharrell:
We like deceiving ourselves in this country.
I remember the frenzied calls last time to make direct primaries mandatory.
The reality is that no major political party in Nigeria can conduct a credible direct primary election.
There is no single direct primary election amongst the thousands we have held in this country that one can point out as credible.
This is the sham that some ignorant folks wanted to make compulsory in our electoral act.
Even the new one that will be conducted in Edo State will still be a charade.

What does this your observation tell you?

It shows that there is no system, no matter how good that we can't corrupt and render ineffective as a result of our greed.

Localemperor:
You have N1000 to create the perfect woman

Faithful= N300
Beauty = N200
Respectful= N300
Good Cook = N200

This will come with peace of mind as a bonus

Jewessgratitud3:


I said half derica and one milk cup.
Half derica of local rice is 800. So half will be 400 while milk cup will be 200.

You are confusing yourself. I guess you meant "quarter derica and one milk cup"

press9jatv:
It’s very hard right now to find a guy who doesn’t smoke — Nigerian lady laments



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUortsJC6ac?si=7TqkSGP9HH_atiVb

Just like it is very hard to see a girl that doesn't do runs!

sukkot:
Ok it’s no secret that women in marriages turn to vipers if there is an unfulfilled desire. What do women desire ? Lots and lots and lots of money and great Mandingo long stroke sex . I mean let’s face it those two are all that is desired but you get the rare woman who desires to be intellectually stimulated and desire an intelligent and funny guy. So let’s just add all these qualities in there. So the question is can a woman remain happy forever if she finds a man who ticks all her boxes of desires or is there just that innate self destructive button that triggers boredom after a while and now they are tired of the perfection they have and then go seeking imperfection for that adrenaline rush. Like is a woman insatiable? Like you can be as rich as Dangote and your sex game is like long stroking Adonis and you are intelligent and funny and she can rock with all that for 2 years but then boredom kicks in and the self destructive button kicks in and then the imperfect specimen starts looking more desirable to her , the broke thug on the street who has more swagger etc etc. I guess this can apply to all humans too. Are human beings insatiable?

Humans are generally insatiable!

But in marriage, a woman or a man can be in the situation you described. That is the tendency to become bored/unfulfilled in a marriage that was initially full of fun/ satisfaction.

Now, what causes this situation? It is in most cases caused by unrealistic expectations and entitlement. This usually happens when one partner expects too much from the other and hence becomes disappointed when the expectations are not met.

Solution: When you discovered that your partner has become disillusioned as a result of too much expectations which you can't meet, balance it up by putting him/her on a similar scale, that is telling the partner about your expectations and how they are not being met and that you do want to see them work it out. By so doing, the idleness and boredom that fuels the partner's inordinate expectations will die a natural death and he/she will understand the real dynamics of life.

Nbote:
Simple. A reputable Audit firm will be employed to audit the accounts.



If it was a other party will they comment about investigating or getting someone to look into their books?? Will they even admit or c9mment about it? Oderinho

You guys should be deceiving yourselves. All Nigerian politicians are the same irrespective of their political parties and deceptive self-righteous statements.

Maks27:
that’s personal
But I confirmed it and I’m not a child

Main reason why you should not be here asking this question. Take your decision by yourself!

vinexe:
honestly I wouldn't want some people to fell bad because I mentioned the state...

But I always try my best to be on a safer side... Am from Anambra State and she is from Enugu eziagu precisely.... Very bad experience...

Ok. There are good and bad people everywhere.

Like I said earlier, do the right thing for yourself. She is not a respectful and cooperative wife. That is why it is why the situation is very hard on you. Assuming she is on your side, supportive and cooperative, her family's efforts to make life difficult for you would not have been this difficult a nut to crack.

So, do yourself right by following your father and pastor's advice.

vinexe:
please can u repeat the above questions about her . I did not get the question ⁉️ before

The very one you have refused to answer and telling people to chat you privately.

Omuuvwie:


Please tell me the state, you and ur partner is from, that could be a saving grace to someone, you never can tell

When he tells you, come and comment it here. No point hiding it.

vinexe:
thank u sir...am not hiding anything here I am 36 years..

You are hiding somethings bro. Answer the above questions about your wife.

Also, a woman that doesn't respect you and leaves the house at will for no good reason is who you are struggling to officially get married to, to what end? Instead of you to see these obstacles as signs for you to get out of that entanglement.

dejavubobo1:
I'm a data analyst. Got a little weekly pay job from an academy in Europe. Surprisingly after 3months of work and weekly payment, My name was flagged by western union on suspicion of fraud (with my pay for February second week cancelled after many hours seating infront of the computer).

It's very appalling and morale draining to be profiled in one's own country. I really wish I could push for a law suit and make them understand not all Nigerians are criminals and seeing us/considering us as one will have consequences.

Has anyone had such terrible experience, how did you handle?

Get in touch with your employer. They are the ones who can come between you and western union to resolve this.

hansomb:
It should have been "please drop waste here, we need it for something" no one will drop it. Nigeria don't like obeying the law.

Better still, they don't like doing the right thing!

As long as you are good at writing and you have manuscripts of books already typeset and edited, you can prepare and publish them as eBooks and distribute through worldwide digital book distributors and make some money.

As long as you are good at writing and you have manuscripts of books already typeset and edited, you can prepare and publish them as eBooks and distribute through worldwide digital book distributors and make some money.

God saved you.

Most Nigerians are wicked. Just imagine! They are taking advantage of your resources and yet planning evil against you!

Next time go for a girl who is ready to settle down. This is always the likely outcome when you go for a girl that is still in school or not yet ready to settle down. Infact, at that stage every man that comes into their life is taking advantage of to better their life and get what their parents can't provide for them.

As long as it won't be counted as stealing, hunt it down and make a wild cat pepper soup. Just make sure you keep our own, cos we are coming...

Dey play!

Who is prepared to go, will do irrespective of the exchange rate value.

Elistho:


Hmmmm, my brother, I'm less problematic. The reason I let it go is because there's a time he was financially bouyant, he used to make me smile, sometimes carry me out to relaxation center, bills on him. I had looked for a way to repay him, then that happened, I left it as it's.

But I wouldn't lend him money again. For the fact that he didn't even talk about it again. I'm a law student, the money I gave him was to be added to buy a suit, till today, i don't have one because of him...

Ok, I understand