Iykegodslove:
Good day everyone!! I am emotionally shattered as I type this message. I have been suspecting my wife for years now but no concrete evidence to confront her.

There is a boss of my mine who happens to be our family friend. Each time he calls my wife, she deletes the call history immediately. This has been happening for years but I keep quite because i love my wife and my children so much.

Of recent, i decided to know what is happening by hacking her call with him. Lo and behold, they are into deep relationship that my wife calls him baby. Infact, sleep has gone out of my eyes and am thinking of how to deal with the situation.

It should be noted that i am not working under the man in question only that we are church members and he has rendered countless of help to me. I am wondering what puts my wife into this mess. I am graduate but i decided not to work for anybody but to focus on my farming. I am doing well financially bcs i can boost of 500k or more every month. We are not lacking anything at all.

Please house ignore my typo and help with good advice.

Note: i dnt want to divorce my wife and am ready to forgive her bcs she has been of great help to my success and moreover, i love my family very well. What should i do to stop them?

You are not ready to face the reality of the situation. So, just assume you are not aware and keep living your life like that.

But obviously, the help he renders you is probably towards the care of his children which are under your custody. This is the reason why one needs to question the purpose of some helps....

God1000:
Wow congrats to her, the entire Benue is proud of her.

Benue has got a lot of brilliant minds, the state with the highest number of intellectuals in the middle belt region.

Infact Benue people are most educated in Nigeria

Yes ooo. Most developed, resourceful, industrialized and peaceful state too....

Gbadugbakun:



I just went to knock at his door. He just shouted who is that. When I told him I'm the one he told me he doesn't have money that he would give me when he has. He didn't even come out to see me. He's still inside the house and he's door is locked

Am just holding myself honestly, because if I do what is in my mind people will say is because of 5k.

Wait for him to fulfill his promise. Why you are waiting, clarify with the person you sent the money to by informing him about what transpired between you and the ungrateful neighbor. The reason for this is that if he fails to refund you before the next payment, just inform who collects the money to get yours from the said neighbor.

This means that two payments will be coming from him and if he doesn't fulfill it, the other neighbors will be on his neck and hence the battle will be fought on your behalf.

Testiebobo:
In this life not everybody you see really deserves a helping hand. I can tell you that some poor people are proud than some elites.
We once had a neighbour who we were very close to. As in family-friends. So one day i saw the trouser that my friend was wearing, the trouser was under-sized for him because he had grown taller than the trouser's length. And that is even one of his best trousers he wore to church.

So one day i picked some of my favourites clothings and jeans trousers even palm shoes. I ironed the clothes and some trousers and presented it to him. He was very glad and happy and showed his mum, the woman pretended to be happy about it sha.

But till date, i have never seen my friend wearing anyone of them. The thing pain me o because i still loved the clothes and shoes i gave him. I am even confused maybe it is my friend or his mother that are ingrate. What do you call this type of attitude?

Happy new month!

One thing I have come to understand in dealing with people is that don't help people if they didn't ask for the help because they mostly will not appreciate.

Also, even the ones that ask of you, make sure you don't always offer the full help or at least delay it even if you can offer it right away because if the assistance seems too effortless, they won't still appreciate it. Infact, they will likely come back with a higher demand soon with the entitlement that what they are asking for is nothing to you.

Samuelriano1:
poor performance of student in 2024 utme examination. who is to be blamed? Parents, teachers , student.
let's discuss.

Blame me please!!

On the other hand, this is an indication that the Nigerian society is headed in the wrong direction. For some of us, it is not a surprise because the signs have always been there.

If the candidates create time to study hard, who will do yahoo for them, who will do hookup for them, who will slay on social media for them, who will do sports betting for them.......

I tell people that our problem in this country have gone beyond just leadership but multifaceted and the family as the basic unit of the society is where the rot is now domiciled.

An average family today is a place where:
1. Parents do not question or monitor the activities of their wards.
2. The parents don't know how well their wards are faring academically.
3. The parents are the ones that pay for examination malpractices for their wards.
4. The parents don't care how many hours their wards spend watching television or doing unprofitable things on the phone.
5. The parents are the ones that enroll some of the children into yahoo training adventurs.
6. ..............
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Fineman2:
Dear Men,One mistake you should never make as a man is raising kids with all your life savings to eventually get so much exposure that they won't want to stoop low to living around you.

Upgrade yourself as u upgrade your kids

Plan your future so you won't have your kids too far from you..

Having all your kids abroad looks like an achievement until your old age sets in

That's when you will know that sending you money is not as important as having them around you..

That's when you will know that life's fulfilment is beyond money but quality of time spent with your grown up children and grand children..

I've had an Uncle who raised all his families abroad , died at 78 and none of his kids came home to burry him and give him the last respect/honour

This is not a matter of marrying many wives ..

It's about being intentional with your old age plan..

And if marrying many is your strategic plan, ensure you execute it with wisdom.

Men seems to cater so much for family that we forget ourselves..

My Brother, don't forget yourself in the mathematical equation of life..

You matter a lot

Always put yourself into consideration..

This old age we are talking about is nearer than we thing..

Just look at your primary school days...

Still fresh in your head right? Just like yesterday

That's exactly how it will look when that old age sets in like a thief in the night..

Don't be caught unaware

May we not live it in regret

Life is moving really fast..

May God grant us the opportunity to live long in sound health and more wealth..

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Fact!

kolamilan:

It's a name of a building at the CBN.

Don't mind that one....

FatherChrismas:


Congratulations send aza

Ya

I saved $720,000 but Yahaya Adoza B. took it without my consent and deposited it for his children education up untill university level to be pursued in the US.

Well, the world bank have decided to right the wrong by paying $3,000,000 into my bank account....

They should also force you out of the mansion you are staying. You deserve it!!!

Next time don't use condom. At least there will be nothing to burst....

helinues:
For the upcoming election bah abi why now

True but no matter what, if his candidate is not the most favored by the people, they will still go home empty handed....

A political jobber is seriously job hunting...

3exe3:
People must always take the goodness of a person for granted

That is exactly what happened here. They wanted him to help train the child while they may have instructed him to come back to take care of them once the mission is accomplished (for instance after he might have been trained through schools and helped to secure a good job by the pastor)

michlins:
those ones dey still. If you want such, you can get. Even 2ml

You don't get my point. My point is that the excuse meat sellers give for the high cost of meat is that cow is expensive and each cow is now one million plus

ibechris:
We bought this cow today at keffi in Nasarawa state and shared among three of us.

The price shows that things aren't the way it used to be anymore.

For now,this would help my family to avoid buying a kilo for 6k.

Things are indeed crazy out there.

I thought they said cow is now at least 1 point something million?

AnonPoet:
Bello Vs EFCC: North Central Progressive Voice Meets Gen. Ibrahim Babangida in Minna


https://theintelligencenews.com.ng/bello-vs-efcc-north-central-progressive-voice-meets-gen-ibrahim-babangida-in-minna/

Dollar rain at work. At least since Bello didn't sprayed them naira, he won't be charged for abusing the naira!!

Hathor5:
It is a topic whether parents are responsible for their children`s behavior? I don`t think so.

Parents are fully responsible until their children reach adulthood. It is possibly controversial to what extent they are responsible once their children reach adulthood but prior to that, I think, that most people will agree that children and their behavior are the parents` responisibilty.

Yes and No

Yes if the child is known to have been of questionable character but aided and abetted by his/her parents while still under their custody.

No if the child was well brought up to the knowledge and admiration of friends, family and neighborhood but he/she late decided to go haywire.

In his house!!

Tallesty1:
Detachable modern day dick

Detachable modern day dick made of gold

No pictures of the reconstructed road or the work in progress pictures. So, what is the purpose of this post?

No much difference between you and the girl. Both of you engaged in premarital sex but she was wise to commercialized her own while you was ok with the friends with benefits method but your ignorant worsen the situation which led to pregnancy and a child.

On the other hand, don't envy people because you don't really know their reality despite the false impression they display on social media.

It is not too late for you to get it right. Start from where you are right now and decide what you can do to get paid by people who need your service or product.

WriterNig:




Independent UK

If investigated now, you will discover that men within that age bracket in Ukrainian politicians families (sons, brothers, uncles) are not in the Ukrainian army fighting Russia but they want to send the sons, brothers and uncles of ordinary Ukrainians to the war front to die!! Wicked leaders.

They are all using the war to enrich themselves through illegal arms businesses and other forms of corruption.

Inspirer1:
I assume the person is very poor at spelling words, I may be wrong though.

In some cases, this is why some cringe to voice note

hookupagent1:
I have this feeling that something is wrong with me because I feel sensational movement all over my body, have some sharp pain on my head and I always feel weak cold and hot inside of me and very lazy unlike me before, I'm a shadow of My former self, looking lanky like someone that is battling from a deadly ailment. I have not slept for months and I noticed something, I behave strange as If I'm about to go insane, many more strange things happening in my body, I suspect I'm under witchcraft, demonic attack, or occultic attack,
I feeling empty and think I'm under a spell
I seriously need help.

See this thread for any know the beginning of my problem and this is where I suspect my problem is from no doubt
https://www.nairaland.com/8063420/get-strange-feelings-after-seeking

Like you said in your other post, you paid for what he did. He intended to turn you into a regular customer. That is he wants you to always come with one problem or the other and continue paying.

You are the only one who can save yourself. Develop a consistent and committed relationship with God through prayers. Confess to him what you have done that led to this, confess other things you have done including what your moniker states, reevaluate your ways of life and change where appreciate.

Continue praying and returning to sender whatever the man have done to you and you will be delivered and fine in due time but ensure you continue to work with God.

T0T0Vulcanizer:

No more space
I am thinking about developing another one I got but not yet ready for that project.

Ok, I see.

Then consider the second option of my comment.

Tell her to please send the money to her relative (your girl) that she needs it more than you right now.

Demand and supply...

T0T0Vulcanizer:
Hello everyone, I'm seeking advice on a challenging situation. In 2020, I purchased a plot of land and built a house, which I and my parents moved into in 2021. While I love having them close, I'm feeling suffocated by the lack of personal space and freedom. I'm struggling to maintain my sexual urges due to my high sex drive.. enjoy my hobbies with different hook up girls of my choices, and even relax in my own home without judgment when I kpo!. To cope, I've been spending a significant amount (around 50k) on hotel stay and I do this like four times in a week, which is unsustainable due to their high cost of drinks and food dollar rate increase and they put price in everything...when I could have all this in my house. I'm considering two options: renting a separate house for my parents or finding a new place for myself. However, I'm concerned about the potential stigma He's a landlord but rents a house himself? I'd appreciate guidance on navigating this situation and finding a solution that works for my parents and I.

Nlfpmod

If there is still space in the compound, build a smaller apartment on it. Move into that one and leave the main building for them. If possible, create a second gate through to access it without passing through the main building.

On another note, think of settling down and stop "T0T0Vulcanizing". With this, you will become compatible with your parents and feel free with them too.

Kyng1:


I already got more drugs today, and I'm hoping it will work. I'm only scared for my wife not to contract it because she's pregnant. If it's really chicken pox, I heard it's extremely transferable.

Initially, I thought it is a joke.

So you have got a pregnant wife at home and the best you could do is sleeping out with a prostitute. Wow, congratulations. You deserve what you have got and more.

Judolisco:
NLC should go and sit down.. U want a mini wage of 700k when some states are struggling to pay 30k....NLC leaders should go and do six months internship training with ASUU on how to tackle the government

NLC negotiating strategies seems like a joke as it is not realistic.

Yahaya Bello made a political blunder by attempting to campaign for a position that is not vacant (APC national chairman).

Immediately he handed over, his supporters started posting posters of him in Abuja, campaigning for him to be made the national chairman!

More over, I read he was actually very corrupt while in office and that he have the citizenship of Morocco and UAE and equally have a lot of huge investments in both countries. If these accusations are true and he is found wanting, let him be made to face the law.