phorget:




If he must be punished then his principal too must also be punished.

The essence of my comment is not about who to punish or not. It is to point out why we may never get it right as a country because almost everyone who get the opportunity to be in a position of authority is there for his personal interests.

nairalandkachy1:


https://www.thecable.ng/fubara-i-acted-on-approvals-as-rivers-accountant-general-im-not-scared-of-anything/amp/

Just imagine talk!!

You aided and abetted crime, benefitted from it and yet you feel you have nothing to fear.

Hmmm, Nigeria to the gutters...

I only pity those who take sides with some of you whenever two politicians are at logger head.

Villa12:
wahala. So he should practice the opposite?

My point is not for him to practice the opposite of those things. But they should not be the answer to this question.

You know why?

Every living thing has the ability to build a defense mechanism which is a natural reaction and a way to survive threatening situations. So, as a Nigerian, no matter how good you are, you must balance your your ways otherwise you will be choked because it has always been a matter of survival of the fittest, even in the animal kingdom.

Disclaimer: I am not in support of vices in the society or shortcuts neither am I such kind of person but you must be vigilant to ensure you don't lose guard if you must survive in Nigeria.

PrinceofSarcasm:
Integrity.
A moral compass
Compassion
Empathy
Your humanity
Determination to stand for what's right

They said as a Nigerian!

All these things you listed make an average Nigerian to term you a dumb/dull (not smart) person. And if you are not careful, you will find it difficult to make a major breakthrough if you actually exercise these qualities.

Amazon kdp is still a sustainable means of online business.

Amazon kdp is still a sustainable means of online business.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
How many Western leaders have ICC issued arrest warrant?
Tell me the Western leaders ICC sent to jail since it was established?

Do you think it's only African leaders that are corrupt, do you think it's only African leaders that commit crimes against humanity?

But when Putin challenge the double standard in the international system, you will see dumb Africans calling Putin a dictator. South Africa took Israel to ICC and you have dumb Nigerians attacking SA.

Thanks to ill-fated religions that are being used as a means of enslaving the lots you are referring to.

That is good. They should keep hoarding them in order to create artificial scarcity and later sell at a higher price.

They should also keep reducing the quality and quantity of their products while increasing the prices and let's see who will soon go out of business....

RuddyFusion:
Nonsense post
Mosad and Co that can not rescue the captives held in GAZA....

Who's behind the numerous helicopter crashes in the USA?

What does killing Iranian president helps Israel to achieve? What?

Don't mind them. Crashes like this happens in every country just like the one that killed a prominent Nigerian of resent in US, not to talk of many other military helicopters that have crashed in US this year. I guess Russia or North Korea is responsible for those ones or the God of the Palestinians use it to punish the US.

Many people are so gullible and have sold their souls and ability to think for themselves to religious sentiment.

Paramount01:




In a well organized family,anywhere anybody is going the head of the house must be aware.if I can't have where my wife is going becaue she is now called an adult,I must know wher you are taking my child to

Obviously, the main issue is the fact that she doesn't open up to you about her whereabout and since you can't get that you now have to resort to holding onto knowing the whereabout of your child.

It is wrong for her to be trying to avoid accountability on her whereabout to you, just like she also needs to know about your movement too. You guys need to resolve this issue because it can lead to total incommunicado in due course and that will mean the end of the marriage.

Nigeria is truly a joke!!

The current government have not even spend one year in office we are dragging ourselves over the next elections when the focus should have been on what can be done right now to put the country on the right path to sustainable development.

Baba: whatever you want, you can do but your political career is dead for good.

Kyng1:



Firstly, thank you so very much for understanding the depth of this whole issue, your understanding levels is super amazing.

I did every single thing, but my wife mother talked down on me in front of my friends and siblings just so they could think that she contributed something tangible to the weeding, where as I did every single thing.

She tricked me into providing the drinks they're supposed to have provided.

Of everything that she did, I'm deeply hurt the most by her claiming that I didn't gave her money to cook on the traditional day that I'm supposed to give her money to cook, but didn't. Where as we both have none of such agreement, on that day she cooked two basket of rice with my ingredients, chicken, groundnut Oil. Etc. From what she was supposed to use to prepare the reception food.

To be brutally honest with you, I have tried getting over the money I spent for the marriage but I just can't, the more in trying to get it over with the more it keeps ringing a bell.

As for my wife, she is not giving me problems. At first she's but ever since I told her that after giving birth I'd send her back to her mother's house, she has been behaving well since then, and definitely want the marriage to work out. The only thing currently causing problems between is is the fact that she's always all over me, as we're both always at home. Where as I'm someone that love being alone all the time without anyone around or anyone talking to me. I'm a loner. This is the only thing that's currently causing problems.

I got all your points. Good to know too that she is not giving you much issues at the moment and I do hope she even do better with time if nature do wish you guys to make the marriage work.

Please permit me to share the following points with you. I do hope they give you better insight to life:

1. In all you do, even if it is a business venture, never put in all your capital into it. You need to keep aside about 20-30% of your total capital as a reserve fund. This fund can come handy when there are unforseen circumstances as a shock absorber to help mitigate the situation. In the absence of such a reserve fund, failure of such a venture is inevitable.

2. You need to be more vigilant in dealing with people henceforth. Once you notice any form of manipulation, you have gat to take measures to protect yourself and your resources.

3. I don't judge people but someone else's comment about your previous threads made me read up some of your previous threads. To that end, I want to say that you have to work on yourself and let go of somethings to fast track your progress in life.

Testiebobo:
I'm a retailer of foodstuffs which is a combination of raw foods and manufactured products. But due to this harsh economy, some of my regular customers are already misusing the opportunity of paying back later. Some of them even goes to extence of lieing they'hv forgotten they were oweing me. And you know that if i dont sell those products regularly especially raw foods, i will be at lost. Because i will sell it cheaper to people not knowing it as already increase in price at the market. What do i do? How do i discourage debtors from coming near my shop?
Business genius in the forum!

Simply don't sell on credit again.

Just tell them you need to pay up your suppliers and gathering the money now and hence can't afford to sell on credit.

Kyng1:





Please I need your honest answers on this.

Guy enough of the manipulation. You don't need to apologize to anybody.

What you need right now is to fix your life and your home.

Truth be told, you were manipulated both by your wife and her mom. They knew they had little to contribute to the wedding but they manipulated you to do it all by trick while putting you down in front of people to make it look as if they did some while you have not done enough.

The drink they are supposed to provide, they made you do it. They informed you not to worry about cooking food on the trad day while her mum used part of what you already provided for reception food to cook on that the trad day while pretending she used her resources for it just to make it look like they contributed something.

So, look inward to see what you can do to start earning again. Move on and stop thinking about what you spent on the wedding.

Don't even plan to return the bride price and send her away except she is making life difficult for you. Overtime, you will be fine with her except she is not ready to cooperate and make the family grow and fulfilled. Otherwise, sending her away means you will have to repeat that same process again with another woman in the nearby future.

My point is first try to make the marriage work and make sure henceforth, she is not able to manipulate you again. If she refused to change for good, then you know the right thing to do for yourself.

telim:

The issue with his account was fixed and i got credited.

Will update the thread.

Good

What was the black market exchange rate by that three days ago? The rate you both agreed on was even higher than the black market exchange rate by the time you guys did the transaction.

So, he probably sensed your greed and decided to use it against you. I am just guessing ooo. I don't know him and I have never transacted with him and I don't do crypto...

blamingthedevil:


DeeOneAyekooto

Two buses in picture is now 530?

jmoore:


https://gazettengr.com/bandits-ambush-dangote-staff-bus-kidnap-dozens-in-bloody-assault/

Which kind of news is this. Okpella is in Edo state not in Kogi state.

It is also not close to Okene which is in Kogi state as you claimed.

After Okpella, there are still many villages e.g Igarra, Ibillo etc all in Edo state even before you get to Kogi state. And when in Kogi state, you will still pass through many villages before getting to Okene.

So, correct your headline and storyline.

Ishilove:

Na wa. Na real wa ...

More fake stories 🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️

This doesn't look fake at all. If you consider her engagement on the thread and responses, you realized that is not a fake story.

Hmmm

fadilaMaikiriki:
I'm currently jobless. So, I've decided to be selling meat. So that I can at least be busy. How do you all see it? I hope you all would patronize me when I finally start? I would really appreciate it. At least so that I can be seeing small small money that I can be using to get .k.m., fruits, and other things. I need your opinions/suggestions please.

Thanks!

Hope the buyers can pay with thick akamu?

fadilaMaikiriki:
I'm currently jobless. So, I've decided to be selling meat. So that I can at least be busy. How do you all see it? I hope you all would patronize me when I finally start? I would really appreciate it. At least so that I can be seeing small small money that I can be using to get .k.m., fruits, and other things. I need your opinions/suggestions please.

Thanks!

Hope the buyers can pay with thick akamu?

Congratulations

This people won't lie with conscience

Reginaoyah:
Children see more than you think. There's no need for that. My daughter is already saying things.

And you are very glad your daughter is saying things!! Madam amend your ways so that you don't cause needless calamity in your home just because you are hating on someone you should not hate.

Reginaoyah:

..but we will see in old age.

Just imagine the way you are nursing evil against a man who is your husband! But thanks to life that you are not God and can't determine who will be strong in old age or not.

Your type will poison the children's mind against their dad for no just cause!!

Sewasaunt:


A Lastma official once harassed Doctors for making him take his brother's blood sample to the lab for different tests and said it should be the job of the doctors and we were just stressing family members (just to go to the lab o).

Same person may die and money and energy for burial planning will come out in abundance.

On this, it clearly shows lack of love for the sick person. They really don't care if he survives or not. They are just there to fulfill all righteousness.

There was a time a woman couldn't afford barely 50,000 for hospital fees after a vaginal delivery.

The hospital let her go when they were tired.

That same week, the family threw a big party for the baby's naming ceremony and killed rams worth multiples of the 50,000 owed.

On this, the couple were being tricky not willing to pay for the services rendered them by the hospital. Someone else's comment on this already confirmed this my view.

Nigerians will leave their old parents unattended and barely send money, once the person dies, huge parties will be thrown to "honour the dead" and they can even keep the corpse in the morgue for months just to raise money for a huge burial ceremony.

On this, they spend so heavily not even to give the dead a befitting burial but to show off to the community and their various associations that they can also organized a big party too.

Foodqueen:
Be humble and submissive to your husband, I bet you, you will get everything you want from him, even 100N pad.

Your hubby isn't as bad as you think. You just doesn't know how to be his good wife.

Just be submissive and communicate more, you will enjoy your marriage.

He knew marriage was your escape route and he gave you that, he will still be ready to give you more.

Forget about those people over hyping their hubby in your presence, na liar full am.

A female here....

Op! This is the advice you need.