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Family / Re: Marriage Kitchen Wars by tbanj07(m): 3:49pm On May 21, 2018 |
ImaIma1: Thanks! 1 Like |
Family / Re: Marriage Kitchen Wars by tbanj07(m): 3:46pm On May 21, 2018 |
nuelyoyo: Thank you! 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Marriage Kitchen Wars by tbanj07(m): 8:37pm On May 20, 2018 |
ladyP30: Thank you! 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Marriage Kitchen Wars by tbanj07(m): 8:36pm On May 20, 2018 |
UjuJoan2: Surely not the lazy type..."his mates are busy making money"...are we in the same line of business or have you any idea what I do and how bad things are at this time? Kindly go through the comments to have a better understanding of the situation on ground. Thank you! 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Marriage Kitchen Wars by tbanj07(m): 4:29pm On May 20, 2018 |
Eberechi24: Amen and thank you! 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Marriage Kitchen Wars by tbanj07(m): 4:26pm On May 20, 2018 |
Dyt: Thank you...exactly the point everyone seems to be missing thinking I have other issues with her family when i do not. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Marriage Kitchen Wars by tbanj07(m): 2:33pm On May 20, 2018 |
sisisioge: Please kindly read through the previous comments so you can have a better understanding of what my point is...thank you! 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Marriage Kitchen Wars by tbanj07(m): 2:15pm On May 20, 2018 |
Eberechi24: Ma,please try and understand that times are hard and we are only managing, I'm not uncomfortable with their visit...I'm just saying wife should be in the best position to talk to her siblings on how they handle things in the house due to the present situation...the whole house isn't full of supplies of what we need...I also have 3 kids. Example: Reason why she was scolded was the fact that I came back home from work last night only to meet 2 of her sisters eating with 2 piece of meat each when my own kids only eat one as well as myself. I wasn't joking when I said we are managing...was I wrong to scold my wife for that so she would know the best way to handle the house so they can cut it down? 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Marriage Kitchen Wars by tbanj07(m): 2:11pm On May 20, 2018 |
oyb: Things are hard presently which is why I said we live from paycheck to paycheck...can't go to the extent of doing the above you mentioned and wouldn't tell my wife to do the same...which is why I scold her so she would know how to manage things around the house (she's in the best position to caution them stylishly without any suspicions), is a wife not supposed to understand her home and know how to carry it within the family It's not a one sided thing, my siblings know the way things are so they respect themselves and don't take anything without permission, which is why wife should do the same with her siblings so I don't give them a bad impression if this keeps going on and I intervene which calls for scolding her (wife)...I'm not saying they shouldn't eat...taking everything they want anytime without permission is my concern and i can't just let the whole family starve just as a punishment of them taking things without permission...I really just wish you'd understand! I really do! 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Marriage Kitchen Wars by tbanj07(m): 1:51pm On May 20, 2018 |
oyb: thank you very much mr. supreme god or need I call you supreme goddess |
Family / Re: Marriage Kitchen Wars by tbanj07(m): 1:40pm On May 20, 2018 |
JoannaSedley: "will do"...thanks 1 Like |
Family / Re: Marriage Kitchen Wars by tbanj07(m): 1:32pm On May 20, 2018 |
JoannaSedley: It's obvious you don't see things from someone else's angle...this is not a matter of painting one white and the other black. It is the reality no one on here doesn't seem to understand I guess 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Marriage Kitchen Wars by tbanj07(m): 1:19pm On May 20, 2018 |
JoannaSedley: What part of the family managing food and other resources is it that you don't understand when they come in and take everything anyhow they like without their sister cautioning them Are you human 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Marriage Kitchen Wars by tbanj07(m): 1:18pm On May 20, 2018 |
JoannaSedley: POC- My siblings don't just barge into the kitchen and take whatever they want in there without asking her (not even me)...after having a talk with her (wife) that she knows the present condition of the house that we are managing....yet her siblings continue doing whatever they want and can get their hands on in the kitchen without permission was why she was scolded...is everyone missing the whole point of this. I won't come at you using abusive words...don't talk to a man using such words when you don't know what they are going through or how hard he is trying to put food on the table for the family amongst other family needs 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Marriage Kitchen Wars by tbanj07(m): 1:11pm On May 20, 2018 |
oyb: What is this one saying...did you read the whole comments on here till it gets to where you had to throw yours in? When you have less to throw around for many, then you can come back to the comment session to redeem yourself 1 Like |
Family / Re: Marriage Kitchen Wars by tbanj07(m): 1:07pm On May 20, 2018 |
Ishilove: Food aint ordinary when there's little to go around for many |
Family / Re: Marriage Kitchen Wars by tbanj07(m): 12:40pm On May 20, 2018 |
Artistree: Big deal wa nigbati e ba n manage owo |
Family / Re: Marriage Kitchen Wars by tbanj07(m): 9:56am On May 20, 2018 |
PraisesG: My family knows well enough not to go near our kitchen...im blessed to have a mother who doesn't care if my wife even serves her only water....and if any of my fam visit they enter d kitchen to wash and assist her...not dish food. As for being agree at wife siblings...no i'm not but we've talked about this before and she still allowed it was why she was scolded this time. P.S- my inlaws are not hungry folks |
Family / Re: Marriage Kitchen Wars by tbanj07(m): 9:52am On May 20, 2018 |
ahnie: No such thing as being paranoid whenever they come around....I make them feel comfortable and welcomed at all times...wife knows the present situation we live in which is why she was scolded this time for allowing such to continue |
Family / Re: Marriage Kitchen Wars by tbanj07(m): 9:27am On May 20, 2018 |
Angy55: Thank you and you as well 1 Like |
Family / Re: Marriage Kitchen Wars by tbanj07(m): 9:25am On May 20, 2018 |
ahnie: Please note that we live from paycheck to paycheck...wife does not work at this time. So it's not as if we have alot to throw around and i have kids to feed as well 3 Likes |
Family / Re: Marriage Kitchen Wars by tbanj07(m): 9:17am On May 20, 2018 |
Adesuwag: Why are you taking this with huge effects...didn't put a finger on her, she only get scolded knowing well enough how we live at this time and allowing such to continue. For crying out loud they are in the house of another family and should respect that 1 Like |
Family / Re: Marriage Kitchen Wars by tbanj07(m): 9:09am On May 20, 2018 |
yettymuse: Are you married? If yes, please tell me how you'd feel when your inlaw comes around accessing your kitchen anyhow and anytime without permission 1 Like |
Family / Re: Marriage Kitchen Wars by tbanj07(m): 9:06am On May 20, 2018 |
Please be advised the house is mine and not theirs...they need not come to me but should at least seek the permission of their sister before dishing food from our pots. P.S - I've just noticed recently whenever they visit Angy55: 1 Like |
Family / Re: Marriage Kitchen Wars by tbanj07(m): 8:43am On May 20, 2018 |
Just to be clear...you don't find it disrespectful that your wife younger ones does not even seek permission from your wife before digging into your pot of soup? DrMuzungu: 2 Likes |
Family / Marriage Kitchen Wars by tbanj07(m): 8:05am On May 20, 2018 |
Please I'd like to know if it is wrong of me to scold my wife for allowing her siblings to dish food from the same pot I eat from? Am I wrong in my own house that food is to be made and dished only by my wife and not anyone else accessing our pot without permission? 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Aisha, Aka Omoge Campus, Was Our Breadwinner, Our Father And Mother – Brother by tbanj07(m): 6:54am On May 19, 2018 |
Deitrick haddon - he's able obembet: 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Pastor Ayo Oritsejafor: "Eat Your Tithe And Die Quick" by tbanj07(m): 2:47pm On May 06, 2018 |
Is it just my thoughts or did God lied when He said man would die if they eat from the tree of good and evil? Out of which they didn't die immediatelybut their eyes were opened |
Celebrities / Re: Kate Henshaw Finds The Bride That Looks Like Her by tbanj07(m): 5:04pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
Make up sef dey make women resemble lol |
Celebrities / Re: Symba, Model In Bikini Poses With Keke Napep In Lagos Photoshoot by tbanj07(m): 3:43pm On Oct 22, 2017 |
The end of the world is here already folks...prepare for the best parts...WAR!!! Don't say I didn't warn you I no mention Yankee n N.K ooo |
Health / Re: Seven Foods That Keep You Forever Young by tbanj07(m): 3:39pm On Oct 22, 2017 |
Young kor, yung ni...if una like make una stay on diff diets just to keep young...na die una go still end up dying so what's the point of denying myself some better meal cos no be every body sef go reach old age...u don't know when it's your turn, enjoy while you can and appreciate the simplest things too 1 Like |
Business / Re: FG Takes Ownership Of Funds In Bank Accounts Not Linked To BVNs by tbanj07(m): 12:58pm On Oct 22, 2017 |
Dead people don't complain...that's the only time I will not be able to claim anything free2ryhme: |
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