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He had some folic acid in his hand and said I should swallow it and abort the pregnancy.

Nosa-Henry:

Why are you so judgemental, did you hear from him. What is MTN business with personal and private lives of its employees.

greateros: in as much as i empathize with the 'victimized' ladies, we should all understand that their are two sides to every story especially when it involves relationship.


Before passing judgement and calling names, its fair to hear the side of the other persons involved - women have a way of telling domestic violence stories to suite their side

am not married so don't crucify me .

ActiveMan:

FOOLISH? WHY DID YOU MARRY SOMEONE YOU WILL BEAT? WHY DONT YOU LEAVE HER ALONE WHEN YOU CAN NOT KEEP YOUR ANGER AND PRIDE IN YOUR POCKET,

phemi01: I know women will be quick to judge. How sure are these women aren't lying. If the accused comes out and say otherwise, who would u believe. Women and their EVIL ways sha. They just want to finish ur career d moment u quit it with them. Her plan no go work.

Nosa-Henry:

Why are you so judgemental, did you hear from him. What is MTN business with personal and private lives of its employees.

mazaje: Nigerians and their wahala. . .I have stated this time and time again. . .Violence is a part of our society. . .Its is part of our DNA. Until we eschew violence then women can keep crying day and night, but the problem will never be sloved. . .The same women that complain about domestic violence are the same women that beat up their house helps, their younger ones and also encourage their elder children to beat up their younger ones all the time when they offend them. . .In our schools we are thought that violence is the only way when a person commits an offence, when a junoir student offends a senoir student the only answwr is violence, a students offends a teacher same thing, violence, when a younger brother/sister offends an elder brother/sister the answer is violence many parents encourage their elder siblings to discipline the younger ones with acts of violenve. . .Child offends parents, violence. . .Violence permeates our society. . .We encourage it every where. How do we expect it not to manifest in our homes. . .The society has thought us right from school and from our homes that if any subordinate offends you beat him/her up, we carry the same violence to our homes and offices. . .why won't there be excessive violence when the society teaches us that it is the only way to solve our problems when our subordinates offend us?. . . .The same women that grew up beating their house helps, younger brothers, younger sisters and younger cousins will come on nairaland and be forming "my husband beat me up". . .When you your self have been contributing to the circle of violence that is rife in our society all your lives. . .Make wuna carry go jare. . .

violent:

Isn't the same organisation you furiously labelled as "FOOLISH" fighting against this stone aged backwardness?

If you aren't sure why you must criticize people, it may be better you don't at all.

dayokanu:

This is the problem with our society we choose to excuse one violence and condemn another. The same women that are victims now, Wont raise an eyelid to beat the hell out of their own house help, beat their own younger sister, beat their own driver etc.

We had a topic on Family section where a woman slapped a minor, The minors Father now slapped the woman back. When the majority of Posters came to offer advice they were condemning the Father but excusing the woman who slapped a minor.

Why must be beat beat beat beat everyone we consider weaker than us? Husband beat wife, Husband beat driver, Wife beat housegirl , Elder brother beat younger, Driver beat Housegirl, Neighbor beat neighbor, Someone bash your car you beat.

We need to address this fundamentally

VUVUZELA10: What of men that are regularly abused and tortured by their wives? Who speaks for these oppressed men? Don't condemned Frank Edoho yet. Hear him out. Women paint pictures favorable to themselves.

dayokanu:

This is the problem with our society we choose to excuse one violence and condemn another. The same women that are victims now, Wont raise an eyelid to beat the hell out of their own house help, beat their own younger sister, beat their own driver etc.

We had a topic on Family section where a woman slapped a minor, The minors Father now slapped the woman back. When the majority of Posters came to offer advice they were condemning the Father but excusing the woman who slapped a minor.

Why must be beat beat beat beat everyone we consider weaker than us? Husband beat wife, Husband beat driver, Wife beat housegirl , Elder brother beat younger, Driver beat Housegirl, Neighbor beat neighbor, Someone bash your car you beat.

We need to address this fundamentally

steph7: I know we women can be annoying at times, but nothing should make a man hit a woman. Even if she grabs your shirt etc, just ignore her and if you aren't married breakup with her, no one should ever go through an abusive relationship

berem: what proof do you have that they are lying? Do you know what they have passed through in the hands of their mean husbands for them to come out and let the world know their story? FYI,if you don't know Evelyn Edoho very well,she is a well known broadcaster and she is an anchor on AM Express on NTA! Who is Frank Edoho anyway? No one knew him not until WWTBAM became a favourite programme on TV.as I said earlier let him defend himself if he got nothing to hide!

pro01:

Every sensible man knows that. Only buffoons 'real men' here would keep saying otherwise. I really don't understand why anyone with a functional brain would choose to believe a woman's words for the sake of it - based on her own testimony. Even her bruised face proves nothing! Ask the erstwhile Nigerian ambassador to Kenya about his experience with the witch he married.

greateros: in as much as i empathize with the 'victimized' ladies, we should all understand that their are two sides to every story especially when it involves relationship.


Before passing judgement and calling names, its fair to hear the side of the other persons involved - women have a way of telling domestic violence stories to suite their side

am not married so don't crucify me .

phemi01:

What proof do u also have that they are not lying. She has no proof. I know most women will just play sentiments, pity and support her. So because she worked in NTA means she cannot cook up false stories. YES it is bad to be violent against women in any way, but none of us on NL lived with them so u can't just accept one side of the story. I still say it,some women are very wicked and desperate. I knw d female folks will never agree on this. Sme1 is even asking what d other side of the story is needed for. no matter how hard we argue this, the ladies will never accept.

debrief08:
Very true.

You shouldnt be grabbing your husbands shirt, you are then just as guilty of abuse as he is, just that you may not be strong enough to beat him. Violence from any gender should not be tolerated, let us stop practicing, and excusing it, When you Nag and shout at your man you are being abusive, when you stand and start calling neighbors for him you are being abusive. Verbally and mentally abusive. None of it should be excused. Simple and short.
Infact I taya.

phemi01:

What proof do u also have that they are not lying. She has no proof. I know most women will just play sentiments, pity and support her. So because she worked in NTA means she cannot cook up false stories. YES it is bad to be violent against women in any way, but none of us on NL lived with them so u can't just accept one side of the story. I still say it,some women are very wicked and desperate. I knw d female folks will never agree on this. Sme1 is even asking what d other side of the story is needed for. no matter how hard we argue this, the ladies will never accept.

shilling: Smh at people asking for the other side of the story. There is no reason/excuse for domestic abuse.

debrief08:
Very true.

You shouldnt be grabbing your husbands shirt, you are then just as guilty of abuse as he is, just that you may not be strong enough to beat him. Violence from any gender should not be tolerated, let us stop practicing, and excusing it, When you Nag and shout at your man you are being abusive, when you stand and start calling neighbors for him you are being abusive. Verbally and mentally abusive. None of it should be excused. Simple and short.
Infact I taya.

phemi01:

What proof do u also have that they are not lying. She has no proof. I know most women will just play sentiments, pity and support her. So because she worked in NTA means she cannot cook up false stories. YES it is bad to be violent against women in any way, but none of us on NL lived with them so u can't just accept one side of the story. I still say it,some women are very wicked and desperate. I knw d female folks will never agree on this. Sme1 is even asking what d other side of the story is needed for. no matter how hard we argue this, the ladies will never accept.

zark knight:


I don't need to hear the husbands side of the story, no circumstance should make a man beat his wife. There are civilized ways to handle issues, not to turn her into a punching bag. God help any man that touches my sister, I will cut off his left balls.