LastApostle:

WTF...Are you kidding me?

That man look like a ''superior cultist'' to me.

Oboy forget that money , you might end up turning to his Dog after spending the money and be there in his house barking anytime you see your ex.

This is a lesson to men, don't 'invest' much on a lady till she becomes your wife. This reminds me of the late Prnice Nico Mbarga popular song, Christiana, people from across the Niger understand what i mean.
Op collect the money and move on with your life, forget about karma, even if any thing bad befalls her, you are still the loser (no insult intended pls).
Where is the love?

Guy, you've lost the girl anyway.

Since they offered you the money, take it if you need/want it. All this nollywood mentality of karma should be thrown out, was it karma that made her dump the poster? she could have dumped you with no choice and you will still survive it. Love is a two-way road, surely yours is on a single lane. she doesn't love you anymore. So MOVE ON!

Since you have meddled with the money option, kindly pursue till the end. Ask the new mugu to deposit the money into my "charity organisation" and I will cash it out for you, no commission required. That way you might walk out with some dignity.

Collect the money & move one wt your life and try make gud use of the money who knws you might be richer dan the guy dat came for her.who knws 2morow.

sadeiyare: Now that you are matured and exposed, not when you were still in your early 20,s

you are right about that, because in my early 20s, i would have messed this place up and made a mockery out of this introduction, not forgetting the two timing biatch that i was coming to visit.

@op
bros i feel ur pain, just leave everything if u are financia balance,
dis is common story, the money won't bring her back,no amount wat the pain
be strong,

which guy will buy a girl off a lover? the new lover better beware lest a richer suitor comes around.

Guy take the cash (though less than your initial investment and love) and walk out.

If u really have a true love for d girl then let her go without collecting any money, but if d love is 50% or less then u can go ahead and collect d 1m.

sexkillz: Reject the money.

When you were spending it on her, you weren't expecting it back. This is an insult on your person. Do not allow them insult you this way. Even if he makes it 20 million, it will never replace the love you felt for her, and the true motives for what you did.

Reject the money and wish her well. . . What goes around comes around. . . They will be duly rewarded.

U said it all.

Op
pls reject that money and wish them well.

Someday u will realize u did well 4 rejecting d money.

my guy forget love , there is nothing like love , infact ask the man if he can marry u also to his mother u wont mind,

AmBeautiful: If you REALLY ARE A MAN
And you understand WHAT IT IS TO BE A MAN
And you know A MAN'S WORTH

Then you know what to do,
Otherwise, you are not A MAN.

Romeo and Juliet died for love, Why wont you just pin point what you think he should do eh? Why complicate the already complicated issue? *Le Sigh*

@OP: I'm not sure what you should do. I'll take the money though if I were in your shoes. Shit happen bro, you'll survive. Love Sucks. Sorry.

Una no go kill person. People like money die for Naija sha

DeCleff:

U said it all.

Op
pls reject that money and wish them well.

Someday u will realize u did well 4 rejecting d money.

You are not sure of that. This is nollywood mentality.

They initiated the compensation scheme not the poster. the poster is already contemplating on cashing in; so why back out now in the name of karma. Karma already hit the poster by his poster dumping him.

wissezy:

omo collect that money leave the girl alone many good girls are there outside waithing for u

Most of you guys have not experienced what this guy is going through.

Collect the money and buy some cartons of wine that will last you some months and toast another more beautiful girl with the change. Girls full everywhere falling ''in and out'' of relationships. Collect the coin and forget love. If you dont collect it, the girl is still gone.

Mtscheeew.

Piro4rl: If u really have a true love for d girl then let her go without collecting any money, but if d love is 50% or less then u can go ahead and collect d 1m.

Which love are you talking about? The gold digger never loved him in the first place, the op was just an Assistant Boy Friend ABF.

Guy negotiate to 2M..but if they insist on d 1M,then collect d bar n move on...U really wanna stick it out wiv her...but on a 2nd tot..wat if they r testing ur faithfulness??If u would let her go 4 a price??...Guy "thinks" it well oh...

op i beg collect cash oo , dont collect check , and pls pray for them
and i wish i have ur luck , who know u can meet another 4 ladies like this too , that make it 4 million naira , man u are the luckieeessst man in the world

This shit has happened to me once,when my ex,was forced into marriage by her parents,though I wasn't offered any cash,but she ended up coming to meet me again to phuck her,her love still reside with me.I really phucked her a55,and extracted enough from her.then sha,I was still hustling. I was the one who lost contact with her..if she is being forced,she will come back,if she truly loves you,then it will be time to pay her back.

Is this for real?or just a make believe?

Forget the money and move on with your life.

Take d money and bleep her one more time... **singing Phil Collins' "one more nite"**

190-the-clown:


Tell him 2 make it N2M
Collect d money, rendevour some boys 'kidnap d woman
And demand N20M
What do u think

..gr8test idea! Kidnap d hoe get 20milli since d nicca thinks he is rich! When dey start having babies kidnap dey lil arses too!

AmBeautiful: Am sorry you are no longer a man!

At your age, you don't know the difference between 'I'm' and 'Am'...

i have said it the worst mistake u can ever make is investing in a lady that is not ur sister or from ur family

@ Op what if the man decides not to give u a dime ?, wetin u wan do ? Broda abeg no shout too much before matter spoil, collect the 1 EM and Bugg off.

texazzpete:

At your age, you don't know the difference between 'I'm' and 'Am'...

Not many people (Nigerians) know the difference.

That's y u shouldn't take ladies them seriously,if a richer guy comes she might also leave this 1 for that one.it runs in the blood.

vivian chinaza: Lmao at all the comments.

Lol... Me is just thinking... "This things wae I dae see for nollywood,soo,e dae happen for real life?".

texazzpete:

At your age, you don't know the difference between 'I'm' and 'Am'...

Which one you no dey sef?
They sound the same na

190-the-clown:
O boy!!!!!


tell the man to up the offer to N5M collect the money and invest it heavily on 15 other girls out there

O bouwy!!

so women are Investments like this!!

I never knew ooooo - i would have INVESTED HEAVILY in all my girls (Ex's kuku)

so i can slap bill gates anyday anytime with hard currency!!

Maybe i should start investing heavily in women!

do they accept liquidity ratios and shares as well,

Odikwa good business - this is proper business thats not yet casted oh!

u gat mout joor!!!!!!!!!
na to clect d funds go continue flex wif ya life no tym to dey die for one gal wey no want moi

sexkillz: It seems you don't know what love is, nor what you are talking about. . .

Love is not money. Love doesnt take into account money spent on an individual. You spend money on them because you are truly concerned about them, and want thier progress in life, and not because you would want it back. If he ever loved her, he would reject that money. No amount of money would replace what he felt for her. So because she left him, he should be settled? Was she initially meant to be an investment? Was the deal between them to pay him back for her education, when she gets a husband? What kind of laughable mentality are we displaying these days?

After collecting this money, will he stop talking about her and the heartbreak she caused him? Can he ever forget her for life? Collecting this money means that the love he claimed to have for her is fallacious. He would also demean himself the more if he accepts 1m. Is that the total of what he spent, if we are to start counting? Will that also pay for hurt feelings?

I understand that the level of poverty in this country is alarming. Most people commenting here and asking him to collect the 1m have not seen 1m before, and to them 1m looks and sounds like 100m. And then we ask how is it that people use thier wives for money? This is the answer! Lack of values. People no longer value anyone, or anything.

Imagine accepting money in exchange for love. . . He never loved her if so. If truly he loved her from the heart, he should wish her well and move on and stop seeking to degrade himself in this manner. She wants to eat her cake and have it. She wants to use him dump him and still laugh at him. She wants a free conscience by paying him off. . . Reverse psychology, make her die of guilt by rejecting the money.

sO YOU DIS BOY GET SMALL SENSE LIKE DIS? I TINK SAY NA ONLY DISCOMBULATED DISCOMBULATED YOU SABI