LastApostle: Nairaland,
My girlfriend invited me to an unschedule meeting with a strange man whom she introduced as her fiancee. I understand that she has even taken the rich man to her parents who certifies him and they have given their blessings to them.

The rich man offer to pay me the sum of N1,000,000 to steer clear of his ''wife'' as a contribution to all the assistance I have given her. it is to my credit that she is a graduate.
My girlfriend adviced me to accept the money offered me by her NEW man saying she had kept the affair secret from me because she never wish to hurt me as I am a good man.
What do I do?

InvertedHammer: It is all psychological. Just collect the "pay" and convince yourself that the babe is a witch.

Assuming you wake up one day come hear say the girl don travel Yankee go marry. No contact, no yawa.

What would you have done?

ARES: Listen to the advice of the great one. O ye earthling of little understanding. Good fortune has befallen ye. Follow these next few steps and you will be a happy man
1. Invite the girl over for negotiations
2.Do all the sympathy talk and play the understanding victim
3.You know her a lot more than the old cow, so seduce her in a way she can't resist.
4. Give her the best sex of her life,I am not talking about sex to satisfy you but sex to satisfy her. I am talking about mad crazy head. You have to go to places u haven't gone before and stay there. I'm talking sticky yicky,make the zoom zoom go boom boom,beat that kitty up so bad that when its dead, it will be the only cat in heaven on a wheel chair. Make sure her toes curl and she ends up shaking like an earthquake, so bad that the neighbours will come knocking.
5. For skill aquisation for 4 above, holla at me
6.When all is done,collect the 1m,
7. In due course when she understand that the old man can't give her all that killa sexx, she will remember u, then u've got ur self a cash cow.
8. When its all done, remember to make a sexx tape and post it on NL.
Now go and be wise my son

ceazar:

my friend c'mon shatap...

we are talking money here...u are talking nonsence!

laberry101:

Look don't blame the op abeg! After such investment, his in a very BAD CONFUSED state if y'all don't know.

One thing with this , his pain isn't only the money spent in the gurl oh! His time, body, heart, soul, always wanting to make her happy and above all... The hope of her being his wife!

Then she comes with one dud and says blah blah blah...

Put yourselves in his shoes, emotionally no body would handle it, so y'all saying he did this did that, where's his pride and all, try putting yourself in his shoes and see if any of you will be sane.

vislabraye: We always hear what men do, its good to hear the other side.
The truth is that when a woman wants to leave, there's nothing anyone can do.
The way I see it, the marriage won't work well because the foundation is faulty. Just leave them alone.
This should be a lesson to all men who invest heavily on women hoping to marry them. If you want a wife, go for a graduate.

mike.okiro:
Bro,d gal is a good gal..some gals will marry the man without bathin an eyelid..those kind of gals don't have conscience or feel any guilt...moreover u messed up by even thinkin abt d offer..d best u would hv done was to thank them for the offer and politely remind d gal that you did all those stuffs because u loved her and u never expected her to pay back..dat way u would hv made ur point nd karma would hv fought 4 u..bt as it is nw..u will never get a dime nd the gal back..mark ma word,dem go dey look u like one hungry mofo..ow poor r u dat u will be demandin for money from an ex?o boy me go break any man head for even tellin me such rubbish...wot is 1m?..all these mushin boys sha..nawaoh

I luv wat u said, he just made himself a fool and a fool forever, the little worth the girl has for him is now gone by him negotiating how much to sell the girl to the man, just imagine how it would hv been if he followed it the way u suggested here by thanking her, telling her he did wat he did for her from her mind because of the luv he had for her and turn to the fiance and tell him to take good care of her and wish them the best, i am very sure in this case the man will not see mouth to mention any 1 million naira here and if he do u shorn him by telling him to keep his money that money cant buy true love and true love cant also be sold for any amount of money. you end it up by saying , i wish you the best , goodbye.

brother me, you would hv worth more than the finest gold and diamonth on earth and ur worth would be there forever.

fortyfeet: Too bad!
She is considerate and deserve to be forgiven.
If you need the money, take it and if you don't leave it and bid her farewell. She is not yours.

I have called Ex and she said'' They'' are paying just a million or no deal.


She ask me never to call her again not until I make up my mind on the offer.

sexkillz: Reject the money.

When you were spending it on her, you weren't expecting it back. This is an insult on your person. Do not allow them insult you this way. Even if he makes it 20 million, it will never replace the love you felt for her, and the true motives for what you did.

Reject the money and wish her well. . . What goes around comes around. . . They will be duly rewarded.

Movingcoil: bro reject d money, keep calm, when she gets pregnant, kidnap and kill her period. Since she had d mind 2 choose moni over u, den u should hav d mind 2 do dz also or u can still allow dem 2 wed, wait 4 somtn and cripple her, burn her face wid acid, let her regret ever doin dz but u should do it codedly so dat it won't be traced 2 u, this is exactly wat I'l do 2 any girl dat do dz 2 me period though I no sponsor or even love any girl 2 dat extent