MacLovington: .

But come o. Why is it now that just about every Naija person is a deacon/deaconess or alhaji/hajia that we are on the slippery slope of moral decay in such a bewildering way?

Have we lost the plot completely?
Is there a need for complete re-orientation?

Can we prosper long term if we destroy the essence of the oldest institution in the world (family)?

dayokanu: I know a man who has been married for 37yrs and discovered last yr that his wife had another child before marriage.

The boy he usually sees with the wifes mother who should be like 43yrs old now was actually his wifes first child

The man died earlier this year from stroke

ItsModella:

Are you serious? What level playing field are you on about? This article clearly didn't talk about men who choose to have children outside their marital homes. A woman has a child outside her marital home and keeps her husband out of the loop and you call it level-playing field? Well, I beg to differ from your point of view. This is not a level-playing field rather it is just plain deceitful. Infidelity and deceit should not be justified in the name of "level-playing field"

solidbroda: Shut the Bleep up B-i.t-ch! You moa4kas started d whole sh-it. Yall wanna rob shoulders with men and you don't wanna know yall places. By so doin yo women have destroyed the society which God has peacefully created with man. You women should be humble, not men humble. We can have as many kids from as many women as we desire. This helps the society. But when a woman bleeps around, then she destroys everything a man has ever built. She has destroyed the society. Women, y'all should go check yourselves. You d 1ce that need deliverance. Soon, ill b getting artificial va~gi~na, will be shipped from around the world. Don't need u diseased moa4kas.

ItsModella:
Are you stewpid? Wtf are you spewing? Did you read my post at all? Do you think filling your comment with vulgar words make you sound cool or intelligent? I said infidelity and a deceit by either a man or a woman is not justifiable by anything. I don't see any woman respecting a man like you when you address us in such a derogatory and opprobrious manner...mschew

coogar:

this is nollywood! you mean the secret was kept for 37 yrs? no one told him nothing?

solidbroda: in Senator Patrick voice: women are the most doltish, bemused and derisible creature man has happenstanced before. Go hug transformer since your punny bill has become unpayable. Don't worry, your man will pay up by installments. If he can even pay up self.

ItsModella:
Gosh, who is this f00l? Your post makes zero sense, it's not even in line with my comment. You need the Lord and fast. Good night

FlowerPower: Just saw a picture of a naija guy his wife and kids on a social media site. His little girl is OBVIOUSLY not his. Everyone keeps posting how beautiful the child is and he proudly thanks them. One of the pictures looks strange as his wife and child are standing beside a white man who seems very happy to be with them. FINALLY someone says 'is this daddy??' The mumu says "my colleague". I go die

tpia@:


Are you implying the white man fathered the baby?

masterpiecer: this is terrifying, women and secrets, they can keep secrets for a thousand yrs

PStylish: eheeeeeeeeeennnnnn

If first born no resemble me kperen, my wife go smell pepper.

She had better pray that our first born resemble me wella.

FlowerPower:

The child is obviously 'mixed'. She could pass for a fair skin child in the US, but when she is with her parents and brothers, it is obvious her DNA is from 3rd party. The guy who posted 'is dis daddy??' finally said what everyone was really thinking. I don't know if the white man on the picture is the child's father, but the mom has a worried smile on her face and the white guy is posing as if he is Mr. Cool. I have a feeling 'daddy' is the one who took the picture.

Efemena_xy: Looks like the women in this report are fast learners AND beating the men at their own game. Lol!

Now I do wonder why the men scream foul?

coogar:

this is nollywood! you mean the secret was kept for 37 yrs? no one told him nothing?

mediainspired: Everyday, I thank God for my fiancee. I am soo happy to hav her cos she's pure-minded, a xtian inside-out &has a deep fear of God. Otherwise 4rm all I'v seen, read, heard &experienced, most Nigerian women/girls ar 2-faced, cheats, devious &shameless exploiters. Later dey settle down wit a guy dat knew nothin about dere ugly past &nemesis catches up on dem. In fact, a married woman was tryin 2make me get down wit her just cos of money. Wit dere sly nature, dey alwys belive dey can get wat dey want &get away wit it! Guys, wen a woman talks 2u or asks u sumthin, think twice b4 responding. Most of dem ar 'innocently' dangerous. Ask Adam about Eve. D serpent went to her, not Adam. U know why? Cos she's naturally sly!

Tropilo:

Not only in Nigeria. The popular Hollywood star Jack Nickelson got to know on his 50th birthday that his "sister" was actually his mum.
She got pregnant at 13 had him at 14. The family kept the secret and he grew up in the house as the last-born of the family, thinking his grandma was his mum.
I WONDER HOW THE STAT PLACED NIGERIA AHEAD OF SODOM (USA) AND GOMORA (SOUTH AFRICA).

masterpiecer: this is terrifying, women and secrets, they can keep secrets for a thousand yrs

I beg this is no secret, most of you people here claiming this tribe and that tribe, its a given that at least one of you were brought up by wrong tribe, due to the mother's deceit.

gbadexy: No be news, its well known that there are many bastards among first borns and only the mother knows the father of her child.
That is the reason why they ask for only the person's mother's maiden name for official purpose or spiritual purpose.
I doubt the percentage though, where and when did they conduct their research.

Benito69: Even an illiterate knows this...why not tell us how a child can have the features of a white person, but his dna is that of his mother and her husband?.

This reminds me of one of my friends. He impregnated his girlfriend in school 2yrs ago

At least we are sure that their mothers are their biological mothers.

..... and when we say 'one man - one woman' and 'no pre-marital/extramarital sex', some people start calling you a 'religious bigot'!

tpia@:

"obviously mixed"- what features does the child have that look biracial?

FlowerPower:

@tpia I would post the picture here, but it is a fellow Nairalander...'I dey fear he would get me banned' lol!! Send me an email and I will send the pic to you without his name.