^^^Lmao...

[quote author=freecocoa]As in eh, I remember one guy I met on my trip back from Abuja, the dude was so fine, intelligent and his accent and command of the english language almost turned me on in the bus, he collected my digits but didn't call, after 3 weeks I started wishing I had collected his, after a while I forgot about him only to get a call 2 months after the trip together. Well he apologized and explained that he was out of the country that's why he didn't call. I just form vex small sha come later mellow.[ Vivian,I am the guy your talking about.No jokes.I remember you.08136117075.Please call to confirm if its me really,by asking some questions over the phone,then if I get them right,you know for sure it is me.I want to make up and kinda hook up.

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Awww
Cocoa remember we are married

Vivian,I am the guy your talking about.No jokes.I remember you.08136117075.Please call to confirm if its me really,by asking some questions over the phone,then if I get them right,you know for sure it is me.I want to make up and kinda hook up.

Vivian,I feel I am the guy your talking about.No jokes/games.I remember you.08136117075.Please call to confirm if its me really by asking some questions over the phone about what we talked about during our trip from Abuja,then if I get them right,you know for sure it is me.I want to make up and kinda hook up.I remember you just finished serving and you showed me your NYSC discharge certificate in the bus and other documents.If it is really you,do call.

You are not helping your case, mate.

The repetition of posts is slightly getting to the creepy level of psycho.

Sagamite: You are not helping your case, mate.

The repetition of posts is slightly getting to the creepy level of psycho.

Sagamite: You are not helping your case, mate.

The repetition of posts is slightly getting to the creepy level of psycho.

lol

I had no idea what I wrote had been '' posted ''. I never used nairaland before,a search led me here.I kept reading comments till I saw one that fits like it was ''all'' about me,so I just registered and tried to comment.If I could delete the repetitions,I will.I don't know how.Apologies.And for the records,I am not a psycho.

KingsleyRaymond: I had no idea what I wrote had been '' posted ''. I never used nairaland before,a search led me here.I kept reading comments till I saw one that fits like it was ''all'' about me,so I just registered and tried to comment.If I could delete the repetitions,I will.I don't know how.Apologies.And for the records,I am not a psycho.

You kept reading all the comments on NL before you stumbled upon this?
When did you start the readings abeg? 1965?

PWEETYWIZZY: It has apnd to me also. A guy collectd ma number 4 different tyms, up til nw, he hasnt cald me

hahahahahaha... Dis is funny oo

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Wow wat a thread.this this is just me kind of.
I dont think i do it knowingly but out of not wanting to be sort of a disturbance.
Recently i met a girl who happened to be a former neighbour of mind.i invited her over to a bar we had drinks together and i told her i really had a crush on her but could not tell her due to the fact that we live in same lodge.after the drink i have i didnt even bother to call her.after two weeks she flashed of them i called and told her some lovely crap and promised to call her more often but even after that i continued my old ways.any word for me?

Kelechi2020: Wow wat a thread.this this is just me kind of.
I dont think i do it knowingly but out of not wanting to be sort of a disturbance.
Recently i met a girl who happened to be a former neighbour of mind.i invited her over to a bar we had drinks together and i told her i really had a crush on her but could not tell her due to the fact that we live in same lodge.after the drink i have i didnt even bother to call her.after two weeks she flashed of them i called and told her some lovely crap and promised to call her more often but even after that i continued my old ways.any word for me?

Well do you like her or not? It just means you have to make up your mind whether to engage her or not.

2buff:

Well do you like her or not? It just means you have to make up your mind whether to engage her or not.

that is not easy to decide,cause we all know that relationships are easy to start but hard to maintain

Kelechi2020:
that is not easy to decide,cause we all know that relationships are easy to start but hard to maintain

... Then you not ready. Which is also fine. Each at their own pace. You certainly shouldn't get into a relationship if you're not comfortable about it, more so being the guy.

Calling within 24 - 48 hrs does not in anyway show desperation or immaturity, it only helps keep d rapport on while it's still hot.

Raynord: Calling within 24 - 48 hrs does not in anyway show desperation or immaturity, it only helps keep d rapport on while it's still hot.

Depends on how the girl chooses to read it, mate.

Sagamite:

Depends on how the girl chooses to read it, mate.

To me it's not the "time of calling" that portraits desperation, rather it's d perception you give her through your "conversation" with her.

Raynord:

To me it's not the "time of calling" that portraits desperation, rather it's d perception you give her through your "conversation" with her.

True point.

But as for "it only helps keep d rapport on while it's still hot", it is virtually up to her.

I am sure you have met Nigerian girls before? Even if you are a trained psychiatrist, you can't help most of them if their madness of over-self valuation kicks in and/or their inability to be good conversationalists leads to them using rudeness as a defensive mechanism.

https://www.nairaland.com/1021440/men-always-been-petty-missing/5#11913579

Exactly!...

vivianc:

After letting the phone ring like forever............

Actually, this what I normally do..................

I would collect her number and also save mine on her phone under the pretense that I don't like re introduction on the phone when I call..

And I will never call her..............
Eventually she will call me.......................

And this having working for me............

PWEETYWIZZY:
It has apnd to me also. A guy collectd ma number 4 different tyms, up til nw, he hasnt cald me

thats exactly my kind of pers0n. We no get tym to call.

Since u know that u are busy u shouldn't have collected the number in the first place

cindyJenny1994:
Since u know that u are busy u shouldn't have collected the number in the first place

give me your number I promise I'll call

Real men don't try to call girls or build relationships through phone calls.
A real man never calls any girl on phone.
The ONLY VALID REASON TO CALL IS WHEN YOU WANT TO INVITE HER TO YOUR HOUSE. Cut all the crap and just call the new girl on Friday night to come over to your house on Saturday/Sunday.

If you are still calling a girl on phone to discuss anything apart from invitation, then you are no real man.

dangerzone:

ride on b-girl

Mumu