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Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:38pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
moreeni: My daughter, how are you 1 Like |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:40pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
all4naija: Why is it rubbish?! It is the same mentality used to enslave women all over the world. If both of them agree to be together there is nothing important about the age.PERIOD! What concerns this topic with PERIOD 1 Like |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by charlesditro: 7:41pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
Getting married to a girl older than you is like you taking care of the kitchen while she runs the office. |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by k2039: 7:42pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
obyrich: Guy you reason like a diode. In a family, nobody knows who dies first. If a 70 year old man leaves a widow of 60 nothing is wrong with that. How many Nigerians live to up 70? Popowaa: u can marry smone who is four yrs older dan u n he can still die n leave u kumbalo: frond:I get your point(I'm not disputing that). But thats not enough reason not to do some projections(assuming an ideal state) I understand their are deviations from ideality,but only few men and women will pray to die early Besides,for crying out loud,I said average(I hope you guys understand what average means,I already factored that in) |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by ipromise: 7:43pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
all4naija: Why is it rubbish?! It is the same mentality used to enslave women all over the world. If both of them agree to be together there is nothing important about the age.PERIOD!hmmmmmm çåñ u marry sum1 that is 6yrs older than u? |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by StepG: 7:47pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
Xplodes2700: Age is definitely an issue, it makes me sick hearing a 25yrs old girl even dating a 35yrs old guy, in my own opinion i feel the age difference shud be @ least four years@most four years u mean. |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:49pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
ipromise: hmmmmmm çåñ u marry sum1 that is 6yrs older than u?Sure! Even more. As long as we come to term with each other. |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:52pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
val_dubem: Age or No Age, Love is Blind Yea luv is blind, but still need to move with a stick |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by maygah(f): 7:57pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
Morayo747: I think what you meant here is *@ most 4 years* . You are somewhat clueless I think..my wife is 9years younger than myself and we are happy. What are you on about??u re rit. my dad is 10 yrs older than my mom & dey are happy together. They are peers. I can't date or marry a man who is only few yrs older , but that's not to say I also want so much age differnt btw me & my husband. 1 Like |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Compudoms(m): 8:01pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
An uncle of mine left his wife for a younger woman. His reason was that when people come to ask for the wife, they ask him 'sir we want to see your MOTHER'. The age difference was 5 years and they were married for only 25yrs. Women age faster than men so i think the age diff should be much, if u don't want people to one day call ur wife ur MOMSEY 2 Likes |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Popowaa: 8:06pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
k2039:u can marry smone who is four yrs older dan u n he can still die n leave u |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by lukade: 8:09pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
martyns303:its only a stupid female that will be unwilling to settle down at the age of 25.lets think of it from the flipside;dont you think it will be lovely for you to be in your early sixties while your wife is in he early fifthies.also,if you are 64yrs and wife is 60yrs.women age quicker than men so the age diffrence of 10yrs is ok.though it may appear too wide at the start of the relationship but more resonable later.their body chemistry change greatly in their early fourties.thats the main reason most men without adequate knowledge of this flirt with younger girls |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by tiwasiaife(m): 8:15pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
Xplodes2700: Age is definitely an issue, it makes me sick hearing a 25yrs old girl even dating a 35yrs old guy, in my own opinion i feel the age difference shud be @ least four yearsi totally disagree with u. Ten yrs is nt a vry big gap. Marriage/rlatnshp has to do with maturity. Ask ur dad and mum hw old they r and u wil be suprise the big gap yet they live as friend. U want a gal that wil get older than u wen ur clocking 50 so that u wil start looking for smal gals outside. Bekiaful o. 1 Like |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Smartiegurl(f): 8:26pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
2 me i can't jst involve ma self with a 30yrs old dude or with a 17yrs old boy! Like seriously they aint gonna thnk like u, dat of 17yrs old wil always thnk lyk a baby whle dat of 30yrs old wil alwaz try 2 remind u dat u aint his mate or somthng, or beta stil man handle u! So 2 me age matters!! |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by P4VS20: 8:34pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
as for me oh, min 5 years, max 15 yrs. lol. why, MOST women grow older living with a guy. they become less playful grown women in all things, its like they become too serious, those re not fun at all. and i dont want the boy in me to be lonely. esp african ladies...grrrr. going interracial. , i shall miss the heavy loads which those oyinbos dont have , but whatever. looooool. |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Florena(f): 8:35pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
Smartie gurl: 2 me i can't jst involve ma self with a 30yrs old dude or with a 17yrs old boy! Like seriously they aint gonna thnk like u, dat of 17yrs old wil always thnk lyk a baby whle dat of 30yrs old wil alwaz try 2 remind u dat u aint his mate or somthng, or beta stil man handle u! So 2 me age matters!!only if d man did nt love u then he wil always remember u re nt his mate, but if love exist btw d 2 of u then u guys wil actually bcom d best of friends and he wil even 4get abt d age difference, talkin 4rm experience 2 Likes |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Wendyslim(f): 8:37pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
Age is not a big deal in a relationship all dat is needed is understanding 2 Likes |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Okworigeorge(m): 8:40pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
richarts:....RIP ENGLISH |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by salt1: 8:41pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
ebizswit: Someone, about 37 is proposing, nd am 22, though he looks under 30sha...is d age difference way too much? Follow your gut instincts. Age shouldn't be the only consideration. Just be certain that, at 22, you are ready to cope physically and emotionally with wifehood. One danger of marrying a bit early is that later, you may feel that you sacrificed your youth and so may be tempted to adultery. Especially if you didn't finish university education. @topic, age difference is a cultural thing. Yorubas generally marry their age-mates or the woman may even be slightly older. People suspect that is why they are polygamous because their wives age faster than them. A man of 60 doesn't think he is as old as a woman of 60. Igbos generally marry women up to or more than 10yrs younger than them. They want until they hammer and then bring in a young wife to enjoy it and give them children. Marrying a young girl ensures you have a residential nurse even in your old age, and not a grandma needing care too. Hausas? Make I no talk! We all know they catch them young. Love is blind,eh? Someone said that at age 15 or 16, it's not only blind but is also deaf and dumb! 2 Likes |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Smartiegurl(f): 8:41pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
Florena:datz wah they alwaz want us 2 beliv. To me i ain't gonna involve ma self. |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by starpon1: 8:42pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
Nna abeg help me ask am oh DailyNews: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by ipromise: 8:44pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
Wendyslim: Age is not a big deal in a relationship all dat is needed is understandingone of my ex-gf took 3yrs from më, when ℓ̊ found out i took to my heel... |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Florena(f): 8:44pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
Smartie gurl: datz wah they alwaz want us 2 beliv. To me i ain't gonna involve ma self.different pple, wit different opinion but u might never knw when dis thing they call love begin 2 dramatize in one's life |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by lukade: 8:46pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
kcreal: A friend of mine is getting married to a guy she is 9yrs older than. How about that?love cant be that blind |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Florena(f): 8:47pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
ipromise: one of my ex-gf took 3yrs from më, when ℓ̊ found out i took to myb4 u found out, re u in any way tired of d relationship or is there any difference in hw u feel |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by dober(m): 8:48pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
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Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Smartiegurl(f): 8:49pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
Florena:lolzz! Exactly, buh i pray love does'nt drive me go dat way!! |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by kumbalo(m): 8:51pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
k2039:another overgrown kid. Think you should go bak to mama and stop accessing adult content on the internet. 1 Like |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by Okworigeorge(m): 9:03pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
richarts: Vicky and berem whats the matters? Why must you quotes my replying if you do not understood? I just doesnt like how nairalanders characteristic.....a minute silent 4 English, RIP ENGLISH |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by anitank(f): 9:08pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
esere826: when I was very young, I felt it was silly for a girl to date someone much older than herself (max 2 years older). Anything younger was acceptablemusing?......or jonzing? |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by SELFWORTH: 9:09pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
Compudoms: An uncle of mine left his wife for a younger woman. His reason was that when people come to ask for the wife, they ask him 'sir we want to see your MOTHER'. The age difference was 5 years and they were married for only 25yrs. One day, the young woman will also dump him for someone younger when he is too old to fulfil his marital duties . |
Re: Who Says Age Is Not A Problem In A Relationship? by SELFWORTH: 9:16pm On Nov 29, 2012 |
kaboninc: Why? Does the age of both parties guarantee the success of the marriage ? 1 Like |
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