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Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 9:23am On Dec 30, 2012 |
Men like pursuing women tht use and abuse them |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by FXKing2012(m): 9:28am On Dec 30, 2012 |
mondi_cheeks: Men like pursuing women tht use and abuse them hmnnnnn...... |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by 2good(m): 9:37am On Dec 30, 2012 |
mondi_cheeks: Men like pursuing women tht use and abuse themOnly poor men.chase women these days, The last time I chased a woman for more than 1 week was during my Unilag undergraduate days when I used to be broke. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by FXKing2012(m): 11:29am On Dec 30, 2012 |
2good: Only poor men.chase women these days, The last time I chased a woman for more than 1 week was during my Unilag undergraduate days when I used to be broke. I concur. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by 2good(m): 11:49am On Dec 30, 2012 |
FXKing2012: Finally we agreed on one thing. lol! |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by FXKing2012(m): 11:52am On Dec 30, 2012 |
2good: I'm equally surprised (lol) |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 2:51pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
God will not let it be in my portion to chase any woman. I have pursued some naija girls in the past. All the chivalry, opening doors, dinner dates etc. That is in my past now. Naija girls respond to one language only. MONEY. Does he have a car? What car does he drive? Where does he stay? Does he work in a multinational or oil company? Not against naija women but it is wat it is. Many poor pple in naija. Or should I say greedy. Materialism is the order of the day. I'll rather spend my time chasing my career or money and meet a wonderful woman along the way. When u're successful women chase u and u pick. When u're still hustling u chase women and they pick. The choice is urs. PS: There are still some girls who will stand by u in ur trying times. U jst need to look well. And mature women don't require too much chasing. It's only small girls that don't knw what they want. 9 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by CzarChris(m): 7:41pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
12 inches!:Case closed, End of Discussion. QED 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 1:29am On Dec 31, 2012 |
12 inches!:Your so on point there Bruv 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by adim2(m): 3:11pm On Dec 31, 2012 |
@op How do you expect men to chase a lady dat dances with only bra and pant in olamide, iyanya, dbanj and the rest artist video? How do you expect men to chase ladies that smokes cigar & igbo nowadays? And also ladies that can consumer a whole brewery at one sitting? How do you expect men to chase a lady that parties all her life out? Or a lady you see from afar and you cannot see any atom of virtue in her. How do you expect a guy to chase a lady that you have not even made your intentions known to her and she is demanding for a recharge card? Or how do you expect us to chase a lady that boldly tells you make money first and then come after me. Gone are those days when boys where deceived with movies like "for better for worse"" behind τ̲̅ђe clouds" where u see a guy using all his might and time to chase after a lady. Nowadays we are in the era of movies like "for money for stay" "facebook and 2go love" and men now are smarter. You chase success like usain bolt and then allow the ladies to chase and follow you like twitter. By then, you go know say ladies too sabi toast o. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Yvete(f): 5:30pm On Dec 31, 2012 |
12 inches!: The fact that you recognize the bolded is a good thing. These days there are Naija men that are after money too especially with 'big' family names, parents careers, etc. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by kpolli(m): 5:43pm On Dec 31, 2012 |
Yvete: Lies. . . Only place I have seen this is on NL |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Yvete(f): 5:55pm On Dec 31, 2012 |
kpolli: hahahaha!!! kpolli so you're here tooo? |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Yvete(f): 5:57pm On Dec 31, 2012 |
kpolli: Lies. . . Only place I have seen this is on NL I'm very sure of what i'm talking about. People associate with you for selfish reasons. This is what ive experienced all my life. Believe me. looool. You've left those people for romance too? hehehee |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by kpolli(m): 6:13pm On Dec 31, 2012 |
Yvete: I followed you ooo, am going back there. . . . Well it's a human thing that has always been around so don't make it seem as if it's a naija male issue. . . . Now going back to where grow ups are |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 3:31pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
ChopUrMoni:At the end of the quest/pursue will you say a YES to both men? will you marry both men? one will sure be griefed thinking time and resources was wasted on an uncertain pursue imagine same agriefed guy pursue two or three girls for 2 or 3 years and end up with a 'NO' that will mean he spent about 9 years chasing the wind +spend moni for 3 years on a girl dat will endup saying no (chop ur moni you are wicked) also what is the guarantee that one chases a girl for that long will find her worth it? atleast the women of old had virtue and are worth being pursued. |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by rocso: 3:55pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
ChopUrMoni: Have you ever played hide and seek? If you have, then you know that once the person has been found by the finder its not the end of the game. The person found must run and the finder would have to pursue until they have caught them. Then and only then is the the game over.we got to chase money with same time,cos without the money we aint getting no love. |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 6:04pm On Sep 11, 2013 |
jpiliya: I read her nonsense too. Basically all I see is a little girl complaining because she was hoping to let down and disappoint more men in her life. She can't stomach the fact that she only has 2 pursuers. Smart Men have better things to do with their time than to have it disrespected by someone who for all they know has had 26 abortions. Back in the day, women were more guarded and you were sure you would be getting the following: - A virgin - A woman that respects you enough to kneel when she serves your food - Many other things I don't see with the women of this generation So don't expect all that rubbish if you know you cannot give the same in return as expected. The sooner you wake up from your fairy tale and face the real world the better for you. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by pleep(m): 6:51am On Sep 13, 2013 |
^ Amen. I cannot stand pursing a chick when i know she was slept with sooooooo many other dudes. My attitude is; take it or leave it hoe 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by legendprac(m): 8:45am On Sep 13, 2013 |
Chase/pursue women n go bankrupt.... Chase/pursue d paper and watch ladies chase u..... 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 11:17am On Sep 13, 2013 |
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Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by afrokid(m): 4:05pm On Sep 13, 2013 |
Abeg, make dem gals go look bush, I've got my mind on my money, my money on my mind! |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by EejaNla01(m): 4:24pm On Sep 13, 2013 |
Double post. |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by EejaNla01(m): 4:25pm On Sep 13, 2013 |
It feels good to know we guys are now upright and operate with our brain and not our With these,our women ill change with time 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 9:26pm On Sep 13, 2013 |
Many of ladies this days are indecent then how will someone b wasting time with them, is better to remain focus n when u arrive they do the chasing n u choose the dececnt one among them. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by drnoel: 9:22am On Sep 14, 2013 |
Why would a man pursue a woman when he is already pursued by university and poly girls |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 8:27pm On Sep 14, 2013 |
"My name is malam Iliya ... I was born when men were men and women were won by men who deserved them" - The Passport of Mallam Iliya 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 9:48pm On Sep 14, 2013 |
Funny ....... Women rather pursue |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by filani(m): 2:03pm On Sep 15, 2013 |
First posted on this thread ages ago, judging by majority of male posters response I'm so glad that a number of us guys have decided to wise up. Stay focused on your academics/career, make that paper and all the trappings that come with it and the world will be your oyster. The truth of the matter is that most of the BS we guys go through in relationships is not because we have to but because WE ALLOW IT !!! Who decided that men/guys are to be the ones perpetually doing the chasing? Who decided that a girls time , energy, emotions is worth more than mine as a guy? Who decided that because the letter of the bible says "He that findeth a wife..." Automatically means that I as a Good Man am not worthy of being 'found' by a discerning woman as well? P.S I said 'Woman' not little girls claiming woman. Albert Einstein said 'The definition of INSANITY is doing the same action, in exactly the same way over and over again and honestly believing you will get a different result !!!' If we guys want to be taken seriously in relationships, we cannot afford to come to the table with a beggarly mindset and think that we will be treated rightly. As a guy by all means be respectful to the girl in your life but make it very clear to her from the onset that love,respect, chasing/wooing is a Two way street. Don't allow any girl to demand from you what she herself can't or won't give back to you!!! 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Femmhi: 3:00pm On Sep 15, 2013 |
Lovely. |
Re: Why Are Men No Longer Pursuing Women? by Nobody: 3:04pm On Sep 15, 2013 |
It's true kpolli: |
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