honeric01:

U dey deny her ni? i go tell

pls tell

Halliema:



Plan B for 7years When will the planB manifest ?[color=#990000]

I wonder o!

Alert: @tpacalipse, i am forced to contribute because of your "toxic comments".This thread has been hijacked by your selfish comments and poor OP is yet to get a solution. I don't know how a woman can keep up with that, no love, no affection, no attention, no money ...well i dont know what she is after. probably she is in love with your status, guess you are a rich guy with nice crib and car, so thats all she has just your 'rich' image and again i thought is either this girl is aging or she has low esteem or she is desperate(to be married) or never has been loved in her life that made her hang on. now to you are just satisfied marrying a doormat? don't you have any feelings for her to the extent you willing to share your love, time and money? well i don't know what your motive for being in a relationship is, so i wont judge sorry

You are 100 percent wrong Mr.

tpacalipse: Bros, my eye don see. Wetin people no call me. When I was doing my post graduate and I had nothing in my pocket, I was told I had no future by some people cause I was dating their daughter. They called me for meeting several times and they told me either I get a job or I leave their daughter because they did not see any future in what I was doing. They went as far as visiting pastors just because they were looking for someone who b financing them. When I was thru with my MSc and registered for a PhD program all hell broke lose. I was invited again and this time around they told me Bleep off behind their daughter since all I know is to stay in school and I was called unserious. It is a long story and I cant say much here. Let those who think I am mad continue to think so. I have found a method that works for me and it might definitely not work for any other person in relationship. And those relationship genious here, will dinorce ten times before my marriage which I have not even done will be two years old. Mtcheew.

Na wa o! Dis guy ex don turn am to Hitler o! smh!

nomsochris: Tpacalipse i feel u nd to b truthful its guys like u that get very amazing women. I wonder how u guys do it....but i tell u bro u must learn to bend. If u dnt, marriage ll teach u to bend..you must learn that everything isnt black nd white if it were so then the rainbows wont be so beautiful nd spectacular...i like the fact that u stand ur grounds but u must loosen up a bit. Always remember that a happy wife equals a happy home. Your inlaws re nt ur enemies, i feel that u dont come from the same tribe as she does (just a hunch) and due to rumours u may have heard u try to make sure that u re never being used. Life is nt do or die, learn to enjoy it and appreciate those that brighten it up 4 u....goodluck man.....really wish many of our men reasoned in ur direction, these women no go dey use us play.

Thank you very much. I come frm a background that believes a responsible parent lives inheritance for their children's children and she is frm a background that believes; I have sent u to school, now my child star feeding me. You see the problem? She thought they were right until I made her understand they were wrong.

Anyone can say I hijacked this thread, it is unintentional and I appologise to the creator of the thread; do I even create threads myself? And if I am full of myself, yes, it is required and I give no damn about that. Everyone is entitled to his or her own opinion. No man is good except God so, what the heck? I am finally outa here. Mtchew!

tpacalipse: Bros, my eye don see. Wetin people no call me. When I was doing my post graduate and I had nothing in my pocket, I was told I had no future by some people cause I was dating their daughter. They called me for meeting several times and they told me either I get a job or I leave their daughter because they did not see any future in what I was doing. They went as far as visiting pastors just because they were looking for someone who b financing them. When I was thru with my MSc and registered for a PhD program all hell broke lose. I was invited again and this time around they told me Bleep off behind their daughter since all I know is to stay in school and I was called unserious. It is a long story and I cant say much here. Let those who think I am mad continue to think so. I have found a method that works for me and it might definitely not work for any other person in relationship. And those relationship genious here, will dinorce ten times before my marriage which I have not even done will be two years old. Mtcheew.

bros,u lie with passion. #likeAboss

tpacalipse: We have dated for seven years and getting married by April this year though the delay was frm her not me. We have had issues expecially frm her parents. I crushed all those bullshits from them with impunity. Her parents now refer to me as the guy who deos not know how o talk becos I rejected all the bullshitting frm them from them. She once told me she wanted out for some months to sort out herself and to see if I am really d one for her because of my xter. I told her she can go but nobody returns to my life once she has left. Then she changed her mind immidiately. The truth of the matter is that I have suffered so much to get to where I am and really, I am not afraid of losing any relationship.

.... From ur Quote the Girl is just a robot to u and she has no mind and word of her own.... I pray for God to Help u cus ur principles might one day turn her into a rebellious Wife. I wish u all the best. As for me I can't get married to a military minded guy like u cus Na everyday we go dey fight and quarrel.

Darey_00:
bros,u lie with passion. #likeAboss

.... You are just being wicked and heartless! Treating an innocent girl bad bcus of wat other ladies have done to u in the past..... With no disrespect, Education without a good character and respect for others is like having a Ph.D in illiteracy and Self Indiscipline. Change ur ways!!!

With all these comments,i can see clearly that your first love will either make or mar your love life.Just like me,ever since have been heart broken i find it difficult to love wholeheartedly,all have been doing is just play along and right now with tpacalipse's story,i find it more cumbersome.

tpacalipse: I make her understand from time to time that I work very hard for my money, hence, I am not a father xmas. I make know that gold digging will never be permitted around me. I make her understand that her parents' opinions do not count in my home and any intrussion frm them will never be tolerated. I make her understand that I got no business impressing no body among her family and I shud not be expected to perform some functions just because her sisters' fiances do. That I am too busy to call all the time she desires; whenever I called shud be accepted like that. I make her understand that I gat no business with her friends, so she shud keep them off my back. I make her know that she can do whatever she wants as long as she is not interfering with my business and also as long as I am not paying for her excesses.

Wow unreal!! and what are hers for you? I have to wonder if you love her

snthesis:
cant, dnt date guys, so i wudnt knw,
all i knw is dat i'm sweet, hot caring, athletic, 12inch packing, and i go all nyt nonstop

Clap for yourself

paulworld: I just need your contributions because am having problems in my relation, What are the things you do or try doing that kept your current or terminated your recent relation.

Honesty and communication are the key, as well as love, love can overcome anything

We have sexx
No, on a more serious note love your partner for who they are and talk talk talk about anything and everything with each other. And laugh too, that helped us.

casket: Things that help my relationship to grow are -
1, Good communication in terms of content and duration
2, Tolerance
3, Trust
4, Readiness to forgive
5. MONEY
6. I made my babe my best friend !!!

True talk.In addition readiness to learn-remember ur upbringing defers,Just be ur natural self.Remember to apply Gods principle of marriage in ur daily affairs.

oyinbogirl:

Clap for yourself

clapping

Every relationship has it ups and downs and it is personal,your experince is in all sort different to mine. What i will only advice is to keep on being patience to every of your partners ills and be quick to forgive for there's no angel among men. Settle you differences among one another without other ppl interferrring.

it's often been said that it's the little things in life that make all the difference.No where is this truer than when it comes to keeping your relationship alive, growing and vibrant. Romance can be one of those things that keeps a relationship fresh and exciting.

Romance can be taking a trip down memory lane.Visit where you went on your first date or some other place that holds significance for the two of you. It's very romantic for the two of us to visit the natural setting where we went on our first date and said those words you use to woe her...like

I wanna be the one you hold all the time
I wanna be the one holding your heart
I wanna be the one caressing your face, in your embrace
I wanna be the one you kiss at this moment
I wanna be the one you miss every minute
I wanna be the one you love all the way
I wanna be the one who can make you happy
I wanna be the one who completes your life
Because you are the only one who can make me feel this way

I forgot to add...i 4.kk ha real good dt's y sh keeps comin arnd

obicentlis: tpacalipse has said it all! Be your real safe, adjust only bad manners but stand firmly on your principles. If she really likes you, she gonna adjust and cope for good!

I hope it goes both ways...