Dondav: I support the dude.. And yes, I'll be glad if my mum actually aborted me! No one told me I'll have to sweat Day and Night to make ends meet..

Mynd_44:
I read your post and saw you signature. The guy has the blame too.

No one said he has to marry the girl but he has to support the child should the girl choose to keep the baby

Adaeze003:
Ya, the boy has to be blamed and that's what I meant by 'she was as irresponsible as HE WAS'. Girls should understand that they're always at the receiving end. A girl and a guy decide to be reckless,the guy walks and she gets preg. What if he's nt ready for a kid? The op said he's broke sef so how will he support the said kid? Yeah I know everyone is saying ' he should have been careful if he isn't ready for a kid' but guess what? The girl has every right to refuse unsafe sex.

I'm not trying to say the guy is right for trying to ditch her n her baby, that's irresponsible as well. I just think that girls should learn from this. Nuff said.

Adaeze003: ^^ Rape is a different story but do you really think a girl and her rapist will have a debate on if to keep a child or not? I don't think so.

Adaeze003: ^^ Rape is a different story but do you really think a girl and her rapist will have a debate on if to keep a child or not? I don't think so.

freecocoa: It is very much possible just like mynd has pointed out.

Men r*pe their wives talk more of ordinary bf and gf, I strongly believe the OP is the guy in question and I think we all know the kind of person he is from his posts.

Exponental: Poster n friend are birds of d same feather...... He has an irresponsible friend and he is bold enough 2 celebrate him.

Mynd_44:
But let's treat this as he said. No reason the assume

freecocoa: I'm not assuming sha, just trying to make Ada see something.

kimberluge:
Do u know if she was raped? The OP himself sounds like a molestor,I wnt b surprised. U know wat dey say about birds of a feather flockin 2geda n showin ur frds n tellin who u r?

Mynd_44:
Well he might be her BF but mollested her then asks for forgiveness claiming to be drunk or possesed. It happens a lot

freecocoa: It is very much possible just like mynd has pointed out.

Men r*pe their wives talk more of ordinary bf and gf, I strongly believe the OP is the guy in question and I think we all know the kind of person he is from his posts.

ubong560: U now c y money is d major setback on y u c many well matured singles around ur neighborhod (a thread dscussed few days ago)? If actually dis guy is bouyant enough financially, i do not c any reason y he shldnt receiv d pregnancy wit thanks to God afterall he's abv 25. But currently he's broke and cannot father a child at d moment. Wat's dffcult 2 understnd there? Apparently, nobody derives pleasure in terminatng pregnancy, but wen u r not financially based 2 handle such, even ur psychological mind is also on d contrast wit d idea of keepng d pregnancy. He's not ready and he's not ready. That's d real fact and i hate an "imposed marriage".

Girls wise up abeg. S*x is a nature calling 2 both gender and wch compliments d both parties. D fact dat s*x was done RAW doesnt mean anything dat coms out of it must be kept unless d girl is desperate (wch is commnly practiced among our ladies).Wise up girls!!! Whoever shal marry u shall definitely marry u, not until u use pregnancy as a yardstick.

ubong560: Ve Just spken with a friend of mine dis evening wen he told me his gf has come up wit a pregnancy issue and since he really luvs her and didnt want to hurt her feelings, "he managed to calm her down bt later told her some contraceptvs must be used to get rid of d newly formation" (mhen, he is hurting her already, what if she dies in the process whic kine luv be that?!. Adamantly, d girl refused but said she wants to kip it. D guy in question is still in school and only hustles to pay his school fees wch such responsibity of fathering a child is d least thought in his head now yah, cos he is a kid. grown men dont kill their children. D girl in question had only a small job doing where she earns only abt 30k per month and she's slept with a school boi. Would that be enough to take care of d 1room family responsibilities?
oooh now there is responsiblity involved. when the humping was going on, what was that called? a rush of blood

Why shld a girl wit her right senses wants to keep pregnancy for a guy in such condition (why would a guy who is still trying to make ends meet in his right senses have sex with a lady when he has the responsiblilty of school to think about) even wen d pregnancy hasnt gone any far? (far to where? thats a life we re talking about Is she desperate for marriage? was he that desperate for sex to hang his future on a balance? What could be d motive 4 dis? what could he his motive for that. who pulled his pants down?, why didnt he run away from her when agro came knocking on the door

I think d guy is deeply thinking on how to deal wit her if she continues to say she must keep it. i think the guy should man up, accept his kid and adjust his life like he adjusted the zip of his shokoto

Maybe total denial wil teach her a big lesson. Nonsense! too late, he shudda denied him self a long time ago. rubbish!

ubong560: U now c y money is d major setback on y u c many well matured singles around ur neighborhod (a thread dscussed few days ago)? If actually dis guy is bouyant enough financially, i do not c any reason y he shldnt receiv d pregnancy wit thanks to God afterall he's abv 25. But currently he's broke and cannot father a child at d moment. Wat's dffcult 2 understnd there? Apparently, nobody derives pleasure in terminatng pregnancy, but wen u r not financially based 2 handle such, even ur psychological mind is also on d contrast wit d idea of keepng d pregnancy. He's not ready and he's not ready. That's d real fact and i hate an "imposed marriage".

Girls wise up abeg. S*x is a nature calling 2 both gender and wch compliments d both parties. [b]D fact dat s*x was done RAW doesnt mean anything dat coms out of it must be kept [/b]unless d girl is desperate (wch is commnly practiced among our ladies).Wise up girls!!! Whoever shal marry u shall definitely marry u, not until u use pregnancy as a yardstick.

ubong560: Mund, wen last did u use condom on ur real girlfrnd posiibly d one u've dated for more dan a year. Say d real truth to urself and do away wit sentiment?. WHEN?

ITbomb:
Shake my head at such irresponsibility
And they say they are leaders of tomorrow.
If he was not ready to be a father why do something that will make him a father. Ever heard of the principle of cause and effect?
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For your question to Mynd, personally I'm always using a condom and in cases where is suddenly hold us I risk withdrawal.

Mynd_44:
Well, to me if there is no condom available, I am not interested in sex.
Simple

freecocoa: Seriously and honestly, many people who think themselves in love with their partners(bf\gf) often don't use condoms, now if you decide you or your girl enjoys it better skin to skin then use the withdrawal method(which isn't a guarantee) or better still put the girl on contraceptives.

Honestly eh, since it always end up with the girl being the victim, we girls should know how to take care of ourselves, use after morning pills if you are not on the pill, you have atleast 72 hours to do something before it becomes late haba

freecocoa: Seriously and honestly, many people who think themselves in love with their partners(bf\gf) often don't use condoms, now if you decide you or your girl enjoys it better skin to skin then use the withdrawal method(which isn't a guarantee) or better still put the girl on contraceptives.

Honestly eh, since it always end up with the girl being the victim, we girls should know how to take care of ourselves, use after morning pills if you are not on the pill, you have atleast 72 hours to do something before it becomes late haba