Mynd_44:
And how does that protect her or him against HIV?

I wanted to write in that post that pregnancy isn't the only reason why protection should be used but also to prevent STDs, now read the posts of people here, does it look to you like they worry about that?

They are more interested in the pregnancy thingy hence my advice.

Flytefalls:

@mynd no it does not protect against HIV, so we encourage testing!!

Maybe we should ask how many of the guys here having unprotected sèx know their status not to talk of that of their spouse

freecocoa: I wanted to write in that post that pregnancy isn't the only reason why protection should be used but also to prevent STDs, now read the posts of people here, does it look to you like they worry about that?

They are more interested in the pregnancy thingy hence my advice.

Now that is sad. Real sad

@Mazi_Omenuko, thank u brother and may God bless u 4 being sincere here. Dont mind those pretenders here ranting wat they cannot/havnt done 1% of it. They kip bla bla bla as if it wasnt dem that did d last abortion. Am even more dissapointd on guys. WTF. GUYS? God, some pple can pretend. Honestly! All d guys spewing frivolous posts here, wen last did u accept responsibility frm ur gf wen she said she was pregnant as a result of sex u had wit her? I personally knw guys would do d last thing on earth just to get a pregnancy aborted frm a girl but here on nl, every guy is a responsibility acceptor. Am really surprised honestly. Talk more of girls, if all girls claim innocent of never committd abortion, how com d doctors in dis profession are doin so well in d society? Wld've expected them to die of hunger since no clients com into thier offices for biz. Hypocrites full nl. TUFIAKWA!

@mund, wonder y u cant tell urself d truth and shame d devil. ALWAYS used condom on ur girl? I don hear u!

ubong560:

@mynd, wonder y u cant tell urself d truth and shame d devil. ALWAYS used condom on ur girl? I don hear u!

Why is that too hard to believe? Just because you do something does not mean everyone else does it you know

Mynd_44:
Now that is sad. Real sad

Its is o my dear.

Dondav: I support the dude.. And yes, I'll be glad if my mum actually aborted me! No one told me I'll have to sweat Day and Night to make ends meet..

lwkmd

If only people would learn to rise up to their responsibilities the way their 'ahem' rises up when they want to do the do.

Mynd_44:
Maybe we should ask how many of the guys here having unprotected sèx know their status not to talk of that of their spouse

It has been asked. People aren't responsible. People want skin to skin contact. People don't want STI's or unwanted pregnancies. All we can do is meet people in the middle with a message of "if you are going to have pre-marital sex /casual sex, engage in safer sex". This is the real world, you can't force people to think like you.

Flytefalls:
It has been asked. People aren't responsible. People want skin to skin contact. People don't want STI's or unwanted pregnancies. All we can do is meet people in the middle with a message of "if you are going to have pre-marital sex /casual sex, engage in safer sex". This is the real world, you can't force people to think like you.

Now you are getting my point. I said both the guy and the girl are both responsible for what happened but you can not force the girl to terminate the pregnancy neither can you blame her for keeping it. The man should have known what he was getting into when he decided to have sèx without condom

Like the OP said; who knows if it were the girl's decision to have raw sex. It could be.

My ex class mate was deceived by his own girlfriend in November. The girl initiated the whole idea and that they should go for HIV test which they did and was both -ve. The reason was to have raw s.ex

When my friend told me, I asked him : " are you ready to be a father"?. unfortunately he did not see the hand writing on the wall but I did. I said what if she get preggy, he said the girl will take drugs and that her sisters are nurses (what a fool he was/is). He was so excited.

They went on with the act and I asked him: how was it? he said "it was so sweet"

By January, she took in... I told him to go check and he they confirmed it was true. They however go rid of it but she initially refused and said before she would remove it, the guy should promise that he would marry her.

Na laugh I just dey laugh since.

The only thing he later told me was : guy na true u been dey tell me that time oh. if I KNOW i for listen to you.

Some girls are silly...

^^
Which makes it the responsiblity of both parties.

2sexy: Like the OP said; who knows if it were the girl's decision to have raw sex. It could be.

My ex class mate was deceived by his own girlfriend in November. The girl initiated the whole idea and that they should go for HIV test which they did and was both -ve. The reason was to have raw s.ex

When my friend told me, I asked him : " are you ready to be a father"?. unfortunately he did not see the hand writing on the wall but I did. I said what if she get preggy, he said the girl will take drugs and that her sisters are nurses (what a fool he was/is). He was so excited.

They went on with the act and I asked him: how was it? he said "it was so sweet"

By January, she took in... I told him to go check and he they confirmed it was true. They however go rid of it but she initially refused and said before she would remove it, the guy should promise that he would marry her.

Na laugh I just dey laugh since.

The only thing he later told me was : guy na true u been dey tell me that time oh. if I KNOW i for listen to you.

Some girls are silly...

You always have a story to relate to. You must have had a lot of experiences. Nice...

mondi_cheeks: Why shud a girl in her right senses terminate a pregnancy and risk the chances of not being able to conceive simply because the other party doesn't want to leave up to his responsibility...well if it means he has to drop out of school at get 3 damn jobs to take care of that child then he should! If u are men enough to have unprotected sex then u better be man enough to deal with the consequences that come with it! This is absolute horse sh*t!!! there is nothing wrong wit her brains, she made a mistake and she is making up for it...at least it shows she is responsible

Wow! Well said.

Vanneni: You always have a story to relate to. You must have had a lot of experiences. Nice...

just follow me bumper to bumper and you will learn a lot.

2sexy: just follow me bumper to bumper and you will learn a lot.

Lol. You're now one of my mentors.

Vanneni: Lol. You're now one of my mentors.

oh yeah? hmmm... we will learn a lot. Hope you will teach me what I dont know too?

Actually, it is only a fool that will wait to make all the mistake in life and learn from it. i sabi learn from other people tori oh. I am very observant. Actually, my friend thought that because he had more experience with girls, he knew better than I do and that was a more reason why he refused to listen to me... and the girl probably told him that she would take drugs after the sex... which she never did.

I told him that she wanted to trap him with the pregnancy but he did not believe me... but subsequent event unfolded and proved me right.

Till date na master or boss he dey call me...

2sexy: oh yeah? hmmm... we will learn a lot. Hope you will teach
me what I dont know too?

Actually, it is only a fool that will wait to make all the mistake in
life and learn from it. i sabi learn from other people tori oh. I am
very observant. Actually, my friend thought that because he had more
experience with girls, he knew better than I do and that was a more
reason why he refused to listen to me... and the girl probably told him
that she would take drugs after the sex... which she never did.

I told him that she wanted to trap him with the pregnancy but he did not
believe me... but subsequent event unfolded and proved me right.

Till date na master or boss he dey call me...

Yeah I'll teach you come join me wack biscuite and g'nut.

2sexy: oh yeah? hmmm... we will learn a lot. Hope you will teach me what I dont know too?

Actually, it is only a fool that will wait to make all the mistake in life and learn from it. i sabi learn from other people tori oh. I am very observant. Actually, my friend thought that because he had more experience with girls, he knew better than I do and that was a more reason why he refused to listen to me... and the girl probably told him that she would take drugs after the sex... which she never did.

I told him that she wanted to trap him with the pregnancy but he did not believe me... but subsequent event unfolded and proved me right.

Till date na master or boss he dey call me...

who we go ask?

brokoto: who we go ask?

ask wetin?

Vanneni: Yeah I'll teach you come join me wack biscuite and g'nut.

really? Na ijebu garri, groundnut and cold water i want. Chei! I miss d days of of ewa agoyin.

2sexy: really? Na ijebu garri, groundnut and cold water i want.
Chei! I miss d days of of ewa agoyin.

lol I get garri, g'nut
milk and sugar. I fit go buy cold satchet water for you.

Vanneni: lol I get garri, g'nut
milk and sugar. I fit go buy cold satchet water for you.

hmmm... Thank you. I am on my way already.

2sexy: ask wetin?

ask all your exotic stories and the bolded.

2sexy: hmmm... Thank you. I am on my way already.

I'm waiting for you right here.

Vanneni: I'm waiting for you right here.

okay, honey. I may need pounded yam and egusi soup. That's my kind of meal.

2sexy: okay, honey. I may need pounded yam and egusi soup. That's my kind of meal.

I'll take you to the cafeteria then coz I don't have the strength to prepare that kind of meal this afternoon. but it's poundo they have not pounded yam...

There is nothing there actually. He calls me boss or master probably because he realised that, as I was able to prove to him, that one does not need to be a sex addict before he knows certain things. He has had quite a lot sex more than I can imagine or more than I, but I still taught him what he never knew.

Another thing that may have contributed to it is that I am the gentle kind who hardly talks. What he didnt know is that I am very observant.

brokoto: ask all your exotic stories and the bolded.

Vanneni: I'll take you to the cafeteria then coz I don't have the strength to prepare that kind of meal this afternoon. but it's poundo they have not pounded yam...

hahaha... Good wife . On way home from school. Will go back next week to get the r***lt before NYSC.

2sexy: hahaha... Good wife . On way home from school. Will go back next week to get the r***lt before NYSC.

Ok. I wish you all the best.

freecocoa: ^Just imagine, if she had died it would have been because of one useless man.

Its really annoying to see many girls in this position when they could have easily avoided it, I just don't know why some girls refuse to learn.

Matters of the heart are usually complicated,its not always as easy as it is made out to be.The girl in question is still probably young and foolish.If you have ever been madly in love,u ll know that it beclouds a rational sense of judgement.Learning might never happen,the ability to convince a lady is natural to men.

outrage: Fuol! I wonder how you would have typed this if your mother decided to do the same. Ideota!
Mudering bastard!

oh yeah! even if it means birthing children you can't carter for and they become a menace to the society all in the name making children abi?