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Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by collynzo2(m): 11:28am On Apr 22, 2013 |
coogar: You said it all, if men had their way, they'll just hav sex, no strings attached. If men start listing the issues involved in living with women, this thread will not be enough 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by Nobody: 11:33am On Apr 22, 2013 |
[CHocolaTE: ...if u want to know who liked ur post,...I did 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by kemisuga(f): 11:34am On Apr 22, 2013 |
@Chocolate. I can understand you very well. It is Well! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by Nobody: 11:36am On Apr 22, 2013 |
[CHocolaTE: I could kiss u right now. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by butta(m): 11:37am On Apr 22, 2013 |
@op give it up ur argument is pointless and a waste of time in reality its a mans world so wake up from ur dream or I will email u a slap to wake up 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by collynzo2(m): 11:38am On Apr 22, 2013 |
Amelian: Sighs.....op don't allow issues of men dissing singles sisters about not getting married affect you..when u see posts of men talking bad abt women or talking about how to get married, u simply overlook such posts, and read better ones that has to do with enlightenment.. I don't bother myself reading such posts anyways .... Am in my early thirties, am comfortable and beginning to enjoy the different flavours of life.. When I was in my twenties, due to my flashy look, I cut out certain normal things that would. Ordinarily make a lady happy, due to mindset of most nija.. Examples, don't wear lovely earrings o, don't look fly in your dressing, even though u dressed responsibly, the word is dress like a girl suffering, then a suitor will come ... And also If u can afford a car, don't buy o, oresle no man will marry u. ... I have good paying job, which could buy me a small car but most of my frnds and family kicked against it... Ha! Don't buy a car o... Always trek to work or take bus, or climb bikes, so that a man will want to marry u... I trek taya . Run after moving buses , climb okadas, it's by the grace of God , my legs are not broken. As I began to expand in biz, I surely need a car for easy mobility and keep to appointments.. No be person , tell me twice to go and buy a car. Enough of undue suffering to please a man, cause of marriage, which has more responsibilities that one can even imagine.. Nice try, keep consoling your self no need for self pity. Just say comforting things like the above to cover up the sadness, it 's a good thing.........................but we are no fools 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by 1ndidi2(f): 11:39am On Apr 22, 2013 |
Pataki: Now this is so wrong! We are all involved in this!I know of fathers that groom their daughters for marriage right from the womb cos dey believe women have nothing to offer So also our mothers and relatives! It is hammered into ourHeads daily so automatically it becomes the norm. We are all involved!! But to change that we can start from our generation of kids and make them know. Marriage is not the ultimate |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by 1stola: 11:39am On Apr 22, 2013 |
FLYFIRE: RANTINGS OF A FRUSTRATED WOMAN [size=20pt]Exactly.[/size] 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by collynzo2(m): 11:43am On Apr 22, 2013 |
This is very simple........ Assume there are no societal pressures, both men and women are free to decide to marry or remain single. How many percent of men and women will marry? Answer that question sincerely. If only you knew the fun in bachelorhood, |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by RuuDie(m): 11:48am On Apr 22, 2013 |
@ OP, Point of correction, it is women who have this mind-set, not men! |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by Nobody: 11:49am On Apr 22, 2013 |
Let me ask all the Ladies in nairaland two simple questions. * Do you have a boyfriend? * What was/is your aim for keeping a boyfriend? 1ndidi2: 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by honeric01(m): 11:49am On Apr 22, 2013 |
collynzo2: This is very simple........ Assume there are no societal pressures, both men and women are free to decide to marry or remain single. How many percent of men and women will marry? 70% of men likely never going to marry if given thr chance and if free sex is not frown upon by the society. Women naturally are builders, in building, you need foundation, marriage is one major aspect of the foundation, the day that aspect's removed, the day buildings begin to crumble. We can all see what single-home is causing to morals (excluding the widows/widowers) 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by collynzo2(m): 11:51am On Apr 22, 2013 |
Women compete with themselves on everything; high heeled shoes, brazillian waves, excessive make-ups etc. Most times they do it thinking that it's meant to attract men, but the truth is that they are only competing with themselves. The truth is that most men don't fancy their women putting on excessive make-up and all that, but they don't say it just to avoid appearing rude, a poll here will prove that. The bottomline is that women always put pressure on themselves for no reason, and later blame it on men, it's not only about marriage. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by devour129: 11:54am On Apr 22, 2013 |
softy:THANK YOU !!!!!!!!!! Everything is life only works well if you put your self in it. I think she says all that crap to make her self feel better. |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by devour129: 11:54am On Apr 22, 2013 |
softy:THANK YOU !!!!!!!!!! Everything in life only works well if you put your self in it. I think she says all that crap to make her self feel better. |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by Nobody: 12:02pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
[CHocolaTE:My dear speak for ur self, if u dont wanna get married, its not by force, no body will marry u. But for u to come and say slavery and servitude is what women go into, i wont agree to that. My wife has a 10k dollars rock on her hand, i still wash the plates when she's tired, most times i cook our food. She still complains of this and that but thats love right there. No body said marriage is easy, so if u cannot sacrifice a few pleasures to live with ur spouse, great, but be rest assured that in ten yrs u will still come back to rewrite this post. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by empexy(m): 12:03pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Dear OP, If you are suggesting adoption, someone gave birth to those kids (who are either orphans or abandoned kids). Or Having kids out of wedlock? please that is fornication my sister. GENESIS 2:24: " Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh." |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by Cabsso(m): 12:03pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
E dey pain u say u neva get bobo so u dy use dis talk 2console ur self. Sori ehn! |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by gaburiel(m): 12:04pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
The question should be why do women think their lives cannot go on without marriage |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by devour129: 12:04pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
biolabee:if you read my post you won't have to ask that question . I have never insulted any single lady before but these chicks are pushing it. Why do they always like to make out us married ones like we are living in bondage or only managing our lives cos we still live in the Stone Age ? I can begrudge anyone to think and feel whatever makes them sleep better at night but don't spoil the notion of marriage for our younger generation coming up. If your parents marriage ddnt work,try make yours work so your kids can learn from you not talking trash here. Am going to boast here YES SOME OF US HAVE IT ALL,some are still working on there's and some are almost there. If you not married its your choice but don't come here acting like you are all that ! Bee baby that was the point am trying to make,sorry it offended you. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by iLUMeN8(m): 12:05pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Its the impression that ALL women have given us guys. |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by segend(m): 12:09pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
I agree with those saying women put d pressure on themselves. My gf just broke up wit me cos I dnt want 2 marry dis year, and she MUST marry dis year, according 2 her. And women treat been married like an achievement. Meet a man, he introduces himself by his 1st time, no matter his status, meet a married woman, its always mrs....even those u are older than. A colleague was once reporting a rude client 2 me, and she was like 'how can he talk to me like that, doesn't he know that I am married' like been married is something 2 be respected |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by kekilika: 12:11pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
[CHocolaTE:i feel the plight of women and i also understand your fears and depression which may have resulted from your previous relationships, your family background experiences, the society, religion and what have you. However, you raised up issues which cleary butress the point that women are unique and strong but to throw marriage to thrashbin and claim women dont need it, is wrong. Fine, you have made aware the challenges women face in their live in being a wife and a mum. What i expect you to do on this forum is ask how men can begin to support. I would never marry to kill my woman with chores because i grew up being very close to my mother and so did many other. I know so many ways out. Atleast we have 2% nigerian men and i plead they should help us out on how they have been doing it. Lol |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by Nobody: 12:16pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
If you find husband you no see then come nairaland dey yarn dust. |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by biolabee(m): 12:17pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
honeric01: Very good points but your percentage is too high as I believe men too are builders They nEed a stable platform to indoctrinate the next generattion |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by Carius(m): 12:24pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Onyegecha: That is a lie. The pressure is built into them by the menfolk through the socialization techniques they carefully created to keep women's psyche tied to men. I am glad some women are waking up to reality. Yes, if it's not working, quit. If you don't find someone you are very very very comfortable with, don't get into marriage. Do not marry for better or for worse. The moment love leaves the marriage, the woman should be wise enough to follow suit.This is pathetic,especially coming from a woman.I wonder how many people would still remain married if they all took ur advice;why not take a cue from ur own mother.A woman is the home builder.if everyone gave up at the slightest sign of difficulty,just imagine what d world would be like.If Thomas Edison had taken d cowardly approach of throwing in the towel,we would not have d incandescent bulb today;same with all d great inventors and innovators.am even more surprised that some girls were liking ur post.Pls,marriage is not Bf/Gf...do away with ur ego and pride!!! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by hotbabe001(f): 12:24pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Dats Nigerian men mentality. Rubbish |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by namelesss: 12:26pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
I couldn't agree more... But to be frank this is the cause of lesb-“I.ansm withn women... The feeling that they don't need men 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by collynzo2(m): 12:28pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
The OP must be from a broken home, I advise her to see a shrink and get the stigma out instead of cotaminating others with it. You can have a better marriage than your parents |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by biolabee(m): 12:30pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
devour129: if you read my post you won't have to ask that question . I have never insulted any single lady before but these chicks are pushing it. Why do they always like to make out us married ones like we are living in bondage or only managing our lives cos we still live in the Stone Age ? I can begrudge anyone to think and feel whatever makes them sleep better at night but don't spoil the notion of marriage for our younger generation coming up. If your parents marriage ddnt work,try make yours work so your kids can learn from you not talking trash here. Am going to boast here YES SOME OF US HAVE IT ALL,some are still working on there's and some are almost there. If you not married its your choice but don't come here acting like you are all that ! Bee baby that was the point am trying to make,sorry it offended you. Dear ma, appreciate your response Always knew you to be a mature poster so was shocked at first With this it now makes sense No offense ma The chocolate poster has not yet come out to say what is on her mind so let be watching OP Are you a feminist or just plain against marriage Again I ask What is your point |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by Policewoman(f): 12:33pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
[CHocolaTE:Pls if you have been destined forever to remain a spinstress, don't spread your curse to other ladies who wish to get married. Keep your opinion to thyself and stop polluting our minds. Thank you. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by biolabee(m): 12:38pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
4bobo: [size=13pt]SEE WHAT LESBIANISM HAS CAUSED. DONT PRAY TO MARRY ,EH? DONT EVEN MARRY AT ALL. INFACT MAY YOU NOT MARRY, AS YOUR WISH. Haba... Wicked bobo!!!! |
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