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Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by butta(m): 11:05pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Women so appealing but they are enemies of themselves 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 11:12pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
The guys are trying to prove the OP wrong by doing the exact thing she accuses them of! Lol! 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by born7win(m): 11:19pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
@OP Don't confuse NL and society. My mother, aunties, and grandmothers have been pressuring my sisters to get married forever. The men in my family don't give a s h i t. I would say that most of the pressures come from women. These men on NL say it as a form of insult. They themselves wouldn't marry these ladies; they haven't even married their girlfriends. My dear, taking the words that the pranksters on the romance section say to heart tells me that you are a learner. Instead of giving yourself a heart attack on NL, you should go and find yourself a husband. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by tpia5: 11:21pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
butta: Women so appealing but they are enemies of themselves true. |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by tpia5: 11:22pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
born7win: @OP gbam. My dear, taking the words that the pranksters on the romance section say to heart tells me that you are a learner. romance section or even nl itself. Instead of giving yourself a heart attack on NL, you should go and find yourself a husband. easier said than done. especially when your social life revolves around nl! |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by Daresh(f): 11:32pm On Apr 22, 2013 |
Sweetie it is women I blame for their plight. We believe we must marry and are willing to it all manner of bullshit just to claim married woman. See I'm married and I don't do half of the things u listed. I have a cleaner that cleans the house for me, I have a washer, my husband and I share work. YES we do. When he said to me what his foolish friends said to him " when I woman gets married she forgets her husband and only cares for kids" , I told him straight up, am I a machine? So after all this work while u sit and watch tv you still expect me to have time for you? If you want me to to care of u then help me to care of them and then I won't be too tired. After he saw that was it ol boy buckled up. Now he gets them ready for school while I make lunch. He cleans up when I'm too tired. The only thing he doesn't do is cook cos Walahi he will burn my house down. I'm so not stressed and I thank God for that In essence women don't sell ur selves short. I'm not scared to be alone. My motto is I'd rather be alone than unhappy. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by Nobody: 12:03am On Apr 23, 2013 |
[CHocolaTE:GBAM!!! Wel said 1million likes. Do not mind all these little boys.These men are forever obsessed with what woman are doing and marriage. If a woman chooses her career first then they will complain that you not getting younger who will marry u etc etc as if you will die if you do not get married, like they are doing you a favour. I completely understand where you are coming from and i suggest if u do not get a nice guy falling under the 2% you should get an oyinbo,they have no problems with doing their part, equaality etc. Best of luck to you. |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by Nobody: 12:08am On Apr 23, 2013 |
[CHocolaTE: THIS IS THE HORSESHIT GOSPEL FRUSTRATED FCKED UP SINGLE WOMEN TELL EACH OTHER 2 CONSOLE THEMSELVES. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by born7win(m): 12:17am On Apr 23, 2013 |
Subomi-luv: Hag, go and find husband to marry. |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by biolabee(m): 1:42am On Apr 23, 2013 |
tpia@: atooo |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by biolabee(m): 1:45am On Apr 23, 2013 |
Gamesmart: hmmm,... |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by biolabee(m): 1:48am On Apr 23, 2013 |
born7win: @OP haba,... |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by biolabee(m): 1:50am On Apr 23, 2013 |
Daresh: Sweetie it is women I blame for their plight. We believe we must marry and are willing to it all manner of bullshit just to claim married woman. See I'm married and I don't do half of the things u listed. I have a cleaner that cleans the house for me, I have a washer, my husband and I share work. YES we do. When he said to me what his foolish friends said to him " when I woman gets married she forgets her husband and only cares for kids" , I told him straight up, am I a machine? So after all this work while u sit and watch tv you still expect me to have time for you? If you want me to to care of u then help me to care of them and then I won't be too tired. After he saw that was it ol boy buckled up. Now he gets them ready for school while I make lunch. He cleans up when I'm too tired. The only thing he doesn't do is cook cos Walahi he will burn my house down. I'm so not stressed and I thank God for that very mature post @subomi.. welcome |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by Nobody: 5:29am On Apr 23, 2013 |
honeric01: Every human being (animal) has a right to reproduce! There is what they called single dads and single mums! |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by Nobody: 5:40am On Apr 23, 2013 |
[CHocolaTE:singlehood with shaggging to cap it...hypocrite! |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by Nobody: 5:51am On Apr 23, 2013 |
coogar: Her grouse is men should start doing house chores to reflect on their women that they equally want the marriage as women do and that makes women not to look like slaves. If u bring chores, he will bring his own problem for the sharing. Even as women are changing everything now...no Mrs, it is Dr, no spokeswoman...it is now spokesperson, no actress..it is now actor,no policewoman but police officer etc women still can't handle the role and responsibilities.When a thief knocks, they want the men to head off the danger or even die. You talk about chores sharing, men talk about the house building expenses. It is a division of labor that every set is seeing the need to pitch in as we move on. Anything outside that, is divorce, murder and single parenthood or singlehood. Buy a woman a car and she buys you a boxer...in her mind it is equal. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by Ezebu(m): 8:10am On Apr 23, 2013 |
poster, read Genesis 3:16 u hear.E talk say woman go suffer labor pain when she they born + say her desire go be on her husband & say d husband go rule over her! Na me write am? |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by Ovaiegbe(m): 8:18am On Apr 23, 2013 |
CHocolaTE,"Why on earth do you people think Nigerian women are desperate to get married to you? See eh, the reason why majority of women seek marriage is because of societal pressure from people that cannot mind their business and because they want to have kids that will not be called bastards so you better understand that fact." This line appear to be written by an embittered and misguided female. Your reasons adduced for marriage is in the first place very disheartening. The real question you should be asking yourself is "why on earth must I be married?" The last I remember, no one has been charge for refusing to get married nor has has anyone been compelled to produce a husband before been delivered of her baby. You want to eat your cake and have it back. Girl, that is almost impossible. Marriage is of mutual consent and functions best when there is mutual sacrifice. When you critically look at marriage, you will see the many sacrifices everyone has to make. It is a risk taken in the belief of a better tomorrow. It is a leap into uncharted territory irrespective of how many times you've been married or how many relationships you've had or how much "experience" you may also have acquired. My advice for you girl is to order your priorities, then go ahead and live your life. You one have one life. Please minimize the mistake you make in it. Time could be an enemy. [quote author=Ovaiegbe]CHocolaTE,"Why on earth do you people think Nigerian women are desperate to get married to you? See eh, the reason why majority of women seek marriage is because of societal pressure from people that cannot mind their business and because they want to have kids that will not be called bastards so you better understand that fact." This line appear to be written by an embittered and misguided female. Your reasons adduced for marriage is in the first place very disheartening. The real question you should be asking yourself is "why on earth must I be married?" The last I remember, no one has been charge for refusing to get married nor has has anyone been compelled to produce a husband before been delivered of her baby. You want to eat your cake and have it back. Girl, that is almost impossible. Marriage is of mutual consent and functions best when there is mutual sacrifice. When you critically look at marriage, you will see the many sacrifices everyone has to make. It is a risk taken in the belief of a better tomorrow. It is a leap into uncharted territory irrespective of how many times you've been married or how many relationships you've had or how much "experience" you may also have acquired. My advice for you girl is to order your priorities, then go ahead and live your life. You one have one life. Please minimize the mistake you make in it. Time could be an 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by monex(m): 9:11am On Apr 23, 2013 |
what OP said is true but it is a bad mentality for a woman to have except u are really convinced u dont want to marry. i have met someone with this kind of mentality but 7 yrs later she now wants to get married and has suddenly become desperate. she is 36. my point is that if u are a feminist and not interested in marriage, please be consistent. cos usually, it becomes more difficult for women to marry with increasing age. Men who initially werent interested in marriage can change their mind all of a sudden and still be able to settle down despite age. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by jidewin(m): 9:29am On Apr 23, 2013 |
devour129: my dear everyday I come hear and all I hear is men men men ! So who sleeps with all these single girls ? Ghost ? But still men are these and that. Please go get married and train your boys to be a good husbands to there wives. Am tired jor and before I forget Jide,I don't drink cos I have a very light head maybe we can share a pack of fruit juice one dayNo problem my sis.Its a promise and God willing,its a date i shall live to fulfill.Meanwhile keep spinning 'em on Nairaland. Following and applauding your feats and vybzzz online,closely. |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by gabinogem(m): 9:39am On Apr 23, 2013 |
Sometimes i just pity the mentality of some female folks... If u know u are not a marriage material, why not stay in ur father's house and try to be the boss u want to be... Women do not allow laziness break ur home, & quit listening 2 gossip. |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by Kosigift(f): 10:08am On Apr 23, 2013 |
biolabee:oh lawd! LWKMD |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by jidewin(m): 10:28am On Apr 23, 2013 |
ekwah: You are such a... I wish I have time to really reply this very silly post....Precisely,just ponder on Ops points and see her resentment for men.Classic Feminist . 1."Marriage hardly benefits women" 2."Kudos to the 2% of Nigerian MEN that still have respect for women and consider their feelings after marriage, "-Appalled where that came from. 3."Also, after marriage the husband clearly enjoys his life and freedom MORE than the woman" 4."The majority of Nigerian MEN are lazy ASSESS that think that helping their wives at home is an abomination. " 5."The worst part is that the children the women is taking care of, the children that she got so stressed for and losses her beauty after birthing are bearing the MAN's name. The children bear his name and not hers" 6."the MAN is very very likely to cheat on his wife and maybe infect her with some STD or another and he will more likely than not, turn her into his slave" 7."I'm sure many women will not get married, who in their right senses will want to marry an overbearing, unhelpful, slave driving no-good lazy Bottom; which majority of MEN are" 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by ojiefi: 11:37am On Apr 23, 2013 |
TRUE SIS. [CHocolaTE: |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by tonychristopher: 12:02pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
THEY WILL TURN TO LESBIAN AND BORED FOR LIFE MAYBE DIE OF HEART ATTACK AND HEART BREAK..... THEY NEED MEN... YOU KNOW WOMEN OF 30 SOMETHING ARE GULLIBLE AND PUSSY RUSTY I MUST SAY |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by SAGirl: 12:34pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
WOW... this is one of teh most beautiful articles I have ever read. And so well-written at that (compared to some of teh stuff that we are subjected to on this forum)... And I think people are confusing issues... this is not about the pressure women put on each other. This article is simply telling an average man that we are no as eager to become his wife as he believes. So its time you really got over yourselves. What women do to each each other should not even be discussed here. The fact is that women do not gain anything from marriage... IT DOES NOT BENEFIT US AT ALL. More and more women are starting to realise that and it scared the crap out of the male-species. |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by addyade: 12:41pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
[CHocolaTE: there are things we cant explain but lets do our bit and leave the rest. http://mytcube./2013/04/22/reading-the-other-persons-manual/ |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by biolabee(m): 12:51pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
SAGirl: WOW... this is one of teh most beautiful articles I have ever read. And so well-written at that (compared to some of teh stuff that we are subjected to on this forum)... Welcome.... This cause needs more adherents |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by s25million: 12:55pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
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Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by Nobody: 1:58pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
devour129: you really are either crazy ,demented.you need help and please get it soon. People like you should not be let out of a madhouse. You talk against marriage but you are in a relationship ? Am married just like every woman of marriageable age in my family and to the glory of God am doing fine cos av got a good mother whom did her best to raise me to be a virtous woman. No need to tell you how my hubby looks,how mi kids look and there character ,how I run mi business empire which my HUSBAND helped me grow,the people around me I av supported etc. cos if I do that,you will kill your self Do I have your time...? Keep on ranting like a demented fowl ....hahahahah a lol..... Oh Lord have mercy! Can't stop laughing at your idiotic statements... Empire ko , Vampire ni.....abeggi, go siddon... Matured sensible people are talking, u r there ranting ... I pity you..... ...useless wife/ mother.... Thats if u r truly one, as u claimed. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by dare2think: 3:05pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
SAGirl: Ha ha ha. You must be a comedian because your last paragraph is full of jokes. The speed at which a newly engaged lady takes to upload her new ring on Instagram, Facebook , bebo, twitter and Linda ikeji's blog is faster than lightning. Show me a man that is that enthused about getting engaged? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by tpia5: 3:53pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
all too common. the other day someone was saying its better to remain single than enter in a relationship with the kind of fellow who will drug his g/f, loosen her brazilian weave and sell it for half price. imo, the solution is not necessarily remaining single [unless you have a strong conviction to do so, possibly a religious one], but if you find yourself attracting deadbeats only, then reevaluate the kind of criteria you require in a man. and yes, reevaluate yourself also. 2 Likes |
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