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Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by jidewin(m): 4:08pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
SAGirl: WOW... this is one of teh most beautiful articles I have ever read. And so well-written at that (compared to some of teh stuff that we are subjected to on this forum)...Dont generalise nor get yourself stained on nairaland.Afterall, you still working on your own CURRENT relationship (that guy with a kid whom you seriously love) . |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by jidewin(m): 4:11pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
Seriously,i blame those men who donate their God given "milkshake" for free.This nonsense wont be making wave at all.Let them feminist go be making their babies with aliens from mars to whom they shall owe no allegiance whatsoever. |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by biolabee(m): 4:20pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
tpia@: Sweet!... |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 4:26pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
[CHocolaTE: Your write up is quite interesting and I understand your points. However, the answer lies in this same post: The key to enjoying marriage is been married to the right person as a man or woman. I agree 100% that a woman who marries an inconsiderate men would feel like a slave in her marriage but like you noted, there are some godly men out there. As for the pressure, I believe most girls are brought out for solely marriage and are seen as failures if they don't get married. A married woman suffering in her marriage is more respected than a single lady doing well in her station. I also feel that married women put same pressure or even more on single women. We have examples in NL. Marriage was created for companionship, checkmating adultery and children. Until we get it right, people especially women will keep suffering in their marriages. As long as women feel the crazy urge to be identified as 'MRS' and not focus on achieving what God has purposed for them, there will continue to be crisis. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 4:35pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
devour129: marriage it's for companionship ,to re-procreate ,to have some with whom you share common,to have someone that will always have your back,some to grow old with etc. if you are not married with the excuse that not marriages are bliss,am so so so so so so so sorry for you. Am sure you can trade all you think you have for a husband of your own.dont know why all these single girls think we are not happy and they go behind us trying to steal our husbands Is this your post really in response to her? And is it any business of yours if she decides not to get married? And as for going behind your backs to steal your husbands, You should know that most married men treat their GFs far better than they treat their wives. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by bastrin(f): 4:41pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
@op is from a broken HOME. |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 4:42pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
princefunmi: Madam Chocolate, the simple truth is that your lives cannot be the same without men. Take it or leave it. It is not open for discussion. I can tell you are still a LASS. Only Lasses blurt out childish statements like you have just done. I'll pass off that you are still quite immature. And why can't her life be the same without a man? It's unreasonable statements like this that make women jump at the next available thing. Marriage is beautiful when the man and woman bring their best to the table. Even the Bible that most people would claim to follow says that 'one will chase a thousand and two will chase ten thousand' and not 'one will chase zero.' Yes, a marriage filled with love help both spouses bring out their best and inspire their world but it would be a fallacy to say that she would not exist because she is NOT tied to a man. |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 4:45pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
DC Trendy: In as much as I don't have time reading your post, I know you re one of those prideful ladies out there. You don't have time to read her posts but you have time to conclude that she is 'prideful'. You might as well keep your advice as you don't even understand the subject matter |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 4:47pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
collynzo2: Did she tell you that she's bitter or sad? If you think that marriage makes people happy, then you must be very deluded. |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 4:51pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
devour129: if you read my post you won't have to ask that question . I have never insulted any single lady before but these chicks are pushing it. Why do they always like to make out us married ones like we are living in bondage or only managing our lives cos we still live in the Stone Age ? I can begrudge anyone to think and feel whatever makes them sleep better at night but don't spoil the notion of marriage for our younger generation coming up. If your parents marriage ddnt work,try make yours work so your kids can learn from you not talking trash here. Am going to boast here YES SOME OF US HAVE IT ALL,some are still working on there's and some are almost there. If you not married its your choice but don't come here acting like you are all that ! Bee baby that was the point am trying to make,sorry it offended you. And where did Ame say that married people are in bondage? She was telling the OP not to let men get to her and enjoy everything she has and you had to post that post. How many women really really enjoy their homes? I guess those women who post stories that touch every day are ghosts. I am disappointed in your post. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 4:53pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
Policewoman: Pls if you have been destined forever to remain a spinstress, don't spread your curse to other ladies who wish to get married. Keep your opinion to thyself and stop polluting our minds. Thank you. So being spinster till she dies is a curse? How can she pollute your mind? Where did she expressly discourage marriage? |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 4:55pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
obi123: God bless you. She really disappointed me with her first post. |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 5:05pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
dare2think: The queen of England, with all her might, money and glory, is still with her husband of more than 50 years, wtf is the op all about. I wonder where you gathered that the OP is against marriage. She even get kudos to good husbands even though I do not agree with her percentage. |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 5:08pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
tony gee: A woman's life is tired around marrage Oh really? Please tell me more... Definitely a woman doesn't exist till she's married... |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 5:09pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
Sisi_Kill: Girl - Why do men think women can't do without marriage? Why do they use a girl's marital status to abuse her? Why do they think being unmarried is the worst thing that can happen to a girl? Why do men say crude things about unmarried women? +1, 000, 000 likes! |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 5:14pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
Amelian: You have time to reply people who can't comprehend |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 5:16pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
tpia@: And who questioned the desire to get married? |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by anukulapo: 5:30pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
Subomi-luv: OP didn't say black men. She said men. So,oyinbo men inclusive. Moreover,their ladies face their own version of marriage issue. Na aggregate economic condition dey cover up for them o. E no easy to be single mum (ask them). That's why many of them go into series of marriages. |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by Nobody: 6:00pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
God bless you Bukatyne, u r matured in reasoning...unlike some pple that are already frustrated with their lives and want to pin it on me, wey dey my own jeje |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by Gamesmart: 6:30pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
Women try and portray this fallacy that they are as happy being single as being in a relationship. It is a way of trying to fo(o)l the opposition (men) so it appears that they have the power as "you want them". It works most times for men with not much up between their skulls. The reality is that women are terrified of being single. They are absolutely scared to the brink of mental breakdown of being single and all the "I am independent" is a mere front. Majority of single women are desperately and consistently looking for a man, and they want him permanently, not for a short period. They love marriage! 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by Nobody: 6:52pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
We love marriage but not all women are desperate to be married, especially when she lives well , she has a supportive guy, good family ties,, what'else does she need to crave for?... Most single couples are better and happier than married couples... Some girls might be unhappy they are single but not all single girls... Does being married to a man, make him yours permanently and live happily thereafter ? Do wives own their husbands? Do all men want to be owned by their wives? Then why is divorce rate so high? |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by Nobody: 7:02pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
^ divorce rate high? Where? Link? |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by Nobody: 7:11pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
Www.www. Are you in this planet? ... Am hungry, make I go prepare something juicy for dinner. |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by biolabee(m): 7:21pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
Amelian: We love marriage but not all women are desperate to be married, especially when she lives well , she has a supportive guy, good family ties,, what'else does she need to crave for?... Most single couples are better and happier than married couples... Some girls might be unhappy they are single but not all single girls... can you quote stats supporting your assertion that divorce rate is high and which country pls |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by tpia5: 8:24pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
Who is bukatyne and why is she parked permanently on the thread and fighting everybody? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by jidewin(m): 8:24pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
Amelian: We love marriage but not all women are desperate to be married, especially when she lives well , she has a supportive guy, good family ties,, what'else does she need to crave for?... Most single couples are better and happier than married couples... Some girls might be unhappy they are single but not all single girls...Amelia,I shall take you on,with an open, un-biased mind tomorrow morning. Now its almost 10.00 p.m and I'm off to bed. You made some good points but your last 5 questions outline tomorrow requires straight answers. This are times I wish Pst Bimbo Odukoya (RIP)is very much alive. She handles issues like these very well. Nyt |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by tpia5: 8:25pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
Gamesmart: Women try and portray this fallacy that they are as happy being single as being in a relationship. It is a way of trying to fo(o)l the opposition (men) so it appears that they have the power as "you want them". It works most times for men with not much up between their skulls. Gbam. |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by Nobody: 8:59pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
Gamesmart: Women try and portray this fallacy that they are as happy being single as being in a relationship. It is a way of trying to fo(o)l the opposition (men) so it appears that they have the power as "you want them". It works most times for men with not much up between their skulls. You wish! |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by born7win(m): 9:21pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
^ You wish that he wishes. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by Nobody: 9:23pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
born7win: ^ You wish you were original 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by Nobody: 9:29pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
Do not mind them ...last time I checked men were avoiding girls who want to put a ring on their fingers., You see women getting pregnant hoping that the dude will pity and marry them....And some dumb women want to tell us men are pressuring women to get married? U are out of your mind..... You see them Uche when are u going to visit my parents na? You want to use me ? I'm not your wife so do it yourself(meaning marry me and I will willingly do it for u) 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Men Think Women's Lives Cannot Go On Without Marriage? by born7win(m): 10:14pm On Apr 23, 2013 |
carefreewannabe: That is what you wish that I wish, but I do not wish to be something that I already am. |
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