makavele:

I AINT GOD . . .
BUT ITS THE TRUTH,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
AND NOW TELL ME, WHATS SO SPECIAL ABOUT VIRGINITY?

Yeah its the truth from your own unproven view
But unfortunately most virgin girls would fall into the hands of them guys who are not virgin.
Thats a plain facts!! at least it has been proven.

They still do not deserve them

You are not in the position to tell us who deserves them or not!
Face ur own yawa and leave them virgins alone!

My own yawa, now that's a laugh

Yes take it from me "You are crazy"

Why would you be feeling so much for a guy u havent even talked to recently, you dont know if he's changed or something. He was a kid when you guys were together - Now he's a man, theres a great difference in that. And again why would you turn down guyz you're yet to know. . . I think yu need to get urself together and give someother guy a chance. . .Your dreamy lover boy might be engaged in a relationship he's not ready to joke with'with some primary school crush!


Gurl get a life!

@ topic

there is a big gap between "virginity" and "personality". Never make the mistake of mixing the two, if not you will enter serious trouble.

Some loose their virginity out of choice, curiousity, rape and some carelessness, but WHO is this VIRGIN?

I know a close relative that married as a virgin spinster and the hussy was more than proud to marry a virgin but by the their 10th year of marriage she has dated more than 6 other men, what is that one? wouldnt you prefer that she had even done that before you married her as a woman?

I think the issue of a life partner goes beyond making virginity or not the primary criteria, know what you want and go for it.

maryray:

[b IS ALWAYS ON MY MIND. I CANT SLEEP, I EVEN CRY MYSELF 2 SLEEP SOMETIMES! (CAN You IMAGINE THAT). WHAT DO I DO GUYZ, WE ONLY USED 2 BE FRIENDS IN NURSERY/PRIMARY SCHOOL. I HAVE COMPARED SO MANY GUYZ 2 HIM , AND WHILE I DID NOT KNOW WHY I WAS AVOIDING GUYZ LIKE D PLAGUE B4, I DO NOW THINK IT MIGHT BE BECOS THEY NEVER MEASURED UP TO HIM! .

DO You THINK I'M IN LOVE WITH THIS GUY, INFATUATED, OR WHAT?. WHAT DO I DO? , ITS NOT LIKE WE EVEN HANG OUT TOGETHER SO I CANT JUST WALK UP 2 HIM AND SAY HI. SHOULD I MOVE ON WITH MY LIFE, I MEAN HOW CAN You LOVE SOMEONE You DONT REALLY KNOW APART 4RM NURSERY SCHOOL. WHY AM I NOT INTERESTED IN OTHER GUYZ?, EVEN IN UNIVERSITY, MY FRIENDS WERE ALWAYS EMBARASSING ME BECOS I WASN'T WITH ANY GUY, PROBLEM IS I DONT WANT ANY GUY, I WANT HIM! .

I WILL STOP MY RAMBLING HERE, WHAT DO I DO?, PLZ ADVICE IS DESPERATELY NEEDED, AM I CRAZY?.

do you know anything about "obssession", i think that is what you are going through.

Once again, I want to apologise to Nairaland guys for the magnification of my picture on the nairaland interactive page.
Mind you, the oixture isn't an intention of getting a virgin and I'm sure the message below it never feature anything of such.Incase you have conceived such impression, please abort it 'because the owner never think of having a relationship let alone a virgin.
Besides, i have neither seen nor advantaged nairaland as a merge MAKER. So, WATCH IT!
TO THE GRAMMARIANS AND CRITICS!
thanks for all your infuriating SMS & CALLS.
Here these TIPS!
Dale Carnegie days: there is no such thing as constructive criticism; hence, always try to 1. be moderate and constructive anytime you feel like criticizing and lambasting your fellow lest you become a beatiful nuisance
2. It is not just using VOC. but the right one at the right condition. Always consult your DICO before the usage of any vocabulary to avoid communication error.
3. Unintelligent VOC does look like a JARGON,  never a message. Avoid such at every time in communication lest you sound brainyly idiot.
thanks for the accepeted apology
one love
one NIG.
shayo02

who is this shayo 02,wit d pix.tell ths guy to disappear.am lafin my lungs out.

well for me, i want to say this is not a discussion that should be dwelled on. what difference does it make whether a girl is a virgin or not. i think the most important thing is the feeling and friendship u both share. most women are the same wether virgin or otherwise, the most important thing like i said earlier on is friendship. though i have heard the saying that non-virgins are the most "EXPERIENCE" but i can't tell the authenticity of the believe since i never dated a virgin before. so u see there is basis for comparison.
But the long and short of this discussion is just that may god almighty gives one his her partner regardless of the status wether virgin or non. may god grant the desires of our heart

Imajine all em ladies,being virgins
i will marry all,

hey
i am a virgin
and i think the females that do not appreciate a virgin are jealous
the males, well the males are angry cos they couldn't get it.
i am hot,sexy, romantic,noble n naughthy, real, gat good sense of humor, reserved, a sexy dancer,
lovely, etc. not praising myself but i do know wat i gat, yet i am a virgin.
i so believe i can pleasure and sex my husband more than many disvirgined.

all im saying is being a virgin is the best.
i wouldn't underestimate the disvirgined but i prefer virgins.
some virgins are wack, but no matter how wacked they are, i still see them holy and sacred, not because i am but because its not easy to be one.
look, a matter of fact, we should try to respect God in our daily lives and follow his rules and guidelines. i know im not perfect or a saint but believe me it pays to be a v,

back to the question:
i think a better partner depends on character, discipline, sense of humor. temperaments, personality, understanding, style, concept, charisma, love, ability to share, integrity, God fearing, etc not being a virgin or disvirgined.

advice for virgins or the ,
virgins keep it up: i know what the guys want and what they respect the more, not to talk of what God has in stor for U,believe me,IT'S WORTH IT!
others stick to one partner, protect urselves, be informed on birth control, remember your Creator and lastly you can still be a secondary virgin, is just a matter of self control.

@ Jenny jatt

Please keep it up.  it is a honour and pride. the moment we guys get what we want , we are out but if u keep us in suspense , we will love u the more 

@ topic
   
It can never b YES or NO answer,  it depends on the person in question. it is not a general thing,

well well well
2 me virginity is an honour but it should neva be believed dat virgins can make d best couple.we see virgins who end up leavin their husbands.i believe dat's cos they havent tasted many apples and they wnt 2 taste more and not jst one. Olawunmi_iyamide

I certianly dont think virgins make good wife, it all depend on the parental broughtup of the person, the background, if such one come from a good home, then bet me, such one will make a bettre wife,

Virgins are the best! Lets be real!

na wa o!

Wld fink they do sha. Single and nt sure if my wife wld be.

Virgins make better partners. they may not have the experience but for the fact that they are narrower down there, it makes it more enjoyable. i don talk my own.

Poster, Let me tell you something virginity has nothing to do with been a good partner so many factors can cause a girl to loose her virginity especially when she is growing up, coming to Nigerian standard not all parents can afford to take good care of their daughter most of them have boyfriend who helps them out once in a while and they have to pay back, some are been raped and nobody knows knows about it they kept it between her and God and so many reasons. The bible says if any man be in Christ he is a new creature old things are past away behold all things are become new. I am looking for a man who is a virgin all I am looking for is a man who will understand me , love me and take me the way I am. Physical virginity is nonsense whatmatter is spiritual virginity. You can be a virgin and still be the worst partner on earth.

me i am one but i ask my self for how long can i be one. after all e go happen one day

Village girl, you better close your mouth

Yes virgins also make better partners,after all they are women too,even though that are not virgins where once virgins

Virgin or not Virgin, just 2 b happy after gettg in2 d net of partner

Aloib na wa 4 d lady,

watin u dey now be say make guys no care about d narrow path but d character?

I don't think virginity is an issue. If you ask me, a prostitute is more honest than those so-called church going girls. The prostitute will ask for money and will give you the services as paid for. And she is good at it. If she decides to marry you, she will be very sincere because she knows where she comes from. She has seen it all and there is nothing you can teach or do to her that she has not experienced. So she will come to you because she really wants you.

The virgins offer nothing. A real man wants an experienced woman with him. Then they get to enjoy everything together.

If you love her, and she loves you, and you are confident and sure of your performance in bed, then you have nothing to fear. But if you are weak, then look for a virgin because she will not know the difference.

I say all girls are prostitutes anyway. Think of how much you will spend, or how much they ask from you before you can even get them to come to your room? A prostitute will be your best bet as a partner, not a virgin

SAMSON
NAIROBI
KENYA

I lost a friend coz I was a virgin. he said am difficult and inexperience, and he always look for satisfaction outside coz I don't satisfy him. But aside that he respects me so much.

so my fellow nairalanders virginity is a diginity a man that marrires as u as a virgin will always respect u, he will be proud of u no matter what he does outside.

Maturity is very important in a relationsip. Virginity depends on how the society looks at it. Nigerian girls are so self centred on virginity and refuse to look at other aspects of life in a woman that can also be corrupt, have we considered a girl stealing, change her completion from dark to white, snatch other peoples boy friends, gossip, and are disrespectful. Other part of the world nobody cares whether you are a virgin or not. And that is why some relationships are not healthy because we always refer to the past and refuse to move on

Well, let me contribute.

Being a 23 year old virgin, I think virgins are so special. I don't think its lack of opportunity because I've seen the naked body of two women. Its all about discipline and commitment.

@everinlove, God bless u. because am a virgin, my friends usually say all sought of things to me. They stopped when they realized that I'm more intelligent when it comes to women affiars despite the fact that I've never dated before and am very good academically. So, they always come to me for help and decided to respect my decision. It got worse when they discovered that I also don't like to drink alchohol. Man, I was really the odd one out.

To all those who are not virgins, I can decide to be like u anytime, anyday, anyhour and anyminute but u CAN NEVER BE A VIRGIN LIKE ME AGIAN.

Besides being a Christian, I don't have time for jumping from one relationship to another. I believe the first woman I should date should be my wife.

To answer the question, do virgins make better partners? I'll say not really. It all depends on the upbringing of the person. I have meet two girls who are virgins. The first has a serious problem and I think thats because she's the first child and she doesnt know what it means to respect a guy. The second one, she's so lovely, a real African woman, who will make a good home, respect her husband and do anything he says provided that its good for them. She's so innocent looking that everyguy here want to have a piece of her. Can u imagine that, yet people will say that they don't like virgins.

We're six kids in my family and as at when I left the country, the remaining five were all virgins just like me, my immediate younger sister even works in one of the Nigerian banks.

Now tell me, if the man that will marry her will not respect her?

.i think virgins do cos this is based on findings and my personal experience.but i also believe that if they fall in wrong hands and friends they can be exposed to infidelity.

guys ure too much. well as said by scholars, the beauty of the world is our differenceS; ability to do,think,vision from different perspectives. but i convincinly believe that we have a common level of basic reasoning despite the differential complexes of our perspectives.going back to our first reasoning stage, virginity in the real sense is indeed a personality,honour,integrity,pride e t c. men this is applicable to you ALSO not only ladies lest you play sentiment. HAPPY SUNDAY