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Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by Nobody: 7:17pm On May 23, 2013 |
coogar: So basically, you believe that an adult that chooses to be battered and unrepentantly disrespected so as to be able leech off another adult wise and refined? Got it. 2 Likes |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by dayokanu(m): 7:18pm On May 23, 2013 |
ileobatojo: That doesn't hold water because the man being the provider is one of the most notable gender role in marriage in our society. If you will unwaiveringly abolish that one and delegate your own primary role to be shared by both of you then it would be quite hypocritical of you to assign the vast majority of the household work to one person due to gender roles. If you plan to assign gender roles, then you must assign them across the board not changing things up as it suits you. The wife doing most of the cooking while I do most of the cleaning isnt that sharing responsibility enough? When the car has a fault, does he women too open the bonnet and change oil while the man cross his leg inside the car painting his nails? When there is a heavy load to be carried does the woman carry the heavier while the man carry a little? |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by Nobody: 7:20pm On May 23, 2013 |
50calibre: The same Nigerian men I've seen chopping inexplicable amounts of shyte? Abeg make we hear word. You men are chopping shyte on a daily basis the world over. How many of you are divorcing your wives? If you're not kicking them to the curb by the millions, then it goes without saying that you are chopping untold amounts of shyte. 5 Likes |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by dayokanu(m): 7:29pm On May 23, 2013 |
ileobatojo: Any man chopping shyte and not kicking the woman to the curb probably has something else he is gaining from the relationship And in most cases its the women who suffer from these family breakdown |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by ladygogo: 7:33pm On May 23, 2013 |
^^ Condoleeza Rice was Secretary of State without ever being married John McCain, Newt Gingrch were all divorcees Rice's case was different. There is a high probability that she built her career without needing a man's clout, and could still have gone on to become a Secretary of STate,but i dont think she would have won if she contested in any election. However, Hillary still needed to ride on Bill's back to forge a political career. Society is somewhat sympathetic towards divorced men and being divorced doesnt have an adverse impact as opposed to women. |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by Nobody: 7:34pm On May 23, 2013 |
fellis: Hahahahaha |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by coogar: 7:34pm On May 23, 2013 |
ileobatojo: they did not choose to be battered and leech off their husbands. they chose to be in the marriage for their children, it's called selflessness - you need to learn it. you know, putting other factors before our own selfish needs for the greater good...... if michael adebolajo's mother didn't walk away from her husband, maybe the son wouldn't have turned into a terrorist. she thought she made the right decision some 10 years ago, we can see the effects now! so, women should keep leaving their husbands at every pitiful excuse - the end shall justify the means! 2 Likes |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by Nobody: 7:36pm On May 23, 2013 |
dayokanu: She cooks while you clean sound fair to me. Car fault and heavy load are not comparable to the sheer volume of daily household duties that need to be done daily especially with children in the picture. Abi which kind of jalopy do you drive that is sputtering and packing up on a daily basis? 3 Likes |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by ladygogo: 7:36pm On May 23, 2013 |
what political post was posh gunning for when she decided to stay in marriage with a cheating david beckham? prime minister? And i didnt say it absolutely had to be political. Posh may have had other reasons for 'enduring' the marriage. 1 Like |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by biolabee(m): 7:41pm On May 23, 2013 |
maclatunji: women want to dominate also forgetting influencing or manipulating gets more done |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by coogar: 7:41pm On May 23, 2013 |
lady gogo: yes - other reasons like siphoning his salary as posh is an uneducated married woman with no financial prowess. she lacks no talent and she's worth $0. she would become destitute if she ever leaves david beckham, won't she? makes me laugh when i see nigerian women who are not worth £10,000 threaten to divorce their hubbies at the drop of a hat! women worth millions of pounds stayed in their marriages for their kids, and ultimately for the greater good! 2 Likes |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by biolabee(m): 7:45pm On May 23, 2013 |
Flygeriansteve: The shows that the gender equality advocates and feminism crusaders have so much work cut out for them. The ubiquitous internet blowhards who come on here are just an infinitesimal proportion of the largely ignorant and naive women who see cheating and domestic violence as perfectly normal! ileobatojo: this is true . in addition they are so caught up in their idealism that they do not take cognisance of the little progress being made Things are getting better.. it will take time |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by Nobody: 7:46pm On May 23, 2013 |
coogar: They did not choose to be battered no. But they chose to leech off their husbands. If your husband is a bum, then you as a fully functional capable adult should be able to pull up your breeches and attempt to make a way for yourself as much as is within your abilities. if michael adebolajo's mother didn't walk away from her husband, maybe the son wouldn't have turned into a terrorist. she thought she made the right decision some 10 years ago, we can see the effects now! so, women should keep leaving their husbands at every pitiful excuse - the end shall justify the means! Right, because the father that she left him with is an slowpoke and nincompoop that cannot figure out how to raise a child? Will he be the first to raise a child as a single parent? 4 Likes |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by 50calibre(m): 7:49pm On May 23, 2013 |
stillwater: That's not my point. I'm saying being a feminist is fine provided you can be it in all aspects. Feminism is female power/ strength. All of you talking nonsense here still expect preferential treatment as a woman right? Real feminist dont, they want to be treated equally as men in every sense. 2 Likes |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by biolabee(m): 7:49pm On May 23, 2013 |
dayokanu: correct.. but some men are still abusive even though the woman is the big kahuna.... 1 Like |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by ladygogo: 7:50pm On May 23, 2013 |
if michael adebolajo's mother didn't walk away from her husband, maybe the son wouldn't have turned into a terrorist. she thought she made the right decision some 10 years ago, we can see the effects now! so, women should keep leaving their husbands at every pitiful excuse - the end shall justify the means! So you are blaming michael adebolajo's mother for her son's deeds? Do you know why she divorced her husband? Would you not immediately leave your marriage if you were being physically abused and being cheated on?( if that was one of the reasons why she left). It could also have been due to a myriad of reasons. Lets not be judgemental please. There are children of divorced parents that turned out exceptionally well. We need to begin to take responsibilities for our actions, and stop playing the blame game. Michael adebolajo was a 28 yr old man. 3 Likes |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by biolabee(m): 7:51pm On May 23, 2013 |
dayokanu: LMAO... |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by Nobody: 7:52pm On May 23, 2013 |
lady gogo: Are you minding that joker? 2 Likes |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by biolabee(m): 7:55pm On May 23, 2013 |
dayokanu: classic!! MMotimo: How many families living in Naija have only one income? a lot of the oil company workers spouses do not work or earn small pay relative to their husbands,.. they dont dare bring that feminist crap... |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by 50calibre(m): 7:56pm On May 23, 2013 |
stillwater: Earn your respect like Angela merkel and you would be given your due respect and not expecting to be respected when you piggy back on a man. Angela merkel fought for herself solo, every man respects her. |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by biolabee(m): 7:58pm On May 23, 2013 |
dayokanu: this is so true.. even working class dey hustle nowadays... |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by 50calibre(m): 7:59pm On May 23, 2013 |
coogar: And that loyalty might be repayed in 2016 as her husband is now trying to prepare her for the White House. She was able to even be appointed as Secretary of State by virtue of being a Clinton. |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by biolabee(m): 8:01pm On May 23, 2013 |
Nuzo': how come i never jam these freaky deaky girls dayokanu: you killed it! |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by biolabee(m): 8:12pm On May 23, 2013 |
bettymafy: Oh puhlease! There is little/no corelation between abuse and financial responsibility! You all make it seem like most women who are abused are not financially independent. Most women in nigeria work their butts off to contribute a significant quota to the finance of the home. Some are even the sole providers of their homes and still get abused. first bolded you are right betty... second bolded, do you believe that mr arowolo claimed his wife was under the influence of alcohol and stabbed him and later stabbed herself to death |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by 50calibre(m): 8:13pm On May 23, 2013 |
coogar: I'm sensing that the first paragraph is intended as sarcasm? |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by biolabee(m): 8:19pm On May 23, 2013 |
coogar: a lip sticked smiley for our feminazis |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by biolabee(m): 8:24pm On May 23, 2013 |
coogar: sadly you are right... |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by Nobody: 8:24pm On May 23, 2013 |
biolabee: I would have loved to believe that but there has been history of abuse for the two years of their marriage. The wife kept complaining to both her family and the man's but was told to endure till her untimely death. So no, I don't believe it. |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by ladygogo: 8:25pm On May 23, 2013 |
yes - other reasons like siphoning his salary as posh is an uneducated married woman with no financial prowess. she lacks no talent and she's worth $0. she would become destitute if she ever leaves david beckham, won't she? makes me laugh when i see nigerian women who are not worth £10,000 threaten to divorce their hubbies at the drop of a hat! women worth millions of pounds stayed in their marriages for their kids, and ultimately for the greater good! how do you know she has $0 dollars in her bank account?. she made her own money as a spice girl before she met david beckham. Posh could leave her marriage if she wanted to and not become destitute by downsizing. i also believe she makes some money from her clothing and perfume line. Her's bothers on low self esteem because she could still get quite a chunk from her divorce settlement. SO women that are staying in their marriages are in it for the kids and greater good as opposed to the ones that left? would you stay in your marriage if you were hit or cheated on by your wife for the 'greater good'?. *side eye* 1 Like |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by coogar: 8:26pm On May 23, 2013 |
lady gogo: who should i blame? who raised michael? i ask again - who did a poor job of raising michael?
myriad of reasons? what reasons? how are you so sure the reason was domestic abuse? you are accusing me of jumping the gun and you are clearly doing that here......
he was less than 18 when the divorce was completed. maybe he was 12 when the separation took place and there must have been various tiffs before separation - in other words, michael grew in a home of strife! of course - there are children of divorced parents that turned out exceptionally well and that was in spite of the divorce not because of the divorce. on a level playing field, kids raised in a happy marriage would turn out better than the other divide. |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by biolabee(m): 8:28pm On May 23, 2013 |
50calibre: true... all that BS about women leaving the stricken cruise ship with the children before men is also crap we are equal.. |
Re: When Can A Nigerian Woman Divorce Her Husband? by coogar: 8:33pm On May 23, 2013 |
lady gogo: the sarcasm flew over your head, no vex!
women that sacrificed their pride to remain in their marriages for their children should be applauded. they did it for the greater good! if i was hit and cheated on by my wife? good luck to her on that. i would concentrate on building better men/women out of my children. which is worse? a battered mrs adebolajo or an abuse-free mother of a terrorist? 1 Like |
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