olaezebala: a Nigerian woman can divorce her Husband only wen her husband divorce her.

Vikin: Hehehe.....

Naija women in Nigeria don suffer!

99.999% of Men living in Nigeria are cheats!

I said men in Naija! It can be an American, chinese...

Dat my country needs serious overhauling!

Even if you don't wanna cheat, the trmptation from the ladies too much o.

ThankGod for his mercies in ma life.

If you think you are a man living in Naija and you don't cheat, sincerely....then you belong to the 0.001%,

ItsModella: This is really sad, their mentality is killing me. Imagine that one saying she'll pray to God to change her husband when he's on the verge of beating her to death. They should keep allowing their husbands to disrespect them in the hopes that he'll change one day. The extent to which people have been blinded by religion is sickening.

Seriously, I give up on these women. There are some things you don't need somebody to tell you, use your head.

stillwater:

You really don't need to have a tag to know your worth as a human being. When a man divorces his wife is he a feminist too? Cos that is what I'm getting out of your post.

ItsModella: This is really sad, their mentality is killing me. Imagine that one saying she'll pray to God to change her husband when he's on the verge of beating her to death. They should keep allowing their husbands to disrespect them in the hopes that he'll change one day. The extent to which people have been blinded by religion is sickening.

Seriously, I give up on these women. There are some things you don't need somebody to tell you, use your head.

Nashville:
Please do not blame religion but blame self esteem. This is how many Nigerian girls are brought up, they are told as long as the man provides, then he is fine. No religion preaches staying with a husband that perpetually cheats on you and beats you to death.

On the contrary if these ladies followed the teachings of the bible before getting married, they most likely will never be in those situation because they would never have married men that have no fear of God!

50calibre:

No! You fail to see the cultural differences between the west and Africa. In the west you don't pay anything to marry someone, in Nigeria you do. In the west divorce is an easy option due to the dysfunctional court system, in Nigeria divorce is a last resort. In the west a women gets alimony, in Nigeria you most likely go empty handed.

Africa is the only place where men are given their due respect and entitlement and it should be preserved at all cost.

maclatunji:

All you single ladies need to stop day-dreaming and face reality. It is your headiness that is preventing you from seeing the important things whilst you are single and leading you towards the men and marriages that you say you detest so much. These ones that are realistic have resigned to fate. However, those of you that claim to be "smarter and better" could end-up being deflated if you do not lay the proper foundation now that you have the chance.

The first thing a single lady should drill into her head is humility. No man no matter how accommodating, loving and caring will accept haughtiness from his wife.

blah blah blah...

are you done with your unnecessary comment? who claimed to be smarter and better here? Nobody is even arguing the fact that humility matters and that is definitely not what this topic is about. So keep your preaching to yourself.

J12: Stupìd video with stupìd girls. I don't understand the unnecessary vexation over the video from the women here. If you ask your moms the same question, she'll definitely give the same answer the girls are giving.

maclatunji:

All you single ladies need to stop day-dreaming and face reality. It is your headiness that is preventing you from seeing the important things whilst you are single and leading you towards the men and marriages that you say you detest so much. These ones that are realistic have resigned to fate. However, those of you that claim to be "smarter and better" could end-up being deflated if you do not lay the proper foundation now that you have the chance.

The first thing a single lady should drill into her head is humility. No man no matter how accommodating, loving and caring will accept haughtiness from his wife.

ItsModella:
blah blah blah...

are you done with your unnecessary comment? who claimed to be smarter and better here? Nobody is even arguing the fact that humility matters and that is definitely not what this topic is about. So keep your preaching to yourself.

maclatunji:

How humble? #LOL

Ladies save your feistiness for when it is totally needed. Why are you trying to run down those women interviewed? You are not in their shoes now.

maclatunji:

How humble? #LOL

Ladies save your feistiness for when it is totally needed. Why are you trying to run down those women interviewed? You are not in their shoes now.

Nashville:

Please do not blame religion but blame self esteem. This is how many Nigerian girls are brought up, they are told as long as the man provides, then he is fine. No religion preaches staying with a husband that perpetually cheats on you and beats you to death.

On the contrary if these ladies followed the teachings of the bible before getting married, they most likely will never be in those situation because they would never have married men that have no fear of God!

jennykadry:

Speak for yourself sir/ma. My mum would personally strangle these women if she got a chance.....yea cos I will get there before her

jennykadry:

Ok where did this come from? Who said humility is not vital in marriage?

ItsModella:
Seriously, I can't keep going back and forth with you. I'll save my epistle for somebody more intelligent.

J12: Stupìd video with stupìd girls. I don't understand the unnecessary vexation over the video from the women here. If you ask your moms the same question, she'll definitely give the same answer the girls are giving.

jennykadry:

No we are not in Their shoes. Funny how most of them though "humble" are yet to have men put a ring on their fingers.

It's a sad world we live in isn't it?

50calibre:

You are one lucky dude

J12:

You should ask your mom the question. Her response might shock you

lady gogo: *sigh* Not even surprised. This is the plight of most Nigerian women and the elites inclusive.

ItsModella: This is really sad, their mentality is killing me. Imagine that one saying she'll pray to God to change her husband when he's on the verge of beating her to death. They should keep allowing their husbands to disrespect them in the hopes that he'll change one day. The extent to which people have been blinded by religion is sickening.

Seriously, I give up on these women. There are some things you don't need somebody to tell you, use your head.

ItsModella:
Maybe your mom would but I know for a fact that my mother wouldn't.

stillwater:

If bride price is what is making nigerian men not to treat their women right, I'm all for getting rid of the tradition. Even though i believe it wouldn't stop domestic abuse or cheating. Take India for example. India women pay dowry to the man, and are still under oppression and subjugation by their men.

Respect is earned!!!! You are not entitled to it because you have a pe.nis.

oluking:

Sista you might not admit it but your perception is not objective,if you are less biased you will accept the fact on ground.