adaobi123: This is hilarious. Nonsensical human being. Pay your rent girl If you can't afford it move back in with your parents.

mizzocho.cinco:
...I remember believing that the role of a man is to provide and protect while the role of the woman is to take care of everything else so that he can be able to wake up happy and healthy in order to take on the world and provide for his family......

mizzocho.cinco:
No nonsensical contributions, thank you
Advice from matured people

druid06:

Nice points even though most of your reasons seems to be of the medieval period. There's actually nothing wrong in trying to test a man's worth before saying I do. It's actually your right. Asking a man to financially provide for you during the courting stage is like a man asking for a surgical operation of your womb to see if its healthy enough to bear his children. It's demeaning enough not towards the man but the woman in particular. [/
b]

[b] Any lady that asks a man for outrageous financial assistance is asking for trouble an shouldn't run crying blue murder when it backfires. To know if a man is comfortable enough to provide for you and your children is simple common sense. If a man has a good and well paying job. I think he's secure enough to take care of you and your family come future but asking him to take up financial burden from you during the courting stage by paying your rent and bills is absolutely ridiculous. You need to see this from another point of view to know how you sound.

jmoore:

Nonsensical indeed! What else are we talking about.

@op, he is not your husband therefore it is not his duty to provide for you. To your father's house oh girl.



Wrong!! Husband and wife. You are not his wife.

mizzocho.cinco:
I have been dating my boyfriend for 4months now and since men play the role of a provider when is the right time to ask him for rent money, or should i move in with him to save him the trouble?

mizzocho.cinco:
I have been dating my boyfriend for 4months now and since men play the role of a provider when is the right time to ask him for rent money, or should i move in with him to save him the trouble?

mizzocho.cinco:
No nonsensical contributions, thank you
Advice from matured people

alutacontinua:

Actually, i believe to know if a man is stingy or not, you don't have to test how much he gives you as pocket money, it's as simple as watching how much he enjoys giving to people in need around him. If he cannot willingly give out money to his friend who is in dire need when he can afford it,

mizzocho.cinco:
You still have your girlfriends asking you to do them favours after they cook, clean or spend a good time with you, i believe the same label you are stamping on me is the exact same label you should be stamping on your girlfriend

Men want a woman who can prove themselves worthy before they take her to the alter, a good cook and someone who can make him a great time in bed, a good and hygienic wife and mother. why can't i have a man prove that he is a good provider before accepting to walk down the aisle for?

Does this mean women have to accept whatever comes their way, whereas women have to be put through some tests before they are considered to be wife material?
Food for thought

firetrap: knowledge is knowing that a man will say yes to almost anything after a good fvck, wisdom is knowing what to ask for.

u made of if a woman should accept anything that comes her way and the answer is NO. in the same vein men do not want over bearing and tasking women.

if u make demands every time you do something for him, be it after washing, cooking or sêx, he'll view you as a bimbo, chef and or hoe

mizzocho.cinco:
I have been dating my boyfriend for 4months now and since men play the role of a provider when is the right time to ask him for rent money, or should i move in with him to save him the trouble?

@tjololade:
I wish you could be another person and come and read your own post... I want to ignorantly believe that your IQ is as low as that of a cockroach... Is he your husband?.

mizzocho.cinco:
if you are a woman who believes in giving the world in exchange for a few words and very little action to prove it, go ahead and be that woman. I never condemned your way of living even after doing the same thing for different men only for them to leave you the same way they would any other girl.

The only time a woman can fully support another is during her downfall. Women will call other women names when those other women women do things for money. But let it be her friend going through divorce after he husband cheats on her,they will even support her into getting much of his wealth as she can during that divorce.
Women will call other woman loose and easy if they sleep with different men, yet when it is her own friend who sleeps with another man other than her boyfriend or husband because he was not physically present or emotionally available for her, they will even tell her, "so long he doesn't find out, you are safe. Besides we all have needs!"

yomalex: Get a job and pay your own bills. Dare to be different, don't be a leech

Lord Babs: SMH in derision~~~it's evident you need education!

DnigerianPrince: Are you serious about this question? Wow! I'm glad I know hardworking and self-respecting women

When did your dignity went down this far to be asking a guy for rent money when you ain't married? Disgraceful

mizzocho.cinco:
I have been dating my boyfriend for 4months now and since men play the role of a provider when is the right time to ask him for rent money, or should i move in with him to save him the trouble?

mizzocho.cinco:
I have been dating my boyfriend for 4months now and since men play the role of a provider when is the right time to ask him for rent money, or should i move in with him to save him the trouble?

mizzocho.cinco:
its not the role of a man to sleep with a woman or cohabit before marriage or do any other duties a wife would perform. Do u condemn that too?

mizzocho.cinco:
I have been dating my boyfriend for 4months now and since men play the role of a provider when is the right time to ask him for rent money, or should i move in with him to save him the trouble?

mizzocho.cinco:
I have been dating my boyfriend for 4months now and since men play the role of a provider when is the right time to ask him for rent money, or should i move in with him to save him the trouble?

Sorry, if am your friend and I have plans to marry you once you tell me this I will port......

mizzocho.cinco:
have u ever paid a woman for sex? It can be by doing a favour for her before or after sex and this woman happens not to be your wife? Check how far yours has fallen before you worry about mine