Baxilexi:

i have realized something on this thread, its not like women are being oppressed by men it that women want to be the man, e.g. when the quest for

women liberization started the problem was the men did not recognise them.so jobs like teaching nursing receptionist ministry of women affairs and many others were created for the woman

later the men do not put them in top positions.

now they want equal rights as the man.
just so you know nigeria is alot better than most counties, take for example germany they have a kkk rule for women kuche(kitchen) kirche(church) and kinder(children) and japan their women are ristricted but the western woman wants everything down to having gonads

men have created more careers for women in the working ssectors of the economy.
the women should not expect to be privalant in all strata.

onyinye2:

But will the man do the same?

Baxilexi:

i have realized something on this thread, its not like women are being oppressed by men it that women want to be the man, e.g. when the quest for

women liberization started the problem was the men did not recognise them.so jobs like teaching nursing receptionist ministry of women affairs and many others were created for the woman

later the men do not put them in top positions.

now they want equal rights as the man.
just so you know nigeria is alot better than most counties, take for example germany they have a kkk rule for women kuche(kitchen) kirche(church) and kinder(children) and japan their women are ristricted but the western woman wants everything down to having gonads

men have created more careers for women in the working ssectors of the economy.
the women should not expect to be privalant in all strata.

Sisikill:

A weak man is a man who lets where/what/who a woman is in life define how marriage worthy she is. If you have a strong believe in yourself, what does it matter?

REAL MEN do not whine about how women are this and that, what A REAL MAN will say instead is “Okay, she this and that. . . . So what?" Why would they say that, you ask? Simple - Because they are Abso-freaking-lutely, Positively SURE OF THEMSELVES!

agaba123:

I beg to differ. Nothing stops a woman from being on top if she get my work done for me. What's the difference? Some are even more intelligent and more rugged than men. Take Akunyili for instance. A man was occupying that psot before she came.

The situation in career is different from the family situation.

onyinye2:

(rolls eyes and sips drink)

$$Rhino:

At home regardless who makes more money and better career and who has the job, the man is the man and will always be the head of the house.

Why Do Nigerian Guys Abroad Dont Marry Nigeruan Girls Abroad?

$$Rhino:

At home regardless who makes more money and better career and who has the job, the man is the man and will always be the head of the house.

agaba123:

Is it rum ?

onyinye2:

So any one of you men can answer this. You wouldn't mind not all that your wife made more income then you do??
my own personal poison.

Hannibal:

Most of the Nigerian guys abroad left Nigeria when they were graduates. . . .This means they left girl/fs and partners back home.
Is it not rational that they go back and marry their childhood chics??
I don't think this necessarily has anything to do with the attitude of the Nigerian girls abroad. . .
Y'all guys should SLOW DOWN.

$$Rhino:

At home regardless who makes more money and better career and who has the job, the man is the man and will always be the head of the house.

onyinye2:

[bmy own personal poison.

chiogo:

@HCH3COO, I can't answer you right now Cuz am at work besides it's tedious postin with my phone. I'm sure you get what I meant. You just like 2 ask too many questions.

$$Rhino:

i surely will call my woman to let her know who is coming over and not, say for example i didnt and late found out, and the guest was a hot babe, wont there be some kind of game going on in her head?
besides, it is called mutualism in all things, what is good for the goose, them say good for gander as well

agaba123:

Why should I mind? Just like a woman coming first and you second in class. If you want to make more money, work harder. As far what you make is enough for you to fulfill your role as a husband and father, that's all you need.

rubi:

Nobody is disputing the fact but don't let men take women's submittion be taken for granted or as a weak point

onyinye2:

Stop jiving with me and tell the truth.
Really?? hmm cause personally, oh wait never mind.

agaba123:

Those who take it as a weak point are those who will go looking for weaklings and keep them from being empowered.
Real men will like to say that's my hubby in that ferrari that just drove past, she is a financial consultant with citigroup.

$$Rhino:

Onye, if my woman makes more money than me or i make money than her, what difference does it make, the money is coming to the household and we can be happy and have fun, and a woman that is making good money is even better, that means i don't have to sweat my brain or make it do over drive because of money.

$$Rhino:


aint jiving with u at all, that is why be4 i make up my mind about a woman, that means i am willing to let go of her mistakes and live with her shortcomings and treat her like i want to be treated, like i said, she aint my slave, but my heart and partner, which means i want to see her happy at all times, now don't means, aint human that is capable of making mistakes, because i got blood running in my vein

$$Rhino:

Sisikill, u are rvery right, however, submission has no other name but submission

Baxilexi:

@agaba, i f you were given the position of the  NAFDAC head, would you have done, what mrs akunyili is doin or would have behaved like the male bum that was there before, take for example this

thread again they are more guys on it than ladies right. not just any type of guys but educated ones, so using this stats it tells you that the ratio of an

educated woman to a man is like 3:9,

you see all that is being said is the same way women want to have a taste of the top so do men want to remain on top.

@hch, ashewooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

rubi:

You are a real man. God bless you

Sisikill:

Aah! Submission, . .  my, how I love that word. I’m going to assume that we’re throwing this word into the mix because is in the bible, right? Okay, fine. . . God wants us to submit to our husbands, we get that, trust me we do but what about the part that says husbands must love their wives with the same love Christ showed the church? How did Christ love the church? With compassion, mercy, forgiveness, respect, and selflessness.
[b]
You guys don’t get it do you?
You can’t treat your wife like crap and expect submission.
You can’t have little or no regard for her and expect submission.
You can’t demean her and expect submission[/b]It doesn’t matter if a woman is a CEO/CFO/President of a freaking continent all rolled in one, if she has a husband who loves her, respects her, someone she knows come rain come sunshine she can depend on him, she won’t have a problem with submitting to him.

Sadly, men think being the head means being a dictator, a tyrant who must rule with a heavy fist or he won't be a man. They think if their wives have a voice, she's disrespecting them.


Honestly, how sad is that. . . . to have something as little as your wife making more money, having an opinion or not needing you as much as you want her to, destabilize your entire sense of self? Oh my God! Now I feel sorry for men! Gah! No cool, at all. . . the last thing I want to feel for guys is pity.

Sisikill:

Aah! Submission, . . my, how I love that word. I’m going to assume that we’re throwing this word into the mix because is in the bible, right? Okay, fine. . . God wants us to submit to our husbands, we get that, trust me we do but what about the part that says husbands must love their wives with the same love Christ showed the church? How did Christ love the church? With compassion, mercy, forgiveness, respect, and selflessness.

You guys don’t get it do you?
You can’t treat your wife like crap and expect submission.
You can’t have little or no regard for her and expect submission.
You can’t demean her and expect submission

It doesn’t matter if a woman is a CEO/CFO/President of a freaking continent all rolled in one, if she has a husband who loves her, respects her, someone she knows come rain come sunshine she can depend on him, she won’t have a problem with submitting to him.

Sadly, men think being the head means being a dictator, a tyrant who must rule with a heavy fist or he won't be a man. They think if their wives have a voice, she's disrespecting them.


Honestly, how sad is that. . . . to have something as little as your wife making more money, having an opinion or not needing you as much as you want her to, destabilize your entire sense of self? Oh my God! Now I feel sorry for men! Gah! No cool, at all. . . the last thing I want to feel for guys is pity.

Sisikill:


You guys don’t get it do you?
You can’t treat your wife like crap and expect submission.
You can’t have little or no regard for her and expect submission.
You can’t demean her and expect submission

Abuseay:

Rhino u no dey tire

onyinye2:

(rolls eyes and sips drink)