$$Rhino:

Na drama u study for school, Ini Edo, has nothing on u jare
well, it is not that bad

lool

@baxilexi
all of who?

ahhhhh, rara o!

but all of who?

HCH3COO:

churchgoers are not necessarily true christians osisi, don't forget.

oh quiet you

ehie:

abeg i don go oh! the stupid ideology of feminsm is what is bringing the western society to its knees, Britain and most of Europe are now contending with the fallout of dysfunctional societies, eg
Binge Drinking
Knife Crimes Holiganism all because the most important structure of the society is collapsing, the family
Continue to kid yourself and get married with your strong head,
i give love 6 months tops
Character,Kindeness Loyalty an eternity.
Choose the way u all want to go, bye all

dalu

i mean i understand what yal are saying. i mean i now see a different perception of being "submissive". I know im a lil bit stubborn and head strong, but that is just me. im working on it. I know when i get married that alot of what im saying will be changing noting i marry the right man. But alot of what im saying now will still stand.

I don't blame guys who go back to get married to the woman of their choice. When my cousin got married in 1987,her husband took her to the US to start a life. can you imagine that she later divorced this man after 3 kids because of her new found rights. What was her reason for divorce? She claimed she could not enjoy her marriage to him because he was always coming back late. Her husband is an aeronautical engineer who was doing everything to give her and the kids good life. What a shame. So i don't blame brothers who go back home. Though,there are still some women abroad who have not gotten influenced with the so called immorality and new found rights.

Ruby_Pearl:

Nonsense, please don't generalize.

A husband is not necessarily the Lord of the house. Wearing the pant does not mean he has to be tough/strict and irrespectable to his wife.

Btw, wcould you please expand on what you meant by "not man enough".

Why do people read my post upside down.

Did I say a the husband is the lord of the house?  No I did not.

Well in simple terms,  what I mean is that A girl who knows what it means to a friend to her husband is the ideal thing.

I meant that many girl were brought up in atmosphere where the man is the dictator and that becomes their own yardstick of measuring manness. If you have a relationship with them and treat like they are your equal, they will adjudge you as not being man enough based on what they experienced fronm their fathers.
Based on that I stated that I will prefer a girl brought up who is sensible. That does not mean that every girl brought up in naija is like that but many.

Please understand  my post before you call it nonsense honey.

ehie:

abeg i don go oh! the stupid ideology of feminsm is what is bringing the western society to its knees, Britain and most of Europe are now contending with the fallout of dysfunctional societies, eg
Binge Drinking
Knife Crimes Holiganism all because the most important structure of the society is collapsing, the family
Continue to kid yourself and get married with your strong head,
i give love 6 months tops
Character,Kindeness Loyalty an eternity.
Choose the way u all want to go, bye all

Ehie, you are leaving without giving your contact details?

Please do not go yet.

Lol not submission as in slavery!!

Husband: Ok darling, you are now allowed to talk

Wife: Thankyou dear

Husband: Ok darling, you are now allowed to eat

Wife: Thankyou dear

Husband: Ok darling, you are now allowed to sleep

Wife: Thankyou dear

Hehehehehehehehehe Tongue

lmao!

@topic
its only freshies that have this idea. Naija guys who have lived abroad for a long time dont have this view. well at least the ones i've met.

bluehorizo:

I don't blame guys who go back to get married to the woman of their choice. When my cousin got married in 1987,her husband took her to the US to start a life. can you imagine that she later divorced this man after 3 kids because of her new found rights. What was her reason for divorce? She claimed she could not enjoy her marriage to him because he was always coming back late. Her husband is an aeronautical engineer who was doing everything to give her and the kids good life. What a shame. So i don't blame brothers who go back home. Though,there are still some women abroad who have not gotten influenced with the so called immorality and new found rights.

So what are u saying now? he went home and brought someone who divorced him later. Why did he go home then.

This is exactly the point I was making and someone was abusing me that I should keep the lady in nigeria and go home to pregnant her during yam festivals . . .lol
No point going back home. Everything is based on the individual. if get a girl who is reasonable here, that is better than going to get a time bomb that will finally explode after all

Pataki:

Ehie, you are leaving without giving your contact details?

Please do not go yet.

LOL  

ehie:

abeg i don go oh! the stupid ideology of feminsm is what is bringing the western society to its knees, Britain and most of Europe are now contending with the fallout of dysfunctional societies, eg
Binge Drinking
Knife Crimes Holiganism all because the most important structure of the society is collapsing, the family
Continue to kid yourself and get married with your strong head,
i give love 6 months tops
Character,Kindeness Loyalty an eternity.
Choose the way u all want to go, bye all

Wake up you have slept for too long I am a happly married woman. I love my hubby he reasons differently from most naija men. I believe in submitting to my hubby to the core and he believes in treating me with all intergrity

hch, when did you create the bedroom

@ruby, ghanians, germans,togolese, etc

@onyin, its as simple as they cant be two captains on a ship, neither can there be two Gods in the universe, scripture say "woman be submissive to your husband for as christ is the head of the church so is the man the head of the family . . . . . . . . .

agaba123:

So what are saying now? he went home and brought someone who divorced him later. Why did he go home then.

This exactly the point I was making and someone was abusing me that I should keep the lady in nigeria and go home to pregnant her during yam festivals . . .lol

that is the funniest shit after basket mouth and i go die

Why do people read my post upside down.

Did I say a the husband is the lord of the house?  No I did not.

Well in simple terms,  what I mean is that A girl who knows what it means to a friend to her husband is the ideal thing.

I meant that many girl were brought up in atmosphere where the man is the dictator and that becomes their own yardstick of measuring manness. If you have a relationship with them and treat like they are your equal, they will adjudge you as not being man enough based on what they experienced fronm their fathers.
Based on that I stated that I will prefer a girl brought up who is sensible. That does not mean that every girl brought up in naija is like that but many.

Please understand stand my post before you call it nonsence honey.

LOL!
You're right, my laptop was kinda upside down.

sO WHAT IS YOUR POINT ANYWAYS?

baxi the bedroom was created after your suggestion.

rubi:

Wake up you have slept for too long I am a happly married woman. I love my hubby he reasons differently from most naija men. I believe in submitting to my hubby to the core and he believes in treating me with all intergrity

Where did you find such a man?

Baxilexi:

@onyin, its as simple as they can't be two captains on a ship, neither can there be two Gods in the universe, scripture say "woman be submissive to your husband for as christ is the head of the church so is the man the head of the family . . . . . . . . .

(onyinye reads the verse for the 11th million time.)

@BAXILEXI

kAI! nOT ALL NA! HABA!
How many men is a woman allowed to marry?

Ruby_Pearl:

LOL!
You're right, my laptop was kind of upside down.

sO WHAT IS YOUR POINT ANYWAYS?

You still do not get my point? I will have to organise a private session for you

@Pataki
Believe and it will be, (coded tunes)

agaba123:

So what are u saying now? he went home and brought someone who divorced him later. Why did he go home then.

This is exactly the point I was making and someone was abusing me that I should keep the lady in nigeria and go home to pregnant her during yam festivals . . .lol
No point going back home. Everything is based on the individual. if get a girl who is reasonable here, that is better than going to get a time bomb that will finally explode after all

I concur. It doesn't matter who she is or where she is from. Wht matters is understanding,trust and respect.Those are the basic things that makes every successful relationship.

bluehorizo:

I concur. It doesn't matter who she is or where she is from. Wht matters is understanding,trust and respect.Those are the basic things that makes every successful relationship.

I agree 200%.

onyinye2:

Where did you find such a man?
(onyinye reads the verse for the 11th million time.)

Na God dee do me better

ehie:

@Pataki
Believe and it will be, (coded tunes)

And how can I get to decode the coded tunes?

Ok, I will leave my email contacts inside my profile.

rubi:

Na God dee do me better

AMEN!!!

@agba123
Forget it, then.

bluehorizo:

I concur. It doesn't matter who she is or where she is from. Wht matters is understanding,trust and respect.Those are the basic things that makes every successful relationship.

It shall be well with you

@ruby, emm, one from everytribe, just joking. anyways its a good thing your not tribalistic.

@hch, loool, aahh, deye deye ooo

@onyin, so your the person our lord was refering to when he said "be not only readers but doers of the word. him done know since 2000years ago.

@baxilexi
ttyl.

and HCH,
control yourself, man.


^{not waiting around for his reply}

bluehorizo:

I concur. It doesn't matter who she is or where she is from. Wht matters is understanding,trust and respect.Those are the basic things that makes every successful relationship.

I wish it was that simple.

Most times where we come from makes all the difference

Shit! I don't usually post in this romance section, I thot this topic was under 'family'. I'm gonna reply anywayz.

Wait!, I'm yet to understand what y'all mean by 'submitting' to your husband. Can somebody give me examples of how a woman can 'submit' to her husband? Maybe, I can actually reply this topic Cuz right now, am seeing loads of BS.

Baxilexi:

@onyin, so your the person our lord was refering to when he said "be not only readers but doers of the word. him done know since 2000years ago.

I am the word in a sense. If you read my post a little known back, i said that i would work on my need to be in control, when i should be the partner, so Nna dont worry bouts meh, kay.

chiogo:

Shit! I don't usually post in this romance section, I thot this topic was under 'family'. I'm going to reply anywayz.

Wait!, I'm yet to understand what y'all mean by 'submitting' to your husband. Can somebody give me examples of how a woman can 'submit' to her husband? Maybe, I can actually reply this topic Cuz right now, am seeing loads of BS.

I will tell you once i get a clear answer. Because i know someone is going to give you Proverbs 31vs. 10-31 as the answer.

Uche2nna:

I wish it was that simple.

Most times where we come from makes all the difference

Yes it does.

@topic, you just love guys that talk so much about, mutual respect equal rights etc. . . . they talk like thats all whereas there's more to it, its just like a revernd father advicing about marriage when he has never been married and never will.