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2sexy, the reason why in cases like this, it is the lady who gets blamed more is simple: Put 2 people in a room. The first person is already full of s.h.it. Then he offers the sh.i.t. to the 2nd person who the takes it & keeps on taking it, knowing what it is or seeing signs that point to what it is. Who is more fooli.sh? Of course its the 2nd person. For every lady who gets deceived and used by a guy, there are other ladies who REFUSED to be deceived or used by guys not because they didnt love them, but because they knew their right from their left & never allowed emotions to becloud their God given sense of reasoning.

chux4liv: WOMEN! WOMEN!! WOMEN !!!... When I was still a young lad, I had thought men suggested the idea of abortion, but alas it wasn't true. I have had an encounter with two of my ex. GF who outrightly suggested abortion when they had fear of missing period (when it was rather a delay). Even when I stood on my ground that we have the babies they couldnt stand the risk/shame of them having a baby out of wedlock. Thank God all was a test. Not a real pregnancy. My question is why women suggest the idea of abortion abi abortion mean nothing to them ?? (I fear women oooo)

jmoore: A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage.

Those who abort because of "love lust" are the same as terrorists who kill in the name of their god.

Tracygold: The story is sad one, I don't ve to blame her cos it could happen to anyone but my advice to her is dat is not the end of the world, she should involve her self in any murder again, alot of gals out there ve done abortions even more dan ten tyms but they re happily married wit kids, all I ve to say is that she kneel down and cry to God, ask him to 4give her, he is God of second chance, accept him into ur life and move on wit ur life, 4get abt the guy and stay focus, u see God is going to bless her wit her own man.

repogirl:

easy for you to tell them to keep it, you think that now makes you a good guy or what? Focus on protection so that there wnt be room for mistake. As if you understand the responsibility behind taking care of a kid, more so out of wedlock.

chux4liv: Toks2008 has said it all, ladies if u want to date, date guys that're not in ur age bracket.. Date guys that are 7/8 yrs older than u becos all they are planing is how to settle. I'm not a kid and I had my first GF at age of 28. Mind u I cater for my siblings who are in University/ Poly, so taking care of children aint my problem. Ladies these days are always opting for abortion as alternative, why not keep the baby, I'm sure when the father come back to his senses he will come for his baby and apologise big time.

Toks2008:

My guy na fight?

Why you dey attack me? The only lady who ever aborted once for me is presently my wife so give me a break abeg. I also understand that guys who have been responsible for several abortions will not mind marrying a lady who have had a million abortions so i quite understand you.
Nevertheless lets be sincere guys, will anyone of us go ahead and woo a lady that we know have had 3 abortions?

it is a known fact that we end up marrying ladies with different abortion numbers but what we dont know dont hurt.

chupcake: Yea well... Its all been said. She was in love with the wrong person. Don't let revenge ruin the rest of your life. I am not a fan of cliche so Telling you to pick yourself back up isn't my thing. Cry, if you think killing him is the best, Kill him but if you think letting go so you can enjoy the remainder of your life, that isn't a bad idea too.

flying dutchman:
In that case, you're no better than the lady. "Him who is without sin should cast the first stone"...Jesus was right

dahmie2013:

Too bad, it is only God dat can console her! But sincerely I do say sumthing, pregnancy is a choice. Science has tried, if u 4got 2 use a condom, postinor is dere, all dese abortn nonsense irritates me cos I don't see d need 4 it.

Nywys, as 4 d guy, he has just seen d most turbulent part of his life. I have a neighbour who put a girl thru dis, 2wks after his wedd, he lost his job, till 2moro he keeps running 4rm pillar 2 post. He has been duped several times&wen he travelled he was deported. He runs 4rm church 2 church yet no avail. He is a shadow of himself, d irony of it is he has 2kids&d wife has no job.

Men pls be careful!

vainfairy:

Aint dat worse than death?