born2fuck: [size=13pt]maybe you don't know you belong to me in spirit but in flesh to some else,[/size][size=20pt] you are a real betrayal [/size]

Sagamite:

Women live day by day more for attention, while men live day by day more for sex.

Attention from women is nice but can only be a precursor to sex if I am to maximise my satisfaction.

Women only giving me attention without any honeypot is as satisfactory as giving my garri on its own, without any milk, sugar and groundnuts. It will fill me up but surely would not make my day. Add the milk, sugar and groundnuts and I having a nourishing meal that would make me smile all day.

Sex might be important to you, but it is of a different format to you.

Most likely meaningful sex with a guy you have an emotional connection with is more important to you than any attention on Earth.

For me, sex at my will with any and every woman I fancy is far more important than attention.

For most women, they want to have sex with a few guys. For a guy, as many women as possible works very well for them. They will only let the fuglies escape their web if they can shag everything.

darqly: Unfortunately, most women don't know where to draw the line, especially when they're already in a relationship.
My ex looks great and always attracts attention even when we're together. Tragically, she took it too far when she started uploading 'pout Selfies' on every available social media platform and attracting the wrong, disrespectful sort of admirers. To worsen matters, ALL her phone numbers were on Facebook, and it wasn't long before every 'pr**k with a phone' started buzzing at unholy hours. Did i mention that she'd answer every damn call and even save the nos of mysterious callers for future reference We even stopped for a bite one afternoon and the waiter turned out to be one of her admirers
We split eventually, but you can still find her blowing kisses on instagram.

darqly: Unfortunately, most women don't know where to draw the line, especially when they're already in a relationship.
My ex looks great and always attracts attention even when we're together. Tragically, she took it too far when she started uploading 'pout Selfies' on every available social media platform and attracting the wrong, disrespectful sort of admirers. To worsen matters, ALL her phone numbers were on Facebook, and it wasn't long before every 'pr**k with a phone' started buzzing at unholy hours. Did i mention that she'd answer every damn call and even save the nos of mysterious callers for future reference We even stopped for a bite one afternoon and the waiter turned out to be one of her admirers
We split eventually, but you can still find her blowing kisses on instagram.

Misogynist2014: This is one of those things that naturally worries me about marring a woman into my home, reading my signature will tell any fücking person that me and Emmalot121 were 'just' having a field's day . This is a good post to the wrong recipient. Thanks $wëëtïë

carefreewannabe:

So attention is more important to me than se.xuality?

And you don't like being desired by women as much as I like to be desired by men?

How do you measure it? Is there a scale?


The attention I get from an attractive man, a potential se.x partner, is also a maximization to my satisfaction.

There is a difference between getting attention from someone who is unattractive to me and from someone who I consider se.xy.


Same here.

Who wouldn't have this preference? Do you think a woman would go for garri without the rest?

Do you think I get orgasms from the compliments men pay me?
Do you think compliments help cope with pre- and post-menstrual symptoms?

carefreewannabe:

Whatever "format" means, I won't disagree with the fact that the male and female sex.uality differs.


Absolutely.

carefreewannabe:
Is se.x with ANY woman more important to you than the attention of and the se.x with the lady who means something to you and to who you mean the world to?

carefreewannabe:
Every woman imagines, at least for a moment, what it would be like to have se.x with a guy she finds attractive.

The reason they don't do have se.x with these guys are many.

Among them are:
- the fear of social stigma.
- the (low) possibility of getting the satisfaction they hope for, women are hard to please in bed.
- the fear of a potential pregnancy.
- the fear of STDs.

carefreewannabe:
The fact that men sleep around more does not mean that attention to women is what se.x is to men.

Women need attention as much as they need sex. I am sure they would go for se.x if they had to choose one for the rest of their lives.

Men need attention and sex. I am sure they would make the same choice women would make.

By the way, I think that MEN are as ATTENTION HUNGRY as women are.

Misogynist2014: This is one of those things that naturally worries me about marring a woman into my home, reading my signature will tell any fücking person that me and Emmalot121 were 'just' having a field's day . This is a good post to the wrong recipient. Thanks $wëëtïë

lynpetra: well,nice thread.Seriously i am so tired of the attention.Unfortunately,,my man is sometimes overwhelmed by the ladies that "hits" on him,he tells me for whatever reason...I get jealous for sometime BUT i know him better,HOPE SO!
?!.Mama Mia!!!But then i don f(lk well and i don tire,what's newThe DI(k or the the ultimate Feeling i don't really share with not just any kinda man.Most times i just want to f:Dk my man all day long and not the one i am lustfully attracted to.Yes!i am tired!

Sagamite:

I did not talk about you. I talked about women in general.

Not every woman is the same.

Not every women likes handbags, shoes, jewellery etc.

Not every man wants sex or seeks sex.

Not every man likes fine women.

You have to learn to start using sample pools larger than just "you".

Thank you for recognising.

I would not want to have sex with any women. Many of them irritate me and some are not attractive enough.

I would only have sex with a select few women, I don't do hoodrats.

But I realise not every man is like me, so I don't use myself as a singular sample pool to make arguments. I talk about men in general.

Most men don't need a reason, they just need a fcking place.Metaphorically and literally.

Sex is a necessity of life while attraction is just a compliment.

Everyone needs sex to stay sane.

But I can guarantee you that majority of women offered (a) lots of sex with a few men but little pool of men finding them attractive or (b) lots of men finding them attractive but with a few having sex with them would choose the latter, b.

A guy finding them attractive is a qualifier for them in electing who to choose to sleep with in the first place.

Offer men the meat on the plate but tell him "but the women is not attracted to you though but she would sleep with you" and see whether he would not eat the steak irrespectively.

carefreewannabe:

But you were talking about you, so why can't I talk about me too.

Thanks for the information, I wouldn't know.

I am talking about me and my experience, just like you.

carefreewannabe:
Correction: No man is like you.

But you do use you and your experience to make your points. You did so in your previous post.

carefreewannabe:
Sounds disgusting.
Can't help but imagine shabby scenarios now.

carefreewannabe:
What if men had to make this choice?

Wouldn't men CHOOSE to HAVE EVERYTHING instead of having ONE?

carefreewannabe:
It's one of the MANY pre-conditions, not the most important though.
Women refuse to sleep with many men if he is the only one who feels attraction in their encounter.

carefreewannabe:


I refuse to believe that majority of men is like that.
I have a better opinion of men in general. Sincerely.

I am not denying that there are se.x-hungry men who are desperate to have a woman and I know that there are men who even sleep with women against their will and by force BUT I refuse to BELIEVE (I don't know) that MAJORITY of men are like this.

darqly: Unfortunately, most women don't know where to draw the line, especially when they're already in a relationship.
My ex looks great and always attracts attention even when we're together. Tragically, she took it too far when she started uploading 'pout Selfies' on every available social media platform and attracting the wrong, disrespectful sort of admirers. To worsen matters, ALL her phone numbers were on Facebook, and it wasn't long before every 'pr**k with a phone' started buzzing at unholy hours. Did i mention that she'd answer every damn call and even save the nos of mysterious callers for future reference We even stopped for a bite one afternoon and the waiter turned out to be one of her admirers
We split eventually, but you can still find her blowing kisses on instagram.

Sagamite:

I was not talking about me. I was talking about men.

As metaphysical as I am, I am only one man, not all men.

I use my clairvoyance to make my points, not only my personal experience.

It is natural, sexist woman.

Men don't consider attraction that important.


The consider sex very important.

Apparently they think about it every 6 seconds. Many men you met at work today would have looked at you and thought of what they can do to you if you allow them bend you over.

True.






Welcome to the real world, woman.

carefreewannabe:

Your world, not mine

I decided to leave the world you are describing when I hit the age of puberty.
I think, I live in a better world now.

I am here to share how to get there.

BananaBender:

hahahahaha......I might like d carefree2wannabe handle after all

happykidArotiba: i've liked ur pix...cute!
#smiles

carefreewannabe:

I was also talking about women.


No doubt.
Same here.

carefreewannabe:
Men can easily have se.x with women in exchange for money. They can do so without attraction FOR SOME TIME or BECAUSE THEY HAVE NO OTHER CHOICE. That's not a secret BUT ALMOST EVERY men PREFERS se.x with a woman that shows them that they PERFORM well. They live for it. They take pride in making women's knees and hearts weak.

carefreewannabe:
If men were PRIMARILY focused on se.x, they would all have a cheap but pretty ashawo who is good in bed they would visit. They want more, much more, OBVIOUSLY.

carefreewannabe:
I can't blame them

carefreewannabe:
Your world, not mine

I decided to leave the world you are describing when I hit the age of puberty.
I think, I live in a better world now.

I am here to share how to get there.

Sagamite:

No, you were not.

You were talking about you.

Any ashawo worth her salt in the industry and a true professional of the industry can achieve this and should know she has to achieve this.

Naturally, men like to feel they are the only ones putting their seed in a woman. So, though many use ashawos, they are a poor substitute to unpaid sex. A lock that all keys open .........................

kilokeys: being a mild flirt and a rational guy.. i get tired of "having a girl like me" sometimes..

i can only imagine how an average girl feels.

*guys on NL bombarding u with PMs

*idlers at the bustop leering and catcalling

*u barely smile so as nt to hint a green light.

*having fake friends and few pple with good intents around.
how exhausting, invasive and overwhelming does all the attention make u feel?

carefreewannabe:

And so were you. Please, don't make me quote all the parts where you were talking about you.

carefreewannabe:
And most men are so stupid as to believe that this is true?
And they don't care that these women are faking?
And this illusion is as satisfying as the TRUE feeling and CONSCIOUS KNOWLEDGE that her DESIRE is making her lose control and give it ALL to him?

carefreewannabe:
Why are you so happy about it?

Sagamite:

Nope.

I spoke about men in general and may have given examples of some applicable to me.






Most men don't visit prostitutes.

Most men are not that bright.

Do the proportion maths.




Happy or Laughing?

rokiatu: First of all, hes not bored, secondly hes not in competition with anyone I married him out of the lot. And thirdly we go out together all the time only on very fews occasions I go alone. But no matter what, men will be men, even if you're married they will still look.

G3NTL3SOUL: Guys, Do you ever get tired of asking ladies out

Beckytee: ur username said it all. Am a misandrist if u are a misogynist

Misogynist2014: The shallow arguements of ladies thrills me atimes, to say the truth, I love the childish attitude of women, expectially the emotional part. Come off it! You don't have to be a misandrist. I'm not here for women like you but for internet feminists like cococandy and carefreewannabe and babygirlfl. I'm here to bully them until the stop their show of shame.

Jasper32:
Nne biko, what are you saying?

cococandy: You're a learner.
See how you're embarrassing your self up and down.
Go and sleep jare and stop disturbing my mentions interrupting my interesting movie

rokiatu: You will only get bored if you view marriage like a lot of people BORING! No one said you should get super serious, or slack off just because you are married. People prospective, and attitude make marriage boring.

Misogynist2014: The shallow arguements of ladies thrills me atimes, to say the truth, I love the childish attitude of women, expectially the emotional part. Come off it! You don't have to be a misandrist. I'm not here for women like you but for internet feminists like cococandy and carefreewannabe and babygirlfl. I'm here to bully them until the stop their show of shame.

babygirlfl:

He is disturbing our mentions because he wants attention.If you engage with him, he will fight with what he knows how to do best which is to insults and bully and he will beat you at it. He will not fight with any intellectual knowledge. Remember insults and bullying only gets people into trouble while intellectual knowledge is important. My dear please ignore him. In real life, I do not reply everybody and I will not also reply everyone here. Remember most people can now afford a smart phone and sometimes people that you would not ordinarily interact with in real life will come under the cover of internet to bully (he called himself that) and insult people and you know what they say about bullies. Nairaland is a big forum and people like him are expected and dealing with people like him is a very important skill to have.