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funshint:
If you mean telenovelas; go and watch "Secret of the Sand"

A man loving telenovelas?

Aklee4994:
I know you have some feeling for him..enjoy your situationship with him...you want someone like him as a guy but will never want your son to be like him Na MUMU Nigeria girls Dey like..


In short what will be your take in the other thread woman

You're delusional. Kobo is a woman!

Aklee4994:
https://www.nairaland.com/7615315/american-wife-living-nigeria-husband#121812241


Pls tell me your view in this thread I want to check something best know to me only

If you went through the thread, you would have seen my comment.

Aklee4994:
okay you’re there also

Oya check this one
https://www.nairaland.com/7615315/american-wife-living-nigeria-husband#121812241

Note:Both parties is wrong but kobo Dey condemn the man...Na who report for station Dey win case Na kobo thinking for this thread be that.

Kobo is a woman lol

The OP came to drag every woman in naija equally. But only one group is here feeling victimised. 😖

Kobojunkie:
1. Our women look better yet 99% of Nigerian men avoid those very women the moment they step foot on the shores abroad. Look around you here on nairaland and you will see that many don't even consider the Nigerian woman anything order than a sex thing.

2. According to medical science, unless you have issues that you need to resolve regularly by bathing, you don't even need to take a bath every day. So, it is probably that those girls who you seek to denigrate know something you obviously don't. Children, for example, are fine with a shower maybe once every 11 days. There is no need to put people down in attempts to make ourselves feel better or hype our egos here.

You're being sarcastic right??

Manydays01:
. now I can see you've been whitewashed. Medical research?? People like you will also believe a research that say African are less intelligent than white. Now, this is where you're going to know you're eating ass and you don't know. You're saying they don't need to bath for 10 days even during summer When the temperature is high as 34⁰c? When the whole vagina, armpit must have been heated up and smelly during the day? How ignorant can a single person get? I notice two things about you;you validate Women too much even for everything unreasonable. And you whitewash the white people and think they're better than you for being white

😂

They bathe during the summer i think. But to be fair, they come from cold climates and don't need to bath as often as Africans do

You're in America I think, at least those ones shower

In Britian, the white ppl here are worse when it comes to this bathing thing.

luminouz:
@1sharon.... You see your life?

You sha wan make the man look like werey! Calm down na. Your blood too hot.

Help her make her marriage work, no stress the Americana with your evil plots 😂😂😂😂

What evil plot? Gettaat

Wifey123:
To be honest, he’s made our life very comfortable here. We have a solar inverter with solar, a generator back up, house help including a nanny. We live in a really nice estate in Lagos. My husband takes care of things. I’d never say that he doesn’t. If there is something that makes me uncomfortable, he goes out of his way to minimize it for me.

There are challenges with living here but at this point, nothing that I can’t handle. I can visit home whenever I like because I have enough savings. I even went home for my parents anniversary last month for 2 weeks. Plus, I was mentally prepared to move before the move happened. So living here has been ok for me. In some ways, better than when I was at home, working myself to death and paying high bills.

This is good. Nice to hear

Pooldrowning:
In all of these mentioned by the op, we the Fulanis are virtuous women. The Fulani woman is highly reserved. You almost wouldn't find her wanting. We do not pretend.

Can any man that is not fulani marry you?

descarado:
And the ones who left the sub saharan shores of Africa is finding it hard being relegated to the back.
It sucks when you know white ladies pass you around cos the grapevine said you are endowed.
After use, they discard you and move on to the next new fun.
It sucks a lot. And by the time such men remembers there are black ladies, the ladies have already moved on. USA is better than Europe for these guys.

Lol you've said it all. I had repeatedly told them this for years,but they assumed I was jealous and envious.

Manydays01:
Oyinbo girls are actually not fine. You'll only get to know when you're here. The same way 60% of their States and cities don't look like what they show to you on their movies, just the same way their women have substandard look too. It not for papers, our women look better. And if not For The inferiority complex we've been given since birth about how these people are better than us and how we should worship them and die to go and slave in their country. Most of these white girls don't even bath. Some can go weeks without water touching her body

Team foreign women!!

If na me talk this thing they go call me jealous evening newspaper

Manydays01:
Nigerian women don't look any better either. But women generally care about men's look than men care about women look. Women want to date and care about attractiveness of Men. If men pay attention to the way women look, most Nigerian women won't be getting attention. But men are thirsty And just want sex

An ugly man will be perceived as attractive if he's rich enough. Like Papa Ned and his trophy wife.
But an ugly woman is just an ugly woman. Not even money can help her ministry.

If women in Nigeria cared about men's looks, there will be a fitness culture in Nigeria. But the bar is low.

Just look at how men insulted Eniola Badmus for being fat and dark skinned. Two things Nigerian men don't like.

Nigerian men go in all day on women's looks. Most of you specifically emphasise how you want a light skinned woman with a big behind. Most of you want the same things.

But when the spotlight is turned on the looks of men, all of a sudden looks don't matter.

One of your comrades here said gyming is for unemployed people 😂

Another said he said he should just be taken as he is 😂

But you men don't take women as they are, you don't approach based on character. You approach based on what you see.

Men are visual as they say.

freddie009:
Can you hear yourself, a man will stay in Nigeria because he wants to keep his wife in Nigeria. The world is not centred around women, there are more important things.

Answer the question pls. Why would the husband say that.

He knows how to run his mouth, but doesn't like to be told shut up. Una just be hypocrites.

Wifey123:
I definitely feel that the cultural differences cause big misunderstandings. Maybe he made a mistake and I’m not the wife that he wanted.

However, to be clear, I did not use the F word. My husband did. He will cuss me out when he’s mad at me.

How is it like being in Nigeria and why did you agree to move there?

freddie009:
A man will choose to be in Nigeria because he wants to maltreat his wife like it is the most important in life. He is probably making more money in Nigeria. Will you leave your company in Nigeria to go work in Walmart or as a caregiver in another's man land. Not every body wants to become an employee.

Yes, if it was most Nigerian women una for they play the victim. Look at a woman that wants her marriage to work she doesn't care if she was right or wrong she just wants peace.

Did you read the OP's account? Why would the husband say; "this is Nigeria, not America and he could break my head and nothing was going to happen" if that wasn't part of his agenda on keeping her in Nigeria"?

He knows how to be verbally abusive but doesn't like to be told shut up. Nonsense.

It is the husband playing the victim.

freddie009:
Nigerian women come and learn, if it was our country women she would have packed her things to her father's house and start making the man look like a villain to ever want to listen to her.

God knows I wouldn't be able to cope with a Nigerian woman.

Her "father's house" is all the way in America.

The reason why he doesn't want to move with his wife over there is because he knows they would treat his fuckup. He would be held accountable.

Both of them are just as rude and deserve each other.

Na which woman you dey cope with before? Yeye.

Nice2023:
My dear,my wife is an American lady.

I didn't tell u that I am a poor Nigerian okay.

Be taking it easy. I am not an open book okay.

Abroad is not my problem na una dey take am like heaven. My two brothers are medical doctors in Trinidad and Tobago. U can locate them on facebook but there is no need for exposing their identity.

I am a real estate man here and a financial cooperative lender.

Just calm down okay.


Poor people always thinking everyone must be poor and remain in their pitiable conditions.

If you already have a wife, why are you telling this lady to come and stay in your house due to a minor issue with her hubby?

You're just digging the hole deeper and you can tell that your long story to the birds!

Is Seyi vybez popular or upcoming?

MurderX:
He is just upset, don't leave, don't go anywhere, he is likely regretting his action now, he is telling you to leave because he is also scared that he was angry enough to slap you. Most responsible men will rather quit a relationship once they hit their women because they blame themselves afterwards and they are frightened to be tagged a woman beater but it is left to you to understand his temperament and manage him because in Nigeria, 85% of our men or more will surely slap you or beat the hell out of you if you as a wife tell them to shut up. You may get away with it in the USA but our culture has zero tolerance for that and nobody will support you here. Don't ever tell your Nigerian husband to shut up, we have big egos, He probably has been taking it from you while in the USA but he wouldn't take it in his motherland - never! instead he will walk away.
Don't leave, we also don't just walk away from marriages because we will have a lot explaining to do to our friends, family, church, uncles, aunts etc. and it will take more than this trivia episode for him to do so. Send him apologies msgs and then a few calls, send him again in the morning, afternoon and evening, he will be back and he will apologise too. Don't go anywhere, he is also testing you to see if you will truly leave. He can't throw you out, it will take a lot for a Nigerian man to throw his wife out, I think he loves you and feels unhappy and guilty about what he did, asking you to leave is trying to escape from his self guilt.

BS. Most men that beat women don't stop until the woman Is dead. No matter how remorseful they are, it will certainly happen again.
They justify it by saying they do it out of love or because the woman brought it on.
They are remorseful but it ends up happening again.
People don't change unless they're intentional about it.

What does lekki and ajah mean?

hammerT:
THAT MAN LOOK BLACK TO YOU?

He isn't black but his followers are.

Foreigners come to africa and they make straight fools out of the locals.

Kubernetes:
Even though, the late Pastor was scamish, his people were more foolish for believing in him and wasting such no of days to bury him.

The holy spirit just revealed to me he intended to resurrect the man next week, but his followers bungled the plan by burying him.

Roboto11:


People of Little faith.

They should have waited one more day.

Now he's dead for real because they buried him.

placeofallure:
You're a fool, no apologies. You're using your wife's life to do ping pong. The person who told you here not to use the drug, do you know his or her background? Whether he's a tailor or bricklayer do you know? What happened to letting her access apt medical care in a hospital? You don't have money but you should have sense to do birth control. 5 children is abysmal in this country! I don't know the kind of women that marry your type!

☝🏾

This is the best answer.

Nice2023:
If u have no where to go...come let me take care of u until the day u will leave Nigeria.

Come and u won't regret it.

You read "American" and your eyes have got big.

Green snake in green grass pretending to be helpful.


Olojukokoro!

Bullythebully:
Most men hate to hear the truth on their shortcomings from women. They hate to face rejection from women here. And any desire of a woman here to obtain the best version of males are only written off as delusional and unrealistic by men.
But when they travel out,in the hands of women of other races,they have no option but to step up and be their best. They learn in humility and make efforts they will never had attempted with Nigerian women.

Just leave them. After staying single and sexless for years abroad,no one will advice them to do the needful. There is no woman to be pressurized and shamed into accepting them over there .

Lol you've said it all 💯 .I've said it here for years that western women overall still prefer their own men to black men from Africa. Alot of men in Nigeria are unattractive,
brute and lack the skills to talk to a woman.
But because I said it, they assumed I was a jealous evening newspapered feminist trying to hold them back.


Not untill, one of their own starting telling them the truth, now they want to sit up and listen.

The western women they pedestals will be truly horrified how they treat women in their native country.

Kobojunkie:
1. Which is sad by the way because there are lots of white men who would date black girls only if the gals were open to it. Fortunately, in the last 20 years, I have watched as more and more black girls are beginning to abandon that loyalty many of them were probably fed from childhood and society.

Yep. But those white men that are into Bw tend to like a specific type of Bw, they like the ones that very slim.
Now if those BW fit the description, they can open up their options and not waste time with BM.

Kobojunkie:
1. I advise you to stay put in Nigeria and don't bother coming over here because Nigerians like you, na una full here.

Oyibo go work and still make time almost everyday to visit gym. Na only una with una level of commonsense go decide say una busy pass them.

2. What percentage of Nigerian men arrive here rich or even become as rich as you describe? Make una dey visit reality abeg!

Leave him.

Unemployed people going to the gym? Lol.

That was his pathetic attempt at consoling himself.

All of a sudden looks and keeping fit are unimportant when the spotlight is on men.

But Nigerian men approach women solely based on looks alone.

PROPEACE:
White men chasing who? In my student Life in the UK, I have seen many black dudes going out with white girls including short ugly me, but I have NEVER seen a black Nigerian girl (student) going out with a white dude. Never!🤣

Black women overall are not attracted to white men, we tend to be more race loyal.

Black men have the largest sexual appetite out of all races of men.

Gerrard59:
For once, we agree on something.

I really don't care about your opinion

Mercury12:
Abeg do your plastic surgery in peace

Lol. Did I say anything about plastic surgery, who are you trying to gaslight?

Either have money or work on your looks. We women are visual too.