₦airaland Forum

fijihems:
I was flogged several times by my father, but that was during my time. I didn't take any offense because I thought that it was the normal thing to do. My mother never spanked me, but would rather rush to drag me out from my father when she taught the beating was too much.

I see that as family politics, when mothers decide to let the father discipline their children while they play the good mother while creating hatred between the children and the father.

In my own case, I adopted the same style of spanking and disciplining my children, particularly my son who was the first born overseas. My son doesn't seem to like the way I tried to discipline him when he was younger and the mother uses that against me.

So, I am of the opinion that it is counter productive to spank children particularly if they are born in a developed country or even in Nigeria or elsewhere. The best approach is to deny the child what they love most until they correct their actions or attitude.

At least you are not the typical Nigerian parent that doubled down on your actions. You instead became reflective based on your sons grievances towards your actions.

Spain007:
Spare the rod, spoil the child is a modern-day proverb on the wisdom of discipline. It means that, if a parent refuses to discipline an unruly child, that child will grow accustomed to getting his own way and develop an air of entitlement. He will become, in the common vernacular, a spoiled brat.

Na una favourite verse be that.
Why didn't you quote the verse telling parents not to provoke their children?

nairamaniac:
You can hardly tell the state of mind the beater has while beating the child as an unlooker.

At times, the child needs to feel his actions alone is a frustration to your entire life. Depending on the magnitude of his offence.

True,some parents transfer their frustrations on their children, which is really messed up.

He's right. Alot of Nigerian parents beat out of frustration. They transfer aggression, when something annoys them.

But their children are not allowed to have an attitude after having a bad day at school, they will be dealt with.
So it's hypocrisy.

80% of Nigerians believe in violence.


They're quick to mention "spare the rod, spoil the child'


But I've never heard a single person quote the verse talking about provoking your children to anger.

His arms are around her like she's his property rather than a partner.


It doesn't sit well with alot of people. But it's not illegal, she's over 18.

They will.

Unless you want to starve them, so they don't develop properly.

Not a fan, some styles on the fingertips look like gangrene

This scammer

Op needs help. Not even trying to be rude.

MrBrownJay1:
lol, you had me checking the TV right now and cant see how they could get the password from there...pls we are here to learn, tell/teach us more on the above in bold.

Probably a smart TV

KanwuliaExtra:
If course!
4 grand kids.
My last 2 are teenagers!
The first 2 are out of the house.

How many marriages?
TWO!!!!

I see...must be a big age gapp

There was nothing wrong with the before picture

I thought you said you had grandkids?

nedekid:
Kai, benson and hedges de expensive in that UK ohh. See as people de beg me when I commot pack.
Cigar pack of ₦600 be equivalent of 9-10k. Haba!

It's expensive to deter people from smoking

Look up pair bonding.

For him to ask your parents for money shows he doesn't want to delve into crime.

because na so so fraud boys and ashawo full Cyprus.

I make it all the time

Wordsfrombimpe:
You are indeed a Queen

Thank you for this

Don't mention it

Sex denied at home is often the main cause.

When husbands gain weight, they lose themselves and aren't attractive to their wives anymore.

No woman wants to come home to a bag of beans. If a woman cheats, there is something the man is not doing. He need to be prayerful, so another man will not break his home. He should not be complacent because many men will like to be in his position.

Always appear neat like when you met her.

budaatum:
I'm saying, I don't know where it is nor why they are there and information is rather sketchy.

Obviously non believers put it there

budaatum:
Or just don't believe propaganda since it had no credible source when it first appeared in 2013 and has no credible source now.

Note how it was "supposed" then.

https://www.nairaland.com/1558961/holy-quran-desecrated-street-sewage

Are you saying Muslims staged the photos just for propaganda reasons?


Muslims don't joke with their quran and they don't let anyone either.

Closeted ex-muslims/unbelievers are behind this

correctguy101:
Ah yes, all those Nigerians that pretend to go Hajj just to japa...

You too get sense

Pretend to go to Hajj? 🤣

Chaii..you took it to a different level

ChybuzzDD:
She can still send her kids to schools abroad while living and running her business in Nigeria.

And leaving them in whose care?

pansophist:
and never talk about papers.

Lool...

Raalsalghul:
I'm not going to lie though, you're spot on on this one.

The chance of forking different white women might be intoxicating to a typical black man when they arrive but after sometime one realizes they're using them for fun due to their big appendage and sexual stamina.

But my biggest gripe with them is that they can turn on you even without any offense. Too unstable! I've seen too many stories of these even from the supposed white women wey dey go church. Lol!

So no lies there.

It's why a lot of born and bred Nigerian/African men still end up with Nigerian women/African women.

Add to that cultural differences.

All these makes me theorize that the so called "lack of pussy" abroad might actually be "lack of white pussy" wey no too send them because other black women will get down with them for sure even with average looks.

It's just the craze for white pussy. Nothing else!

Cc: 1Sharon

They can be scandalous. They dish out false allegations and then weaponize their tears to get men in trouble especially black men

Aklee4994:
No,kobo is a man with two hairy balls

Ah yes, he's male because you say so.

budaatum:
And it wasn't even Korans. But some people do not seem to mind baring false witness!

https://mcalpineplumbing.com/blog/5-weird-things-found-pipes

It seems you must be blind.

AnyanwuSilas:
If you search it on Google, almost all the link proves it happened in Saudi Arabia, it's only Muslims that can do this and in an Islamic country.

Here is another one that's different from this

https://en.shafaqna.com/99430/desecrated-quran-found-in-a-trash-dump-in-saudi-arabia/

Why would Muslims bin the quran? Desecrating the quran is a serious offense after insulting mohammed.

An unbeliever did that to make a point.

I'm sure they're ready to kill, but they don't know who to hold responsible

Nigerians are sheep sha.