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AkpaMgbor:
You guys keep regurgitating this same fallacy. Gastric bypass is usually for very obese 500-600 pounds people who can no longer activate their metabolism to burn fat on their own. Teni was no where close to that range, she wasn't even close to 300 pounds which is roughly 150kg.

phemmyfour:
It's genetic. You no do biology for school .

If it's about food intake, some people that I know would have been fat by now

Vinnie2000:
Some Pple are actually Fat, NATURALLY, Ogbeni.

If you have 2 VERY FAT Parents, How will you be Slim?

Imagine ur Father is Yokozuna and ur Mother is Eniola Badmus, U MUST fat o.

imagrg:
Living a live of sacrifice is the best way to live. Someone sacrificed his time and energy on making television available to you today.

Give, and you shall receive an eternal gift which is happiness in seeing others happy.

oluwaseyi0:
All this big bold and beautiful are just deception

Another massive deception still ongoing is claiming she did it through the gym

Gym is a gradual process, hers is instantaneous the news of her new shape just hit the internet, no one saw when she lost 30 or 40 or 50 which will have been very visible

She just wake up one morning and loose 75, her doctor did a great job

Don't let online people decieve you

LilMissFavvy:
If the topic mentioned marrying a wife into a family home, I would not be in support of it. I think we are talking about single people above 30 who still live with parents.

EbenezerTriumph:
I'm 32 years old and I'm the only one my parents have and they're in their 70's.
so basically I should leave them under whose care?
[uote author=Omoawoke post=119592441]limit your advice to yourself and try get sense this new year. Not everybody lives in room and parlor or self contain.
Some people papa get mansions in big cities and the child has his/her space. So they should park out and go and rent self contain?
honestly the way some people even reason ehn.
even had this girl I intended Starting something serious with.
she was pressuring me to leave my parents and rent a house so she'll have all the time to be with me.
funny enough my parents place is more closer to my place of work, also my apartment in my parents compound is like a boy's quarters so you'll have all the freedom in my parents place, also I can also be checking the sales boy working at the shop I erected at my parents compound.
had to dump the bitch
Op, This advice of yours is not true in all cases. If i had left my mothers house.the money i used to invest then would have been spent on getting new apartment, furnishings and still be working under somebody today after i have spend the money finish. Also, it makes me focus and not inviting unnecessary girls around that would have cause distractions. And also, if it is only your mother you have got, and only you she has got. You cant just leave her house and go rent a place na. If you doing well with that your decision keep it to your self. No cause depression for some people.

Bruh not everyone living with their parents sits idle all day, I work really hard and I know people who also does, the idea is not rushing out when there's no one pursuing you.

Let's assume your place is few minutes to your workplace and you now intentionally leave home to where you'll now commute for hours to your workplace cause you want to feel independent and to feel uncomfortable.
It doesnt make sense moreover living comfortably isn't a bad thing as long as you're working and making the dough, don't let motivational speakers use comfort zone whine your head.

Moreover I believe it's the women that'll be more worried about this cos all they've always been concerned about their territory which they know might be affected if the husband is still living with his family.

Honestly, this is one of the best comment.

LilMissFavvy:
If an adult above 30yrs is living a responsible life, has an average job, is still Hussling to get better, is not a drunk or womanizer, then such a person deserves full respect, it is only an irresponsible poorly*raised human who would disrespect the person simply because he/she is still living in parents house.

Kobojunkie:
The statement in bold does not compute at all!

You seem to be working under the assumption that all folks who live at home are lazy and this even after some on here have explained how they contribute to the home financially, pretty much similar to what thye would do if they moved out and were living with roommates.

Kobojunkie:
They move out, get a place and the parents end up having to pay for it?

LilMissFavvy:
A good advice, but not compulsory. It is circumstances/ financial status that should determine if one should rent a place or remain in parents house. What if the parents are peaceful and give out rooms for their mature adult children? What if the parents house is vacant? I hope the OP is not the type who would put pressure on his 30yrs relative. Family should be supportive, family is family.

Kobojunkie:
Think of it this way instead, why would a person living in his parent's home consider marriage without first making sure he has his feet on the ground?

skultrick:
It's not assumption, it's a fact. Do your research on the dangers of comfort zone. You think paying lesser bills will allow you save more, nah, it doesn’t. Higher income is what allows you to save more and achieve more.

2. Not everyone will be rich or wealthy if that's your definition of success. The bottom line here is that you will achieve more financially when you live that comfort zone.

2special:
Free this guy, he's not the first person to marry two wives.

OgaMadam:
He didnt mention anything about love.

disstroyy:
How did she snatch Yul? He decided to sleep with her, impregnated her and married her

A grown man can't be snatched into a relationship.

Kam2021:
What she has been looking for...they form strong woman ontop another person husband..get out biko..busy forming colleague and gathering information to wreck a beautiful marriage..nansense

hifocus:
Yes with kids.

hifocus:
Why didn't she work things out with her first husband since she's that desperate to stay married? Judy is nothing but an ungrateful wench, a cheat and a disgusting hoe.

billyG:
You F-gender should learn haw to SHARE na,so that men can go round y'all.

Bahamas95:
Sharing what?.... She's a home breaker.

I hate polygamy.

Bahamas95:
After turning down many suitors in their prime they later end up snatching other women's husbands.



Husband snatcher!

Karleb:
Wait o.

If I marry igbo girl and I refuse to train her sibling or care for my in-law, what will happen?


You igbo people are trying sha.

Some of you trained all your siblings. Marriage will take a lot from you, even after marriage you are still slave to your lazy and jobless in-laws.

Omo! I'm loving my Yoruba boy life o.

MALIGNANTGuest:
Download APPs and see South Africans worshipping you. South African Ladies pour daily libations on Nigerian men. They commit suicide on losing one. It's a fact. U need see humility in its entirety. East Africans are there too.
I have seen it all. These Ladies don't fake humility. It's traditionally in them.
Ask Nigerians residing in South Africa.
It's a huge shame and taboo for a ZULU MAN to give out a non virgin daughter in marriage.
Meanwhile in Nigeria we get BOREHOLES as wives with nagging as its foundation. Enough!
The era of my son come home & marry is Over!

wiseone28:
Hijab wearers i pass

citytv:
31 indeed