Culture › Re: Yoruba Names Whose Meanings Are Now Lost by 1Sharon(f): 6:12pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
Olu317: Yes, he became a spirit after he was defeated. This is what is stated by ifaodu. So,there are spiritbeings sent by Eledumare to go upon earth and heaven.
In the ancient,he came like police to pick people up whose time were up when sin arrived on earth after the law of Eledumare was broken or disobeyed. One day, he came and was defeated. What was he before he became a spirit? |
Culture › Re: Yoruba Names Whose Meanings Are Now Lost by 1Sharon(f): 6:09pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
Olu317: The examples you mentioned are not necessarily what the names means from its original conceptualization.
Ikúmúyi (lkú mú iyi-death caught this particular one up) or ikú mu iyi(death consume /drank this particular one up) are not the meaning. Rather, ikú mọ́ uyi(death knows this particular one; hence he/she is untouchable) .
Ikúṣeka is same with the purposeful positive translation and not negative of it. Hence death has been curtailed and not death did evil.
Yoruba ancestors are well knowledgeable about their environment and cosmology. So, no name came to be in existence without proper ifa divination,which leads to names that are given in accordance to cirmumstances of any child birth.
The new Mid 1800s when colonialists came led to this distortion by new converts for both Muslims and christians converts which makes people bear names as they like.
Are you aware Elúwa(Olúwa) or Elú(Olú) is a name of Orúnmílà who also bear Ẹlà as a name ? Yoruba ancestors were more cordinated and thorough than the modern day ones. Okay you explained that Kumuyi and Ikuseka are positive but you never explained Ikujenyō and there are many 'Iku' names I could list if you like. So Olu-to-da-iwā is the same as Orunmila? Is Orunmila the supreme God in yoruba religion? |
Romance › Re: Sharon1 Said Indian People Worship Cow by 1Sharon(f): 6:00pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
They do lol..didn’t you know?
The Hindus specifically. |
Crime › Re: Lady Arrested For Beating Her 9-Year-Old House Help To Death In Enugu (Photos) by 1Sharon(f): 5:39pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
Humble25: Some Women are heartless, why is it that this beating of a child to death always involve women? It's always, yes. But I always ask, what were their husbands doing about it? Working too much, they don't know what happening in their households? Or not giving a damn? |
Crime › Re: Lady Arrested For Beating Her 9-Year-Old House Help To Death In Enugu (Photos) by 1Sharon(f): 5:36pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
SweetDipBenny: Forget dat thing. Women una get mind In cases like this, I always wonder where were the men of the house?? Were they so out of touch with their own home? The men are also complicit if they do nothing when they witness the househelps being abuse.d |
Crime › Re: Lady Arrested For Beating Her 9-Year-Old House Help To Death In Enugu (Photos) by 1Sharon(f): 5:31pm On Dec 28, 2022 |
A grown woman like yourself have an underage 9 year child as your househelp.
She'll be cooking your food, washing your clothes, taking care of your children, cleaning the whole house.
You don't feel shame and embarrassed to have a little child as a househelp? |
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Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by 1Sharon(f): 4:32pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
ibkayee: Or what will happen? He'll come and report her on Nairaland? Lol A Nigerian husband is God you know? He can smite you for disrespectful him. Don't even look at him when he's talking to you, you look down. |
Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by 1Sharon(f): 4:29pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
Silentgroper: if a man works multiple jobs and still helps d woman in whatever domestic activities. Tell me, who is doing more? Which Nigerian man helps in domestic tasks? Don't you guys say its a woman's job? I know some get involved, but this isn't usually the case. If you're such a traditionalist that believes household chores are feminine roles and beneath you, you dare not ask your wife to help you financially. That's hypocrisy. |
Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by 1Sharon(f): 4:16pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
zedegit: Bleep your opinion. You can travel out where that nonsense happens.
Wake up one morning homeless because your wife called cops on your miserable self.
For me, it's the woman's duty to handle domestic chores because I am African! And it's a man duty to handle the finances solely. I'm an african woman! |
Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by 1Sharon(f): 4:15pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
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Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by 1Sharon(f): 4:03pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
Silentgroper: If u're provided with an opportunity to choose btw solely providing for d family or solely being in charge of domestic chores and other home activities. Which would u choose? I'll pick being in charge of domestic chores. But realistically I know I'll be in charge of a bit of both. As I said before if a woman's husband isn't middle class or rich. She ends up running the house and providing aswell. So pls answer me, who is doing more work? |
Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by 1Sharon(f): 3:56pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
Maynman: People live within their means. Most men i know are sole providers. We aren't talking about the men you know, we're talking about Nigerian men in general. |
Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by 1Sharon(f): 3:54pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
Okonandmary: Really, according to statistics here in Nigeria.
The number of males that are wage earners is (65.67%) when compared to women (34.33%). Apparently, majority of working men are sole providers.
So where is your a lot coming from? Where is your stats from? And yes, they earn a wage but is it enough to support a family and children? How many of them are breadwinners in reality? |
Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by 1Sharon(f): 3:36pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
Maynman: In which country are majority rich and are sole providers? There is no country that has a rich majority, but they have a distinct middle class. Unlike Nigeria with a diminishing middle class. In Gulf countries, the men are often sole providers. Nigerian men need to stop claiming that they are breadwinners. Its not true. Their women are out there hustling aswell. |
Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by 1Sharon(f): 3:27pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
Silentgroper: Yeah well, if making money is that simple, ya'll should take it up.. How long does it take to cook, clean and do other home domestic whatnots.. You sound naive. How long does it take to cook and clean when you have more than 3 children?? Women are not only expected to support financially, Nigerian men expect them to come home and clean and cook so who is doing more? You guys will tell women that domesticated tasks are for women, but women don't tell you guys providing is for men. We just get on with it or the family will suffer. |
Romance › Re: Polygamy Is Back! by 1Sharon(f): 3:22pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
atheistandproud: In my experience, and I mean no offense. Most ladies will SAY that they can never share their man with anyone.
In practice however, most ladies will openly go after a married man with kids. Many will claim that they were deceived but this is not true for most of them.
Even women knowingly attempt to snatch their friends man or date him alongside their friend secretly.
Why is it that women fight over community joysticks instead of just leaving them for a decent man?
Most (not all) women have no reservations on polygamy. It just isn't politically correct to say it yet but we'll get there in time. Those women that are dating married men or their friends husbands are doing so hoping to snatch him completely from their wives one day. They don't want to share him. Some women are side chick's with the hope that they will be chosen one day. I'd say most women that are side chick's are doing so with an agenda. |
Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by 1Sharon(f): 3:17pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
Maynman: How did you arrive at “most”?
Most married people I know can afford to be sole providers. Majority of Nigerian are poor. |
Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by 1Sharon(f): 3:14pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
Okonandmary: So how many of them are helping out with the bills A lot. Because most Nigerian men cant afford to be sole providers. |
Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by 1Sharon(f): 3:13pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
Silentgroper: Well there cant be two adults at home and only one is tasked with the financial stability of the home... Is that your logic? Well there cant be two adults at home and only one is tasked with cooking, cleaning and child rearing. |
Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by 1Sharon(f): 3:00pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
ibkayee: I won't be surprised if she pays bills in the house as well attending to all domestic work.
The average Nigerian man has convinced himself he is a sole provider and will often role play as one online lol
The everyday women we see working in all sectors are not throwing their money into the ocean
Anyway looks like it's playful banter between them The thing is that most Nigerian men are not sole providers. They can't afford to do so. Their woman needs to work just like they do. Only the middle class-rich can financially carry a wife and children. |
Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by 1Sharon(f): 2:56pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
If a Nigerian wife refused to help her husband with the bills at home, the man will be upset too.
She has every right to be upset. |
Travel › Re: A Ghanaian Experience With Nigerians Abroad by 1Sharon(f): 2:53pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
sukkot:
charle tell us how the nigerian would blow out the whole office during lunch time with smell of abula and iru and shaki Ghanaians eat those things too you know |
Celebrities › Re: James Brown Celebrates His Younger Sister, Grace Brown, On Her Birthday (Photos) by 1Sharon(f): 2:47pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
I like the pictures, I can't even hate. |
Travel › Re: Is Relocation Abroad The New Success? by 1Sharon(f): 2:45pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
If he is successful in Nigeria , what was his point of relocating? |
Crime › Re: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by 1Sharon(f): 2:16pm On Dec 27, 2022*. Modified: 8:18pm On Nov 24, 2023 |
Skyeyeye: Why don't you counter me without insult? Let's see how dumb I am. Did you counter me without insults? You grotesque hypocrite. |
Crime › Re: Follow Up: Nigerian Locked Up for the Case of Rape —The Walk, The End. by 1Sharon(f): 2:15pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
Skyeyeye: Not every Nairalander is dumb after all. In what way is asking if the girl was a virgin a smart question? You're an imbecilé. |
Romance › Re: Polygamy Is Back! by 1Sharon(f): 2:10pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
Do women really have no reservations on polygamy? |
Crime › Re: Bolanle Raheem's Husband Gives Chilling Account Of How She Was Murdered by 1Sharon(f): 2:03pm On Dec 27, 2022 |
yuzjet: This looks more spiritual. How could you shot an innocent woman just like that?
No matter what happens, the police man should be hanged with immediate effect. Be quiet. Innocent people get killed all around the world. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Timini Egbuson: Why I Stopped Attending Church by 1Sharon(f): 3:13am On Dec 27, 2022 |
staga: All these people saying they stopped attending church for all kinds of reasons are just jokers.
Do you quit your profession or your job because of "pretences" or because you have a bad co-worker or boss? Many people are still working under toxic environments because they need the money.
I am not in church because of a pastor or someone. So it will take a monumental reason to stop me from attending church. I am yet to see such reason. After, some stopped listening or following Jesus because they were offended at Him. Doesn't the Bible say when 2 or 3 are gathered he is there? He doesn't need a church, the pastor is middle man between you and God. That's why ppl call them theives because if you have the holy spirit, what do you need a pastor for? Or is the Holy spirit partial? |
Romance › Re: I'm 32years Old, Look Very Thin And Small And Only Weigh 35kg . by 1Sharon(f): 12:14am On Dec 27, 2022 |
35kg?! How tall are you??
Do you have some kind of disability? |
Culture › Re: Yoruba Names Whose Meanings Are Now Lost by 1Sharon(f): 10:43pm On Dec 26, 2022 |
Slickchuma1: This is very nice. Could you help with the meaning of the following names: Famuyiwa, aderiike, oluwatiresimi, omoteleola, olukayode Adebesin This site should help. @ all others on this thread should check out this website: https://www.yorubaname.com/ |