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GenderMix:
@Sharon, there are lots of kids 5yrs, 6yrs+ at that age doing wonders. If you watch food Network, you'll see how these kids display the talents and when you hear their stories, most of them learnt from their parents and grandparents.

@jewessgratitude is absolutely spot on . Kids need to learn early and organically too. This applies to boys and girls. For me , I think it's better to learn the basics from parents or any adult close by before embarking on skills from social media . Nothing can replace traditional methods.

Those kids on those shows are not the average white kid, that's why they're on TV.

White parents will typically let their 9 year old bake cakes, cookies, muffins at most. Baking is safe. But cooking for their entire family at unsupervised at 9?! What will the kid even cook? White people usually eat light and simple.

I agree with her aswell. I just don't think a 10 year old needs to cook for her entire family. That's extra. And I still maintain that it's laziness and poverty on the parents part.

Is 13 not early enough?

Jewessgratitud3:
So poverty determines the age a child begins to cook now?

Shasha... How are you?
You need to grow up.

Oyinbo children cook at the age of 6 you'll call it great skills but black man does the same you call it poverty. That is because you have a poverty mentality.

For your info, I was born into a well to do family and my dad brought us up in the poshest areas in ikoyi. I'm not sure you know what it means to raise children up to university level with a full-time house wife in the 80s in ikoyi. Where were your parents then?

I'm not from a poor home. Never you attach poverty to my childhood or me as a person again.

Grow up

How many oyibos do you know that do this?!

The same white people that we mock for having tasteless food? Stop the cap. They allow their child to be a child.

Jewessgratitud3:
Fine tune kor. I can imagine what you'll be cooking in the name of fine-tuning. I'm sure it will be no different from the lady in the post that claims she can only cook for herself.

Culinary skills require some training from your mother take it or live it. All this things you guy watch in YouTube is nothing but concocted poison. Learn the local and traditional way of cooking meals.

Culinary skillls can be gotten from any seasoned adult. Are orphans not cooking?

Jewessgratitud3:
Who told you it was laziness on any ones part?
The way our parents trained us during our time is quite different from what you guys had that lacked the involvement of your parents who left you to figure things out yourself.

My Mom did it till we came off age and while we were very tender, she made sure we were always around her whenever she was cooking. She made us hand her things in the kitchen and that was how we learnt what goes in first and lastly into the food so it was easy for us when we took over the kitchen at that Early age.

One thing you should understand about training a child is catching them young. Even the bible says, train up a child so when he is OLD he'll never depart from it. Which means you have to start early before distraction sets in and the child looses interest and refuses to do anything. As I dey lecture you now make you dey learn and not to just be opening that your buca cavity and be talking anyhow on my post.

What happened to 13 and above? 9 is just not necessary abeg. It is needless. If you check now, it's poor parents that push their child to do things beyond their years, because the parents cannot afford to graft alone. Poverty and laziness. Be a parent and stop pushing your child into adult situations.

Most little girls always show curiosity anyway. It is your duty as a parent to let them cook what is age appropriate.

TheWinterBird:
Sounds like laziness.

No one taught me how to cook before I learned, and I learned back in Nigeria as a kid. I found it fun and didn't see it as anything difficult, as it's not.

Yes, my mother didn't show me either but I was curious.

I don't believe there are girls that can't cook, just girls that don't want to.

If you're interested, you'll fine tune your skills.

10 is too early to cook for an entire family, I don't care.

Lot of parents hide laziness and inability to afford their child be a child under the guise of training. Sorry, it's not necessary.

What about the early or mid teens ?

A wife should contribute under 50% of the bills at home. If it's about the same or more, she ends up doing more.

A woman should be either be a SAHM or pay under 50% of the bills. Nothing else.

Benwallt:
You're that desperate. Your biological clock must be nearing it's expiry date. Nonsense

Desperate ke? Shebi you said it's Bulllshit that men should cater for women. Oya now, I'll visit your parents with 12 tubers of yam. I will take care of you.

MyExpression:
This one is a traumatised child.
Who initiated the hug?

So we also shouldn't hug our sisters and cousins when they are not wearing bra...coz we actually do feel the touch.
...but the mind is wired in a way that blocks any amorous feelings upon such contact.
Even church brethren give 360 hug, but a pure mind will hug and move on.

Well, maturity demands her and him to adjust the hugging afterwards...coz even men feel uncomfortable when hugging with an erection.

As an adult he is supposed to know better and isolate himself until it goes away.

And yes I don't agree with women not wearing bras in public either, that's also indecent.

michlins:
yes ma'am. If Remi says Nigeria will be good today, Tinubu has no choice but to make Nigeria great.

This is the situation across board including governors and those kleptomaniac civil servants

Oh really? So If women call the shots, what use are you, calling yourself a leader? Seems like you just want be called a leader w/o earning it

Sounds like yall don't want to be held accountable.

Benwallt:
Who's your princess? U better seek for help

Don't worry Queen, I'll come and pay your groom price.

GoodSpirit:
She wouldn't have put that scenario because erection in the morning for men doesn't have to do with sexual attraction, you just wake and your penis is up and strong for no reason.

If she wants to communicate she would have done that considering the fact that she won't know for sure that scenario is actually the case.

Why didn't he wait till it goes down? Why hug your own daughter with an erect penis? That shit is disgusting. If she's being truthful.

Benwallt:
Bullcrap. Load of bullcrap

I hear you my princess! 👸

Seunpapa65:
A rich man will pick a girl from poor home without thinking twice but woman it will turn to another thing

That's because it's in a man nature to do that for the RIGHT woman.

Your cross to carry. It's the life you chose.

This is why women should avoid men poorer than them. It leads to resentment.

He made his bed, he should lie in it.

Biggie225:
Women are great pinnacle for every working society. Women contributed alot to what we are facing today in Nigeria.
Developed countries don't joke with their women.Reason is because they know what women brings to the society.
Great women raise great Generations.

Are you now saying Africans joke with their women?

You lot try to claim western women have too much power and abuse it, so where is all of this now coming from?

Westerners also dont joke with critical thinking, technological advancement, innovation. Try imitate that.

ednut1:
obviously not. But in today’s world its a nice to have asset considering his job. He can fly to many places to perform without visa wahala. Men dont want to suffer again like in the past. We want softlife too hahahaha

Lol but they hardly deny well off men visa

So it's left to women to develop, build and advance society and cover the inadequacies of African men?

You're indirectly blaming Nigeria on women?

ednut1:
he saw British citizenship, decent woman and financially ok woman. Maybe the babes in his church are broke parasites

Lol and what about it him? I doubt he's with her for papers. Only the poor desperate men do that. Time will tell sha

Hezzyluv:
The guy that killed that Jewish man might have been nursing hatred with Israeli citizens over what Palestines are facing in the hands of Israel.

Arabs have never liked Jews and that hatred has been cemented in your quran.

The 'palestinian occupation' is nothing but a distraction. Arabs hate them either way.

Bellotelli:
So now because the assailant beared a Muslim name, the crime has been given a religious colouration.
What about the thousands of shootings being perpetuated by non Muslims? Truly the Media is biased against Muslims.

Nice try.
The beef between Arabs and Jews is centuries old. We all know what the deal is. It will always be religious for as long as Jews exist.

His worst track so far.

Jewessgratitud3:
Stop calling me that nonsense. This is the second time you're calling me that and I won't take it from you.

Have I ever trolled you abi what's your problem. Please don't get me upset.

Okay. Don't cry.

Jewessgratitud3:
Use what against me? Like I really care what they say about me on here? Hian! Are they feeding me?

I disclosed my age and other past about me which they've been using against, it didn't bother me, is it now the blessings of God they'll use against me that will bother me?

You don't even know me. Abeg, let them suit themselves for all I care.

You're a troll anyway.

canada123:
Wow . You doing it all . I personally want to quit the life, it’s expensive, makes you feel less of a person , I see people in committed relationship , living a good life , and I’m here , just feel very terrible as a person and it’s affecting me physiologically

That's what happens when you listen to too many podcast bros.

They're going to use this against you in the future. Continue.

sonnie10:
Ordinary, that yam will not pass customs.
It is not dry . People should stop posting what does not make sense.
Only those that have never been to the airport would believe this.

You're right. Maybe people can get away with smuggling drugs to Nigeria.

But from Nigeria? Never. They scrutinise them too much.

Lies.

naijapips02:
Big black Trans woman in full focus. They know what the are doing. Sleepy Joe barely knows where he is.

She's trans? What an insult.

Namaster:
Just the second month of the year and OP already won the Simplest Man of the Year Award.

She's a good girl, she's shy. She's not your typical Nigerian girl.

Yet she's a baby mama. OP, slap yourself.

She's a who.re pretending to be the kind of girl you want. No girl gets pregnant out of wedlock because she's a good girl.

That girl putting up an act for you sucks soldier dick like someone sucking the marrow out of a chicken bone.

Find someone else!

How is she pretending to be the kind of girl he wants when she already said no?

Are you okay?