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[quote author=Ogidi-Olu link=topic=875489.msg10237651#msg10237651 date=1329780125]Oh! Has it?
Let's take this scenario:
U're dating a guy dat can't speak English fluently. If u choose to accept him as he is, u'll be scared to even correct his blunders because u knew he was like dat b4 u guys started dating BUT someone dat wants to change him will correct him even if he will get angry. So, if u were dis guy, who will u prefer?
The 'loving acceptor' OR the 'annoying changer'.[/quote] I dont see it in the same way. To change me means to alter the core of my character and personality , so using your own example, if I met a guy whose English was not as fluent as it could be then of course I will help him improve it, that is not the same as wanting to instill in him a desire to change. It is an improvement on what is already there not a change to his personality or character.

[quote author=Ogidi-Olu link=topic=875489.msg10235977#msg10235977 date=1329762040]If you were to choose between someone that will love and accept you for who you are OR someone that will change your life for better,

Who would u choose?[/quote]I would choose the first, because if a person accepts and loves me for who I am then that already has changed my life for the better. Its a win-win situation imo

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=875175.msg10236206#msg10236206 date=1329764246]He is saying you had a good man (him) but you let him go!

See what did I tell you about realistic expectations? [/quote] Did you consider that it was a train I was not happy to catch.

and, pssst: I was genuinely greeting killz,

[quote author=~Killz~ link=topic=875175.msg10235347#msg10235347 date=1329757160][color=#000030]Yes they are all taken. . . Blame yourself for waking up late and missing the train! [/color][/quote] Hehehhe, nice to see you