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RomanceRe: Should I Follow My Mother's Advice? by 2020achile(m): 10:07pm On Jun 07, 2021
erinatso:
Aunty with due respest pls permit me to tel u that u r mad. If nt dat u ar my senior i for tel u say u no get sense
u get mind tel us say ur mum no like u
....... with due respest pls permiy me to u that you be badoo
CelebritiesRe: Ubi Franklin Advises Men: Rather Than Laugh At Me, Learn From My Mistakes by 2020achile(m): 1:29pm On Apr 23, 2021
You are your own.
PoliticsRe: Smuggling Becomes Booming Business In Katsina State As Land Borders Remain Shut by 2020achile(m): 8:47am On Feb 13, 2021
that is for they
PoliticsRe: Pat Utomi: APC Is Now Worse Than Jonathan's PDP Government by 2020achile(m): 8:15am On Feb 12, 2021
today u know
abeg APC has destroyed everything.. even PDP sef is now better by far 98%
PoliticsRe: Gov Samuel Ortom Tests Positive For COVID-19 by 2020achile(m): 2:27pm On Jan 27, 2021
Bombastic Brutalized Castrated Bomboclaat
RomanceRe: Bauchi Sex Party: Hisbah Arrests Organizers by 2020achile(m): 2:27pm On Jan 27, 2021
Bombastic Brutalized Castrated Bomboclaat
Christianity EtcRe: Prophet Onyeze Jesus: 'I Will Raise Dead Bodies On The 28 Of January' by 2020achile(m): 2:18pm On Jan 27, 2021
Bombastic Brutalized Castrated Bomboclaat
Christianity EtcRe: If You Fall Under Anointing And Break Anything Here, You'll Pay. Pastor Warns by 2020achile(m): 2:16pm On Jan 27, 2021
Bombastic Brutalized Castrated Bomboclaat
PoliticsRe: Court Orders Final Forfeiture Of ₦284 Million Belonging To Ex-Gov Yari To FG by 2020achile(m): 10:11am On Jan 27, 2021
[quote author=Skepticus post=98479468]cool

Bunch of jokers.

The system is so messed up, YES OH ABI
Christianity EtcRe: Six Important Ways To Please God by 2020achile(m): 8:57am On Jan 17, 2021
nice for me smiley
FamilyRe: Is It Right For A Lady To Live Alone? by 2020achile(m): 2:59pm On Jan 15, 2021
Nazgul:
Her request to stay alone isn't bad. She's 22, and if she has a good job, she'll enjoy geninue peace of mind cos living alone is very good. You won't have to endure an irritating roommate, always getting on your nerves every now and then, nagging parents who will constantly remind you about the success story of all your mates, and your younger cousins who have all gotten married. Also, you can effectively budget your finances, economize your food and provisions, and manage your bills effectively.

As a girl there are few guidelines I'll give you to stay alone effectively most especially if you're not a runs girl.

1. Limit your friends. They say the average Nigerian loves free things. That's very true. If you stay alone, you must be very careful with who you let into your home. I remember how I parked out of the first house I rented with my money after my youth service. It was a one bedroom apartment, I had this friend who was always visiting. With time he uprgaded himself to my roommate without even my consent.

I didn't have any problem with that. The problem I had with him was that he doesn't contribute a penny to the house. From recharging the prepaid meter to recharging the cable TV, to buying food and provisions...even pure water this my so called friend couldn't get. The worse of it all was that he's a womanizer. Imagine coming back home from work tired only to see meet your bedroom locked by your roomie cos he's busy with a girl. I'll end up dozing off on the couch in the palour while waiting for them cos I can't access the bathroom without entering the bedroom which is locked by him.

We quarrelled over this severally. This guy will apologize, beg me and after some days or weeks repeat the same thing again. With time when the rent remained like 2 months to be due, I parked out and left him there. I've learned to limit the kind of people I allow into my home ever since.

2. Be security conscious. Don't be careless with your security. As a girl, you can easily be overpowered, drugged, raped, robbed... etc. So avoid unnecessary closeness with your neighbours most especially if they're guys whose source of income you have no idea of. Whenever you're at home, keep your doors locked at all times. Avoid inviting people you meet on social media into your home. Avoid accepting lift from strangers to your home. All these things will put your safety at risk.

3. Don't disclose your status. As a girl, telling guys that you stay alone isn't wise. When guys start asking don't keep them in silence or else they'll start guessing and might guess right. Just tell them that you don't stay alone. Cos if you don't they won't mind trailing you secretly just to know where you stay. Believe me some guys can be that jobless. And after one visit to your house, you'll need the police to keep them out. Cos some will go as far as threatening to harm you if you refuse to let them in.

If you're in a serious relationship your guy should be the only one who should know your house along with some of your female friends who are on the same financial status with you, and your family members. Every other person can meet you at your place of work, your church or in a public place.

My advice...tell her to do whatever is in her mind, she's an adult now and must be allowed to make her own choices.

As for her parents, let her explain to them and make them reason with her that she won't remain under their roof forever, so the sooner she begins to plan a life outside their roof, the better for her

Also I hope she's working, when I say working I mean 9am -5pm jobs with a reasonable pay check. Cos if a girl is staying alone without a reasonable source of income, she might be tempted to go into prostitution in order to survive. Tell her this.
..... nice
FamilyRe: Man Finds Out Baby Isn't His, Months After Lover Gave Birth (Photos) by 2020achile(m): 2:48pm On Jan 15, 2021
Bet9ja Simulat
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Emmanuel Iren: I Find My Wife Very Sexy When She Is Praying by 2020achile(m): 5:16pm On Sep 11, 2020
I like that pic, what is the name of the movie of that pichuh
gambia:
Thats your problem Mr man. undecided Everyone wants to trend. Pete on the beat, carry go baba 70 grin grin. I hope this is not blasphemy.
PoliticsRe: EFCC: AGF Malami Clears Air On Conspiring Against Magu by 2020achile(m): 8:08pm On Aug 25, 2020
Chia- i want to become EFCC BOSS ,BABA BUBU
PoliticsRe: Victor Giwa: Malami Ordered My Arrest For Refusing To Implicate Magu – Lawyer by 2020achile(m): 8:04pm On Aug 24, 2020
you are of the problem we are have in narialand
PoliticsRe: Victor Giwa: Malami Ordered My Arrest For Refusing To Implicate Magu – Lawyer by 2020achile(m): 7:59pm On Aug 24, 2020
you are in big problme
SportsRe: Barca To Pay Liverpool Extra €5m After Coutinho Won The UCL For ANOTHER Team by 2020achile(m): 2:57pm On Aug 24, 2020
chia the money is too smal for he
Jokes EtcRe: Memes: List Of People That Think That They Have Made It In Life by 2020achile(m): 7:52pm On Aug 11, 2020
I don laugh tire cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Jokes EtcRe: Memes: List Of People That Think That They Have Made It In Life by 2020achile(m): 7:50pm On Aug 11, 2020
LWKM with this one
Ndubuisipaul1:
People that have rich sugar daddy
PoliticsRe: Nigeria's Refineries Post ₦406.62 Billion Loss In Two Years by 2020achile(m): 2:57pm On Aug 09, 2020
Chia, Nigerian FG are in big problem . why any things in c is bad, NNPC. NDCD ,CPC. NCC FCT EFCC & so cal NDDC
PoliticsRe: Insurgency: Zulum Alleges Sabotage, Says Buhari Needs To Know The Truth by 2020achile(m): 6:51pm On Aug 02, 2020
Lawal Omobolarinwa Akeem while Awo was waiting for Zik at Asaba to strike a deal to form a unity govt from the just concluded election which Ziks party came first, someone reminded Zik of the Yoruba forces sins (Fela's mum and her gang) in his party that wanted him (Zik) probed for mismanagement of funds(about £15,000 or so) in their party. Zik was wrongfully advised to proceed to meet Saudana in Lugard Hall kaduna to form a unity govt and one of the reasons again was that Zik felt he could manipulate Saudana but unknowingly to Zik, Saudana was a political master player who quickly swapped himself for Tafawa Balewa to become prime minister and Zik voluntarily accepted to be president and Saudana opted to be Northern governor. As time goes on Zik realised his foolish mistakes that the northern elites he thought were less educated where far ahead in politricks and again the colonial masters were more aligned with the northern political masters this led to One of the reasons the first shots were fired in the bloody military coup. The return match was a reprisal attack cus Ironsi refused to court martial the culprits of first coup. One of the lessons learnt is, We must never underestimate a person's intelligence based on western education. Let's live without hatred for no single soul shall enter paradise with hatred in his heart. Long live Fed Rep Nigeria
PoliticsRe: Repentant Boko Haram Fighter: I Can't Remember How Many People I Have Killed by 2020achile(m): 6:50pm On Aug 02, 2020
Lawal Omobolarinwa Akeem while Awo was waiting for Zik at Asaba to strike a deal to form a unity govt from the just concluded election which Ziks party came first, someone reminded Zik of the Yoruba forces sins (Fela's mum and her gang) in his party that wanted him (Zik) probed for mismanagement of funds(about £15,000 or so) in their party. Zik was wrongfully advised to proceed to meet Saudana in Lugard Hall kaduna to form a unity govt and one of the reasons again was that Zik felt he could manipulate Saudana but unknowingly to Zik, Saudana was a political master player who quickly swapped himself for Tafawa Balewa to become prime minister and Zik voluntarily accepted to be president and Saudana opted to be Northern governor. As time goes on Zik realised his foolish mistakes that the northern elites he thought were less educated where far ahead in politricks and again the colonial masters were more aligned with the northern political masters this led to One of the reasons the first shots were fired in the bloody military coup. The return match was a reprisal attack cus Ironsi refused to court martial the culprits of first coup. One of the lessons learnt is, We must never underestimate a person's intelligence based on western education. Let's live without hatred for no single soul shall enter paradise with hatred in his heart. Long live Fed Rep Nigeria
PoliticsRe: Dan Orbih: Edo Is Not Oshiomhole’s Property by 2020achile(m): 5:25pm On Jul 22, 2020
what about you
vickodedon:
Na them sabi
PoliticsRe: Edo: Saraki, PDP Leaders Pressure INEC Chairman To Rig Election- SaharaReporters by 2020achile(m): 7:25pm On Jul 08, 2020
Someone should please help me with #500 to buy garri please I'm really hungry I need it so bad I ll really appreciate if someone can help me thanks and God bless. 3062187452, first Bank, once again thanks
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester City Vs Newcastle - (5 - 0) On 8th July 2020 by 2020achile(m): 6:54pm On Jul 08, 2020
for ur mind?
mhiztalee:
Newcastle go win this match...e sure for me
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: Manchester City Vs Newcastle - (5 - 0) On 8th July 2020 by 2020achile(m): 6:53pm On Jul 08, 2020
na big lie. 10-0
Futuragetty:
Manchester city. 5 vs New Castle 0
PoliticsRe: Buba Galadima: FG's N20k Cash Transfer, School Feeding Program A Fraud by 2020achile(m): 9:39am On May 24, 2020
chai, see lie, who dis one help shocked shocked shocked shocked
CelebritiesRe: Peter Okoye Reacts As Cynthia Morgan Reveals All That Jude Okoye Made Her Lose by 2020achile(m): 9:37am On May 24, 2020
come again
paradigmshift:
No be lie..
HealthRe: Coronavirus: 'Abuja Hotel Cancels Reservation Because I'm Married To Italian' by 2020achile(m): 7:18pm On Mar 01, 2020
chia

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