bustyhelen:
I made a resolution not to engage in premarital sex again till marriage, which is likely to come up by November, but just few days into the new year, the urge & temptation is enormous, my fiancé is not helping matter.

Please serious advice on how to keep my new year resolution?
Only serious minded ones should advice me please....

You can give/get oral. Thank me later

IrinaDeverenko:
Na wa for people wit new year new things, anyway keep it up,if yuh even can ooh.

Wow just fucking wow!
Lord..

Amefrica:


You can give/get oral. Thank me later

So that is not sex
What a BS

bustyhelen:
I made a resolution not to engage in premarital sex again till marriage, which is likely to come up by November, but just few days into the new year, the urge & temptation is enormous, my fiancé is not helping matter.

Please serious advice on how to keep my new year resolution?
Only serious minded ones should advice me please....

hmm

Ordinary resolution is not enough. If the reason is not strong enough, you can't keep the promise.

What reason would I consider strong?

1. That you are now born again, so old things have passed away, including engaging in premarital sex;
2. You are now convinced that premarital sex is a sin against God, so you are stopping the practice because you don't want to continue in sin;
3. That you are trusting in God to help you keep the promise till you get married, not relying on your strenght alone;
4. That you are ready to obey God by staying away from sex until you are married, even at the risk of loosing your current man if he refuses to respect your decision.

If you are not sure of any of the above, I doubt if you can keep the promise.

May God help you.

basilo101:
U will soon be dumped

Help me tell am,she dey play with red card.

Chai nairalanders won't change!

E go hard ooooo. Anyway I wish you luck.

GoodFaith:

"keep the sparks in check whenever you are together "--- Only check
Please tell the dude that it is over

Easier said than done

GoodFaith:

Can somebody take sweet from your mouth?
She need to tell the dude that it is over
No more sex

so true.the man needs to know about her plans too

Defcon1:

Easier said than done

If she is taking away the sex
tell us what is left in the relationship?
All ears

Are u gonna stop masturbating alsooo.. Cos no sex no masturbation means u are finished..m

My friend if u can't stitch ur under then just go ahead and continue to enjoy urselves.

softysparky:
E go hard ooooo. Anyway I wish you luck.

Speaking from experience?

Questions for the Op. Are you making the resolution for yourself alone or for yourself and your fiance. If you're making it for yourself alone fine i wish u good luck but if it is for yourself and your fiance,that EXACTLY is where the problem lies.Hope you read meaning to what I'm saying.

@op it seems u are finding the resolutions too hard to keep....already if this guy truly loves u he will respect ur wish..obviously u are not his toy kept for his sexual practice.......if u keep giving it to him rock and hides don't u think he will get tired of eating d same food and probably shift d nov arrangement,,,,*teamgalshhavetobewise*

Borrow him one of your frnds for the main time. k

bustyhelen:
I made a resolution not to engage in premarital sex again till marriage, which is likely to come up by November, but just few days into the new year, the urge & temptation is enormous, my fiancé is not helping matter.

Please serious advice on how to keep my new year resolution?
Only serious minded ones should advice me please....

it won't change the fact that you're not a virgin, and it won't also change the fact that you've engaged in premarital sexxxx' before. To crown it all, we've all fornicatedd

Ivyluvie2:
Firstly,@bustyhelen,why do you want to stop?don't tell me 'cos pre-marital sex is wrong,you've been doing it all along,so why. Do you wanna stop few months to your wedding?

u look like a naval officer. Strong face

Michyeddy:
I wee never ask for advice on Naira land. una fit make person commit suicide. For you my Lady, if you are living with your fiance I'm afraid for your new year resolution..e no go work. btw u are getting married in Nov.what are u stopping again? U need a fresh start I think. God is your strength

exactly! Your natural hair rocks. Though

stupid girl, no more sex after many years of enjoying yourself's so what's the cause of denying him sex this new year? It just entered your head for the new year resolution. This confused girl has activated fake living,trying to be what he is not..

Go to a baba ...Use ya man hood to do Money ritual ..nd bam u won't have any pre- marital sex + U re gonna be rich

Na wish kind Mods Seun Employ sef for this NL

Is the OP's new year resolution just no jiggy-jiggy with her fiancé?? I would be happy to help her and take care of business and then hand her over in November

GoodFaith:

If she is taking away the sex
tell us what is left in the relationship?
All ears

sex is not an indispensable part of a relationship
A relationship can still be very successful without sex,provided both parties agreed to that restriction from the outset
In this case,both parties have been engaging in sex,albeit one party now chooses to abstain till marriage
Now,if both parties are mature and really care about each other,the sudden absence of sex should not spell the end of the relationship
After all relationships are all about sacrifice
Both of them should talk it over and come to a common ground.
It's never going to be easy but it is very possible
It would be absurd and immature to break up with your fiancée just months to the wedding simply because she said no sex till then.
The same sex you will get tired after the wedding

bustyhelen:
I made a resolution not to engage in premarital sex again till marriage, which is likely to come up by November, but just few days into the new year, the urge & temptation is enormous, my fiancé is not helping matter.

Please serious advice on how to keep my new year resolution?
Only serious minded ones should advice me please....

give am the thing afterall he wants to pay for it. I do believe he is best to ve it, cos u ve been giving it to
some unserious niga since God knows when.so y trying to deny the guy of it.

Defcon1:

sex is not an indispensable part of a relationship
A relationship can still be very successful without sex,provided both parties agreed to that restriction from the outset
In this case,both parties have been engaging in sex,albeit one party now chooses to abstain till marriage
Now,if both parties are mature and really care about each other,the sudden absence of sex should not spell the end of the relationship
After all relationships are all about sacrifice
Both of them should talk it over and come to a common ground.
It's never going to be easy but it is very possible
It would be absurd and immature to break up with your fiancée just months to the wedding simply because she said no sex till then.
The same sex you will get tired after the wedding

y would she b the one to bring it up

Whobedatte:
exactly! Your natural hair rocks. Though

Thank you. :-)

The Two of U have to Agree on that... if not only God can Help You...

What a nice new year resolution,what you need do is is to get serious with God by joining a service unit in your church, study God's word constantly,and have an effective prayer life.(Salvation is a primary key to Godly living,so be born again).i pray for God's grace upon ur life.

Defcon1:

sex is not an indispensable part of a relationship
A relationship can still be very successful without sex,provided both parties agreed to that restriction from the outset
In this case,both parties have been engaging in sex,albeit one party now chooses to abstain till marriage
Now,if both parties are mature and really care about each other,the sudden absence of sex should not spell the end of the relationship
After all relationships are all about sacrifice
Both of them should talk it over and come to a common ground.
It's never going to be easy but it is very possible
[b]It would be absurd and immature to break up with your fiancée just months to the wedding simply because she said no sex till then.
[/b]The same sex you will get tired after the wedding

It would be crazy if your fiancée come tell you no more sex
what do she/he expect to happen?
Dude/lady now you need to play with yourself---Good luck
Yes relationship is more than sex but sex is a very important part of it all
Thanks

neoapocalypse:


Anything wey dem carry go bank dem no dey collect am? even if na FD ( fixed deposit ) dem dey collect am before due date

Till Nov na.
With Wyclef Jean's voice "gone till Nov"