emusmith:


You bet? I wouldn't know? Kikiki? Meaning/

patrickdarlins:
meaning....ini mini mani mo....i don use Chinese take break ur head this evening...lols

kristina1:

Oh please!! Am not formin "rambo" for anybody..do u grab??
You talkin also like you av been in series of relationship..smh

Now,if a guy dumped my azz,you know he gave reasons why it cant work out,you expect me to be askin him,"dont u miss me","is she more beautiful dan me","do u ever loved me" etc.
what the hell happened to moving on??
Trust me,the answer the guy wl give me wl add more to the pain am goin through(if hez being honest),so why wl i hurt myself ?i

I presume you haven't been in a serious relationship yet.

so I'll let you swim in your little ramblings

emusmith:


...Funny scarra!

Well....gtartzvjkbnndssfghbmkk

Monicasque:


lol, yols just looove thinking dat u r the best things dat have ever happened to woman hah? Yol r just big headed dats all. A ladies life is abt her n nt abt u. Life does nt revolve around men bro.sisters r living for themselves n nt for u oooo. U wud like to think dat wen u dump her she wil b wrecked, nt knowing dat she is just happy for the opportunity to get a better replacement. If a person walks away frm u, let dem walk. Your destiny is never tied to anyone dat left. There is always a reason y ppl come in and out of our lives.

your point is totally out of place

please read the OP and assess again

Prexxy1:
@naijaboiy,ur assumptions is are very wrong,most girl dnt ask their ex these questions,me included.

OK

patrickdarlins:
class closed!!!!...cant understand a thing..so...lols...nice chats tho.

prettyjo:
no time to ask questions.once its over then its over.
bro emusmith,I sight you.

emusmith:


I sight you dearie, it's over shey! Even after 4 years of real relationship heading towards marriage?

prettyjo:
hehehehehehehehehehehe

Purplehisbiscus:
Lol @some the comments i ve read so far...
Op said 'some girls' ,most gals forming JACKIE CHAN calls thier EX with UNKNOWN Number just to hear his voice again

Even if u dont call to ask all the aforementioned above,but some of these Qs still cross ur mind when u're alone...Most gals that form 'i don't care about him any longer' wet thier pillows every night...

Breakup hurts lets not deceive ourselves and most times we always wanna know what went wrong....
Op to a very large extent u 're right..
**walks away while humming 'Paula deanda walkaway'

onstelly:
I never asked any of these, flip my weaves and walk away

kakakoshina:



Ur reply shows u've been in and out of more dan 10 serious relationship U are now a regular customer!!!

alberto2k:
One of my ex popped up late last year, she asked questions like

8 - Did you loved me?

9 - Do u still love me?

10- What are we now?

11- Do u miss anything about me?


I simple answered her with "3 Nos and 1 I don't know"

alberto2k:
One of my ex popped up late last year, she asked questions like

8 - Did you loved me?

9 - Do u still love me?

10- What are we now?

11- Do u miss anything about me?


I simple answered her with "3 Nos and 1 I don't know"

emusmith:
We all know that after a break up, because of the emotional attachment, the girl (especially because her nature) doesn't really find it easy to let go. She is still very used to him: the tone of his voice, fragrance, walking style, way he knocks on your door, his best food, likes and dislikes etc. As such, when she hears a voice like his, she impulsively rushes to take a quick glance with a heart full of mixed feelings.

After you "dumped" her, her emotions produced some of these questions and she wishes to ask you...

1. Was What You Had For Me "Love"?

She needs to ask because you bought her jewelries while you had a "Jewel" by one corner. She can't tell because you said You Loved Her so often that she stopped using her initiative only for you to... Break her heart. Now, she can't trust no one because of you!


2. Did You Show Care Just To Get Me Laid?

This is when she feels she's just been used. Though she's nice- she's given a lot into the relationship. She feels cheated. Probably, you're her First Love. Just any average lady will open up when you show her Care and Attention.
She will go celibate for weeks...


3. Where Do I Start From?

A feeling of helplessness and hopelessness begins to set in. She has planned settling down with you- beginning from the scratch and now you shatter her hope and broke her heart! Some can commit suicide or even go after you. It's not good! Don't start what you can't finish!


4. Am I As Beautiful As You Described?

I really don't know what she wants to do with this information o. But I guess she's trying to get the guy to the "past" which the guy is running from- Mind games! Ladies shaaa!


5. Don't You Miss Me?

NOT Do you miss me But Don't you miss me? It's like you have to miss her.

"Yes" has serious implication. "No" sound demeaning. How to put it varies for different ladies. Some stalkers need a Big NO! In fact, you need to report them to the Police! Lol! Even in your dreams, they're still on your matter! 55 missed calls in one day! Na wa oo! He doesn't miss you! Move on!


6. Is She Prettier/Hotter Than Me?

Question 5 often lead to this.

I smell jealousy and confusion already. She doesn't even want to know if you have got a successor yet oo. The tone of her voice is usually high at this point. She wants to know. Saying this isn't helpful as it will help her hate you the more. Just change the subject or be silent.


7. How Did I Ever Fall In Love With You?

After years of dating, it's now you deem it fit to ask...OK... We all know that's out of anger and disappointment. That's still because you broke her trust.She is mad at you!

All these are from my perspective. I may be wrong even as all LADIES ARE NOT THE SAME.

So ladies: When jilted or dumped and you still feeling a thing or two for him, What are those questions you really want to ask him?

Guys: What are your experiences?

Good morning

patrickdarlins:
all these comes from premature relationships...

childish question...move ahead jor