Vivalavida99:


That was very cold of you. You have no heart, don't forget that what goes around comes around.

kristina1:
Once it's over,it's over.
No need of questions.

Francon:


a royal priest and a chosen generation made to show forth his light

justscorch:
My ex called me once to ask for her pants that I seized

Nickymezor:
Ur so damn rite OP... Persin gat to ask questions nw. ..any way derez a limit to it sha

maryhaam:
It's over its over,no questions

2SWT:
Lol




l haven't asked any

onstelly:
I never asked any of these, flip my weaves and walk away

gabbidonb:
Liar

emusmith:


Abi...tnx dear

boardmem:
no 3 on point....................

Purplehisbiscus:
Lol @some the comments i ve read so far...
Op said 'some girls' ,most gals forming JACKIE CHAN calls thier EX with UNKNOWN Number just to hear his voice again

Even if u dont call to ask about the Aforementioned,but some of these Qs still cross ur mind when u're alone...Most gals that form 'i don't care about him any longer' wet thier pillows every night...

Breakup hurts lets not deceive ourselves and most times we always wanna know what went wrong....
Op to a very large extent u 're right..
**walks away while humming 'Paula deanda walkaway'

onstelly:
I never asked any of these, flip my weaves and walk away

ogoplus:

Were you really serious about marrying me?

Herrmes:
Just simply answer all the questions with a straight face and a "No"

Princesschi:
Ok
meanwhile...

JideTheBlogger:
Expecting a counter thread. Observing***

Orikinla:
Not all girls feel this way.
Most times it is actually good riddance to bad rubbish.
No sensible girl will whine over breaking up with a guy that did not add value to her life.
No sensible girl cries over a guy who did not improve her life.

Nickymezor:
Yep... Dont mention

emusmith:
We all know that after a break up, because of the emotional attachment, the girl (especially because her nature) doesn't really find it easy to let go. She is still very used to him: the tone of his voice, fragrance, walking style, way he knocks on your door, his best food, likes and dislikes etc. As such, when she hears a voice like his, she impulsively rushes to take a quick glance with a heart full of mixed feelings.

After you "dumped" her, her emotions produced some of these questions and she wishes to ask you...

1. Was What You Had For Me "Love"?

She needs to ask because you bought her jewelries while you had a "Jewel" by one corner. She can't tell because you said You Loved Her so often that she stopped using her initiative only for you to... Break her heart. Now, she can't trust no one because of you!


2. Did You Show Care Just To Get Me Laid?

This is when she feels she's just been used. Though she's nice- she's given a lot into the relationship. She feels cheated. Probably, you're her First Love. Just any average lady will open up when you show her Care and Attention.
She will go celibate for weeks...


3. Where Do I Start From?

A feeling of helplessness and hopelessness begins to set in. She has planned settling down with you- beginning from the scratch and now you shatter her hope and broke her heart! Some can commit suicide or even go after you. It's not good! Don't start what you can't finish!


4. Am I As Beautiful As You Described?

I really don't know what she wants to do with this information o. But I guess she's trying to get the guy to the "past" which the guy is running from- Mind games! Ladies shaaa!


5. Don't You Miss Me?

NOT Do you miss me But Don't you miss me? It's like you have to miss her.

"Yes" has serious implication. "No" sound demeaning. How to put it varies for different ladies. Some stalkers need a Big NO! In fact, you need to report them to the Police! Lol! Even in your dreams, they're still on your matter! 55 missed calls in one day! Na wa oo! He doesn't miss you! Move on!


6. Is She Prettier/Hotter Than Me?

Question 5 often lead to this.

I smell jealousy and confusion already. She doesn't even want to know if you have got a successor yet oo. The tone of her voice is usually high at this point. She wants to know. Saying this isn't helpful as it will help her hate you the more. Just change the subject or be silent.


7. How Did I Ever Fall In Love With You?

After years of dating, it's now you deem it fit to ask...OK... We all know that's out of anger and disappointment. That's still because you broke her trust.She is mad at you!

All these are from my perspective. I may be wrong even as all LADIES ARE NOT THE SAME.

So ladies: When jilted or dumped and you still feeling a thing or two for him, What are those questions you really want to ask him?

Guys: What are your experiences?

Good morning

softandsweet:

Well when/if this happens it's normal to ask one or more of those questions... Emotions has no respect for ones achievement or social statues and neither does gender. it's not restricted to females alone. If an intimate relationship ends it creates an emotional imbalance. It just depends on how we handle it, and how close they both were. Saying it's low self esteem to ask your lost love those questions is something I totally don't agree with. Even if it's someone you were committed to for a week, one would ask some of those questions at least in their minds
But guess what, the end of the race is always the beginning of a new one. And one which could be better than the last....

elantraceey:
i haven't asked any of those


The only question i ask is why do you have to let such a priceless jewel pass you by?