emusmith:


I promise, I won't

okay...

I keep missing my ex....but my aim is getting better.

Inferiority complex and self-esteem issues bring about this. Ladies should stop lacking confidence and move on...

Waiting to see counter thread

girls of nowadays are too proud and hardened in the heart to show such feelings and affection...the very bitter truth is tha most girls choose the wicked ways nowadays, they beleive that it is the only remedy to solve their woes,but not knowing that it destroys them slowly...sorry guys girls dont love anymore they get intimate for survival...

Many Nigerian ladies are too proud to speak like this, to humble like this in broken relationship. They rather die in silence. If a Nigerian lady says something like this, pahaps, the guy still a rich guy & there is a sign that the lady will lose many goodies. Only money can humble them. LOVE DRINKS BUSH 'NI'?

onstelly:
I never asked any of these, flip my weaves and walk away

let try one,I swear it won't be over.

@edusoul and mynairatime are correct, Nigerian girls are something else they are in just in d relationship for the gain in it not for any feelings whatsoever, so cant ask such questions.

dancok:
@edusoul and mynairatime are correct, Nigerian girls are something else they are in just in d relationship for the gain in it not for any feelings whatsoever, so cant ask such questions.

While I will give 100 LIKES, don't generalize it...some girls in Nigeria agree with the Op.
They're in it for love and would ask such questions when necessary...

emusmith:


So says the Photo...I want to know what you say.... Have you been there before,?

i've been there and back

Sacluxpaint:
Inferiority complex and self-esteem issues bring about this. Ladies should stop lacking confidence and move on...

I'm afraid to ask you to define Confidence... What has confidence got to do with that? You broke her heart and start monitoring her confidence? hmm

Princesschi:


i've been there and back

Wow! What an experience!

emusmith:


While I will give 100 LIKES, don't generalize it...some girls in Nigeria agree with the Op.
They're in it for love and would ask such questions when necessary...

bro see deep down in their hearts they know they only go for d goodies inside.

dancok:
bro see deep down in their hearts they know they only go for d goodies inside.

I know na... I know how to sieve away those ones o...They'll say " I just want to have fun"...With who?

2SWT:
Lol




l haven't asked any

Wen are u planning to ask

emusmith:
We all know that after a break up, because of the emotional attachment, the girl (especially because her nature) doesn't really find it easy to let go. She is still very used to him: the tone of his voice, fragrance, walking style, way he knocks on your door, his best food, likes and dislikes etc. As such, when she hears a voice like his, she impulsively rushes to take a quick glance with a heart full of mixed feelings.

After you "dumped" her, her emotions produced some of these questions and she wishes to ask you...

1. Was What You Had For Me "Love"?

She needs to ask because you bought her jewelries while you had a "Jewel" by one corner. She can't tell because you said You Loved Her so often that she stopped using her initiative only for you to... Break her heart. Now, she can't trust no one because of you!


2. Did You Show Care Just To Get Me Laid?

This is when she feels she's just been used. Though she's nice- she's given a lot into the relationship. She feels cheated. Probably, you're her First Love. Just any average lady will open up when you show her Care and Attention.
She will go celibate for weeks...


3. Where Do I Start From?

A feeling of helplessness and hopelessness begins to set in. She has planned settling down with you- beginning from the scratch and now you shatter her hope and broke her heart! Some can commit suicide or even go after you. It's not good! Don't start what you can't finish!


4. Am I As Beautiful As You Described?

I really don't know what she wants to do with this information o. But I guess she's trying to get the guy to the "past" which the guy is running from- Mind games! Ladies shaaa!


5. Don't You Miss Me?

NOT Do you miss me But Don't you miss me? It's like you have to miss her.

"Yes" has serious implication. "No" sound demeaning. How to put it varies for different ladies. Some stalkers need a Big NO! In fact, you need to report them to the Police! Lol! Even in your dreams, they're still on your matter! 55 missed calls in one day! Na wa oo! He doesn't miss you! Move on!


6. Is She Prettier/Hotter Than Me?

Question 5 often lead to this.

I smell jealousy and confusion already. She doesn't even want to know if you have got a successor yet oo. The tone of her voice is usually high at this point. She wants to know. Saying this isn't helpful as it will help her hate you the more. Just change the subject or be silent.


7. How Did I Ever Fall In Love With You?

After years of dating, it's now you deem it fit to ask...OK... We all know that's out of anger and disappointment. That's still because you broke her trust.She is mad at you!

All these are from my perspective. I may be wrong even as all LADIES ARE NOT THE SAME.

So ladies: When jilted or dumped and you still feeling a thing or two for him, What are those questions you really want to ask him?

Guys: What are your experiences?

Good morning

What about guys that get dumped

Pretence is the hallmark of Deceit.

Most ladies here keep saying the "the questions are childish", but I say to you, if you ever conceived them in your thoughts, you have said it.

Stop breaking hearts.
Hearts are Not playthings to be toyed with.

Real men value hearts entrusted to them.

neoapocalypse:



What about guys that get dumped

Counter Thread? You mean?

emusmith:


...Lies ooo Lol!

Oh challey why will u say that where u dia,if ur girl is wearing panties then she has probably bought new ones

UGLYS:
Pretence is the hallmark of Deceit.

Most ladies here keep saying the "the questions are childish", but I say to you, if you ever conceived them in your thoughts, you have said it.

300 Likes!

justscorch:


Oh challey why will u say that where u dia,if ur girl is wearing panties then she has probably bought new ones

No vex o ...I never experience that one oo... You na Ghanaian?

emusmith:
We all know that after a break up, because of the emotional attachment, the girl (especially because her nature) doesn't really find it easy to let go. She is still very used to him: the tone of his voice, fragrance, walking style, way he knocks on your door, his best food, likes and dislikes etc. As such, when she hears a voice like his, she impulsively rushes to take a quick glance with a heart full of mixed feelings.

After you "dumped" her, her emotions produced some of these questions and she wishes to ask you...

1. Was What You Had For Me "Love"?

She needs to ask because you bought her jewelries while you had a "Jewel" by one corner. She can't tell because you said You Loved Her so often that she stopped using her initiative only for you to... Break her heart. Now, she can't trust no one because of you!


2. Did You Show Care Just To Get Me Laid?

This is when she feels she's just been used. Though she's nice- she's given a lot into the relationship. She feels cheated. Probably, you're her First Love. Just any average lady will open up when you show her Care and Attention.
She will go celibate for weeks...


3. Where Do I Start From?

A feeling of helplessness and hopelessness begins to set in. She has planned settling down with you- beginning from the scratch and now you shatter her hope and broke her heart! Some can commit suicide or even go after you. It's not good! Don't start what you can't finish!


4. Am I As Beautiful As You Described?

I really don't know what she wants to do with this information o. But I guess she's trying to get the guy to the "past" which the guy is running from- Mind games! Ladies shaaa!


5. Don't You Miss Me?

NOT Do you miss me But Don't you miss me? It's like you have to miss her.

"Yes" has serious implication. "No" sound demeaning. How to put it varies for different ladies. Some stalkers need a Big NO! In fact, you need to report them to the Police! Lol! Even in your dreams, they're still on your matter! 55 missed calls in one day! Na wa oo! He doesn't miss you! Move on!


6. Is She Prettier/Hotter Than Me?

Question 5 often lead to this.

I smell jealousy and confusion already. She doesn't even want to know if you have got a successor yet oo. The tone of her voice is usually high at this point. She wants to know. Saying this isn't helpful as it will help her hate you the more. Just change the subject or be silent.


7. How Did I Ever Fall In Love With You?

After years of dating, it's now you deem it fit to ask...OK... We all know that's out of anger and disappointment. That's still because you broke her trust.She is mad at you!

All these are from my perspective. I may be wrong even as all LADIES ARE NOT THE SAME.

So ladies: When jilted or dumped and you still feeling a thing or two for him, What are those questions you really want to ask him?

Guys: What are your experiences?

Good morning

@ #1, what if I ddnt break her heart? What if I actually did love her? What if she was the one being hrt breaker?

I love the responses from females on this thread (even though some are lies and formings to feel super, lol), it shows that ladies of 21st century can now move on happily with their life after a guy decides to quit a relationship with them, which makes it easier for guys

Its a good sign...pls ladies always move on and stop disturbing him with calls, sms, etc...just move on like nothing happened and pls don't go cursing him secretly in your heart o...always have it in mind that relationship is only but a GAME- so play it with the mindset that u can loose or win anytime!!

dBard:
Stop breaking hearts.
Hearts are Not playthings to be toyed with.

Real men value hearts entrusted to them.

STORY STORY sir! So long as love exist, heartbreak and hate must exist! As far as there is life, there must be death! And with the way nature designed women; their heart must be broken, let's be honest

missdebs:
lies...only ladies of low self esteem wuld do this, *shrugs*

You are really of high esteem, I surmise.

emusmith:


While I will give 100 LIKES, don't generalize it...some girls in Nigeria agree with the Op.
They're in it for love and would ask such questions when necessary...

Agreement is a statement not an action, anyone can make a statement but few can take an action. Although, if i will be honest,some dont do it for gaining anything, they do it to reserve high esteem. however, it is always good for them.

dorlapoh20:
is it really over between us?

Who is she?

what have i done wrong to deserve this?

when did you meet her?

can i have a last hug?( optional : this is asked by very emotional ladies)

By "last hug" u mean the "last phuck"?

dancok:
let try one,I swear it won't be over.

hehehehe

...And to the one saying: sisters don't care abt men cos their life doesn't depend on men; that sisters care more about their career, bla, bla, bla...I am sure u are probably a teen, lol.

Beyonce's major career is Jay Z; reason she's always mad when Jay cheat or tries to play her, and if Jay dumps her today, Beyonce may commit suicide, same with Kim K.

A popular Indian actress (Indian no 1 actress) committed suicide just because her boyfriend broke up with her!

Janet Jackson (Michael Jackson's sister) resigned and quit her music career, renounced her religious faith simply because she found love in Arab land

The most important career a woman has is to find love, take it or leave it; its only when a woman tries repeatedly to find love and fail repeatedly or gets dumped repeatedly that she starts forming- TO HELL WITH MEN, I LOVE MY CAREER

I dont remember meeting or seeing any of my exes, since i got married. I wished them well, and hope they've moved on with their lifes....

emusmith:
We all know that after a break up, because of the emotional attachment, the girl (especially because her nature) doesn't really find it easy to let go. She is still very used to him: the tone of his voice, fragrance, walking style, way he knocks on your door, his best food, likes and dislikes etc. As such, when she hears a voice like his, she impulsively rushes to take a quick glance with a heart full of mixed feelings.

After you "dumped" her, her emotions produced some of these questions and she wishes to ask you...

1. Was What You Had For Me "Love"?

She needs to ask because you bought her jewelries while you had a "Jewel" by one corner. She can't tell because you said You Loved Her so often that she stopped using her initiative only for you to... Break her heart. Now, she can't trust no one because of you!


2. Did You Show Care Just To Get Me Laid?

This is when she feels she's just been used. Though she's nice- she's given a lot into the relationship. She feels cheated. Probably, you're her First Love. Just any average lady will open up when you show her Care and Attention.
She will go celibate for weeks...


3. Where Do I Start From?

A feeling of helplessness and hopelessness begins to set in. She has planned settling down with you- beginning from the scratch and now you shatter her hope and broke her heart! Some can commit suicide or even go after you. It's not good! Don't start what you can't finish!


4. Am I As Beautiful As You Described?

I really don't know what she wants to do with this information o. But I guess she's trying to get the guy to the "past" which the guy is running from- Mind games! Ladies shaaa!


5. Don't You Miss Me?

NOT Do you miss me But Don't you miss me? It's like you have to miss her.

"Yes" has serious implication. "No" sound demeaning. How to put it varies for different ladies. Some stalkers need a Big NO! In fact, you need to report them to the Police! Lol! Even in your dreams, they're still on your matter! 55 missed calls in one day! Na wa oo! He doesn't miss you! Move on!


6. Is She Prettier/Hotter Than Me?

Question 5 often lead to this.

I smell jealousy and confusion already. She doesn't even want to know if you have got a successor yet oo. The tone of her voice is usually high at this point. She wants to know. Saying this isn't helpful as it will help her hate you the more. Just change the subject or be silent.


7. How Did I Ever Fall In Love With You?

After years of dating, it's now you deem it fit to ask...OK... We all know that's out of anger and disappointment. That's still because you broke her trust.She is mad at you!

All these are from my perspective. I may be wrong even as all LADIES ARE NOT THE SAME.

So ladies: When jilted or dumped and you still feeling a thing or two for him, What are those questions you really want to ask him?

Guys: What are your experiences?

Good morning