Nasadiva:

BEHOLD ANOTHER RATURE! come Firsttymum I have some ignore button to share cos I can see you ran out of yours, but u go pay oooh. STILL LOOKING FOR RELIABLE SHIPPER'S CONTACT OR NOBODY HAS EVER SHIPPED STUFF FROM HOUSTON?

el2015:
Great Job you're all doing.

I'm legally married with a kids.

I have a refusal record with the US consulate.

A have another woman, though not legally married to her, she's pregnant and wants to give birth in the US. We have already made a budget of $30k for this.

She doesn't bear my surname, but I'm the sponsor and will definitely be included in her application.

Bearing in mind that I have a record with the consulate and my name will pop up on the system, hope this will not pose a problem if they find out her name is different from that of my legal wife, though she'll inform the VO we are not legally married but engaged.

Do you have any advice for us as we do not intend to lie to the VO?

And hope we won't look stupid knowing fully well polygamous is not practised in the US.

el2015:
Great Job you're all doing.

I'm legally married with a kids.

I have a refusal record with the US consulate.

A have another woman, though not legally married to her, she's pregnant and wants to give birth in the US. We have already made a budget of $30k for this.

She doesn't bear my surname, but I'm the sponsor and will definitely be included in her application.

Bearing in mind that I have a record with the consulate and my name will pop up on the system, hope this will not pose a problem if they find out her name is different from that of my legal wife, though she'll inform the VO we are not legally married but engaged.

Do you have any advice for us as we do not intend to lie to the VO?

And hope we won't look stupid knowing fully well polygamous is not practised in the US.

Phema:


*coughs*

Will be right back.

el2015:
Great Job you're all doing.

I'm legally married with a kids.

I have a refusal record with the US consulate.

A have another woman, though not legally married to her, she's pregnant and wants to give birth in the US. We have already made a budget of $30k for this.

She doesn't bear my surname, but I'm the sponsor and will definitely be included in her application.

Bearing in mind that I have a record with the consulate and my name will pop up on the system, hope this will not pose a problem if they find out her name is different from that of my legal wife, though she'll inform the VO we are not legally married but engaged.

Do you have any advice for us as we do not intend to lie to the VO?

And hope we won't look stupid knowing fully well polygamous is not practised in the US.

nefertitiram:
Oh boy
this case get as e be o...

This your new iyawo is enjoying o. Please forgive my amebo nature. Does iya ile know about iyawo and the new bom baby coming?

uptown17:
congrats on successful poe mum2be. this your poe was a breeze oo
could u kindly share your rented apartment details with us. how where you able to secure one for just 2months


[ ton her and was also stamped in till March 10. On our way out we were directed to Agriculture where they carried only my sons indomie! I nearly cried but i was kinda expecting it sha!

Just chilling at home now legs crossed and my cousin just made one kain spaghetti stir fry! Waiting for my first appointment on Tuesday!



One Love....

LadyGuinivere:

I won't lie. Its very difficult for me to ignore the moral ish in this story but I'll just suffice it to say, na u get uur mind and na uu sabi the good from the bad.
Now speaking as a legal practitioner, u can't claim engaged unless you are muslim where polygamy is legal. As in, you are engaged whilst still married? How? Polygamy although practised is not recognized under the law elsewhere. I also see a thin line between saying engaged and bigamy. I bring up bigamy because the 'engaged' begs the question, when are u guys planning on getting married? Can it qualify as a tie etc, etc
Now understand that the VO will process all this info in like max 3 mins of interview and decide whether she has strenght to untangle all the legal webs.
My advice? Say it as is. She's your mistress (sorry if that phrase is rude. Ladyfriend, babymama, baby oku, whatever is the nicer phrase) expecting a child for u and the vo will decide if she has ties sufficent to return.
Your other question as to whether ur ties to baby oku will be an ish... Why were u refused?

Phema:

*coughs*
Will be right back.

modath:


[quot e author=Phema post=37944576]
*coughs*
Will be right back.

Sis Phema don see question wey pass her, she run!

@nefertitiram,
Lemme catch you ooo, you dey assist to add insult to injury to iyawo ile ( not only is she a co wife, her child will not be an obama baby)...

@el2015,
Went through your profile to know more about you in order to do justice to your question & discovered you registered like an hour+ago & posted the ?? In 3 different threads which is an indication of how much you want the obama baby thing to happen..

I wont Judge you on a faceless forum ( You may be trolling
.
Unless your wife is a devil incarnate, send her

el2015:



Yes you right! Posted it in three different sections. More than 2years on nairaland, but you know nah.

Not keen about the Obama pikin thing, since I can get a visa for my family even if it takes forever.

I'm making this move because of this mess, so maybe in the nearest future she can decide on relocation.


Wiffy and son just returned from the US last week

modath:


Sis Phema don see question wey pass her, she run!

@nefertitiram,
Lemme catch you ooo, you dey assist to add insult to injury to iyawo ile ( not only is she a co wife, her child will not be an obama baby)...

@el2015,
Went through your profile to know more about you in order to do justice to your question & discovered you registered like an hour+ago & posted the ?? In 3 different threads which is an indication of how much you want the obama baby thing to happen..

I wont Judge you on a faceless forum ( You may be trolling & messing with us with a new moniker) but if you are indeed serious.................unless your wife is a devil incarnate, send her & her baby on a cruise around the world to compensate if you don't want God to put you aside for special judgement..




*When we think we've seen & heard it all ........... God help we women keep our homes...*

*who remembers one lady that asked how she can get her "male married friend" to act as belle sponsor"?

nefertitiram:
Maka why na?
It seems u r still very into iya ile. Why play away match? Diarisgodu oooo

el2015:
Though not an excuse to act foolishly. But for us s....x is once in 4 months. Sad

modath:


Why on earth did you not wrap it up mehmnnnnnn!

You F up big time...

Mum2bee congrats on your poe. To God be the glory. I am now a mother of a beautiful princess. I ll bring gist later as am so tired now


post=37945247:
Hello mamas and papas....... In the spirit of giving back to this wonderful forum where i have learnt so much! I dont comment much except when i can add value but i love to read, cos the amount of information here is crazy!

My story goes thus...

We (Hubby, Son, Cousin and I) departed Lagos on Thursday 10 September with BA... that MM1 is a nightmare!

Hubby refused that i request for wheel chair, so after checking in we just strolled to the fast track! I no even look anybody face, was waiting for someone to ask me if i had a bizness class ticket, i for swear for the person cos at this point i was already tired. Finally boarded and the flighht was full! sha squeezed my belle into my seat and endured the flight for 6 hours of restlessness. Arrived London and chilled 3 hours for our flight to Houston! Luckily the flight was empty as we had expected! So i just stretched my round body on the full length of one of the middle seats and SLEPT! It was fantastic! No noise, nothing!

Fast forward toPOE in Houston, there was only one other preggy lady and infact we travelled together from naija. The queue was quite long cos i think about 2 planes arrived at the same time. Anyways we were ushered to one white man and the conversation went as follows:

CBP Officer: Are you all a family (we filled to separate forms one for us and one for my cousin)
CBP Officer: You have to separate for Legal reasons
CBP Officer: Why are you here?
Hubby: For vacation and childbirth
CBP Officer: How long are you here for?
Us: 2 months
CBP Officer: You are gonna pay ur bills right?
Us: Definitely
CBP Officer: How much have you paid?
Me: We have paid all that was quoted by the hospital and doctor.
CBP: Accommodation?
Us: We are staying in a rented apartment
CBP Officer: How much do you have on you
Us: $8,000 between us.
CBP: Any food stuff? Egusi, ogbona, Melon?
Me: Yes to all with a smile.

Na so he fingerprint us and stamps us in till March 10. No secondary inspection. My cousin was just asked why she was here and how much she had on her and was also stamped in till March 10. On our way out we were directed to Agriculture where they carried only my sons indomie! I nearly cried but i was kinda expecting it sha!

Just chilling at home now legs crossed and my cousin just made one kain spaghetti stir fry! Waiting for my first appointment on Tuesday!

It was all favour from GOD! Wishing everyone a successful entry!

One Love....

el2015:


I played away match because wiffy's libido was dead and wasn,t ready to get help. She hate any word with "s" let alone s.......x

I'm at fault. Please Blame me, but I'm not a bad father and terrible as you all think.

el2015:
Though not an excuse to act foolishly. But for us s....x is once in 4 months. Sad

el2015:



YES I did.

el2015:
Great Job you're all doing.

I'm legally married with a kids.

I have a refusal record with the US consulate.

And hope we won't look stupid knowing fully well polygamous is not practised in the US.

justwise:


Condom is very expensive though $30K would have got you a lot + peace of mind

nefertitiram:

What happened to raincoat?

justwise:

Condom is very expensive though $30K would have got you a lot + peace of mind

modath:

Immaculate conception ??,gerraraara yia mehn!
As my beloved cousin will say " with some females, you gats to double up"!!
On another note, why on earth did you have a regular & caught feelings if it was really about scratching an itch?

modath:


Why on earth did you not wrap it up mehmnnnnnn!

You F up big time...

modath:


Immaculate conception ??,gerraraara yia mehn!

As my beloved cousin will say " with some females, you gats to double up"!!

On another note, why on earth did you have a regular & caught feelings if it was really about scratching an itch?