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Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by Mayydayy(m): 12:13pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
my sister. i know a lot of people are telling you sex is not it all but for me sex is the nunber one force that can make or mar a matrimonial union. am not advocating you leaving him.keep doing what you are already doing. teach him. be patient. you said he is your best friend. good friends are hard to come by. |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by Chukwutobi: 12:13pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
I would have advised you, but you have removed me from the list of the advisers you want so........ |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by Nobody: 12:14pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
bellamafia:haba that 1 na small thing na...when musa mai bura is there!just a test will convince u! |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by LadyX(f): 12:14pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
bellamafia: Yes dear, it's a life long commitment. If his performance is bothering you maybe you should leave. You said you've tried to teach him, but it's not working...well what else can you do? |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by Janiobi(m): 12:15pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Call me or send me a what@pp message @08184716722 so I can give you some personal advice my dream girl. 1 Like |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by Dyt(f): 12:16pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Sex keeps it going Companionship makes it stable Love does not only make u stay Money iis as good as wonderful sex. What and how exactly do u teach this man? 2 Likes |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by floragregs(f): 12:16pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Plz don't do what u will eventually regret. If u are not ok with him, take a walk. If u marry him and he still doesn't satisfy you, babe u WILL cheat on him! Leave matter for mattias. 1 Like |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by jey4all(m): 12:16pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Sexual compatibility matters a lot in marriage. Make a choice and be happy 1 Like |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by Kingsasian(m): 12:16pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Keneking:if u are good at writing then go publish ur own book. 4 Likes |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by Nobody: 12:16pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
ZedX5:na u be d guyhow e take concern u like dis! 1 Like |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by landlordalaba(m): 12:16pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
bellamafia:if sex is important to you like I believe it should be leave the bro. Don't marry out of pity. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by sorextee(m): 12:16pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Happiness will never come to those who fail to appreciate what they already have. Not judging though. 1 Like |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by Mintayo(m): 12:17pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
I am tired of hearing about this sexual compatibility thing! Some ladies will throw away a good man just because they are not sexually compatible, smh, like say sexual compatibility can not be learned! OP do u prefer a guy that can satisfy you in bed yet cheats or beats you? More reason Why sex before marriage is not advised, assuming you are the no sex before marriage type, you get married to him and you discovered that you are not sexually compatible, What will u do? The answer above will be my advise to you! 1 Like |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by ijecks(f): 12:17pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
ah ah you even tasted the forbidden fruit on top your matter,sex is not everything, he already has other good qualities, hold on too him cuz you would find it difficult if you lose him cuz that kind of relationship is a rare gem,if sex is your ideal thing marry him for your heart and continue teaching so far he is willing to learn,the worse thing that can happen is if he is not willing to learn because of his ego |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by Hollawaley(m): 12:17pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
bellamafia:Oh lawd, this cant be me --ffwd-- well its your head cos in your heart you love him. And don't think of backing out because of one problem that can be fixed. Find a way to fix that problem, teach him sex-ed in all possible ways, theoretically by making him read books,articles,e.t.c of sex-ed. And practically on the bed. |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by Nobody: 12:17pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
bellamafia: So what exactly do you want nairalanders to do for you,to help you make a decision or what¿ |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by sorextee(m): 12:18pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Best advice do far.. hilaomo: 1 Like |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by Nihilist: 12:18pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
It's very obvious OP is a nymph0. After your toto don slack finish, you con dey dey complain say the sex no good. How the sex go good, when na dual carriage highway dey down there? 1 Like |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by Akalia(m): 12:20pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Another annoying sex based thread. Come to think of it, there R more nymphomaniac on NL than one would think. 2 Likes |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by Nobody: 12:21pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Op you can do self service to help your self out, just insert candles and I assure you, you will enjoy it ;d |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by Kolade354(m): 12:22pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
bellamafia:Sex sex sex sex sex sex..........He will bring out his dick and drill your Hole for 40 mins then you are done.............I RESERVE MY COMMENT TILL FUTHER NOTICE 1 Like |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by Mintayo(m): 12:23pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Marriage is not just about sex, there are better things than sex to look for in a partner. I don't even understand What people mean by sexual compatibility, is it not to satisfy your partners? Is that anything hard in that? Is it something one cannot learn per time? Is it not to penetrate a woman's VJ after some pre-intimacy? Is it not the mourning, screaming and coming I will choose a good lady, with a good and compassionate heart over the above! 5 Likes |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by Orikinla(m): 12:24pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
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Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by MRLINGTON(m): 12:24pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
FTP murdered u but if u must read my comment I would say go with d guy uv known nd love alot..if he can do anything for u den believe me he's gon learn something new just to satisfy u...marry him..hes a nice man since u're okay with He's looks nd he's family loves u... Do not fall into d hands if aman dah would satisfy u nd still try to satisfy others outside....with what u said abt ur current bf..he must be God fearing too...that is all u need right now..marriage is a life time tin..do not do it cos u want to satisfy ur urge buh do it cos u want a happy home cos Dats suppose to be every woman's wish nd prayer...do it cos u want ur kids to be happy do it cos u don't want to end up regretting..d too many guys coming after u wants u in bed nd ntn more nd going wit dem might help u hate d world... #stick to him He loves u...in what ever way dah u find him imperfect try to make him perfect..its no crime if he learns from u dats y u're both one......him too might have perfected ur imperfections by nt judging u in anyway.... Give him your love nd forget d other guys... Happiness is everything...Be a good woman 2 Likes |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by Donykua: 12:25pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
The DEVIL you know is the answer.. |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by Nobody: 12:26pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
sexyseun: Are you married to a power horse¿ 2 Likes |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by Mintayo(m): 12:27pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Am always scared of ladies that shout or make emphasis on sexual compatibility, such ladies are cheats in the making! Given the right opportunity, they will cheat on their partners, same with guys too! 5 Likes |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by Nobody: 12:27pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Is his d!ck small? If it's big, thenn you stay ontop and satisfy ur sef. |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by YOUNGSTUNA(m): 12:27pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Another Angel seeker......you can't just get all in human...Everyone got a weakness.....is your duty to make it his strength..... Don't make a mistake you'll live to regret.....................................am out 1 Like |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by airsaylongcon: 12:29pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
I was going to sit down and give u a proper tongue lashing. But no I won't. Ur biggest problem now is that u have a lot of potential suitors and u r trying to cherry-pick. At 27, u r very close to "Best Before" date. If u r happy with everything about him except the sex then I'd say go for it. Sex is not food that u will eat and belle full. The other day a woman was divorcing her husband because his wee-wee was "waoh-waoh". If this guy has "entered the place" and is still coming back after two years then he's serious. Those thousands milling around u will fade off after making u a conquest. They be like "nothing dey there again". Sex can be learnt. Do the research then teach him. After all, men love their mother's food. Women often learn to cook like their mother in laws especially when it's a cross cultural marriage. For some reason though, I think u have made ur mind on leaving him. 2 Likes |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by morgang(m): 12:30pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
Keneking: Don't judge, u judged Advice, no advice And worst of all, asking questions upon questions and eventually, u end up judging... *Improve on how to follow instructions * 4 Likes |
Re: Classical Dilemma, The Head And The Heart. by mmsen: 12:31pm On Mar 03, 2015 |
If you're thinking about marrying a guy that you don't feel compatible with then I doubt whether you have a heart or a 'head'. |
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