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Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Elan83(m): 12:04am On Mar 05, 2015 |
Beverlyjean:if u dnt wana luz dem both dem share urslf in2, ur br.easts 2d 2nd guy & ur honey pot 2 ur bf,, u shuld kno dat finaly ur own temptation hs arrvd & i doubt if u can resist it,, chai! Dis fyn gel wey be tear leather,na xo u won join d wrld? Remembr God o! 1 Like |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by bbjummy: 12:05am On Mar 05, 2015 |
JeffreyJamez: The older ones are better off sir. The younger ones are 419s 1 Like |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by RapLawd(m): 12:05am On Mar 05, 2015 |
#StoryForAmadioha 1 Like |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by tsdarkside(m): 12:05am On Mar 05, 2015 |
you have problems.....choose whice man.... |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by hensben(m): 12:05am On Mar 05, 2015 |
lolaredvelvet:True...I sense too much love fiction in op's head. |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by DonaldGenes(m): 12:06am On Mar 05, 2015 |
On gosh, not again |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by baralatie(m): 12:06am On Mar 05, 2015 |
op! hian!!! now how is it possible for a lady to say that she has a first love and one month in love grab a second love only to enjoy the love you want from another of which you are not willing to reciprocate love ra ra! as far as I am concerned you are just playing the two guys. Berra drop both as you don't love either sincerely.Only God knows if they are playing as well! 1 Like |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by cr7lomo: 12:07am On Mar 05, 2015 |
You guys that are abusing the other guy and saying the other guy wants to use her should stop deceiving the young girl and tell her the truth and reality of life . How many sweetheart university romance end in marriage . You guys should stop being sentimental , so what if the bf is available , does it mean they must end up together if the boy is not always available . She said her bf missed her graduation , her birthday and Val's but he is in town . Young boys are hardly loyal , it's like u are tieing him down . As he grows older , he will get tired of u and start looking for smaller girls . That is life . Older men make the best husbands believe me 6 Likes |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Emax(m): 12:07am On Mar 05, 2015 |
My answer to all your question is short and simple. You need to stand in the shoulder of the giant and you will see the future. From experience, the best advice i can give you is to SEEK DIVINE INTERVENTION. From Happily Married Man 1 Like |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by babs01(m): 12:07am On Mar 05, 2015 |
smartn09:See mentality 4 God's sake, i knw som ppl go don dey plan to do dis smh 1 Like |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by cr7lomo: 12:08am On Mar 05, 2015 |
acidtalk: This is the answer you need , best comment on thread 1 Like |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Nobody: 12:08am On Mar 05, 2015 |
Beverlyjean: I don't think it's still possible to eat your cake and still have it in this dispensation. You have to make up your mind and leave one of them. You can't possibly keep both of them. It either the Boyfriend that you love or the mature and Misterious guy you are willing to risk your so called "long distance relationship" for. The ball is in your court and your decision is all that matters. |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by ifoundmyperfect: 12:09am On Mar 05, 2015 |
The odds are against you with your boy -23 you didn't gist us of his plans with you for the future. That is if he has any Mere 2 years age difference... By the time he is ready to settle down you may have gotten sore, grey n less attractive (fashy ur virginity) you have taken your cheating to another level with man -30 (except you wana make it a perpetual secret) In as much as you may wana indulge in self-denial, you can't help but admit you loff man -30. Except you suffer from an uncontrollable pre-konji urge, virgins i've met are always conscious of their body. You loff this man -30. You do!!! For you to allow am give you pre-body action as an acclaimed virgin. Don't try to fool us and yourself. You didn't fail to give us his age, him taking you home and introducing you to his family, the reception and acceptance you got, His present job and readiness to get married. Deductively, you have used your (head) and made up your mind with this man -30 being the perfect candidate. I guess the question you really wanna ask us is how to break up with boy -23... and the most perfect get away... Well, to answer that, i'd share with you a simple line - "I'm sorry I cannot continue this relationship anymore" Then for a perfect getaway "I'm carry another man's baby" End of story!!! LAST bULLET, You may not like this - Boy -23 may fancy you but isnt so crazy about you. Man -30 may just have his interest heightened after discovering your virginity status. Some guys no dey take such status play. Meaning when you are outta that glorified status, what comes next In other words, neither of the guys may just be into you. 9 Likes |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by naijaboiy: 12:09am On Mar 05, 2015 |
LewisO: 1 Like |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by iceberylin(m): 12:10am On Mar 05, 2015 |
Virgins bring confused since 10000bc |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by stanboy28(m): 12:10am On Mar 05, 2015 |
How d virgin stuff on the topic |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by shammah1(m): 12:12am On Mar 05, 2015 |
But she's already cheating on her bf zaralady: |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Nobody: 12:12am On Mar 05, 2015 |
My dear go and smoke weed and sleep joor Non of them truly loves u and u don't love any of them Its obvious u are having ur youthful exorbitance period Get your serf busy with your holy bible and leave the rest for the most high God I kW he has ur future already planned to his best not ur best.... CAN I CONTINUE SMOKING 2 Likes |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by naijaboiy: 12:13am On Mar 05, 2015 |
Kizmarty: |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by jameschibuike(m): 12:13am On Mar 05, 2015 |
Mendo007: Well, my mother knows what she want 1 Like |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by lordfamuu(m): 12:16am On Mar 05, 2015 |
acidtalk: What else can I say than a total disagreement to ur 'theory". But for sayin u are an author, thumbs up to dat for engagin in sumfin worthwhile. But please, u seriously need some sociological research in dis ur aspect of interest, and while doin dat be very very REALISTIC!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Nelrulez(m): 12:19am On Mar 05, 2015 |
Would have loved to write an epistle but my humble c2 nokia doesn't support that. Babe, no matter what, don't loose your virginity to any of those niggaz until one of 'em walks you down the aisle. 1 Like |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by chronique(m): 12:20am On Mar 05, 2015 |
@ OP: thanks for registering with us at www.confusion.com. Your ID is confused1 and your password is newboyfriend. Please keep it safe from a third party. Now,since you're confused about the two of them,and do not want to hurt them,my advice to you is that,you dump them both and come start with me. That way,you'd be fair to the two of them. But on a serious note,if you're ready to get married anytime soon,go with the new guy. But if you don't see yourself settling down soon,stick with your bf. Am a grown man of over 30yrs,looking for a proper wife material to settle down with but trust me,I don't like going near 21 year old girls whether they are virgins or not. Reason is cos their brains are still very immature and they are easily swayed here and there,and get easily confused. I must give your 30years old bf kudos for even sticking with you;I hope he can stomach what's coming in after. Personally,I feel matured adults should date themselves,and youngsters should be left to themselves. It helps to save a lot of unnecessary headache. 2 Likes |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by damocheezy(m): 12:20am On Mar 05, 2015 |
I didnt get to finish your write up because i got pissed right from the start. I wish to express my deepest disappointment with you for calling love what its not. Stay with your new guy because if you truly love your bf, you wouldnt have ended up in this situation that is all your fault. God bless you. 2 Likes |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by hippyzuki(f): 12:21am On Mar 05, 2015 |
ZedX6:when I read comments like this I go just de happy cos e clear say ur papa n mama born u well that ur brain de work wellllll wellllll. @op nothing is sure but I say dump d first guy if nt for anything d distance na who u de see u de love oooo. This new guy could also b a scam either way @21 ur too basic to be thinking of man matter go and b successful and everything shall be added unto you 1 Like |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by smartn09(m): 12:21am On Mar 05, 2015 |
babs01:With this your face like baboon, what's your problem? |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Nobody: 12:22am On Mar 05, 2015 |
My dear go and smoke weed and sleep joor Non of them truly loves u and u don't love any of them Its obvious u are having ur youthful exorbitance period Get your serf busy with your holy bible and leave the rest for the most high God I kW he has ur future already planned to his best not ur best.... CAN I CONTINUE SMOKING YES I ALMOST FORGOT DONT LOOK FOR ANSA FROM THE INTERNET OR THIS FORUM BECAUSE TOO MANY ANSWERS NEVA SOLVE THE PROBLEM IT ONLY ADD ANOTHER PROBLEM TO THE OTHER PROBLEM WICH IS PROBLEM CONFUSION LOOK FOR SOLUTIONS FROM GOD .. HE LL PICK THE ONE BEST ANSA FROM THE MANY THAT HE KWS CAN SOLVE IT AND TELL IT TO YOU... CHIKENA SO CAN I CONTINUE SMOKING?? OOOH GOSH I ALMOST FORGOT AGAIN ,PLS WHEN I SAY LOOK FOR SOLUTIONS FROM GOD PLS I AM NOT TALKING ABOUT YOU GOING TO PASTORS OR IMAM OR SPIRITUAL WHATEVA BEFORE U COME AND OPEN ANOTHER THREAD TELLING NAIRALANDERS THAT YOU ARE NOW LOVING 3 OR MORE GUYS BEKO!!! WITH PRAYERS ALONE YOU CAN TALK TO YOUR FATHER IN HEAVEN WITHOUT ROAMING, WITHOUT BORROWING CREDIT, WITHOUT NUMBER BUSY , WITHOUT CALLERS TUNE, WITHOUT CREDIT, EVEN WITHOUT CALL DIVERTS SO CAN I CONTINUE SMOKING ?? 2 Likes |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Chigorkizz(m): 12:24am On Mar 05, 2015 |
All these unibuja girls wey no dey scarce for Kigali and volley ball court. Thats how i met one when i was in year two.Same dept(Bio.sc) and she like money die |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by JoeCutie(m): 12:24am On Mar 05, 2015 |
I hate all these threads and so much unnecessary talks of virginity and sex. See... You already know what you want. Do you actually want me to tell you to have sex or not to have sex? Like I'm the one to experience that 'Oh-My-God' sort'orgasm... If you want to f*ck, f#ck. If you don't want to f#ck, then f#ck off! 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by folahann(m): 12:24am On Mar 05, 2015 |
If truly you really loved your bf, you wouldn't have given the other guy a chance. 1 Like |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by miembamish(m): 12:24am On Mar 05, 2015 |
@Op, ur 21, ur boo is 23 and de side dude is 30. De mistake u made was not realising u had a bf already being being emotionally attached to de new Man(cause @30 he's a man) From indications, ur love for ur bf isn't strong enof to stop u from cheating on him. The devil u knw is betdan de angel u don't knw. A bird @hand is beta dan birds in de bush. Ur too young to be messing around. Face ur studies and make ur parents proud of u. Ask ur self, what do u really want in a relationship. Follow de one dat has dat ting u want in a relationship. All de same, don't forget to use ur brain. Let ur brain control ur heart. Tell de new guy abt ur feelings for ur bf and watch his reactions.. Remember, @21 u shouldn't be in a haste to marry. Ur still hoping for more ? Be patient and srew down. There might be gold @de end of de rainbow. But dz time around, de is no gold!!! Best of luck in ur academics(not in any useless issue) Gudnyt.... 2 Likes |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by kessluvall(f): 12:26am On Mar 05, 2015 |
Beverlyjean: You are not only greedy but selfish. |
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