Gurgle:


dreaming or daydreaming?

dreaming, i dont like day-dreaming, it only gets me depressed.

Captainswag225:
dreaming, i dont like day-dreaming, it only gets me depressed.

Ok. but it can sometimes be beneficial, if you steer your thoughts in the right direction

they can be inspiring

Gurgle:


Ok. but it can sometimes be beneficial, if you steer your thoughts in the right direction

they can be inspiring

its true but what gud is it if u dont act on it?

Captainswag225:
its true but what gud is it if u dont act on it?

whats stopping you from acting on it

Gurgle:

whats stopping you from acting on it

laziness

Captainswag225:
laziness

is that your only reason

I think that can be overcome

Gurgle:


is that your only reason

I think that can be overcome

are u sure? How? Second is lack of motivation

Captainswag225:
are u sure? How? Second is lack of motivation

with discipline and self-control

where does the lack of motivation originate from

Gurgle:


with discipline and self-control

where does the lack of motivation originate from

i think its a habit i developed over the years, i easily get less interested in sumtin.

Captainswag225:
i think its a habit i developed over the years, i easily get less interested in sumtin.

been following ur chat with gurgle from genesis...... N for a Ghanian u knw to much of Nigerian politics

Captainswag225:
i think its a habit i developed over the years, i easily get less interested in sumtin.

yeah I get that

it sounds like you (and me) need to develop the opposing habit to cancel it out

that would be to try to maintain interest in things even when they see out of reach

xyzhill:
been following ur chat with gurgle from genesis...... N for a Ghanian u knw to much of Nigerian politics

lol, glad to have kept you entertained

yeah, i love current affairs alot so i try to get info abt other countries if i can btw naija politics is interesting.

xyzhill:
been following ur chat with gurgle from genesis...... N for a Ghanian u knw to much of Nigerian politics

Gurgle:


yeah I get that

it sounds like you (and me) need to develop the opposing habit to cancel it out

that would be to try to maintain interest in things even when they see out of reach

thanks for advice but i think people like me always need to have someone pushing them, urging them, motivating them, encouraging them not to give up.

Captainswag225:
thanks for advice but i think people like me always need to have someone pushing them, urging them, motivating them, encouraging them not to give up.

you mean like a person? as opposed to Jesus

Gurgle:


you mean like a person? as opposed to Jesus

jesus will always be the first person to turn to for everything but u and i know that GOD works in mysterious ways, he can motivate us thru others be it our friends, family, spouse, so being motivated by a friend could also be GOD's plan for someone.

Captainswag225:
jesus will always be the first person to turn to for everything but u and i know that GOD works in mysterious ways, he can motivate us thru others be it our friends, family, spouse, so being motivated by a friend could also be GOD's plan for someone.

yeah im starting to realize that

whenever I got comforted by another person I used to feel bad for relying on human beings

until somebody pointed that out, what you just said

Gurgle:


yeah im starting to realize that

whenever I got comforted by another person I used to feel bad for relying on human beings

until somebody pointed that out, what you just said

yeah GOD has different plan for all of us, at first i also use to feel bad and down whenever i asked for help from someone but growing up GOD made me realize that its not wrong if that happens, it even show how humble u are....... U are count on someone for help as long as u make up ur mind that its GOD helping u thru him or her.

Captainswag225:
yeah GOD has different plan for all of us, at first i also use to feel bad and down whenever i asked for help from someone but growing up GOD made me realize that its not wrong if that happens, it even show how humble u are....... U are count on someone for help as long as u make up ur mind that its GOD helping u thru him or her.

yeah very true

so does that mean you feel you are missing this encouraging influence inyour life, which is keeping you from realizing some of your potential?

Gurgle:


yeah very true

so does that mean you feel you are missing this encouraging influence inyour life, which is keeping you from realizing some of your potential?

yeah at times i feel like am missing a motivator in my life but my problem is i dont like opening up to people.

Captainswag225:
yeah at times i feel like am missing a motivator in my life but my problem is i dont like opening up to people.

yeah I understand. me neither

we should change that though, its not good to bear things alone

Gurgle:


yeah I understand. me neither

we should change that though, its not good to bear things alone

yeah i think we should but it will take time and also we can only open to people we can trust and people who won judge us. When people judge me, it makes me feel worthless and discouraged.

Captainswag225:
yeah i think we should but it will take time and also we can only open to people we can trust and people who won judge us. When people judge me, it makes me feel worthless and discouraged.

yeah that's true

yeah that and when the person doesn't listen or care about the issue you are bringing before them. I have ended friendships because of that behavior I cant stand it

I would say the judgment of others is a challenge for us to overcome. when you can make it through a period without caring what other people think of you, you know you have really grown in a big way and you will have more freedom in future

Gurgle:


yeah that's true

yeah that and when the person doesn't listen or care about the issue you are bringing before them. I have ended friendships because of that behavior I cant stand it

I would say the judgment of others is a challenge for us to overcome. when you can make it through a period without caring what other people think of you, you know you have really grown in a big way and you will have more freedom in future

thank u soo much, i appreciate it. Tell me btw, are u quick tempered?

Captainswag225:
thank u soo much, i appreciate it. Tell me btw, are u quick tempered?

yeah sometimes. I have been told I am at times but other times I only get very angry about something when I sit and think about it later

I cant really tell at the moment because a lot of things have happened in the recent past that have distorted some of my characteristics. So how I would act in a certain situation changes frequently

well that was a long answer. sorry

what about you

Gurgle:


yeah sometimes. I have been told I am at times but other times I only get very angry about something when I sit and think about it later

I cant really tell at the moment because a lot of things have happened in the recent past that have distorted some of my characteristics. So how I would act in a certain situation changes frequently

well that was a long answer. sorry

what about you

lol there's nothing to say sorry for..... As for me i used to be quick tempered, a little provocation will get me angry and i will try to fyt but for abt 3 years i have calmed down. I only get a little angry when am accused for something i didnt do.

Captainswag225:
lol there's nothing to say sorry for..... As for me i used to be quick tempered, a little provocation will get me angry and i will try to fyt but for abt 3 years i have calmed down. I only get a little angry when am accused for something i didnt do.

that's good. what made you calm down?

Gurgle:


that's good. what made you calm down?

well 2 reasons, i decided to behave maturely and my bloodpressure was rising. Btw arent u feeling sleepy?

Captainswag225:
well 2 reasons, i decided to behave maturely and my bloodpressure was rising. Btw arent u feeling sleepy?

Oh dear im glad you calmed down lol

no I am literally wide awake lol. and you?

how is your back by the way, I forgot to ask

Gurgle:


Oh dear im glad you calmed down lol

no I am literally wide awake lol. and you?

how is your back by the way, I forgot to ask

am glad i did too, my backpains are a little better now thank u for asking..... U are soo caring..... U will make a gud wife for ur naija husband...... Abt ur sleeping situation hmmm, has it always been like that growing up? am also a little tired but not that sleepy

Captainswag225:
am glad i did too, my backpains are a little better now thank u for asking..... U are soo caring..... U will make a gud wife for ur naija husband...... Abt ur sleeping situation hmmm, has it always been like that growing up? am also a little tired but not that sleepy

thanks, well I hope so. I need to read more of those "10 things women should do" threads

yeah im just more of a night-time person lol, from a long time

I'm sure your Ghanaian bride will never shed a tear over you wait I think it was you I was debating with about this right? so I guess your wife doesn't necessarily need to be Ghanaian?

Gurgle:


thanks, well I hope so. I need to read more of those "10 things women should do" threads

yeah im just more of a night-time person lol, from a long time

I'm sure your Ghanaian bride will never shed a tear over you wait I think it was you I was debating with about this right? so I guess your wife doesn't necessarily need to be Ghanaian?

lol 10ways of being a successful wife. Hahahaha, i dont think u will need that, u possess alot of wifey materials already.... Yeah, am not bounded by borders, whoever i fall inluv with will be my bride. Countries dont matta to me.