Toks2008:


In my opinion,most NIGERIAN money mongers in the name of ladies will prefer their guys to be an employee rather than strife to be a ceo...its that bad.

Now back to the matter...my question is...what happens if that guy loses his job in any of the mentioned sectors?

I keep telling our ladies..MARRY A GUY WITH A VISION...a guy that knows he is good at something and not necessarily a guy who is just lucky to be employed because a man of vision will always bounce back no matter the setback but a guy with salary mentality will remain redundant until he gets another job should he lose his present job.

My opinion though.

Aitee1:

Nooooooooooooo
Your womanising syndrome is outta this planet

Talibanis:
OP u are Damn wrong about ur option concerning the medical field. Firstly Doctors are seriously looking for jobs and they are always broke in this country meaning they aren't well paid. Even a bus driver makes more than a doctor's cumulative salary. Get ur facts right before posting!

Nicepoker:
wow city f00l

Chivasex:

Yes you are the right prospect for house helps..lol

starlingbawa:


There's no better way to say it... You nailed it bro!!!

Vickybee:

cc MzNelly, come and hold your boyfriend.

tosyne2much:
I know u b4 ?
Abeg swerve and Bleep off my mention
Who get ur tym

naijaboiy:

Hahahaha!!!

So you can easily fall in love with a vulcanizer or mechanic? Wow.

How will you take care of kids when they start coming.

The economy of nigeria is not encouraging enough for any lady to accept any man who is not in a good working place.

Please always learn to face reality.

Don't be blinded by all those love stories you read on Harlequin,,mills&boons e.t.c

U2ice:

Lolz...or all d telemundo de watch

U2ice:

Lolz...or all d telemundo de watch

U2ice:

Lolz...or all d telemundo de watch

DeeTus:
Meet? Haha, smart guy. Continue to tap and don't complain later.

zeongeon:

What other proof do U want to know that they are being controlled infact the moment u agree to a man who toasted U, u also go further to agree to get married to him and also go deeper to spread ur legs for him to penetrate U and u hv his child...hehehe..what control can be MORE than all those.

Hillary clinton that stood beside her husband and defended him when he had challenges knows how sweet and important it is to be under a man and retain her marriage.. I mean u don't know better than ur feminist hillary.

Feminist are blind to see the power behind being SUBMISSIVE to a man and the trouble they will be saved from if they are SUBMISSIVE.

Feminist are fighting a lost war.
- Feminist kick against porn and say men use women as sex objects yet more girls go into the porn industry, dance half naked and twerk all d twerkables in male videos and the film/book 50 shades of grey where read/watched by mainly females.

- Feminist say women should be allowed to do men's work but biologically u pple can't cope with the stress and demands off the kind of work men DO.

If u keep up like this no man will get married to U..highest u be a baby mama..like I said men are dealing with u feminist by ignoring u pple and ontop of it using u pple like "sex objects" cos u pple have no respect that will breed love and we can't co-habit with u pple and if a child comes out of d relationship all good...But men are even beginning to realize we can't hv children with women who can't be submissive so we opt for condoms and contraceptives.

Vickybee:

So, opening a leg for a man means submissive? You must be deluded.
A child belong to a husband and wife except you are talking about your family.


That's because she trusted her husband.
If his husband was promiscuous like many Nigerian men, do you think she will do the same?. The scandal with Monica Lewinsky wasn't an established fact.
Now that she's contesting for US presidential election and her husband is backing her, with your warped logic, I guess the man is being submissive.


Disseminating HIV.



Do you think all girls are feminists?
A real feminist won't objectify herself.
Amber Rose and Kim Kardashian aren't feminists and they are established whöres.


Some women actually do men work.
BTW, it's not all men that can cope with strenous work too.


Speak for yourself.
If you can't marry a feminist, that's your own business and stop generalising about other men.
I know some Nairaland guys that support feminists.
You think ALL guys are the same?
A quick search on google would do, so that you'll know male feminists.

Chimamanda refused to adopt her husband name.
BTW, I will never be a Babymama.

naijaboiy:

Hahahaha!!!

So you can easily fall in love with a vulcanizer or mechanic? Wow.

How will you take care of kids when they start coming.

The economy of nigeria is not encouraging enough for any lady to accept any man who is not in a good working place.

Please always learn to face reality.

Don't be blinded by all those love stories you read on Harlequin,,mills&boons e.t.c

wristwatch:
The need for financial stability is one of the main key if not the main key to win a lady's heart.

Therefore in a society like ours and perhaps others, the competition to marry rich dudes is increasing day by day due to the current harsh economy.

For instance, guys have u ever wonder why a monkey looking man is married to or dating a beautiful lady while fine boy is being rejected or dumped by ladies? The answer is Money.

However, ladies at the hearing of where some guys work can make them quickly initiate green-light mode for love leading to relationship/marriage because of their earning and these companies are;

Oil and Gas

A guy working with shell, exxonmobile, chevron, schlumberger, etc is a big boy. Guys in this category attract ladies like ant to a sugar source because ladies know their worries for financial help is over.

Blue Chip

FMCG guys especially the sales force team are well paid and looking even much better than those working in AC environment. This category of guys do not only have money but also their mouth is so sweet tongue that ladies find it hard to resist their proposal.

Aviation

If a guy approach a lady and say "My name is Michael, I am a pilot in Etihad airways". Even if the lady is not in the mood to entertain stranger, hearing "Pilot" alone will raise her eyebrow.

Telecommunication

Telecom guys have swags and confidence that can make ladies easily fall for them. Due to the fame in the industry as they sponsor many shows and pay celebrity massive money, the brand name speaks for them and gets ladies attention quickly.

Medical field

Doctors don't look for jobs and are well paid. As a result of this, Ladies accept doctor's proposal and wish to settle on time with them.

Military

Ladies are fun of fronting their boyfriends especially if he is working with Air force and Navy. Ladies love guys on uniform with richly en downed pocket.

Bank

Gradually this is falling out of the favourites but still pay well for employees. Ladies are attracted to guys who walk in banks like GTB, 1st bank, Zenith and few among others. Their good looking and charming smile coupled with their stable financial income is a green light for ladies.

applehead:


Lawyers. Nko

wristwatch:


He may have another job apart from managing nairaland.

Jchi9876:


u never get hair for blokos u dey talk abt woman. wetin you sabi.
Go wash daddy dinner plate and sleep

Shut the fhuuck up if you know not what you are saying!

KingAdeOluomo1:
u r a moderator ask him

naijaboiy:

Shut the fhuuck up if you know not what you are saying!

donttouch:


To ur shame, most Mechanics and Vulcanizers have families and are training there children in private schools. Even some of them are financially better than parents of 30% of nairalanders.

And how does that bother me?

Fact of the matter is those jobs are seen as low class jobs in our society that's why I cited it as an example. Not to mock whoever is in that profession.

I guess that's not the main point you saw in my post,,you just wanted to misquote me.

Ontarget:

You are reasoning like a typical backward Nigerian guy who thinks a guy must be dangote before a lady pairs up with him. What if the lady is wealthy and money isnt her problem? Why don't you ask ladies to be financially stable too before they think of getting married? Must men always be the ones to be on a good financial standing before a family begins? Your post means that even wealthy ladies should not marry a man who is still trying to find his feet. In other words, wealthy ladies MUST also swealthy men. If we keep expecting only men to be rich before marriage takes takes place then I see a problem in future.

And who the fhuuck says I'm not in support of women becoming successful before getting married?

Fact of the matter is it is always better to be financially stable before you nose dive into marriage. And yes! It banks on mostly we the men to carry that burden. You don't want a woman to be the bread winner in your house. Do you?

Women should be financially stable too for support.

I just hate when a thread hits front page sometimes. People just tend to jump on your post and quote you out of context.

*Sigh*

tosyne2much:
hahaha

Baba abeg take am easy

naijaboiy:

Oga na all these people jare.

When thread make front page like this na to start dey quote people without understanding the post at all.

naijaboiy:

And who the fhuuck says I'm not in support of women becoming successful before getting married?

Fact of the matter is it is always better to be financially stable before you nose dive into marriage. And yes! It banks on mostly we the men to carry that burden. You don't want a woman to be the bread winner in your house. Do you?

Women should be financially stable too for support.

I just hate when a thread hits front page sometimes. People just tend to jump on your post and quote you out of context.

*Sigh*

wristwatch:
The need for financial stability is one of the main key if not the main key to win a lady's heart.

Therefore in a society like ours and perhaps others, the competition to marry rich dudes is increasing day by day due to the current harsh economy.

For instance, guys have u ever wonder why a monkey looking man is married to or dating a beautiful lady while fine boy is being rejected or dumped by ladies? The answer is Money.

However, ladies at the hearing of where some guys work can make them quickly initiate green-light mode for love leading to relationship/marriage because of their earning and these companies are;

Oil and Gas

A guy working with shell, exxonmobile, chevron, schlumberger, etc is a big boy. Guys in this category attract ladies like ant to a sugar source because ladies know their worries for financial help is over.

Blue Chip

FMCG guys especially the sales force team are well paid and looking even much better than those working in AC environment. This category of guys do not only have money but also their mouth is so sweet tongue that ladies find it hard to resist their proposal.

Aviation

If a guy approach a lady and say "My name is Michael, I am a pilot in Etihad airways". Even if the lady is not in the mood to entertain stranger, hearing "Pilot" alone will raise her eyebrow.

Telecommunication

Telecom guys have swags and confidence that can make ladies easily fall for them. Due to the fame in the industry as they sponsor many shows and pay celebrity massive money, the brand name speaks for them and gets ladies attention quickly.

Medical field

Doctors don't look for jobs and are well paid. As a result of this, Ladies accept doctor's proposal and wish to settle on time with them.

Military

Ladies are fun of fronting their boyfriends especially if he is working with Air force and Navy. Ladies love guys on uniform with richly en downed pocket.

Bank

Gradually this is falling out of the favourites but still pay well for employees. Ladies are attracted to guys who walk in banks like GTB, 1st bank, Zenith and few among others. Their good looking and charming smile coupled with their stable financial income is a green light for ladies.

Ontarget:

The part in bold is why I will still say you reason like the typical Nigerian guy. The Nigeria guy who feels like it is an abomination for a woman to be the bread winner. What is wrong with a woman being the bread winner? Are we humans not meant to support each other? Statements like yours is what makes Nigerian ladies lazy because they buy your idea that a man MUST ALWAYS be the bread winner.

Yes I'm a typical Nigerian guy and also an African and we have our own cultural standards in our families.

I believe that a man should be the bread winner of his family and this opinion of mine does not in anyway encourage girls to be lazy.

If you don't have a problem with a woman being the head of your house. Fine and good for you.

It's none of my fhuucking business.

Now kindly stop jumping on my mentions.

Vickybee:

I can't fall in love with a mechanic.
They are dirty and cleanliness is one thing I love in a guy.
I can't marry any man who's not a graduate.

I can marry a guy I love doesn't mean he has to be lazy.
I won't be lazy, either. I will strive to earn much and take care of my kids if he fumbles.

now that I'm not yet a graduate, so u can't marry me huh ?