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Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by Smhart1(f): 12:15am On May 30, 2015 |
Waooo..... So some of you think it is justified for him to slap his mum on the case. .......unbelievable.... |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by PenAndPaper: 4:19am On May 30, 2015 |
That woman is a momster.. But that resetting slap from the son was unwarranted. A man needs to have self control. If he did all he did without the slap, his mum would have felt the effect more.. Now she had the slap to hold on to.. Sadly this venomous situation will only backfire on Tania. No matter how bad they are, a mum is still a mum and even though she behaves like a motorpark tout she is still his mum.. He needs to ask for forgiveness because he just got a mother's curse placed on him. 1 Like |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by sassygal(f): 5:28am On May 30, 2015 |
@francababy, I sincerely doubt Oscar slapped his mother, she probably said that to get pity from the family. She was probably upset that he is taking sides with the girlfriend. I suggest the family get his side of the story. Nigerian police won't arrest him because he supposedly slapped his mother, in as much as it is morally wrong, it is not a criminal offence. Even if you pay them to arrest him, he will simply bail himself out. please advice your friend not to think of getting him arrested cos that will be a good reason to alienate him from the family. Also, I like the fact that you told the story of the girlfriend being the main instrument in his success, please recount that story to your friend, if she is reasonable, she would realise that lady is an ally not a foe. Honestly though, why do some parents feel they have a say in a grown ass persons life? Such thinking is so archaic and annoying 5 Likes |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by Moana(f): 5:48am On May 30, 2015 |
KingTom:good boy |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by francababy(f): 6:11am On May 30, 2015 |
Update on this event. They were able to reach Oscar through one of his friends this early morning. Oscar said he never slapped his mum. He said she slapped him once and he was shouting at her not to try it again then she wanted to slap him again and he slapped her hand down. The palm of her hand. When she was throwing the slap, he slapped her hand down like he was blocking the slap. Then he went to his room packed a few things and to look for Tania who went to wait for him in their church. |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by ireneidiva(f): 6:15am On May 30, 2015 |
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Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by sassygal(f): 6:33am On May 30, 2015 |
francababy: I simply knew it. Mama is bent on causing katakata. a friends mother slapped her and just as she was about to slap her again, my friend held her hand and told her not to. mama called family meeting claiming my friend hit her and pushed her down. luckily she had me to back her up and mama finally admitted a quarter of the truth. 4 Likes |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by KingTom(m): 6:41am On May 30, 2015 |
Moana:No matter how stupid or bad I become, my mum will always be there to support me, I can safely say that the day I even attempt to hit her, will be tge day I die inside |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by VintageCocktail(m): 7:56am On May 30, 2015 |
francababy:Tania please find another guy or give it a break to upgrade to the latest version for your benefit ...something like lollipop 5.0 before that woman kills you. |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by damiso(f): 8:31am On May 30, 2015 |
Very very wrong to slap his mum (but again I have seen enough drama from naija mums to know that simply holding her hand is a slap ). He should have left before things escalated to that point. Father Lord help me from now to know when to start cutting the apron strings from my son . Let me know that my role is to guide, nurture, advise. 1 Like |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by NickiRoman: 8:39am On May 30, 2015 |
Jman06:And don't try to justify what his mother did and Oh! from the update of the event,just found out he never even slapped her he dodged being slapped again by her,and she still went ahead to lie against her son. What do you have to say about that? 1 Like |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by Jman06(m): 8:52am On May 30, 2015 |
NickiRoman:I never justified what the woman did. What does the son mean by "slap her hand down". That's utter rubbish! He simply slapped the old lady! Slapping mustn't be on the cheeks, remember. |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by Nobody: 9:01am On May 30, 2015 |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by Nobody: 9:02am On May 30, 2015 |
francababy: Too much violence!!! How can mums still be slapping grown men I will still pack by bags and flee from that family That MIL will def slap the wife one day The "slapping down" statement also doesn't sit well with me. He may not have slapped her face, but from what he says he definitely was aggressive towards her. They all need to take a chill pill and get the elders involved and resolve this like adults. There is no law that mandates that you have to like your DIL There is no law that mandates that you have to like your MIL . . . . but the love you have for your husband/son (assuming that you love him) will make you be civil and respectful to your MIL/DIL and that may eventually develop into like/love. |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by bukatyne(f): 9:04am On May 30, 2015 |
I wish sons will keep standing up for the women they believe. in. Some mothers are something else. 6 Likes |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by Nobody: 9:27am On May 30, 2015 |
damiso: My dear it is well As parents we need to believe that we have trained our children enough over the years for them to be able to make good choices and good decisions without us having to be cross checking every minute. Mama Oscar is just wasting her time, Oscar is now a grown man. The horse bolted a long time ago. 1 Like |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by babygirlfl: 9:31am On May 30, 2015 |
taryour: To be honest, this was very uneccessary. Remember when you wrote something about your family and you were told to delete it because someone might use it against you. They were right because you have just done it to someone else. What if someone saved it before you deleted it and used it against you? What if someone quoted you before you had a chance to delete it? I and many other people did not quote you so that you can delete it. How are you different from whoever they were trying to protect you from? 9 Likes |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by NickiRoman: 10:00am On May 30, 2015 |
Jman06:Why are you focusing on the guy,simply ignoring what the mother did. You being emotional rather than rational So because she is his mother she has a right a to slap him despite the fact she is at fault,She created the problem and she is escalating it further 4 Likes |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by Jman06(m): 10:47am On May 30, 2015 |
NickiRoman:If you read my post well you should see where I condemned the mom for what she did. I thought the phrase "never hit a woman" is applied to all women. Never knew it's changed when the guy's mom is at the receiving end. So if my wife slaps me for whatever reason, I am now justified to slap her twice. Init? There ain't no more better ways of handling a lady when she gets physical than getting physical too? I ain't being no emotional, just stating the fact. |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by francababy(f): 10:58am On May 30, 2015 |
Jman06: He didn't slap her twice slowpoke. Violent Bulls like you come online to start forming saints. You are trying to clear your conscience for all the women you've bruised. 1 Like |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by freecocoa(f): 12:10pm On May 30, 2015 |
Well, he said he didn't slap the woman so.... And I wonder how people can think it's okay to hit others, smh. |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by Jman06(m): 12:38pm On May 30, 2015 |
francababy:lol. U are really in pain! Ndo. You stated in your post that he slapped her twice only to turn around and deny it because he was being rebuked for his action rather than being justified like you expected. I am very sure you are the Tania and that you are one pushing the guy to beat up his mom. But let me inform you that you are sure gonna be visited by nemesis. Not only will Oscar turn you to a punching bag, your sons too shall find pleasure in beating you up. Mark my words today. 1 Like |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by taryour(f): 1:01pm On May 30, 2015 |
NickiRoman: Abegi leave all this * not everyone responds well to violence * assuming it was a soldier that slapped him nko? Would he slap his own back? He slapped his mother and that is a curse. 2 Likes |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by francababy(f): 2:44pm On May 30, 2015 |
Jman06: Your foolishness smells through the internet. Gosh where's my airfreshner. First, I'm not Tania. Second you decide to curse and you will get yours. All your children shall die before your face. No matter how many kids you have, they will die before your eyes. |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by Jman06(m): 3:11pm On May 30, 2015 |
francababy:I don't wanna engage you in verbal abuse. It is spelt as 'curse' not 'cause'. Olodo! 1 Like |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by Nobody: 7:54am On May 31, 2015 |
Curses ke!!! over what? Quickly unfollows. BTW my friend just lost a much loved child. Please dont wish this on your worst enemy. |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by Nobody: 9:05am On May 31, 2015 |
missclasssy:God bless you |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by deadie(m): 9:08am On May 31, 2015 |
I am glad to have a reasonable mum who I adore. But a mum who acted as described here doesn't deserve two slaps, she deserves at least double that number. He is a grown man and if she doesn't agree with his choice of wife, then she shouldn't go there. Not that I support violence anyway, and I wouldn't have slapped my mum. But I will totally understand if one did under this circumstance. |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by Nobody: 9:08am On May 31, 2015 |
hugogerrard:500likes for your comment. |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by Nobody: 9:28am On May 31, 2015 |
seankay:I love your comment, a man for that matter, And the guy didnot even slap her, just that african mother's are fond of raising false alarm. When i was younger, i fought with my twin brother and he got injured in d process, my mum called every of our family member and told them that my twin is in the hospital bledding heavily that i want to kill him, Bfore 3 hours, our house was filled with family members, they were all scared but guess what they met, my twin and i was playing football outside the compound. They finished my mum. |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by Nobody: 9:30am On May 31, 2015 |
deadie:No mind her, the girl in question is a very nice girl sef, she sent her away and she left peacefully, dat lady deserves a trophy. 1 Like |
Re: Her Brother Slapped Their Mum Twice. Should She Arrest Him? by PenAndPaper: 3:45pm On May 31, 2015 |
mizlynda:Lol.. Very true.. If this happened to some girls.... The mum will be in the burns unit in a hospital, writhing in pain. That girl should be commended. |
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