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RhodaNelly:
Oga poster you just disrespected your poor mother inlaw because she's not handy. If she was wealthy and influential, I don't think you'd have the balls to shun her from your home the way you did.

Chai... This is indeed a message to all mothers/ fathers. Build your castle, make hay while the sun shines so that one son in-law/ daughter in-law will not see you as thrash in your old age.

Anybody tell my mom that shit, we die there.

A rich mother inlaw won't visit her married daughter everyday. Only poor MILs do that. Poverty is a bastard.

MrBrownJay1:
many parents who also "waited" are now mourning their dead children, thanks to abusive husband etc.... you dont need no invitation to come check up on your married child, and if you aint secure that she is ok in her new marriage, go there as often as you need.

MrsBrownJay, I dont understand you at all. If you can't entrust your daughter to any man, then please marry your daughter by yourself. If you are giving her out in marriage to another man different from yourself, you have to trust the man and leave the young couple.

What will their home look like if the man's mum keeps coming there too everyday??

MrBrownJay1:
my job as a parent is to make sure that my child is safe/comfortable at all times....but hey, if after 20yrs of raising your child, you will abandon her with a total stranger, without making sure that she is ok in her new married life, then so be. to each their own.

Just ensure you tell your prospective son-in-law that you will be visiting them everyday after their wedding and see which one will stay. A man who is responsible and provides for his home won't tolerate intrusion, so your daughter may have to settle with a riff raff who won't have any say on his home.

thesilentman:
Because we live in proximity-same town,she wouldnt quit checking up on her daughter virtually every day or atleast every other day.I felt a deep intrusion on my privacy so yesterday i summoned the gut and asked her if she didn't have a house.Before she could reply,i told her,'learn to stay where you belong!I did not marry daughter and mother!`
She has since disappeared into thin air.
This evening am thinking whether i bleeped up or not.

Don't do any apology. You have made your point. Na man you be. Don't give room for see finish.

Foodqueen:
This won't end well.

The clap back from your wife to your mother will be massive.

Your marriage might not survive it.

The future is pregnant

His mother may not be an intruder like his mother inlaw.

MrBrownJay1:
if i raised my child for +20yrs, fed, clothe, sheltered and educated her all this time... i think i have the right to see her even every hr if i wish to do so. if she just got married then i want to make sure that she is good in her new life. a parent visiting his child once a day is not wrong (maybe just a bit excessive), and unless the visit would hinder their r/ship, i dont see anything wrong here....thus the above question.

Then you should marry that your child and be with him forever. My baby is just 16 months old. I love him to pieces and I am always with him when I am not at work. However, I won't choke his marriage and I won't allow my wife do same. When the time comes, I have to leave him and his wife to live their life.

OP, nothing do you. Don't apologise to anyone. Your mother inlaw does not respect you in the first place. If she did, she won't choke you guys. You are doing well. She will dey her dey now.

staga:
I watch football, and I don't gamble. Gambling is like drug addiction, and I lost a very close drug-addicted cousin to suicide. His death tore his family apart.

Trust me, you do not want to be married to a compulsive gambler, alcoholic or drug user. The day I witnessed a guy and his sister (easily my age mates) coming to a garden to whisk away their drunk and misbehaving father was the day I thanked God for mine who was responsible 1000000%.

I didn't say all those who watch football gamble, I said a good number. This womans husband case is not beyond Repairs.

Dearlove2me:
Is like I'm in a sound prof house shouting on top of my voice and no one is hearing me. It seems they don't even understand what I'm going through.

I explained everything to my family and everyone including my mother, and they keep advicing me to stand on my feet and fight for my home, so long as they's no violence. That I shouldn't divorce my husband.
We always have heated argument, raising voice at each other.

My mother inlaw on the other hand, was crying on the phone. Telling me not to mention that name (divorce) ever again.
All the family members are not in support of divorce, but the main person I'm married to seems not to care at all.


He obviously refused to stop gambling away with any money that comes to his hand.
He presently have no job and he's owning a lot.

He's addicted and he's not making effort to stop. This is the root problem in my home. Because he exhibit all the wrong behavior as a result of this addiction.
Once he have any little money, his attitude, everything changed. He becomes scary. Until he finishes everything in betting, I wouldn't be able to talk to him and he will listen.

What should I do? Where do I go that I wouldn't look like a disobedient person, dispite everyone's pleade?
I'm using all my time to cry, qurrel and grieve here. Can't find myself.
I am not financially stable to make a move without my family's support.

Honestly, almost all men who watch football gamble. It is not enough reason to divorce, believe me. Google extensively on how to help a gambling addict, and help your husband out of gambling with love.

I gamble, but I know when to withdraw my winnings and run away. After a cooling off period, I fund my account again. It is a hobby for me, not an addiction.

Please don't expect him to quit 100%. It won't happen. Rather, work with him to reduce gambling gradually by letting him see needs he could have met with his stakes.

Finally, always respect him in your corrective interactions.

Move on as fast as you can

Once your salary enters, be sure to withdraw it cash to the last penny as cash. Don't have a penny in your account, which you can use to fund your 1xbet account. Thank me later

OdefaGirl:
That brake he applied was not necessary and it was a sudden one.... which caused a chain accident. He would have entered the ditch in peace than loosing his life and his family's.

The family burying someone would be in deeper pains now....

So sad. RIP

Before you apply brakes when on high speed, you have to check the rear view mirror to be sure no car is racing closely behind you. If there is a car speeding madly behind you, just enter the pothole jejely. If there is no car behind you, you can take your time, slow down wella and avoid the pothole.

ChimaEmmanu753:
Gdvdv

You are a thief.

Marry her. There is more to marriage than weight of the wife.

Femmyfamous4u:
Hello all, I need to know if I'm doing some things right or over reacting. My wife and I just married some months ago and we just spend here and there on stuffs. I bought food stuffs in the house and told her I will place her on 40k monthly to cover for soups and all and I expect her to add to it if it's not enough. I foot all bills- house rent, Power, and all . She earns a decent 6 figures salary also which is slightly higher than mine without the allowances I get. She expects me to still give her another allowance apart from the 49k I give her for food. Each time she buys stuff in the house she always want me to pay back in full; most times, I just pay a part of it which she always frowns and complains about. It appears she has a notion that her money is her money and mine is ours. My income is more than hers though. Do you think I should still give her personal pocket money?

You are doing well sir. Reduce the 40k to 30k, start a savings scheme of 10k monthly for your unborn children and let her be aware. Tell her to balance up any shortfall.
Bulk foodstuff, gas, RENT, nepa bill/gen are statutory to you. As she works and earns well, she can take care of her clothes and hair and other little little stuffs.
Hold your ground now, because there are more expenses to be taken care of when babies come.

fanesi1359:
Sfts

You are a bastard thief.

boxoha9318:
Vddu

You are a bastard thief.

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elonmuskbaby:
and has found peace of mind.the ultimate of all wealth


If you feel peace is not important, why then do billionaires commit suicide.yinmu


Money worshippers everywhere.even if baboon get money,them go worship am.naija mentality

Lolssss if she has truly found peace of mind, she will be living low key. Most people who are truly happy don't seek social media validation. I just like the way Ooni married many wives in a very short space of time. I love you, Ooni. You are the best, Kabiyesi.

sisisioge:
She's more beautiful than all his new wives put together

Story for the gods. Ooni does not care. This prophetess has lost her relevance.

Conner44:
It’s not the oil. That’s just the way your vehicle was programmed.

Your particular model of vehicle was not mandated to use synthetic engine oil from the factory hence the reason for the quick decline in its oil life percentage. It is calculating as if you’re using conventional oil. This doesn’t mean you can’t use the synthetic oil if you wish.

What you should know is that conventional oil is best used for 3 months, 3,000 miles or 5,000 kilometers max. Synthetic oil can ideally go for 6 months, 5,000 miles or 7,500 - 8,000 kilometers max.

If you use synthetic and have not yet driven to 4,500 - 5,000 miles or 7,500 - 8,000 kilometers and your oil life monitor is already below 10% you can just reset it and keep counting your mileage till it reaches the distance for a change. If you use regular conventional or semi-synthetic oil you should strictly follow your oil life monitor and change it when it reaches 10%.

Concerning your startup noise, you need to give an in-depth explanation for us to understand what exactly this noise is.

My issue is the oil drying up, while the one that came with the car didn't dry up

Sportwin:
What's the oil on your fuel cover
It's definitely not 5w 30

It's 5w 2o

Nevertheless I feel it calculates after miles / distance driven

Might be wrong though

My issue is the oil drying up, while the one that came with the car didn't dry up

Please help gurus.
I got a tokunbo freshly cleared 2008 accord i4 in December. The car was showing 30% oil life, but the oil was not short on the dipstick.
I got total 5w30 oil on jumia on 17th December. I just checked the dipstick now and saw the oil is below the low mark, in just one month. Oil life is on 70% in just one month of usage. I have travelled 1,200 miles after the service.
Is it that I got a fake oil? I am confused.
I also noticed that the cold start noise frequency has increased.

A good man will be wooing you and convincing you to marry him, not asking you to chase other men away.

Be careful and open all your senses.

You can try japa

Don't take in anyone. Tell your wife and inlaws you can take them in if and only if your wife starts earning as much as you do and the father of the kids dies. The 2 conditions must be fulfilled.

The useless father may be with one useless 20 year old girl fucking her as we speak.

Lolsssssss
Publicity stunts. How much of the new notes is cbn giving UBA? Abi UBA dey mint their own new notes ni?

We love misery. We love suffering. We are a foolish set of people. If not, why would any sane person support Tinubu?

Asquare84:
One of the tire sensor is missing. Doesn't mean much provided your tire is well gaged

Thanks sir