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lookingfly:
not at all.....anyone coming would informed on what's on ground that it's two weeks. There is no shying or saying i can't say it her or him. That person will be told the blunt truth in the beginning so that later it wouldn't be a problem. No one from the family of the man or woman should have the right to come say it's my brother's house or sister's house or he's my son or daughter's house. Of your brother or sister or son is married, leave them to enjoy their marriage jare.

Perfect

lookingfly:
I think this one key area after money that intending couples should always discuss. Just some days back, I was discussing with colleagues on this same issue of family members beit mine or my wife's coming to stay immediately after marriage. I told them we would agreed between me and my wife that family be whoever will not exceed 2 weeks in our house after getting married till say after 3 years of marriage except for omugo which will be at most 2 months. Parents should learn to understand that after marriage, the couples should be let alone to forge their path and be bonded very well before any interference. The advice I've for is for you and your husband to discuss this, also if you both finally agree that if anybody should come and stay, it shouldn't be for a long period of time and you should also be willing to adhere to it. Any family member that does have any place to stay should stay away from your personal house. Your husband or you should rent a seperate apartment for your relatives and must be responsible for them since you consented to their coming.

2 weeks dey turn to 2 years baba. It is only greed that will make a guy or lady leave her parents house and stay with a married sibling.

Congratulations

buygala:
It's all good until rain falls and enters the vehicle when you are far from it, not only damaging your car leather but also some electronics..

Our security men are always on ground to prevent that.

PrinceOfLagos:
The country is hard at the moment

My fellow youths, it's about time we vote out this corrupt politicians for a responsible person that will steer this country to the path of prosperity

No.

We are eran iya, suffer animals.

We will continue to vote the wrong people. We are mad people and we deserve bad leaders.

We are foolish youths.

The best you can do for your leather seat is not rolling up your windows all the way up especially when you don't park under a shade.

Heat is the greatest destroyer of car leather seats.

My car leather seat is still perfect because I roll down my 4 windows when I oars at work.

Nobody should go out for evangelism again.
Hold your belief.
When we get to heaven, we shall see.
Evangelism is an infringement of other peoples right to freely choose their God.

You don't know what God has done for you.

If the woman gives you peace of mind, please love and accept her.

When buying a new pump, always go to the parts shop with your mechanic and let him fix the pump there.

Proper bleeding is very important. The steering should be turned severally while the engine is not running.

If the steering is not soft as it should be, don't pay for it. The seller may tell you to go, that the steering will be soft as you use it. Na scam. It must be soft at once if the pump is good.

Also ensure you always use the proper power steering fluid so your pump can last. Na bad fluid dey spoil pump mostly.

The breast no balance for the second picture.

Useless olosho.

ednut1:
There are still many toyota pencil 2001 on the road. Can you say the same for honda baby boy 2001 Toyota is more durable

My babyboy is on 256,000 miles and still running fine.

I am getting an evil spirit soon.

Don't complicate you life.

There are many single ladies you can marry without nonsense drama.

It is when you get married that you will start facing family wahala you never knew anything about. It is beyond the blessings and wedding day.

The issue of the father will always come up. Don't be deceived.

The third picture is the real definition of slum!

How many people even know that the thing is called zebra crossing?

RIO1987:
am going to advise you as a professional in this regard,
(1) are you a union bank customer,
(2) ist a union bank card
If not, your mother Bank is the place to laid your complian,Cox if it's a third party bank, bro they are reversing it to your bank transit account,in which you need proper follow up to get your money back,
Secondly,any time a machine is counting and either failed or went off,it assume it has deepens,so they need time to check the journal,trace the failed transaction,spot it out with it's Stan,do cash count, confirming it tally bf taking a decision,
My advice kindly do a peaceful follow up or u will be throw out

ATM custodian aye! Oil dey your head.

purejustice36:
The wife getting fat and the husband getting thinner and smaller
Do you know when a man cries while explaining?
That’s to tell you it’s deep

Omo I fear akwa ibom women oo

He should send the wife away. Automatically when the wife has been sent packing, her sister has no right to the house again.

After sometime the wife will get sense and return.

purejustice36:
I have a neighbor who’s going through this at the moment

The wife is from Akwa Ibom so she invites the younger sister who has a child to come sleep over steadily
The one doesn’t eat with plate but tray
She eats anything and she’s very dirty, belle sef big pass yansh which makes me dislike her like mad
She’s very lazy and doesn’t wanna do anything

She’s now so comfortable that she’s packed her load to come live with the elder sister who’s managing in a self contain apartment

The husband has discussed it with me on what to do , I’m like “Oga tell her make she leave ur house o”

Any man marrying from akwa ibom just know you’re marrying the entire family
Their self entitlement is second to none
They always need something from you but you can never gain anything from them than sex

This my neighbor doesn’t earn up to 3k daily yet he spends everything on buying them food everyday

He’s asked her to leave severally but she refused, which simply means the wife is his problem

My guy na ur wife be ur problem not the brother
If you threaten ur wife say make she pack her load comot ur house , na that time she go fear ask the brother to dey disembark from ur AP

This cant happen to me lols.

The solution is to send the wife and relative away if the wife is preventing the husband from sending her relative away.

People should not be encouraged to have entitlement mentality.

akpunda86:
Guy I was in your shoes,u never gave a timeline,my wife kid sis stayed with me then,wify said is a month,from a month was 3 months,from 3 to 6,I woke up one day made up my mind and told her mrw you going wife said if going going with her,I laff,nxt day tool her to GUO bought ticket,came back no see wife ,I sleep Nite come reach madam come bk .case closed

I love you sir

OriOko88:
Mk we hear word oga ade. Which betting u dey play in 2009?? Even baba ijebu never show face for that year talk more of sportsbet. Betting enter naija in 2014 with nairabet. So i no understand d bet wey u dey bet in 2009.. Maybe na dice or rubber band bet u mean

I started nairabet in 2009 just before my nysc. That time na only 1x2 dey. No other options like goal goal or Iver 2.5. Na just 1x2

ETHICALLYrlght:
If I were in your shoes, after her confession, I'd hold her tight, caress her body and kiss guilt out of her mind.

I'd cuddle her and if she wants more I'll give her the appropriate dosage for sexual healing.

You're not romantic, that's the problem.

When was the last time you went to the Cinema with your wife?

When was the last time you sent her a voice noice at work telling her, "sweetie, I wanna sniff your panties right now, pull it down gently with my teeth and worship your body which is the reason I still live".

Do you remember that period when your relationship was younger? When you couldn't stay a day without calling her for minutes if she wasn't with you? When you'd go for dates and tell her you'd buy London for her? When you made her forget there was any man in her life before you and so she accepted to be your woman forever?

Go back to those days. If possible, get her a wedding gown and yourself a suit and remake your vows in your living room. If you have kids let them be part of it. Promise to love her forever and ever and let her be your best friend who will tell you everything including when she uses the toilet.

If you went to the world's best marriage counselor who had saved first year marriages that could have crashed to reach 4 decades of joy and happiness, their recommendation wouldn't be different from mine.

If you follow my advice and it doesn't produce positive results, mention me and I'll deactivate my account.

Don't justify cheating.

If the man is not treating her right, she should divorce him first before looking for a man that will treat her the way she wants, not when she is still in her husbands house.

Excellent write up.

I like the part where you said ladies can't take pictures without emphasis on their yansh or boobs, like this is my market, come and buy.

It is annoying. Is there no other thing ladies can offer apart from their bodies?

All for the votes.

State the Model of the cars for better advice.

Hyundai what?

Honda What?

AntiMen:
I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.

You are a useless pig.

Tunlar18:
I wish I can damage his career
Olanrewaju kazeem bakinson of becoming the olowu... please is there a way I can connect to gistlover coz this man doesn't deserve it

If there are truly bad sides to him, rest assured ebora owu is fully aware. He is a thorough investigator.

PaulOtl:
How fa, I don't know if you were intending to buy a Honda evil spirit when you out up this post. But that day, I sent a message to one seller there in ekiti state, he just got back to me that I should call him, he has it. A 2011 edition, @1.7m So, I just said I should let u know. I don't know if you will need his number?

Thanks sir. I am still gathering the cash. I really appreciate.

Interior pictures, engine pictures and vin would go a long way in fast tracking sale of this angel.

pacespot:
These people are enjoying snowy weather while we are battling intense heat here in Africa.

The content of that video is no way near enjoyment.

Idaytesj29:
But you were his legacy and you will continue his bloodline if you are a male child.

Whether or not I continue his bloodline, he is not aware once he is dead.

And what happens if the male children can't father kids.

Richy4:
But the OP did not mention any reason or reasons why the mother inlaw was residing in that house or maybe I did not read that part...

Yes sir. I still insist that a mother in law who is truly ill will not even know when the couple are knacking. Say no to intruders in your home.

Richy4:
There are many reasons why one finds themselves in an inlaw's home buddy.... The fact that she was there does not mean she was not happy with her husband...

Now, a situation where a couple resides in Abuja and their parent resides in the East or West for example... They got a disturbing message that one of their parent were sick.... and the couple brought that parent to Abuja... After he/she was discharged, the doctor recommend that he/she should be coming to the hospital 2 to 3 weeks for medical checkup and observation for 3 months...

If you were in such situation, will u ask your parent or her parent to be shuttling from the West or East to Abuja every 2 weeks for the duration of the 3 months as the doctor recommended because you cherish your privacy so much or will you accommodate her for that period?

The scenario you are painting is not the same as the op's case. The mother in law in this case is not ill. She is just an intruder and she needs to be put in her place.

A mother in law who is truly ill will not be monitoring the sex life of the couple she's putting up with. I hate nosey people.

Richy4:
Are You insinuating that you cannot allow your own mum to come for medical checkup if the situation warrants it for 2 months because you cherish your privacy? just a harmless question

My mum does not go about her children's homes. She is very happy with my dad and they are inseparable. There is no medical check up she can't get in the city she lives.

The mum in the case here is not there on medical trip. The op did not say that. She just chose to come and spend 2 months in her daughters house ni.

Don't marry a lady whose parents are not in good terms if you cherish your privacy, because the mother of the lady will see your house as escape ground from her marital issues.

I won't allow my wife to go and spend 2 months in my child's home for any reason when the time comes.