milychocs:


I love you!

milychocs:


I love you!

phransix147:
Simple solution comeback home...

astrodome:


Some of them include relatives I am obligated to help. Na person train me na ? How can I shut them all out? I understand your point, of course. Thanks

mrkings84:
My dear that's normal, u need not to run away from ur people back home,. U are their pride. Just try to let them know that over here (cos I live outside d shores of 9ja too, in Biafra in particular) it's not really easy as they assume. Make sure Ur immediate family members and friends have a feel of u, u are a blessing. Don't complain, rather thank God that people look up to u instead of d other way round. The truth is u can't satisfy everyone but try ur best. By so doing, I see enabling grace to meet ur financial goals. Cheers!!

Insidous:


The best thing to do is to ignore them but ensure you chat them up once in a while. They can't understand no matter know hard you try to explain and you also can't distance yourself from them.

astrodome:
I have to save also for the rainy day - for when kids get to college.

greggng:
you should count your self lucky that you ve a job. To be honest with you many nigerians are unemployed and you know what that means? try as much as you can if you ve. Only God will replenish ur wealth. If i know you i would ve asked you for financial help too cos am broke and jobless.

abbey621:
Even if you make a million dollars per month, no one has the right to stress you out. You claim you make 6 figures but what you are really making is 40% of that due to taxes and monthly obligations. Now assuming you continue dishing out $3k per month in a year that's $36k, it's very absurd! I'm very sure you've not built up enough savings to the point where you can retire today, God forbid if it should all come crashing down, what will be your nest? Do what you can for these people but never at the expense of your own family or future!

IYANGBALI:
which rainy days?rain dey america?no be only ice block dey fall from heaven?abeg settle boys jo

iRyan:
e be say u never go Yankee

soleexx:
I live and work in Maryland United states..1ith good income...I help family and friends in a way that won't make me broke...

I actually block my line in the first second third week of the month. And reopen it after collect my salary...

astrodome:


Some of them include relatives I am obligated to help. Na person train me na ? How can I shut them all out? I understand your point, of course. Thanks

astrodome:
I just dropped the phone a few minutes ago after speaking with one of these old friends, got very angry after telling me he lives in Adamawa (Boko Haram) and needs money to relocate to his state of origin. This coming after I sent $700, respectively to a sister and a sister-inlaw this am

Dem wan kill me?

astrodome:


Okay thanks for the advise.
Regarding your request, please send your bank account. Also, I will need just 20 dollars to facilitate the process of transferring the money to you

BTW, when is pay day again? Shey you no dey work for Osun State, abi?

vickylala239:


U send money finish cum Dey cry!!

Na Na wa ohh.

Dem force u??

u r Jst showing off here,

As if we Dnt knw u cn change ur mobile number n other contacts.

Stop all this Narialand has sister mnth smart Ppl.

Ur giving money n crying.what stop u from ignoring or Nt picking or telling them u Dnt have.

What is all dis attention ur seeking.

Telling Ppl u earn a 6 figure,phd blah blah,how is that connected to the advice u seek here.

Who will Not knw that ur showing off,that ur probably in asaba or abakiliki.

Wait Mke I ask u,Wat do u wnt us to advice u on,After telling us Dat u Dnt cramp moni from tree (meaning u cnt give n money is Nt easy to cum by) do u xpect us to tell u to gv, wen u Hv block Dat passage with ur post.

Den 6 figure salary, how will Dat help use to advice u,wen u said ur money is Nt from tree.So y tell us 6 figure salary.

Wetin carry PhD cum d mata Nw,PhD follow for Ppl Whr Dey disturb you?? I Jst taya for ur mata


Pls stop this shittttt

Dollyak:
Op, with your ridiculously low mortgage to salary ratio, 3k a month isn't that bad. I am sure you live in texas, Washington (North West) or some sh!!t, because there are not many states/career(Excluding medical fields) that pays decent six figures with such a ridiculously low rental ratio, unless you are a world class specialist.
Anyways, you just need to learn to say no. If you are going to give, you need to make sure it's going towards a self sustaining programme for your family and friends. The amount my dad have given to his ridiculously large nuclear family is definitely into seven figures. Yet, nothing to show for it . Therefore, be strict and give wisely.

overdrive:
what's ur fb handle let me add u.