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Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by deeptesting(m): 8:57am On Sep 07, 2015 |
agarawu23: Hate is a strong word.. |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by dharmelorlarh(f): 8:57am On Sep 07, 2015 |
Pls it d best if u leave im |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by naijathings(m): 8:58am On Sep 07, 2015 |
jumanche: this is really painful. I see you are a respectful babe and you must really love this guy. we all have something that makes us IMPERFECT but it is sad this is his own ACHILLES HEEL. You have to understand that your health is very important, it is true that SOMETHING MUST KILL A MAN but you can avoid some of these killers especially if you are not a smoker and your BF smokes so much and in a way and manner that affects you. read about SECOND HAND SMOKING I was watching a documentary sometime ago about how Asian men smoke so much and how it affects their women, there was this woman who said she started falling sick, she went to the hospital and was shocked when the doctor told her that she smokes too much and she needs to quit it. this is a woman that has never lighted one in her life. The same thing might happen to you if you don't get far from such a guy. Sometimes, for the GREATER GOOD, sacrifices must be made. So, you tell me, what is the greater good here? your health or him ? 3 Likes |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by adesegun121(m): 9:00am On Sep 07, 2015 |
Smoker are liable to die young 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by erusen: 9:01am On Sep 07, 2015 |
don't dumb him smoke with him .useless question |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by sexaddict08(m): 9:01am On Sep 07, 2015 |
jumanche: i smoke like 4 sticks on the average daily but still feel bad. I think u should quit...but wetin him dey give u wey u want stay? abi u no fine? |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by Iamsolslim(m): 9:02am On Sep 07, 2015 |
[quote author=PDPwayoo post=37754090] stop lying. NOBODY CAN SMOKE 3 PACKETS OF CIGARETTE A DAY. EVEN CHINESE MAN WILL NOT GET TO THAT LEVEL. ONE PACKET OF CIGAR IS 20 STICKS, 3 PACKETS = 60 STICKS. Normally smokers smoke less if they r with a girl. Smoking 3 packets in your present means he could take 10 packet when he is alone. SISTER STOP LYING. see u I get a friend who dey finish more than three packs of bensene per. day even d guy dey smoke wen he is fasting, and if u tell him that he didn't av acceptable fasting by smoking. he will tell u that nah lie, there is no reward 4 smoking in d holy book Weda good or bad reward 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by FredMeister(m): 9:03am On Sep 07, 2015 |
If he loves u, he'll quit...if u love him and urself, you'll leave him... 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by jay89: 9:03am On Sep 07, 2015 |
jumanche: He has been smoking b4 u guys met so let him go and find someone 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by niggi4life(m): 9:03am On Sep 07, 2015 |
jumanche:it can only take God for him to stop, i used to be a chain smoker also when i was in the Uni, when i graduated and got a more stressful job which took better part of me, i gradually quited. You can help him stop by telling him the health hazards everyday, also have u tried praying for him? If you see no signs of him quitting then quit the relationship |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by Sultanchidi(m): 9:05am On Sep 07, 2015 |
Hmmmm i smell something here, BTW 3packs a day? It's hard 2 blive |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by netguru1990: 9:07am On Sep 07, 2015 |
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Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by Judosky1(m): 9:07am On Sep 07, 2015 |
You better leave him b4 itz to late.. Tell him u are tired of d smoking tinz. That if he did nt stop dat u will break up.. |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by boujaye: 9:08am On Sep 07, 2015 |
jumanche:I am not suppose to comment on matters of boyfriend - girlfriend, its against my christian faith. If you had said my fiance ie the man you want to marry, then its understandable. Everything about your relationship is wrong, it does not give God glory. Again they say, if you cannot beat them, then you join them - if you cannot leave him, then join him to smoke. |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by Maximus85(m): 9:08am On Sep 07, 2015 |
jumanche: Bae, you no say him dey smoke before you gree date am abi? Why complain now? Join him in the smoking and let us rest. |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by niggi4life(m): 9:08am On Sep 07, 2015 |
PDPwayoo:my Brother, please talk about things you know not things u assume, when i was a chain smoker in the uni, i took more than 3 packs a day, it gets up to 5 packs when am drinking sef, i go wake up for midnight begin smoke cigar, sneak comot for lecture theather go outside gate(mini campus for OSU) go light cigar, i chop finish for mama put na cigar go follow, i no dey buy one one, i move around with packs. So please no talk am again |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by handsomeyitayo(m): 9:08am On Sep 07, 2015 |
raayah:raayah whr hav u been? |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by Nobody: 9:09am On Sep 07, 2015 |
jumanche: Hold his hands and look into his eyes and make sure he is looking into yours as well and repeat after me. OP: Sweetheart do you love me? BF: You know I do OP: I love you too very much but I need to talk to you BF: Is anything the matter? OP: Yes something very serious and if nothing is done about it could damage this relationship. I want to ask you a question. Is it possible to replace a living loving person with an inanimate object? BF: Thats ridiculous. Whats really the matter OP: You would soon be replacing me with your cigarettes if you do not quit them. You are an awesome guy but this is my only concern about you and honestly its a really big concern which has forced me to take this position. I am not breaking up with you but I am taking some time out. And the duration of my time out is up to you. If you quit smoking 2moro I will be back but if you decide to continue then remember what I look like now because it would be the last memory of me you would have. BF: .....................but, ..................ok I have heard you. OP play out this script. If it doesn't work then your boyfriend is a lost cause. 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by Bonapart(m): 9:10am On Sep 07, 2015 |
No.... dump me 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by Sunjos: 9:10am On Sep 07, 2015 |
Nonsense. Young lady, u know the right tin to do. Mayb u ar jus afraid of Wat u ar goin to lose.... Materially. |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by PurestBoy(m): 9:10am On Sep 07, 2015 |
CaptPlanet: Why the long epistle? Even the complainant didn't write dis much |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by CaptPlanet(m): 9:12am On Sep 07, 2015 |
obontami: I'm not relationship pro but i'll try as much as I can |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by CaptPlanet(m): 9:13am On Sep 07, 2015 |
PurestBoy: That's cos I've seen what smoking can do to people first hand and. I wouldn't like that to happen to anyone |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by xcesswag(m): 9:16am On Sep 07, 2015 |
There are 2 ways to look at dis....most guys including myself hide one bad habit from our gf's so dis guy dat does his in front of u is really honest even tho its a very very bad habit. I smoke too but not to dat extent. Do watever will make u happy coz dat ni.g.ga is real |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by tete7000(m): 9:16am On Sep 07, 2015 |
jumanche: Some people understanding of love sha. How can do you claim to love someone whose way of life you abhor? Love involves loving people in their entirety, their strength and their weaknesses. The moment there is a core aspect of life of someone you detest, then it can't be love you have anymore but infatuation. If you choose to go on living with the guy, your eyes will come clear and you will live the rest of your life in frustration and regret. You better run now before it is late. |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by Mcowubaba: 9:18am On Sep 07, 2015 |
Op U don dey already smoke self U never hear about 2nd hand Smoker Google am Ur matter even worst pass 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by Nobody: 9:18am On Sep 07, 2015 |
Leave that guy! Am here for you,I will be waiting . |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by DISTINCT89(m): 9:18am On Sep 07, 2015 |
PDPwayoo:wagbayi... thumbs up bra, my advice for u is this just go to. the river bank off ur clothes and jump inside d river... mumu. My friend wey be better person dey u stupid cheat no go gree, u go come dey complain on nairaland. |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by Nicepoker(m): 9:19am On Sep 07, 2015 |
If he do not smoke more than a chimney. Pls don't dump him |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by Totfulguy: 9:19am On Sep 07, 2015 |
jumanche: No dont leave him...wait till you die of second-hand smoking or he kills you when he is high on crack! 1 Like |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by buoye1(m): 9:20am On Sep 07, 2015 |
No don't,join him in the league of smokers! |
Re: My Boyfriend Smokes Too Much by kayve(m): 9:20am On Sep 07, 2015 |
You are what health workers call 'second hand smoker'. Since you inhale the smoke which is dangerous to your health you are @ the risk of contracting cancer also. Pls don't say you love him & stay @ the detriment of your health, value your life, since he has chosen not to value his own. It will take God for him to stop smoking, so if you want to stay & help him to kill the habit just know that there's 80% probability of you contacting cancer. God be with you. 1 Like |
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