You know what you should do, but you won't leave him cause he looks good and got a big dick. Or maybe he just makes you feel "special" or there's "just something about him"

It always amazes me how there are dece looking 20-24yr old girls that have been with 100s of guys. It always blew my mind because 95% of the dudes I know are at 0 to 2. The man you're with, he's been putting in all that work. Only the best can hit numbers like that, and honestly, there's no right or wrong way to handle this situation. You can stay with him because he has so much value, with his height, build, facial aesthetics etc. or you can cut him loose and rent another bf with about the same value. Just know that if you like a guy, there's going to be thousands of other girls that will jump on his dick any chance they get. If he could get you, he could get any girl. You can't change any of these players, just take it for what it is and live with whatever decision you make. Are you happier with him or without him? Are you willing to take a chance and lock down another dude of equal or greater value?

I don't suggest dating short guys/broke guys/ugly guys or betas for a sense of security. There's a reason why nobody wants them. If you don't find a guy attractive, don't give them the time of day. You'll be setting up for a major disappointment if you go down that route.

agarawu23:
I think the case is now 50/50

What abt that married man you are cheating with then
That one wey dey send you money

Are you the married man in question?


If you are not, then shame on you for this stupeed assertion of yours!!

one thing is certain, the moment you lose confidence in your partner i guess its time to quit, its not do or die affair, even marriage isn't. to be very candid, its difficult to find a man that doesn't cheat. a man cheating isn't about whether or not he loves you or not, its about the fact that men take pride in two timing. even when a lady knows you are married if you are her kind of man she wants you to sleep with her, there are very few men that don't cheat , so few they are almost not existent, and ladies should understand when a man has good money ladies will come after him and he just has to be a man. i once me a lady who told me no babe bleeps one dick simply because she wanted me to sleep with her and my present babe was cheating on me because i later found out and she confessed , eventually i slept with her and never took her serious because i knew she had other guys, so its a fucking world. don't put your confidence on anyone

Give him red card or he will be d one to give it to u.....

the problem with girls dating a cheating boyfriend is that they keep complaining and yet they wont leave the guy. they keep seeking for advice they wont take. I have a friend like that if she catch the guy with another babe she will cry as if she lost a family member tomorrow u see her with the guy. i am tired of advising so if she comes crying all i do is say sorry.

curberstomper:
You know what you should do, but you won't leave him cause he looks good and got a big dick. Or maybe he just makes you feel "special" or there's "just something about him"

It always amazes me how there are dece looking 20-24yr old girls that have been with 100s of guys. It always blew my mind because 95% of the dudes I know are at 0 to 2. The man you're with, he's been putting in all that work. Only the best can hit numbers like that, and honestly, there's no right or wrong way to handle this situation. You can stay with him because he has so much value, with his height, build, facial aesthetics etc. or you can cut him loose and rent another bf with about the same value. Just know that if you like a guy, there's going to be thousands of other girls that will jump on his dick any chance they get. If he could get you, he could get any girl. You can't change any of these players, just take it for what it is and live with whatever decision you make. Are you happier with him or without him? Are you willing to take a chance and lock down another dude of equal or greater value?

I don't suggest dating short guys/broke guys/ugly guys or betas for a sense of security. There's a reason why nobody wants them. If you don't find a guy attractive, don't give them the time of day. You'll be setting up for a major disappointment if you go down that route.

Further proves my point. That's life. It's in them to go after and still fall for the "bad boy". Hopefully you'll share this post with this lover boy white knight simps who are still delusional.

Raymondenyi:
why not call the girl aside and advice her , she will listen to you....... I hate when guys keep deceiving people, it sends cold chills down my spine. It's something I just can't stand.

How do u expect him to advise her? she will never listen until it happens to her, me too didn't listen until I learned my lessons the hard way, even my own brother warned me n pleaded with me to leave him, it fell on deaf ears, so leave girls alone to make their own mistakes, if u tell a girl now to leave her bf coz of his wayward lifestyle, she will only see u as a devil who's not happy for her.

EggovinMma:
I cope very fine!

Very very very fine.

Chai egovinMma the cheating cheater...



OP, I noticed you shy away from certain questions such as "have you ever cheated on him" and "is he the only one you're dating"? Simply means that you are probably cheating on him too. I said so because of how you presented your story, cuz you seemed less worried about him cheating (even though you asking for help on how to deal with him) and also, how you dodge those questions.

If you have never cheated on him, then consider walking away but if you have, then bear the consequences cuz in the former case, leaving him "will be" a win-win while the later case "is" already a win-win (for two cheats).

OluwaChinenyenwa:

Are you the married man in question?


If you are not, then shame on you for this stupeed assertion of yours!!

mumu shame on yourself https://www.nairaland.com/2409380/advice-pls-married-man-sends

SmartMugu:

Why did u respond? She's asking ladies for their opinions and u jumped in. You should just be reading what women have to say on her matter.
Anyways, I don't know the guy, but I won't blame him. Does he have money to spend? Does he drive nice cars? So, what stops him from belonging to 'nobody but everybody'.

I dunno,but girls wanna claim u when ure balling. Who knowsif she was just one of them in his list?I bet the man shes talking about is not someone she ever supported in any way. Most likely not a struggling person.

He belongs to every girl that wants the same thing she wants jare.

only good ladies deserve a loyal and humble guy .

Well, what happened between them is clear to their two

chizoin:



Whatever your reasons are personal but do not say such things don't or never happens ?
They do happen for REAL !!!
And they are not super story !

yeah, nothing is impossible

DatBossAssChick:
This is funny and serious at the same.

Caught him red handed in his place on my way from work, decided not to inform him and wala!!.. he came up with a smooth lie that she is his cousin. And the girl agreed to bear the cousin with a fake name that even his family members dont know of.

My instincts told me everything acting was a lie because even his brother doesn't know about such cousin. Lol

My dear first and foremost ,the chick lying means shes chap and she herself knows shes a one night stand or side chick.Shes so cheap so as to lie to you ;why didnt she face you?

ote that Man is polygamous by nature, ALL MEN ARE THE SAME ONLY DIFFERENCE IS THE FEAR OF GOD AND SELF CONTROL DIFFERS IN DEGREES AMONGST THEM ALL

What stage are you in your relationship?has he proposed?How is his attitude towards you? i hope you dont give him money or assist in some financial payments

THink deep no one can decide for you,But when you walk out, Dont look back,ever"!

Prayer changes situations

Lies!!!! How can a gal catch her bf redhanded and do nothing..... Even wen dey hear... Talk more of wen dey saw it for demselves
You hv broken RULE 8; of nairaland

DatBossAssChick:
This is funny and serious at the same.

Caught him red handed in his place on my way from work, decided not to inform him and wala!!.. he came up with a smooth lie that she is his cousin. And the girl agreed to bear the cousin with a fake name that even his family members dont know of.

My instincts told me everything acting was a lie because even his brother doesn't know about such cousin. Lol

Lies!!!! How can a gal catch her bf redhanded and do nothing..... Even wen dey hear... Talk more of wen dey saw it for demselves
You hv broken RULE 8; of nairaland

ladyF:
Cheating to me is very disrespectful. How people stay with an unrepentant cheating partner amazes me. There are cases where the husband infected wife with incurable viruses et al cuz he couldn't keep his dic kk in his pants. Let him go, you deserve better.... This goes out to women who cheat too, fear God o!

It's [size=20pt]LadyF[/size] again

For once in your lifetime, you wrote something meaningful... oya clap for yaself

marriedvirgin:
coming from a man i'm not surprised.Please ladies if a man cheats on you RUN

Na Wa oh! and assuming you are a girl you would advice to quickly run off from what she has going on when if it was in reverse the man would be contemplating whether he would forgive her. Una girls are selfish!

ladyF:
Cheating to me is very disrespectful. How people stay with an unrepentant cheating partner amazes me. There are cases where the husband infected wife with incurable viruses et al cuz he couldn't keep his dic kk in his pants. Let him go, you deserve better.... This goes out to women who cheat too, fear God o!

It's [size=20pt]LadyF[/size] again

and you girls should top cheating on your men like its free visa! hypocrisy! although I don't cheat, I won't stand for hypocrisy!

Youngpo413:
I'm not sure she is a relationship.

my brother... me too

osimataylor:
Don't follow her advice.She will laugh at you behind.Most girls are envious of. Steady relationship.

lol! I believe

agarawu23:
[s][/s] come with true story

Oh plzzz....Dat wz rilly harsh!

Kassychuks:
Oh plzzz....Dat wz rilly harsh!

hmmmm

misssclassy:
What are you still waiting for? Break up with the _idiot before he breaks up with you.

He neither respects nor value you both as his girlfriend or as a person, that's why he can lie and cheat on you without remorse.

He doesn't deserve you.

what a shallow minded advice.......... break with him and maybe start up a relationship with you right!!!!!!!must every little thing in relationship end in breakups? what happens to having a good conversation with him and see how you can both work things out.... if you were married to him and caught him cheating would divorce him,please let be reasonable before dishing out advice, else it ruins someone home/life.......

misssclassy:
What are you still waiting for? Break up with the _idiot before he breaks up with you.

He neither respects nor value you both as his girlfriend or as a person, that's why he can lie and cheat on you without remorse.

He doesn't deserve you.

you are a fool ...is that a solution? just dnt tink before acting..... mtchewww...he respects u thats y he needed to lie

DatBossAssChick:
This is funny and serious at the same.

Caught him red handed in his place on my way from work, decided not to inform him and wala!!.. he came up with a smooth lie that she is his cousin. And the girl agreed to bear the cousin with a fake name that even his family members dont know of.

My instincts told me everything acting was a lie because even his brother doesn't know about such cousin. Lol

Bill Clinton cheated on senator Hilary Clinton and they are still living together. Who are you?
Men must always cheat. You can never find a Nigerian man that will not cheat whenever he has opportunity. Play your part and be clean; his conscience will be judging him if he truly loves you and he might decide to change on his own.
GOING FOR ANOTHER GUY IS JUMPING FROM FRY-PAN TO FIRE COS THE GUY HAS GIRL FRIEND B4 HE MEET YOU. AND YOU WILL BE THE REBOUND GIRL. YOU WILL GET HARASSMENT FROM HIS EX, CREEPY TEXT AND PHONE CALLS + THE INSULT DOES NOT WORTH IT.

That fear, apology or guilty conscience in him is a victory for you and other real women. Don't listen to people advising you to break-up cos if you do, one of your friends might end up with the guy if he is doing well and serious in life.

Hmm reading comments.

Loving the Player...wise up girl!

agarawu23:
hmmmm

Y hmmming,z nt funny.And plz who z dat update 4?

DatBossAssChick:

Believe it or not. This happened yesterday afternoon. I closed earlier than I used to from work, I always inform him about my coming but I didn't this time and what I saw was an eyesore. I've been laughing to my self since then.

Men I dey hail una o!

what did you see. describe it please.

probably ure 1 of hiz cousins d family doesn't kw abt....yankuri

Let's cheat on him too!