anitafancis:
Dear readers please mature advice and no insult pls..


Am going throught a difficult time in my life and needed help badly, to cut the long story short, I met this man throught a friend i was living with, she introduce me to this guy saying he has money and he will be able to take care of me, I had no choice because I needed help and the guy has the money to give..

I started dating him and he gives me money a lot and promise to get me an accommodation which I did believe him of course. I got pregnant for him and he told me to keep the pregnancy which i refused but my girlfriend told me to keep it that he may even marry me. After five months plus, he started changing towards me and telling me he doesn't have money anymore. When I try to talk about the situation at hand, he gets angry and even tries to hit me..

He does not give me money anymore, he is always drinking and smoking.. I couldn't go for an abortion because I was scared and it's too late for abortion. I came home after service on sunday and found out that he was not at home and he has packed all his things and left an empty house for me. I cried throught out that day. Where am I going to start from with almost six months pregnancy? I later found out that he's married and he has 3 kids..

What am I going to do?. Pls advice..

standd:
Jeez!! You guys keep saying the same thing. Calling Op names won't change anything haba! Slut, Golddigger, shameless woman blah blah blah, don't you think she knows all these already. Getting pregnant for a man who is a cheat and a shameless he-goat is enough punishment for any lazy and jobless woman...hian!

She asked for ADVICE and HELP.. Why don't you guys proffer solutions instead of kicking and over-flogging a dead horse I hope you all know all these can give one HBP, talkmuch of a pregnant lady who is seemingly helpless.

@adufeesa1759, pls do you know the real person behind the moniker? If yes, can you reach her offline? She needs help eh.


Smh, Nigerians and this bullshyt MOB MENTALITY. Since OP is down already, what's left is to kick her to death.

Ayofaks:
You're so daft!!!! You have no money and the best solution you could think of is to turn a man to your atm. What happened to your hands Are you crippled?? Is your skull empty That couldn't make you think of something to do aside using your puccy Mtcheww!!!

Juxtified:
You can't blame the poor guy na, he said he has no money anymore. Maybe you were the one who finished his money, since according to you that was what attracted you to him in the first place...

standd:
Jeez!! You guys keep saying the same thing. Calling Op names won't change anything haba! Slut, Golddigger, shameless woman blah blah blah, don't you think she knows all these already. Getting pregnant for a man who is a cheat and a shameless he-goat is enough punishment for any lazy and jobless woman...hian!

She asked for ADVICE and HELP.. Why don't you guys proffer solutions instead of kicking and over-flogging a dead horse I hope you all know all these can give one HBP, talkmuch of a pregnant lady who is seemingly helpless.

@adufeesa1759, pls do you know the real person behind the moniker? If yes, can you reach her offline? She needs help eh.


Smh, Nigerians and this bullshyt MOB MENTALITY. Since OP is down already, what's left is to kick her to death.

KashyBaby:
aaaww…this quite complicated…if u got no job and ur only depending on him financially then ur in the deep sh*t…but carry on with ur pregnancy than abort it…if u don't want tat child, then u shud try to find a couple who is willing to adopt the baby (in legal ways)...

MrBasketball:


Are you the op? Or I should assume that's your alternate account that you can't reason it that she's a gold-digger and you couldn't say anything about it than to support her for her stupidity for opening her legs for a man she barely know all in the sake of money.

yomi007k:
If u have problem with money, u r suppose to find a job.
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A man is not a job. U tot he is an exit from poverty. U self na thief(I no insult u oo, just dropping it like its hot). [/size]

The solution to ur problem is either to: 1.find something doing
2. Get d man's address from ur friend.
3. Drop child in motherless children home.

#After d Reggae Play d Blues.

aim5:


As usual, making excuses for her bad behavior. She should have known what she was getting herself into. Let her figure it out herself.

ifeomaekol:
lol

standd:


If you know how much I detest what the Op has done eh Just that she is pregnant and very vulnerable right now, and I know pregnant women to be extremely emotional. Just asking that we don't compound her issues.

itops:




With six months pregnancy, how will she get another piggy bank, ABI are there piggy banks who accepts six months pregnant babes now? How possible.

anitafancis:
Dear readers please mature advice and no insult pls..


Am going throught a difficult time in my life and needed help badly, to cut the long story short, I met this man throught a friend i was living with, she introduce me to this guy saying he has money and he will be able to take care of me, I had no choice because I needed help and the guy has the money to give..

I started dating him and he gives me money a lot and promise to get me an accommodation which I did believe him of course. I got pregnant for him and he told me to keep the pregnancy which i refused but my girlfriend told me to keep it that he may even marry me. After five months plus, he started changing towards me and telling me he doesn't have money anymore. When I try to talk about the situation at hand, he gets angry and even tries to hit me..

He does not give me money anymore, he is always drinking and smoking.. I couldn't go for an abortion because I was scared and it's too late for abortion. I came home after service on sunday and found out that he was not at home and he has packed all his things and left an empty house for me. I cried throught out that day. Where am I going to start from with almost six months pregnancy? I later found out that he's married and he has 3 kids..

What am I going to do?. Pls advice..

Juxtified:
You can't blame the poor guy na, he said he has no money anymore. Maybe you were the one who finished his money, since according to you that was what attracted you to him in the first place...

yomi007k:

Or is dt a bad idea?

anitafancis:
Dear readers please mature advice and no insult pls..


Am going throught a difficult time in my life and needed help badly, to cut the long story short, I met this man throught a friend i was living with, she introduce me to this guy saying he has money and he will be able to take care of me, I had no choice because I needed help and the guy has the money to give..

I started dating him and he gives me money a lot and promise to get me an accommodation which I did believe him of course. I got pregnant for him and he told me to keep the pregnancy which i refused but my girlfriend told me to keep it that he may even marry me. After five months plus, he started changing towards me and telling me he doesn't have money anymore. When I try to talk about the situation at hand, he gets angry and even tries to hit me..

He does not give me money anymore, he is always drinking and smoking.. I couldn't go for an abortion because I was scared and it's too late for abortion. I came home after service on sunday and found out that he was not at home and he has packed all his things and left an empty house for me. I cried throught out that day. Where am I going to start from with almost six months pregnancy? I later found out that he's married and he has 3 kids..

What am I going to do?. Pls advice..

aim5:


I could care less if she's emotional. Females like OP need to learn how to take responsibility for their fuu.ckups because it's pathetic seeing "grown adults" blame their mishaps on others but themselves.

bomasek:
So many fools running their mouths here. Fools that live on stipends and still attached to the apron string of the parents/guardian. Fools who don't know what it takes to put food on the table. Someone who's in a fix over what to do with her burnt fingers yet these fools feel the only remedy here is by hurling disparaging insults @her person. Among the fools are ladies who v committed abortion,guys who have impregnated girls,married men who fuc.k side babes without condom,jobless ladies and guys who will fuc.k tonight without condom yet the evil vultures and disgusting rabid dogs are here ready to devour instead of proferring solutions to an already bad situation. Useless fools who would rather sit in judgement over this issue than profer solutions.

RaeMystix:
There is no truth to this story, because how dumb can a woman be to act this stupid?.

standd:


Hmmmmn, ok. Have you ever done something in the past that you regret afterwards? Have you made mistakes before? Are you perfect and free from sin?



It is sad And also applies in the real. The people who burn thieves have stolen before too. Do you remember the Port Harcourt four? The Ejigbo pepper thieves?
Jungle justice and mob mentality is rife in Naija.
See everyone cursing the OP oh, the he-goat who left his family for months does not have any fault at all...smh

standd:


Hmmmmn, ok. Have you ever done something in the past that you regret afterwards? Have you made mistakes before? Are you perfect and free from sin?



It is sad And also applies in the real. The people who burn thieves have stolen before too. Do you remember the Port Harcourt four? The Ejigbo pepper thieves?
Jungle justice and mob mentality is rife in Naija.
See everyone cursing the OP oh, the he-goat who left his family for months does not have any fault at all...smh